jakD:

You're funny bro. You know it well, I'm certain.

Lol. I just feel as long as the other person you are communicating with understands your point, we dont need to be bothered either we spoke correct or incorrect english.

praiseneofingz:
Good day NLS ....
I created this thread to bring myself out of the dark instead of hurting my self with ignorance. I've been in couple of relationship that didn't just work out, unfortunately one or two things will terminate it especially (cheating&greed) from my boo. it has become so rampant and almost normal in our world today where you see spouse cheating on each other...tho am young in my 20s really don't know much about marriage. but i definitely know if I will have a good wife and happy family in the future, the foundation starts now.
But this our babes (aka slayers) won't even allow someone to be confident in them. As a guy personally, am very emotional and I have a sensitive and fragile heart. now imagine that I'm dating a lady and fell deeply in love with her, provide all her needs, treat her like a queen, and at the end, she cheated because she saw another guy somewhere with Range sports even tho am still managing my E.o.d Honda accord and eventually dump me for him after all her love confession for me before meeting the new guy, now if you experience this shyt 4/5 times, won't you get fed up and decide to be on your own? but of course our mum won't be happy because she wants grandchildren, then I give it a 2nd thought but I can't just sacrifice my happiness because I want to please my parents..... How will it feel if you find out that your wife and mother of your children is a "runs babe" somewhere, well as a matter if fact, I gave vowed never to dip a ring in any woman's finger......I know people will say I'm ignorant or ion know what am saying or am a kid or whatever!!! i really don't care!
I will remind them failed marriage which might cause depression, high BP, e.t.c.. is among the 1000 ways to die (untimely) yes!!quote me anywhere and am not ready to die because of a woman that doesn't deserve me.

#note# this thread is unisex not male only I used myself because am a male. thank u!!!

Your previous experiences has turned you to a fearful person. You are to learn from experiences not develop fear out of them. Keep trying, bro.

iamJ:
I be like who dey entertain interviews?

7k is 20 dollars, that is not enough for high grade panties self


Meanwhile, get lost

Bro, no vex.

Dudeonyx:


That's very bad oh!, I was afflicted with this same thing 6 years ago a year b4 I got admission to University, I was wearing long sleeve 24/7 no matter the weather.

It persisted for over a year and I almost lost all hope.

But the solution turned out to be rather simple. A doctor I met told me he had seen this b4 and that it is mainly caused by dry skin easily that sheds (and sometimes an overactive immune system) so all I should do to stop my skin from shedding is

To stop using sponge of any kind to bathe, just use hands to apply soap then wash off.

After bathing dry skin gently with towel i.e just use the towel to touch wet areas (DO NOT MAKE SCRUBBING MOTIONS just pat with towel)

Use good skin cream and skin moisturizer.

I thought it was too simple after my family had spent a lot of money but I followed his instructions and lo and behold barely a month later I started seeing results, 3 months later my skin was a uniform colour.

Hope this helps.

I doubt if yours was vitiligo but could be as any ailment if found early can be well managed and treated.

I dont use sponge to bathe. It gives me a lot of discomfort. Many Nigerians think it is until you use sponge to bath, you are clean.

There is a cure I read sometime ago @op. It is possible to re-structure the skin color to the color the vitiligo parts have taken using some drugs. I heard it is drugs like this Micheal Jackson used turning him from black to the vitiligo color.

But, it comes with great side effects I guess. Let her just be proud of her skin despite the discoloration.

jakD:


Who am I speaking with? --this is preferable if you haven't had the caller's contact saved before.

Whom I am speaking with? --this shows that you have the caller's contact saved already, but you ain't sure of the person you're speaking with at that moment on the phone because they're above one person on the call.

Before the brain reason whether the number was saved or not, the english for don commot na and airtime sef for don zoom lol.

DanielsParker:


"I see him everyday". This is present continuous .

what if you usually see him everyday but not anymore?

can you express that in a past tense?

I did see him everyday. Lol, I dont know if it's coreect though.

iamJ:
make we play this game

because u can use airtel free .ng sim to browse we are mates

Fraudster? who did i scam? Broke nairalanders? attacking julie for no reason just to make a point that doesn't add up

I have no interest in visa from her but even if i did, what is ur biz? If som1 from ur lineage had that tot, working in a store with a capital worth of 100k wouldnt be ur condition today

I dont talk to girls that wear panties below 7k, we both know where u stand, how abt u get lost now

7k panties?! Lol. So Versace panties dey.

charliboy654:

Everyone pay for sex but not directly.

And op is an idiot

Sex is not a commodity. Although most people believe it is. Hence, the payment for sex. Even the religious houses tag "girls" as cheap when they have sex. This is as a result of improper sex education. I suggest sex education should be brought back to primary or secondary school's curriculum.

Nothing as sweet as having sex with whom sexual feelings are mutual, void of no contract, nor favors, nor gifts nor any sort of payment.
@op, You think sleeping with a prostitute is sweet? Try this.

If this is true, I like his hustling spirit. But after all the hustling, na to rent Limo?

RIP brothers.

uboma:
lol.


listen to my own story....


I purchased frozen Chicken at Sahad stores in Abuja.


At home, I discovered that the Gizzard was missing.


I was so pained that to this day, I do not buy frozen chicken anymore.


I buy the live ones and slaughter same myself when I have the time.

You are slaughtering chickens that some oyinbos keep as pet. Let them catch you.

It's really frustrating. Got 2 packs of noodles and a sardine pack too. Just 2 fish in the sardine pack and no sauce in one of the packs.

FisifunKododada:
Nigerian society is too tainted with religious extremism for even the highly educated to function properly. If you are highly educated and you still believe Jesus walked on water/rose from the dead or Muhammed was a peaceful human being - then your education has failed you. The purpose of education is to promote awareness/consciousness. That's why if you meet the top scientists/intellectuals in the world, they tend to exude a zen like (or yogi like) quality. One possible reason for this is that they have reached a point were they are fully convinced that their ignorance far outweighs their knowledge. Only arrogant people say things like: "There is God." or "There is no God." The truth of the matter is nobody knows. And I mean NOBODY. Look at all the problems we have created in Nigeria because of people who are "absolutely sure" of the existence of a sky Daddy - Boko Haram, killing of twins; prosperity gospel aka spiritual corruption; killing of 'witches'; etc. Yet, the most significant consequence of our extreme religious belief is that Nigeria is a country of 180 million people, the vast majority of whom are AWAITING the end of the world. If you believe the world is coming to an end, why would you be FULLY committed to make your society a better place? Most Nigerians believe that this world does not matter because they are gonna START A NEW LIFE WITH THEIR SKY DADDY after the world ENDS. This is one of the most fundamental reason behind Nigeria's underdevelopment. So, until a sizable number of Nigerians are committed to creating HEAVEN on this Nigerian EARTH, rather than awaiting some sky Daddy to descend from the sky and save us, corruption and underdevelopment continues to no end.

Make brain.

Doesn't Jumia ship items for free?

IamLEGEND1:
There is nothing more annoying than a girl obsessed with social media.
Only you dey snapchat, Instagram, Twitter, Facebook, whatsapp, even 2go.
Bending your legs one kind & Pouting your lips then taking selfies like an imbecile_and Posting the pictures upandan. You come dey watch Keeping up with the Kardashians join.

I no like vain people at all...

Lol, na the trend. Trend becomes the norm over time. So, try to be accomodative of those annoying girls. In 2030, it would be worse.

Moi-Moi is my best food and has a lot of value to me. Such a great food does not need such an ambassador.

Just 10? You can run that within 2 more years. Tell your friend not to give up. It is not by how far, but how well.

Lol. I think it is an allergy. Mine is the reverse. I noticed when I french kissed any girl, I do have one pimple the next day and it takes about 3 days to completely go.

JaffyJoe:


Ironic that your dp is advisory on how not to complicate things as key to better living, but yet you're a victim of complications.

Lol. Most times when girls upload quotes, read the opposite of what is being said, and you would understand what really is going through their minds.

Who else would you have sex with if not a friend? I no just understand this life anymore.

@op, dicefrost. Dont let your mentality change abeg. One thing you need to understand is that there are 3 ways people react when they are angry. They either take on direct aggression, indirect aggression or withdrawal. Men, tend to be directly aggresive, a large majority of women are indirectly aggressive showing it through strong verbal words, gossips and other forms and the last is withdrawal.

But, personally. Out of these 3, the one I hate most is withdrawal. I prefer you reign a lot of abuses on me, nag from morning to night, infact, you can beat me up. But if you continually withdraw from me when I do something wrong and never get to tell me, I would end that relationship one day. Because withdrawal leads to lack of communication and this is the beginning of.....

The truth is that issues of direct and indirect aggression can be properly managed with proper communication. In fact, if your wife slaps you and you dont respond back and instead communicate your displeasure when she is most comfortable, I doubt if she would ever try it again. But if you respond, you guys might become the next Anthony Joshua and the other boxer. Sames go for verbal aggression.

But then again, people are different.

Lastly, to prevent aggression, let us always talk about issues that we are unhappy about with her partners frequently. Unless, we keep them in our hearts, and one day when the devil is happy, we pour it all out through the various means of aggression.

If it was a much stronger man that did all what that woman did, he would not fight back. The best thing is to have this psychological view of your wife as a stronger man to avoid domestic violence. There are better ways to punish a woman that she would put her in discomfort, which in turn would lead to communication and attitudinal changes, ultimately saving the marriage.

ZombieTAMER:
This is an evidence that buhari is a useless dictator
Killing innocent people and terrorising the south east will not end the agitation for biafran referendum and restructuring the nation.....

Rather This barbaric act has won more Souls for the agitation

We have seen how a man who on a global stage said that those Regions who didn't vote for him should not expect the same treatment as those who voted him...
It wasn't just a gaffe
Buhari meant every word of it and he is fulfilling them right in our eyes....
There is nothing to justify such hatred from a president

We shall never forget
We shall never be deterred from pursuing equity and justice

Mehn, people get mind take those pictures? I support your post.

This ia the age we are meant to be getting married. Na just economy and life wey just turn around.

hungryboy:
Someone out there is fucking more prostitutes and having sex with more women than you ever had without condom, but he isn't infected with Hiv

Is not as if you are the most promiscuous man out there, you were just unlucky bro.


I won't advice to stay strong or keep living, that's your own decision to make

Fact.

Why is there no cure to this ailment sef?

@op, as to all terminal illness, the best thing to do is to make every remaining days on earth count. And HIV is not even as bad as some terminal diseases as it can be surpressed for long. For instance, Magic Johnson has been living with it for over 26 years.

What you did by creating this thread is your first step to healing. You would be fine.

And please, tell your family and other people as time progresses. You might need a hand of support. Also, read a lot about the sickness, join a group of people living with it, live healthy, exercise, eat well and lastly believe in God.

Next time you feel like chopping and cleaning mouth. Just read this thread. https://www.nairaland.com/4055001/how-contacted-hiv-sleeping-different

bjhaid:
a real nigga shouldn't be pushing for success cos of a worthless lady, life should be about self-fulfilment and inner happiness

In as much as we would like to deny it, rejection is one of the greatest drive to success. Rejection from jobs, relationship, society etc.

makydebbie:
You don't know transport fare will be free?

Oh! He would neither need transport fare to hell by the end of the day too. Lol.

Franktmubarak1:


i wish to have a witch as a wife

Haaaa!

daisyella:
therez a certain extent of influence ur environment can have on u but it can never change who u rili r. sorry but I don't rili get ur point

I just re-read this my post again after 4 years and I wondered how flawed my logic was then.