₦airaland Forum

Choilila:
save yourself from the shame ur fellow TRP MEN ARE VIEWING ..
I dismissed emails right from NL.
I block on FB..
are you on whatapp "me: no
my friends and family are complaining because of the attitude of not picking calls neither returning it [as missed calls ]
SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO TELL ME?




ur cup of coffee.. BELIEVE WHATEVER YOU LIKE.

same men will turn back :NO S3X, NO MARRIAGE

Either your device is abysmally awful or you lack the necessary cerebral facilities to properly format texts.
Can u even read what you wrote ? Alma mater in shambles

Choilila:
save yourself from the shame ur fellow TRP MEN ARE VIEWING ..
I dismissed emails right from NL.
I block on FB..
are you on whatapp "me: no
my friends and family are complaining because of the attitude of not picking calls neither returning it [as missed calls ]
SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO TELL ME?

ur cup of coffee.. BELIEVE WHATEVER YOU LIKE.

same men will turn back :NO S3X, NO MARRIAGE

God! You write in clichés. Why are u so allergic to original thought.
If you've been deflowered down there, doesn't mean you have to deflower yourself up there.

my friends and family are complaining because of the attitude of not picking calls neither returning it [as missed calls ]
SO WHAT DO YOU HAVE TO TELL ME?

Since we've established that you like me, question one:
Do you have yansh ?

Choilila:
u better stop that..
it can never happen even in ur imaginary lens..

So u do like me after all. Never be afraid sliding into a guy's DM.

it can never happen even in ur imaginary lens..

Of course it never, you've already outed yourself as non-virgin.

NO HYMEN, NO RING remember ?

Choilila:
still nothing responsible came out from ur shit theory....

guys you are not the only one she is talking to.



every black morooon wants to make a theory on women...

If this continue, I'll start to think you like me.

Real men join war front.

And you still dey Nigeria dey write nonsense. You never joined Ukraine nor help Nigeria in fighting Boko Haram.

Real men don't push keyboard.
They pull the trigger on the battlefield.

Shalommy:
You won't like the beast in him. Chaii..

Every woman is like that tho, she's just honest enough to voice it out.
"Nice guy" all the time doesn't work, you have to harsh at times. I learned this unconsciously.

Just don't beat them ooo. Even the ones that beat them they still go his house after being discharged from hospital.
Study women and know peace.

Can't make this shit up.

No be today na. Na only women "Hybristophilia" dey affect.

Choilila:
Yes,school in Nigeria is useless...
imagine Nigerians are flooding Ghana to acquire knowledge..



Women are liabilities is not the same as WOMEN FORCED YOU TO DO IT.

and goat are sensible than you Men because of the way their mothers think ..
I wonder how your mom was/is because they said offspring inherent their mum intelligent..




and if I declined the man to enter me, and maybe that will possibly lead to relationship down fall [ MEN SET SEX AS STANDARD ]..
AND SOCIETY WILL STILL TAG THE RESPONSIBILITY ON ME

Guys, you might be stupid to actually believe she's only talking to you or you're the only one.
The younger the girl, the more suitors she has, and you'll be the most stupid person in Africa not to know this.

and you the most stupidowido

yes, I'm a girl and I don't talk to any guy

so next time know how you address the congregation.

Apparently with you, the Ghanaian schools also failed.
Incoherence and blatant lack comprehension coupled with unintended self-loathing seems your modus operandi.

May God have mercy on your soul. May your parents/guardian(s) be refunded in another way, because you've clearly shown yourself to be a bad investment.

Choilila:
SO NOW YOU ACCEPTED THE FACT MEN ARE PLAYERS?

and the prefect misconceptions is equivalent to sharing the cookies to another nigga

NO S3X NO MARRIAGE, EVEN THOUGH YOU HAVE HYMEN.. NO RING

check my previous comments.

You still don't get it, do you ? Should we ask for refund from your school ?
Men are players is not the same as MEN FORCED YOU to do it. If you're stupid, you're stupid.
The way you women think at times, I wonder the stupid people who allowed you into public spaces let alone vote. You Can't just properly think

Why is taking responsibility hard for you people? You allowed the man to enter you, you're responsible for anything that enters you.

Blablamalala:
It is only a foolish and poor man that regrets after spending on his lovely women wives.

FTFY

Blablamalala:
Very true. Infact there is this line of thought which shows insecurity. If I don't pop her Cherry another guy would

As if men don't have other babes they are talking to.

Same way your grandparents and ancestors were insecure. Right ?
Or maybe they have sense and understand the danger of marrying a community toilet cum bucket.

TheGoodJoe:

Now this is a rant. The point is too simple.

Culture has changed. It does not make your own belief wrong.

I said, most people do not operate that way. So you can not use that yardstick as a judgment parameter.

You are not waving a magic wand to make people start practicing no sex before marriage. It is long gone. Does not mean there are no people that practice it. But majority don't. Unless you want to lie to yourself.

Finally, whether you are intimate with a woman before marriage or not does not guarantee fidelity.

As for me, I will take a woman that is committed to an intimate relationship before marriage to the alter over a woman I have no idea of her level of commitment.

I said, most people do not operate that way. So you can not use that yardstick as a judgment parameter.

So, if Most people are drinking alcohol, I should too ?
I judge whatever I want.
Some these fornications you call relationship lead to single motherhood which in turn leads to awful children. Not every relationship turn into marriage. Most bastards and first-child from these relationships. How many of those posts have we seen on Nairaland. Just go sit down pls

You are not waving a magic wand to make people start practicing no sex before marriage. It is long gone. Does not mean there are no people that practice it. But majority don't. Unless you want to lie to yourself.

Say that about alcohol too. Heck even corruption.
So if majority are doing it, does it make it right ?

As for me, I will take a woman that is committed to an intimate relationship before marriage to the alter over a woman I have no idea of her level of commitment.

You never know the commitment level of a woman until you marry her haha. Stop deceiving yourselves.

Choilila:
NO SEX, NO MARRIAGE

EVEN THOUGH SHE HAS HYMEN.

MEN LOOKING FOR WIFE WITH HYMEN BUT WILL STILL DEMAND FOR SEX FROM THAT PARTICULAR PERSON WITH HYMEN..

LOLZ LOLZER LOLZEST

It's up to that person with HYMEN not to give it up. Or are they forcing ou
The job of a striker is to score as many goals as possible, the defender prevent goals.

In the end, it's also the girl's choice. So, what's your point ?

Blunttruth:
Of cause they will. Dating or marriage isn't a cage. Talking isn't any problem. loyalty and setting boundaries , is what is important. Are you not talking to other girls.

It's like some of you are not getting it, SHE IS ALSO CONSIDERING OTHER GUYS.

TheGoodJoe:


You are just pushing the story another direction. Women do not grow in the villages like in the past. So the no relationship marriage has taking a different dimension.

There is no guarantee that marrying a woman today without an intimate relationship with her guarantees fidelity.

No one is tying anyone. The door is open. Just do not pretend as if you are in when you are out.

She can go to who she wants. It is called a break-up.

So you think every one does the nonsense that was imported from the Western World ? Hahahaha
The same relationship that lead to single motherhood and bastards hahaha. And single mothers are not good at raising children alone.

There is no guarantee that marrying a woman today without an intimate relationship with her guarantees fidelity.

The fact that she opened legs for you without ring already tells us she can and will do it for another.
Are u even a man ? Don't u get the logic here ?

The fact that people are eating shit, doesn't make shit less shit. It just means those people are ignorant or shit.

Choilila:
LOLZ

ANOTHER ONE.


men don't forget :NO SEX, NO MARRIAGE.. EVEN THOUGH SHE HAS HYMEN

KIKIKIKI

I think you meant to say NO MARRIAGE, NO SEX. Which will be exactly in line with my point.
I have no problem with that tho.

TheGoodJoe:
A bit over the place talking of grandparents. We are not in that era.

That's not an excuse tho. No one is forcing your generation to be hoes before marriage.
Also their marriages last long time, these "fornication" ones hardly last that much these days hehe.

This weekend, few couples will tie the knot and guess what, over 95% of them were in relationship before marriage.

That doesn't mean I have to waste my time before marrying like they do

As I said, people are different. You have how you view life. However, it is general occurrence for most marriages coming from intimate relationship.

I'm not forcing anything on people tho. I'm just saying the reality of what they're doing.

In that context, a woman who can not commit to it, has little chance to commit to marriage.

Why will a woman give you her single most pried value, for what ?
And when you break-up, another man should take your used hoe ?

[quote]To put it simply, she is not ready to settle down/quote]
Maybe she has sense ad she doesn't want to rack up bodies before getting married.

Guys, you might be stupid to actually believe she's only talking to you or you're the only one.
The younger the girl, the more suitors she has, and you'll be the most stupid person in Africa not to know this.

As long as you're not married to her, you're not almost always never the only one. Even married ones are not safe, let alone free ones.

You might be almost free if she gives you access to her social media (usernames, password etc) not just her phone, if she doesn't then you know the answer already. Even at that she might even have secret accounts etc - Welcome to girls world.

If you've ever listened to a girls' chats between her and her friend(s), you'd get sense pill immediately. They are brutal!

Edit: It's like some people are not getting it, SHE IS ALSO CONSIDERING OTHER GUYS.

TLDR; If she's to be married, never lose guard.

Lest I forget, guys remember: NOT HYMEN, NO RING

Tunesco1:
Well said bro but do u know, no matter how hard a guy can be, u will have that one girl u really cherish and still give ur full attention to..

When it comes to this dating game bro, I get enough girls , some are even more prettier than her but this very one ehnn, she don dey with me even when things no fine, and I have done a lot for her to repay her kindness.. so I genuinely want this one

Guy, you're suffering from Oneities.

she don dey with me even when things no fine, and I have done a lot for her to repay her kindness.. so I genuinely want this one

She's making it easier by leaving you duh. Take the L. She's not special, there a millions of her and better.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3hSba5W1tl8?t=131

Tunesco1:
I disvirgined her bro and this girl is close to 30.. so is she still young

30 is like 10 years above 20, 30 is what we call "Danger Zone".
No wonder she left already. She's wasted everything with you already. 30 YEARS!

Who marries a woman of 30 years+ ? When there are lots of 18 - 24 ?

You need better game

TheGoodJoe:

If you operate with this notion, most marriages will not happen.

Our grandparents and most of our parents did not fornicate before they marry though. What makes you think it's not possible ?
Why are you hiding from the girl's in the first month or two?

Will you marry a woman who shares the idea that in a relationship with you, you have no exclusive right to her.

1. I don't do relationship though, I make it known from the beginning.
- I'm going for marriage. I'm not your boyfriend. IF you pass in the first few weeks, I'll see your parents.
Don't worry, I know how to bring out the beast/Saint in them quickly. They can't resist.

2. They always have guys disturbing them anyways and they'll definitely reply some of these guys.
Always ask them how many guys are they talking to, then I'll multiply by 2 or 3. Girls are hardly ever single, especially when they're young.

Don't worry about me, I know the kind of game I'm playing.

Well people are different. In my own corner, devotion and commitment is key. If you can not give me that, we are not meant to be.
Finito.

But marriage (supposed to) guarantee commitment though, at least it's implied.
If a man is ready, he's ready and he doesn't waste time. Don't let us deceive ourselves.

Tunesco1:
My God will bless u .. to be honest, I'm not trying to act like a simp here oo , but the truth is, the new girl I will want to be with would come with her own games too.. because I think every woman out there has one or two game plans in this generation..

And as this babe dey, aside this outing she wants to go , she has really been there and endured through the thick and thin moments of my life..

I just feel, she misses the fun moments we shares long time ago and probably feeling like having options, but like I said, it is her attitude towards me after the movie date, that will give a clue of what she's trying to pass across to me..

If you're not married, you have no exclusive right to her. Even married women cheat let alone the one with no ring.
People with girlfriends are NOT ready for marriage and women knows this.

TheGoodJoe:


When is working towards settling down with a woman not getting a life. He already said he is serious about the relationship. He does not consider her just a girlfriend.

There's no enforceable agreement between them.
Bf GF relationship is just a fornication situation which benefits men more than women. Men can lose money but can always get it back.
Women can't become virgin again, the more bodies a woman add the more she's bad for marriage. The girl is just trying to cash out as much as she can since she's young, and also looking for the best bet

Abeg free the lady jor! If you're ready to marry, then marry.

Mad man, you went and create your own.
Nairaland men no dey carry last.

Girlfriend, not wife. Why not report her to her parents ?
Get a life!

uthlaw:
yes na!

Then you realize we are not contradicting each other. Most men don't want to do the work, but always want to blame everyone else.
The government, the girl. Never their parents who sheepishly place them at disadvantage in life, nor themselves for failing to see the crap.

ERCROSS:
This OP never know wetin dey sup. Wait till you get married first

This is nonsense tho. It's the same crap that entered a lot young minds into University certs they'll neither need nor use.
Wait till you get there, wait till you get there.
I have to know "wetin dey sup" right now by necessity so that I'll prepare as much as I can. Why does a man have to wait till he marries ?

The problem is most men have been destroyed by getting useless education then blaming their failures on government instead of parents.

This is Nigeria, you can marry a woman who's not gonna bring debts to your life.
There are lots women who appreciates little to enough out there and there are extravagant leeches, your choice.
And if she's becoming trouble, divorce is cheap in this country. No alimony and child support.

uthlaw:
I make sure I pay all the bills and marry many wives!

Exactly!
Did you even read the post ?

Many of you are buying into this idea of women carrying some financial load. Some even advocate for 50:50 which in turn becomes more like 50:80 for the woman.

She has to cook, clean, take care of kids etc then also work ?! Like seriously ? I don't care beautiful she's, she'd get ugly in months from all these stress. If God wants them to work like men, God will give them muscles for it.

As a man, you should take the majority of financial responsibility in the home. If a woman is helping you, it's a plus not a requirement and don't make it one. Heck even thank her for it.
Each have their own responsibility and finances is yours.

Of course there are situations where you need help from her, that's understandable. What's sad is the nonsensical "working women" men are peddling nowadays. In fact the more your wife or fiancee is exposed to the outside world the more she's likely to cheat - there's a reason 6 in 10 of DNA test are negative. Surprise! Surprise!
Married women are the easiest to bed - if you know you know.

As man, don't wish it was easier, wish you were better. Women always want someone who's above them and they can respect. Be that guy.

Lest I remember, guys don't forget: NO HYMEN, NO RING.

In a relationship of fornication, women spend their bodies, men spend their money. That's the deal.

get a job support him like he support u

And do what ? Women don't build civilizations tho

else u are just a sexual vessel who is getting paid for sex n nothing else

Women are sex objects tho, and that's not a bad thing. Of course they're not supposed to be that alone.

b proud of ur self for ones, stop this leeching liability mentality get ur hands working.

No, you work smarter and have a family. Stop complaining about NOT girls working to support you - they are not built for that.

They can't even spell correctly. Even if you're given the land, is with this ignorance you're going to rule the nation ?

Stargurl20:
The eleribu community d**k who must have exhausted his sperm and as a result, low sperm count nko?

1. Unless there's a medical condition, it's hardly possible to "have exhausted his sperm" by having intercourse with the community. Even low sperm count fixed.

2. Male and female promiscuity are not looked the same way. Same way financially broke male and female are not looked at the same way.
Promiscuous females will hope the man they admire forgive their hoe past/present, broke men will wish the lady look past his condition.