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slimmingcare:
Well as for me, I do not think men cheating on their wives has anything to do with the latter body size or shape.
It has to do with women's attitude and character especially after having one or two children. Our women of today especially the " working class" are too emotional, aggressive and impatient when dealing with their spouse.
Some housewives even dictates when to sleep with their husbands.... .. ..
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Bianya! Go create ur aruvat thread, away with ur products

numericalguy:
Of all the good men out there, you chose to marry a dog.

Numericaldog, keep counting the women u climb! Are u amongst the good?

topdee:
Not true, I couldn't agree with you less. Take a look at this scenario: Let's use universities or tertiary institutions as a case study; a student's ultimate goal is to get a good job after graduation, and as we all know the best way to achieve that is to graduate with 1st class or 2.1, but in reality those grades don't guarantee job placement. Some students with low grades even get jobs before students with high grades, but the fact still is that 1st class and 2.1 increases ones chances of securing good jobs. A woman's physical attributes creates a better platform for her man to stay faithful, and it's one of the criteria to win a man's heart, but doesn't mean it's the sole ingredient to man's faithfulness; just as good grades doesn't guarantee job placement. It applies to every facet of life, even living a healthy life doesn't guarantee longevity, but it's a contributing factor.
Abeg women out there, try as much as you can to look good often for your man and your health, likewise the men, also men like what they see, it's a known fact, give him reasons not to look elsewhere. .

Looking good so he won't look elsewhere is not a guarantee bro, but very necessary. Mind you not all men cheat ,I know that.

alujonjonkijon:
arrant nonsense,you better get down to the real world before you die of frustration,your husband is not your mate,he is your boss but a benevolent dictator,if he decides to Bleep your best friend pregnant,u will discover u are so silly to abandon him and the marriage because very soon the man you remarry too will be worse that your last hubby.men are polygamous and if you can lay claim to any sense at all ,you would have notice that because a man bleeps ur best friend doesnt mean he hates you his wife.i didnt even bother to read your story in full ,who is cheating who.in marriage the African way it is about the wife's fidelity and the reason being that if you Bleep more than one man,we dont know who owns the pregnancy and the child and the entire society becomes confused and disorganized.


your only way out for you is to find how you get married to kumuyi of deeper life cus i cant guarantee u of fidelity with the pastors chris them,


very unnecessary article,you can as well teach women how to wear their pant.and who tells you some hubbies dont prefer their wives to be orobos.

please pardon me.,your advise is really very very unnecessary.did you talk to ur mum before writing these?

Hey Mr! Do u have a problem with reading and comprehension? Get back to Class 1! Abeg swerve!

Dabbyfab:
Exactly just do you. There is always an excuse for cheating but the real truth is that the cheater is a dog and lacks self control. Even if you give it to him real good, turn to a slave,have all the plastic surgery with the best surgeon,he will still cheat.Just stay fit cos it is healthy and not for a pathetic cheater.

Glad to read this, u've made a lotta sense

bellville:
A cheating spouse will always cheat irrespective of how you look. If you like turn to broomstick in the name of trimming down, he will still wander. The op is right. Keep fit for the health benefits so you won't be too heartbroken when you discover he's cheating.

My sister! Irrespective of how hawwt u look, a dog is a dog o.

cococandy:
I try to stay fit both for my health and my Oga's eyes. There's nothing wrong in staying fit for your partner. I require same of him.

No pot belly tire-neck man has the right to expect a fit wife.

On point!

Amhappy:
I concur. Stay fit to be healthy,it's just that simple. Diabetes and high BP with all complications that come with them is real.
People cheat because they do not have the fear of God in them.

Asin ehn, too much complications these days

Hello Mamas!
Yesterday I read a thread of a man who was curious as to why women blow out of proportion after marriage/childbirth. I snapped out after he wrote this: "And why do they express shock when their husbands go after trim and shapely ladies outside? Is it that they didn't know that men are typically motivated by sensual sights? Are this category of ladies aware that the game is becoming dangerously tighter because "oga" is constantly inundated with young, trim, energetic and sexy girls on a daily basis; while his own wife keeps growing fat and out of shape and looking like his mother?" This motivated my own thread!
Take a look at these true life stories:
1. A former colleague of mine who is married with a daughter lives very close to me. She's still in her twenties, tall, elegant and endowed with this hourglass shape men die for. Her husband is quite young too, with a comfortable source of income. You will think they are dating when they stroll outside - babe is still hot because she waist-trained after her baby, talk about flattest tummy! Now I was, to say the least, shocked, when I learnt Oga was going after other ladies, still in our neighborhood I mean, these girls can't measure to the wife half.

2. A lady I know advised me after my first baby to look trim and sexy so that my husband won't go after other women. You won't believe she is a mother of four, I really looked up to her for inspiration in my keeping fit regimen. Babe did not know her perfect gentleman was busy banging anything in skirts around town. She probably thought depriving herself of certain foods, working out and staying trim would put Oga in check!

3. What about our celebrities who retain their pre-baby weights after their babies yet their divorces are most times based on infidelity? what about countless beautiful women who put in their very best to maintain their shape but are still being cheated on?

What is my point? My fellow women, if you think you are staying fit, trim and sexy so that your husband wouldn't cheat on you, please change that mindset. A CHEAT IS A CHEAT, no point going on a long thing! Stay fit because of the health benefits, you wouldn't want the health risks associated with obesity, would you?
All these Nairaland boys bashing African Women with little or no respect, tuale!
All the men (married and unmarried) who gallivant around in potbellies yet criticize childbearing women, chop knuckle! It's a man's world, isn't it?
All the cheaters continue cheating, the day of reckoning would sure come

Women please, stay fit and trim not for Oga but for your health! *drops mic*

tomquest:
Quite a long emotional response I must confess my dear. Melted my heart. Women go through a lot and I'm not here to bash them. I have women in my life too don't forget.

I was looking at the issue of EXCESSIVE, UNCHECKED weight gain (pls note the words in caps) from 2 perspectives:

1) health risks
2) matrimonial security

If you think these 2 perspectives are immaterial to you, then feel free to go obese. It's your fundamental human right.


Life is not always all about working hard but working smart... This is century 21. A digital age. If money is the issue in the home, get it addressed. Be blessed.

Hey Mr! Excuse me? Did you type 'Matrimonial Security'? You are so wrong! I live in an estate where alotta childbearing women work out to still look hawwt and trim yet their yeye husbands still cheat on them. What about the potbellied men who emphasize the fitness of their wives yet they are senior culprits? What do you have to contribute towards the rising philandering attitude of men whose wives strive to please by registering compulsorily in gyms, yet Ogas can't keep their third legs wrapped in their briefs? The most annoying part is that the women outside are no matches to their lovely wives! I can go on and on
Talk about health risks, leave out matrimonial security abeg Oga tomquest

The pictures are on point, perfect descriptions

Ekpo nkawo in action! Tuaaah!

I vote Ivyy, babe looks real
Cc NLJega

Ivyy is lovely, beautiful with a warm persona.
Therefore I vote Ivyy
Cc NLJega

Yeye people accusing the OP, in Akwa Ibom/Cross River we call it EKPO! So cut him some slack and get the lesson in his post

He is less of a man which translates to HE CAN'T PERFORM SEXUALLY or HIS JOYSTICK IS TINY. Which lady wants a tiny Peepee? Oga Medical Doctor is not telling us the whole truth, just castigating the poor lady. Accept my sympathy bro

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May the assailants' lives be burnt beyond recognition just as they did to these humans
May their lives experience heat beyond measure
May the food and water they take give them continuous discomfort. What kind of inhumane act is this?

I once had a landlord( inherited father's old house) who squanders rents upon receipt - Women, booze, I pass my neighbor generator runs till daybreak, etc etc. A guy of over 30; no job, no handwork. After a month, he transforms into the biblical prodigal son - so hungry, angry and daring. Same with most of his mates who were lucky to have been left Papa's old house.
Fast forward to another residential area, same story. Tickets' collectors, marching ground enforcers, enemies of progress, kidnappers and other atrocities mentioned by MyPWisINCORRECT; these are their specifications.
I am talking about Rivers State, the young men are terrible. Uneducated bunch!

Show of shame! Tuah!

Jehovah Overdo, just twin boys I ask of you. Bless my womb Ebenezer, as u favoured this lady. I shall surely testify on Nairaland in Jesus Name, Amen

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Same way I would 'ewww' at their funny-looking broth!

I wish the Linda and Wizkid ish had trended then, chai!
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