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Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by importexpert(m): 11:35am On Jun 01, 2017 |
When you read some articles online, they give a lot of dos and don’ts about relationships that are bigger than our Nigerian constitution. These codes are so many that trying to keep all of them can turn a full blooded human to a robot. The point is: while some of the dos and don’ts are valid, they are not always necessary. What works in one relationship may not work in another. This results in partial success and partial failure. But some things are so essential that you should not overlook them. They form the core of every true relationship. You may refer to them as the engine a successful relationship. Among a plethora of such things, three qualities stand out the most. If they are present in you and your partners, your relationship will weather any storm irrespective of the do’s and don’ts that have been set by others. You can find them below. 1. Teachable: Webster dictionary defines “teachable” as being ‘able and willing to learn’. This is by far the most vital quality. No matter how horrible your partner may be, if they have this one quality, there is still hope. Nobody enters into a relationship being perfect. We must all have a deficit in one way or the other. The ability to be open to learn and change for the happiness of another person is what counts. If your partner does not know how to show love, how to cook, how to tidy up a home or any other thing but is willing to learn, you have a treasure. Too many people will instead just say “That is the way I am and I can’t change for anybody. Deal with it.” It takes a lot of gut and humility to admit that you are doing something wrong and have the desire to learn to do it right. If your partner is rigid and is not willing to learn, you had better think twice. 2. Devotion: You may substitute this word for “commitment.” Love is easy; commitment is difficult. Love is a feeling that comes and goes; commitment remains whether the feeling is present or not. Devotion is what makes someone want to keep a relationship even it is not convenient. It is what makes a partner continually watch out for the interest of another even when they do not feel like it. It is the quality of sticking to someone no matter the challenges. It is what keeps your partner by your side even if they find someone more attractive than you. You would want a partner that would remain committed to you even when they do not feel they love you. It is from this quality that other things like sacrifice spring up. If you doubt your partner’s commitment to you and your relationship, you should have a second thought. Many dating relationships and marriages crash because one partner did not learn how to be devoted during the ups and down of life. 3. Tolerance: If your partner has a quick temper, there is a problem. If your partner is fond of flaring up at the slightest provocation, your relationship is sitting on a time bomb. You need someone who is tolerant when they see your flaws. You will make mistakes. You will commit unimaginable blunders. You will say things you never mean. You will do things that you never really planned to do. You will hurt your partner even without knowing. If you want to argue the previous statements, you need to come to terms with your humanity. Face the truth: you are not perfect. To err is human. But in all, your partner needs to be someone who can forgive and be accommodating of your flaws. And this is why tolerance is crucial. A successful relationship is one where the partners have mastered the art of forgiveness and tolerance. In conclusion, you will notice that love does not make the list. The reason is because this list is Reality 101. While love is important, it is not a quality a partner can possess. Rather, it is what is felt between two people and the feeling can be erratic. A durable relationship needs more than just love; it needs more of teachability, commitment, and tolerance. Do you agree with Me ? 210 Likes 22 Shares |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by MEGGATRON(m): 11:36am On Jun 01, 2017 |
I no read 17 Likes |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Enoma222(m): 11:45am On Jun 01, 2017 |
My secondary school gf have all this qualities i guess am just lucky .....lolz 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by ModCaller: 11:50am On Jun 01, 2017 |
So on point. But the main thing is she must be very ready for heavy sex. That's the only reason I'm gonna pay her bride price. Just sex. I repeat, just sex, because most ladies are essentially useless but for sex. 22 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by banjicom(m): 12:13pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Make i pack here Okada! Okada!! But me no get girlfriend 7 Likes |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by veekid(m): 5:29pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
One of the nonsenses I've seen on nairaland 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by praise1705(f): 5:29pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
ModCaller: God de look you 9 Likes |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by yemmight(m): 5:29pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
MEGGATRON: U dey too lazy. |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Nobody: 5:29pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Lacking all these, she'll still coman be saying... [img]https://media./images/3616bd07e5eb4b5602bf609cac4fed58/tenor.gif[/img] 39 Likes |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by PastorandMentor(m): 5:30pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Rubbish. You go old |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Sirpaul(m): 5:31pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
I CONCUR .............. but your post na nones**** |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by blaqboi01: 5:31pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
correct guy. so i guess datz point 3b (sex ooooo wonderful sex 1 Like |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by sotall(m): 5:31pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
ModCaller:Do you have sisters, nieces and female cousins ? Does this your statement apply to them? 22 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by AlexCk: 5:32pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
If u really love the person, u will do whatever it takes to make it work wella, hence having those qualities
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Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by simplyhonest(m): 5:32pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
this is right in an IDEAL world.... but we deal with REALITY |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by elganzar(m): 5:32pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
relationships suck 3 Likes |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Afrok(m): 5:32pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
nice coz I read the conclusion and didn't read d rest... but Op so...
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Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Francieuche: 5:32pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
So true !!! If he gets angry easily and is unforgivable except when it comes to love making run far!!!! U deserve better 4 Likes |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Nobody: 5:33pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Understanding is part too |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Oblitz(m): 5:33pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
True 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Vecharry(m): 5:33pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
I over concur |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Desdola(m): 5:33pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
No one is perfect. It takes two to tango I believe. |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Segadem(m): 5:33pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Ok Why is it that all DOS and don'ts in relationship are meant for women to obey? |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by veacea: 5:33pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Yinmu.com |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Wayne4uall(m): 5:34pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
God first 1 Like |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by jonsnow92: 5:34pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
There are people with all these qualities and yet marriages fail everywhere...There's no perfect partner..We all have to groom each other to fit our tastes..That's y the only quality I agree to in your list is Teachable..Once she's teachable every other thing na small thing 1 Like |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by SeniorZato(m): 5:34pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
No wander there are lots of unmarried men and women these days |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by Abfinest007(m): 5:34pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
true talk but one thing is missing unforgivable spirit |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by snipesdam(m): 5:34pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
Applies Hand Brakes I have made my choice. I pray God it's the right choice. Though she has these qualities. Only time will tell. 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by theway83: 5:35pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
nice article |
Re: Think Twice About Your Relationship If Your Partner Does Not Have These Three Qu by realestniggah: 5:35pm On Jun 01, 2017 |
oshey..the expert have arrive to come and tell us to behave as if they have dated every women in the world |
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