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Crime / Re: Moment Alex The Man Who Tied Up A Girl In Abuja Hotel Was Caught (Pics/Video) by imustsaymymindo: 11:45pm On Sep 20 |
Anyiamaka: They may just be on some BDSM levels. And things went the other way. |
Celebrities / Re: Disturbing Video Of Clems Ohameze That Got People Worried by imustsaymymindo: 11:39pm On Sep 20 |
ednut1: Because he exposed people like them in his classic film end time. |
Celebrities / Re: Eniola Badmus Was The Only One In Business Class On An Airplane by imustsaymymindo: 1:04am On Sep 18 |
It has favored her and her family. |
Politics / Re: Tinubu Shifting Economy From Consumption To Production – Eniola Badmus by imustsaymymindo: 2:23pm On Sep 17 |
Lol. She is using value in naira of export to judge increase. Like she does not know the damage that has been done to the naira. |
Foreign Affairs / Re: Russia-Ukraine War: World News, Weapons & Battlefield Discussions - Live by imustsaymymindo: 1:53am On Sep 17 |
pansophist: If Kamala enters, the possibility of the war would be higher. |
Celebrities / Re: Asa Asika Gets Engaged To Leona Adesanya by imustsaymymindo: 2:08am On Sep 16 |
Lol. The friends around you matter a lot and would unconsciously influence your decisions. That's why I stay away from married friends for now. 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 4:39am On Sep 15 |
heironymos: When choosing between girls. The most important thing to look for is the one with a burning desire for you. After that, you can then be looking at esoteric things like virginity, culinary, education, and whatever matters to you. Because if she doesn't have a genuine desire for you, you may never enjoy the benefits of those esoteric things. For instance, you might date/marry a virgin and she'd be disgusted, unwilling to knack you, and do it just dutifully. Judging from your case, I doubt anyone has that burning desire for you. Girl A seems to choose you more than Girl B but the desire needs to be super better. Also, you need to lead with sex before dating any one of them. Knack them for clarity. Additionally, why choose? When you can spin plates? 12 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Japa Dilemma: How Can This Be Resolved? by imustsaymymindo: 1:41am On Sep 11 |
Gerrard59: Thank you for this, bro. |
Health / Re: Please I'm Not Upto A Minute Man I Release Quick Immediately I Enter by imustsaymymindo: 11:14pm On Sep 10 |
Lol. It shows you make every minute count. How long would you rather prefer to go? An hour? Then go 60 rounds. 60 times 1 minute = 1 hour |
Romance / Re: Japa Dilemma: How Can This Be Resolved? by imustsaymymindo: 11:03pm On Sep 10 |
I hope you have converted your money to dollars already. If it's not a permanent resident or citizenship or a pathway that leads to it in a year/two max, I see no reason for you to go. 1. Nigeria is not that bad anyway. I see someone asking for the source of your wealth. Nigeria is probably the only country where you can afford the kind of money you have as cash-at-hand minus properties, without doing any real-impact business, even as a salary earner. Those are some of the perks of the unstructure in Naija. If you are earning in dollars at the moment with a dollar at 1,600 naira and almost no tax, you would save 5x of what an average abrodian would save. Just the instability of our currency alone, people make a lot of money from it. Even with all this fuel scarcity and refinery BS happening, people are making money from it. Some Nigerians with no meaningful business in Nigeria, can even buy a house at once even abroad just due to the unstructure in Naija. How many people abroad can do that? 2. If your money can get you citizenship by investment in a good country with a strong passport, look into that route too. At the end of the day, the major reason to japa is to have a stronger passport that can allow you to play in a global space when an opportunity comes knocking for you, your family, or your children. 3. Your wife being aggressive shows that you guys have a long way to go in conflict resolution. And there would be more conflict when you japa because you'd be poorer, you'd be doing your chores yourself, and you can no longer afford the luxury Naija offers that might have been helping you manage your marriage. 6 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: I’m Drowning In This Act, And It’s Ruining Me Badly by imustsaymymindo: 7:54am On Sep 10 |
canada123: Lol, bro. I took the time to read your posts. Don't go to Nigeria o. The cost of tickets by now in this ember period would be high, you'd get Billings from your gf or ex-gf and other people, and those days of debauchery you want to have, you may not get it, and Naija is a bit unstable in many areas at the moment. You are not even in Naija yet, you are getting billings from strangers on Nairaland already. You have to build and take out time to learn the game. Don't rush. I see you are going on a date soon. Good for you. But I don't think thriving to get a girlfriend would help your current state. If you get a girlfriend now and you relapse and she finds out about it, you are going to be creatively dealt with and you would prefer so badly to lose 20k in sex than for you to be in that situation. They don't tolerate cheating lightly there. And moreso, you sound quite naive to female nature. My advice would be: 1. Network and see where you can get cheaper transactional sex when Hot. Massage parlors, nightclubs, referrals etc. Or masturbate responsibly. Don't listen to the advice to camp a homeless girl. 2. Get on Tinder, Hinge, Bumble, and what-not and like away. Just like, don't initiate convo. Let the girls initiate the convo first. That'd help sieve those who would want something to do with you. The direct approach is not for online activities. Although you might end up with girls, not your spec it doesn't matter, you are just using them to move up and increase your options. I call it, starting with the obese. 3. Take yourself out. Amusement parks, clubs, barbecue parties, cinemas, zoos, Parks, Pubs, conferences, Google meetup, etc. This is where you can now apply the direct approach. Talk to a girl who also came alone, you can even pay for her activity at the place(They'd appreciate it. They don't get that regularly). Be smooth with your words and confident. 4. Have an abundance mindset. Don't operate in scarcity. Talk to new girls even in Nigeria, and tell your Naija friends to introduce some Naija girls to you. Have a lot of them. It's long-distance but it's just to trick your brain into abundance. And for you who love the only fans' shenanigans, the Naija babes can give you a private perverse show at low or no cost depending on your game. 5. Have a good Instagram for social proof. Nigeria has the numbers. Once you take some pictures of yourself in nice places in Canada, flaunting some cars that are not yours, and all, you'll get many Naija followers who want to be like you. Or you can even buy an IG account sef. So that when you meet girls online or offline in Canada, instead of giving them your number or Whatsapp, you give them your Instagram(for social proof as most of them won't even have that amount of followers). I am sure some of those Onlyfan models and Tryst people don't even have followers up to a normal random Naija dude doing basics on Instagram. 6. Lastly, go to the gym, lose weight by taking note of your diet, and build muscle. This would make you attractive by the day. And also when you eventually get a lay, you'd be mentally prepared to devour that juice like a proper black man with steeze so they can keep coming back for more at no cost. You don't want to end up a one-minute man after all these hassles. I wish you good luck, my friend. You might also want to consider taking the Redpill while you are at it because your game levels need to be on par to pull all this off and to be safe out there. 2 Likes 2 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 7:06pm On Sep 07 |
A true abundance mindset comes from gratitude, not greed. While the grateful sees and identifies options inherently, the greedy chases options outwardly. Chasing is a scarcity mindset. Stop chasing. Instead, start identifying the things that choose you. 14 Likes 3 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 10:34pm On Sep 04 |
Faber: True. But there is one more thing the gym does: It helps your psyche. You see other humans working out and admire/dislike their achievable bodies. IMO, it's nice to get a gym that is a walkable or joggable distance, to help with gaining good sunlight, taking a leisure stroll, and just seeing people around on the path. Also, IMO, when starting in the gym, start with a local gym where there are bouncers, and handymen, and where you could find men who wouldn't have lost all their traditional masculine traits. Those little convos you would get from the male tribe would sharpen your RP lenses, make you more competitive and collaborative, and help you focus better(rather than where bumbum won't allow you to focus). 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Politics / Re: FEC Will Determine Price Of Our Petrol, Says Dangote by imustsaymymindo: 4:24pm On Sep 04 |
At first, I thought saw EFCC. |
Business / Re: Dangote Refinery Will Crash Dollars by imustsaymymindo: 8:56pm On Sep 03 |
xprojectlive: Lol. If it crashes the dollar, it would be for a short period padded just for the optics. And since it's all fake, it'd be back up as ever. |
Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by imustsaymymindo: 9:17am On Sep 03 |
idahme: Lol. It's the sad reality of life. His wife loving him or not shouldn't be his concern as that is out of his control. What is in his control is improving himself so that when opportunity comes in any form(divorce, new job etc.), he is prepared. But come to think of it, I have a feeling that the OP used the 50k his wife offered for a treat for him and his side chick in one of his escapades lol. Now he wants to rush and marry the side chick who may obviously be more broke than him and he doesn't think the side chick would not only starve him of sex and treat him even more badly than his current wife after she gets commitment. So like I said, he is making same mistake twice. He should rather focus on improving himself for now and forget about the two of them. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Family / Re: I'm Contemplating Divorce After Two Years by imustsaymymindo: 6:37pm On Sep 02 |
Successtube: Here you go advising people not to rush and you are failing in your own advise the second time rushing to want to get married to an ex. What I am certain of is that your ex would deal with you more than your wife. Why don't you use this period of pain to build and upgrade yourself? Cut off your ex. Stay away from sex from your wife and her money. Use the time to learn as much skills as you can and own your life. Choose yourself. Live like you are single and do the things you love that'd make you stay off sex(it's just for a while till you become a man who is perceived to have options). Sports, gym, chill with your other male friends, network, get updated. From my experience, "people love those who love themselves". And that is why your wife doesn't love you. 31 Likes 6 Shares |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 7:56pm On Aug 30 |
Faber: Solid! 3 Likes |
Romance / Re: How Do I Make My Girlfriend Leave My House by imustsaymymindo: 10:14pm On Aug 29 |
Afodot0022: Lol. Advice that you won't listen to. This was my comment on your last thread: https://www.nairaland.com/8171215/should-girlfriend-cohabite-me#131278093 Lol. Only the first point which is getting to know her feels important to me. My guess is you would finally find out the reason her friend chased her out. I guess now you have found out. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Education / Re: Thousands Of International Students In Canada Face Deportation, Sparking Protes by imustsaymymindo: 9:57pm On Aug 29 |
CoronaVirusPro: Lol |
Family / Re: Nigeria Among Countries With Highest Divorce Rate - Divorce.com by imustsaymymindo: 9:37pm On Aug 29 |
I doubt the statistics. Nigerian Court matters is one of the slowest. Getting a divorce takes too long for Nigeria to be in that statistics. |
Health / Re: Slump & Die Syndrome: Canada-based Nigerian Medical Doctor Speaks Out (Video) by imustsaymymindo: 9:17pm On Aug 29 |
Thundafireseun: Wow! This is unfair. |
Celebrities / Re: My Only Brother Gave Me One Of His Kidneys To Keep Me Alive — TG Omori by imustsaymymindo: 2:44pm On Aug 28 |
OceanEye: Salamanca!! |
Travel / Re: Japa : Here I Come. Tinubu, No Thanks. by imustsaymymindo: 2:20pm On Aug 28 |
Starboytwo: Hmm...Good one. But to enjoy these African countries maximally, one must have another passport aside from Nigeria. Because happenings like this also occur there a lot. You nor won hear say war, coup, or something happens and you have nowhere to go. So, if you think you are qualified and can afford it, try the usual countries first - Canada, Australia etc. And maybe after you get citizenship, you can now settle anywhere. 1 Like |
Sports / Re: Israel Adesanya: Lagos Women Are Runs Girls, Ashawo Kobo Kobo (Video) by imustsaymymindo: 1:53pm On Aug 27 |
The average western runs girl has a p8mp, trafficked, prolly a drug addict, has done all forms of perverse acts, less educated, with numerous body count all at a high cost. However, the average Nigerian runs girl is independent, willingly running the show on her own terms, probably has or getting a Bachelor or Master's degree, could even cook for you and make your house neater, even could be more religious than you, may even be a virgin in other areas apart from the center, and depending on your game especially with an Israel's kinda status, he may get all of that for free or even for less than 20-30 dollars. I think Israel should be grateful. 1 Like 1 Share |
Career / Re: Indians Taking Over Jobs In Oil And Gas’, PENGASSAN Raises Alarm by imustsaymymindo: 4:51pm On Aug 24 |
RepoMan007: Trustworthy - I would say there are many untrustworthy people on both sides. Hardworking - Though, you may be right here as they like to spend a lot of time just doing work. But I think Nigerians are more smart working and tactical. Competency, training, and efficiency would be better judged individual-individual. As with less annoying to work with...I don't think you mean that. |
Romance / Re: Help! I Love Her But I Am Not Enjoying My Relationship by imustsaymymindo: 9:42am On Aug 24 |
LVStone: Wow. So that's like 7 years of you forcing her to love you. Sorry you had to go through this but you were warned and you yourself saw the red signs. Please listen to the new warnings you have been given in the new thread so things don't get worse. I pray God gives you the courage you need. |
Romance / Re: Help! I Love Her But I Am Not Enjoying My Relationship by imustsaymymindo: 3:14am On Aug 24 |
LVStone: Is this the same person you married starving you sex? |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 5:44pm On Aug 23 |
Pukkalolo: I also think you are intelligent bro. I love and respect your old posts on here especially. But I think these days you are all about prescriptions and maybe it could be tied to you trying to sell a particular book that is meant to make the game easier for newbies. Unfortunately, there are no shortcuts and due diligence must be done. Either ways. Good luck! 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: Reality Every Guy Need To Know ( STRICTLY REDPILL) ... by imustsaymymindo: 4:57am On Aug 23 |
Pukkalolo: Brother, what is strange to you about "all roads lead to sex" while you just proved it with all your explanation leading to "how you get cute girls to drop their panties for you". Again you are all about prescriptions. That's why you don't get it. "All roads lead to sex" is not a prescription to pedestalizing sex, or being less concerned about sex just like you chose, it is just describing that - no matter your strategy in the intersexual dynamics, your Hows, the purpose at the end of the day is sex which you just proved. Descriptive knowledge!!!! Not some platonic BS, some heavenly ideas, connection, or some purposeless or unintentional behavior. The organic, basal, canal, natural purpose is sex. Again, redpill is a praxeology. To help you: Praxeology is the theory of human action, based on the notion that humans engage in purposeful behavior, contrary to reflexive behavior and other unintentional behavior. It studies the purpose behind intersexual dynamics. "All roads lead to sex" is an example of such praxeology. And you have decided not to pedestalize sex, as your own road to lead to sex. But you, turning your own road to a prescription, just have you assumed the redpill's prescribed road to sex is pedestalizing sex, is not redpill. Because redpill isn't about prescriptions. Prescriptions fail. In as much as I would congratulate you that some cute girls may have dropped their panties for you by acting/being uninterested in sex, I have also been able to sift out girls who don't like me quicker by being clear and straight up about sex, and I have also gotten girls(especially those you may call good girls) to show their bad parts by pedestalizing sex(not sex with her, but pedestalizing sexual acts and being upfront). In short, I feel it's best to be clear about your intentions. That's what even shows you are not pedestalizing her. But again, as a redpill student, I don't give prescriptions. Do you, bro. 7 Likes |
Health / Re: How My Girlfriend Died In My House! by imustsaymymindo: 12:15am On Aug 23 |
luminouz: Lol. It could make her brain dead. |
Romance / Re: Why Are Men Losing Interest In Settling Down ? ? by imustsaymymindo: 3:47pm On Aug 22 |
DrFunmisticGlow: Exactly! |
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