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sunddy:
Ur hand writing make sense sha

i used eleganza pen. just get one for your self

Muvacci:
Na you be the chief amebo for this forum na? You don forget your title again?

hahhhhhh remind me of my title abeg

jonaifame22:
It's an art, so yes it can be learned.

true talk bro.

HungerBAD:
You said attracting women and not men.

Yes i mean the women are attracted to those guys for reasons that may not necessarily be success. if its success, only the successful Alhajis and chiefs will always have them

Muvacci:
I came to check names

just say you came to do amebo

HungerBAD:
Success attracts women.

End of Story.

can success also be the reason why ladies despite having successful Alhajis and chiefs still have a main usually ordinary boy friend that they truly love ?

them classcaptain and their class members will start asking what is the lecturer saying

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I think a fundamental question faced by men in the pursuit of attracting women is: Can attracting women be learned? Is it a result of genetics – of having been gifted with prominent cheekbones, lean muscularity or a sizable organ? Or perhaps having a prominent checkbook and the right surname? Is it about having a naturally outgoing personality, charisma, and sharp wit? Or perhaps possession of influence and personal power?

As complex as women are, there is no one answer to explain their preferences. As individuals, they, like we, are different – with different genetics, different experiences, and therefore, different tastes. And it’s been said – there’s no accounting for taste. So, it may be true that to some women, height and good looks matter a lot. Some schools of thought say that women value financial security more. Others say that personality, masculinity, sense of humor, or any of a variety of different criteria matters most.

And so, the questions must of necessity be: Is it possible to attract women, and if so, can any man do it? And will it work with ANY woman specifically? The answer is yes, and no.

Yes, in the sense that it is possible to attract the kind of women that you like, and who would like you in return, but whom you need to actively attract to you. This requires you to learn the techniques for attracting women, and actively engaging in the pursuit. Sitting at home simply won’t do; you have to go out and approach them. Attracting women involves the application of learned skills in a consistent and persistent fashion. Just like any skill, it’s all about practice and playing the probabilities. You simply have to keep approaching women.

When you play the numbers, however, remember that your chances of winning can be enhanced by other things besides the application of the techniques. Some of your strengths can be emphasized, and your weaknesses downplayed. For example, age differential, or shortness, or obesity may hinder you to some extent, but should not stop you. Instead, play to your strengths, and remember that women’s preferences are not all the same. If you persist, you WILL succeed in attracting women.

However, it is not possible to attract all women, or just any specific one. If there were a specific woman that you wanted to attract, but who is simply not interested or attracted to you, no skill or technique or persistence is guaranteed to work. History is replete with stories of unrequited love – of men who thought that they can make a woman want them. If they had simply tried to attract other women instead, and kept persisting, they would have been met with success.

So, in sum, yes, attracting women can be learned. Will it always work? No. But if it allows you to attract the women you want, and who want you in return, isn’t it worth it to Learn?

cc: lalasticlala

Donald3d:
Nice

thanks bro.

What is a thought leader?

A thought leader is a recognized expert; a go-to person in a particular field. They are by definition individuals or organizations who are foremost in their industry. This perception of being a leader in your field will bring you prestige, increased business opportunities and professional rewards .

Why is it important to become one?

A thought leader will be rewarded greatly in accolades and commercial coverage, and will be respected as a standout, authoritative professional in their area of business. Additionally, a thought leader is influential in their field and can promote themselves effectively and efficiently, which gives them great potential to expand their business and to develop lucrative new opportunities.

How can I become one?

Firstly, it is important to master your chosen field, to know and understand your target audience and to be clear about what your core message is. Once you're sure that you have achieved these things, you can then undertake the following steps:

1.) Self-publish regularly

Developing your presence, name and brand are hugely important. You can use blogs, social media, podcasts and other relevant avenues to publish your material and build authority in your field. Be creative and innovative, but use tried and tested channels also. As you become more established, you will likely get the opportunity to write in publications of greater prestige, in industry journals or magazines and for other authoritative blogs in your field.

2) Guest post in influential places

Guest posting in relevant, well-regarded places will add authority to your brand. Research where is an effective place to post, and look at all available avenues. When targeting websites or blogs, be sure to research the editors, other contributors and the target audience. Learn about who you'll be reaching with your posts, and then decide whether or not this is an effective place for you to post. Frankly this step might not be easy but it is worth it. i sometimes spend up to 2-4hour + just to create and post an article on Nairaland and other relevant platforms. so if i tell you it is easy am not telling you the whole truth .

3) Network

Networking is integral. You cannot become a thought leader without communicating and networking with fellow professionals in your field. Becoming a thought leader also requires excellent communication, reputation and promotion, and effective networking is essential to developing these skills. Furthermore, the bigger your network is, the larger response there will be to your work. No thought leader ever became one by having all their information safe in a database or in their head. To be a thought leader you need to get your message, brand and expertise in the public domain. If you have a wealth of knowledge, then get it out there BRO .

4) Constantly evaluate

Consistent review and evaluation of your work is paramount in any field. You may be having real success in one area, but without reviewing your own work, receiving feedback and assessing how your work has been received, how will you ever correct mistakes, tweak small details or discover where your biggest wins lie. how will you know which of your work your audience are responding to best?

So, listen to feedback and take advice. No expert works (or learns) alone.

Conclusion

Being considered a thought leader will bring the rewards of recognition, opportunity and increased profits, but becoming one is not easy, and it shouldn't be. It will require effort, dedication and work to become a thought leader, and it is not a term that's given to people who employ short-term, quick win tactics. However, if you can become considered a thought leader in your field, then it is a title which will bring rich professional rewards. So keep going, keep working hard, and don't give up! lastly i will be leaving you with the words of OG Mandido in his "greatest sales man in the world" "i will Persist until i succeed". these 6 letters as ordinary as they seem created an ever burning fire of persistence in me when i was starting up.


cc: Uncle Lalasticlala

just carry your wahala and leave

nice write up bro

na una sabi oh

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wish you a happy Life sister

nice work Governor. more of such

this is a disrespect to our foreign affairs ministry

apc and complain

this is a nice development. i pray that we succeed

think of the future bro. since he didnt fall kindly read further

bro you have no time to waste. i bring that sunshine you have long yearned for

Christians should think about this very well

nice development.

his name has said it all

congratulations bro

the really needs to be investigated for security related issues

your life don bend finish

love photos

nice look

hahhhhh bro i pity you. your Life still depends on amala