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man should marry his best friend, someone he can't live without

Worst advice ever. This is female think /chick crack you've been brought up with, now u think it's ideal.
A woman should love more than a man, when it's the other way round bad things happen.

Men are not supposed to be emotionally ridden, this your advice help them get there real fast.

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The court of law has the final say.....

Na court marriage dem do ? Absolute morons these men are if they ever did

OriOko88:

Marriage should definitely be more than sex. It's shud be more of companionship.

I camped a babe for my crib in October for three weeks,she was doing normal wife chores,cooking and knacking were steady. Omoh I fvcked shiit outa her to d extent sex became overated to me. Sex tire me oo. Na the second time sex go tire me b dat. D other time was when I was in ozubulu for nysc. I and a female corper fcked for a whole year without paying her bride price. E be things

And when another mumu sees that girl, he'll later be wearing "SHE'S MY QUEEN" shirt.
Tueh!

Oh God, we body count reader. If we can get it on females' head or some glasses or some API, even better.

Jennyclay:
The guy is simply wicked. Infact just take the whole 24 hours a day to fear men. if I were to be in her shoes, I would've poured him acid if I ever cross path with him.

Karma is a bitch. What goes around comes around. Same fate will befall his daughters.

Nothing goes around, she's stupid not ask for the ring. It's nobody's fault she decided to become a cum bucket.

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They're never suitable for any leadership role anyways.

SmartPolician:
AI wish Mama Taraba and Dora Akunyili had not died though. They would have pioneered the drive to have more women in key elective positions.

OR they would've warned not do it and just go take care of their kids and grand kids. Not worth the hassle.

GODPUNISHALABI:
I don’t even fancy Nigerian women in general or black women

Nigerian and Black women are my preference, other dark skins follow. Don't know how I can in good conscience marry someone with a pale skin. I'm not that down bad, and I'm looking for oyinbo citizenship.

ibkayee:
Java
C#
I'm not versed in Python but I can do it with a bit googling here and there. Was forced to do it when helping someone with an assignment
C++ (I gave up on this one, I'm like 0.7/5 lol)

Not so surprising, C++ doesn't do well in the same brain holding both Java and C#.

JASONjnr:
This is why self discipline should be introduced as a course ...

And laws to punish people who subject women into this kind of conditions....


If it were America, she will be enjoying child's support.....

Ogbeni, it's already a crime in Nigeria.

Plus child support has been the cause of depression and suicide for many men also.
How do u respond to that ? Even your American overlords can't fix it.
Bring Child Support and see women file for divorce left right and center, hoeism becomes even more widespread and single-motherhood exponentially increases.

Every solution to the African weakling is copying their White Overlords.
Tueh!

please I am from a single parent home

Not so surprising.

but I am having feelings for him

Of course you will, too bad he'll never take u serious.

I don't know if I will ever a guy such as him or if I will ever get the kind of assistance I get from him.

You're underestimating the population SIMPS out there.

If I try God's way and cut him off how will I get money to take care of myself?

You can make money without opening legs. You opened legs 'cos it's easy. You did that because u knew a SIMP will take u in the future.

Ma, it's very confusing and I don't know what to do my mum can only afford 1meal a day and can't pay for my textbooks and stuffs I don't have financial assistance from anywhere."

Hmmm....she wished to end the relationship but wants to know how she can survive and eat daily. Will God buy her the text books and give her food if she follows Him?

Advise desperately needed my people. No insult please!

Translation: God doesn't like me being a hoe, how can you help rationalize being a hoe without making me feel bad about it.

Money amplifies whatever it met. If you're a dork before money, you'll become a bigger dork.

it has become more socially acceptable for women to focus on their careers before marriage

Where ? By whom ? I don't think most people are marrying 30+ yo women.

It is important for women to remember that marriage should not be put off until later in life.

Correct, for women.
For men it's a different story.

While it is important to focus on your career and education,

Is it tho ?

it is also important to make sure that your relationship and family life do not get neglected in the process.

That's too much work for them. Only them career, relationship, then family. Una wan kill them.

With the right balance, women can have the best of both worlds.

No they can't.
There's a difference between career and job. Women can have a job and family but NOT a career.
Women with career sacrifices having a (stable) family.

My advice:
- FIND a man that will take of you between the ages of 18 and 24
- Try not to be a liability and no get big mouth.

oyalunasam88:
Can you please explain this.

- It's a coping mechanism for women who wasted their youth, and now regretting.
- It's also what the married girl say to her unmarried friends to console them.

" I date him because I love the way he treats me and I'm believing that one day I'll win his heart and we'll live happily ever after" but she prefer to dump that caring brother who will treasurer her, buy her things , give her money which she will eventually give the other guy!!!

Stay TOXIC guys!


1. Treat her like a celebrity and she treats you like a fan. And vice versa.
2. They absolutely love to chase. They do it better and awfully obvious than men does.

If you've never reached a stage where a girl is chasing you, my sincerest condolences. You might never experience genuine burning desire in your life - SUCKS TO BE YOU!

It's all fornicationshp, free for all.

Ikomi, the Medical Director of Outpatient Addiction Medicine, at Christiana Care Hospital in Delaware, USA,

This an op from another mutant from Delaware.
The moment I saw the post, I knew it will be either from a soy boy or a feminist.

There's nothing like "serious" girlfriend, it's just another name fornication agreement.
So as your guy dey chop and pay or pay then chop, na so another guy do am.

Girls might be stupid but they know they don't have the ring. Even the ones with ring still get smashed.

You're in trouble in either way
Girls are snakes, and will certainly betray you,
and guys are strays, they'll almost always want to spray you (with semen).

The only difference, the girl put the guy(s) in friendzone for as long as she wants.

Pick your poison.

They cope by abusing the men of Nairaland and Twitter.

I can't wait to make enough and leave Canada for good.

Says everyone living like a slave or robot in those failed societies.

Who needs school in 2022. God! Who's raising these boys?!

1. He should go learn proper electronics with practicals with a reputable person in a workshop
2. He can also learn to code on the side.

He can determine what steps he wants to take with his future then.
In 2022 and at the age 23, getting depressed about not going to school. What failure!
Later they will say girls are making jest of them. You grandpa were in world war at that age!
Pathetic!

Virginprincesss:
As a virgin I don't deserve broke boy to date me because I am special

But as a liar, you can go on the internet and steal pictures to put in your profile huh ?
https://www./754001162608772146/

You're probably fat and ugly in real life.

after dating my husband for some years

after wasting my time with him for some years.
You wasted your youth, now you're being relegated to baby pumper. Enjoy your new job title.

So u didn't know all these while dating? Abi dating lusting no dey work again ?

ATIKU in shambles!

Maysdevices:
Repeat this to your mother and sisters at home.

If then no break your empty head

Is this how you address your elders at home ? No wonder no man paid the bride price yet.
Can't be paying for cheap, crude, crass and ugly products

Maysdevices:
Repeat this to your mother and sisters at home.

If then no break your empty head

Is this how you address your elders at home ? No wonder no man paid your bride price yet.
Can't be paying for cheap, crude, crass and ugly products

She will still open legs again. Women no dey too get sense like that.
Don't be Simp! Don't be Simp! Don't be Simp!

You need better friends who does good and push you to do the same.

As a teacher, i

Dem suppose seize your license or cert, assuming u have one.