The heartbroken man cried like a baby and blamed his sister for introducing them.

Sisters are the worst, you almost end up weak man when you have them around you.
You'd think they'd help their brothers against he shenanigans of women, but nah.

Again. women don't understand men struggles nor can they train them.

MALIGNANTGuest:
... na normal thing Abroad naaa
BRO, calm down you will save more money.
Abroad reduces your LIBIDO and makes you a Real Man. We have been through it. U won't die.
That's the reason most abroad based men are not moved by women. They are very careful with them. They avoid women at all cost. They rarely do the bidding of ladies especially if they have Legal residency permit.

Bro, I'm Disappointed in you but here is my Free Advice for you;
Avoiding Trouble Abroad starts with keeping Ladies at Arms length. Get good Cameras installed in your apartments. Get HD Camera installed in Caps and shirts.
The public rushes to believe them first especially when they start weeping. No one asks if they are lying or not. Avoid them now. It pays. How many weddings have u attended since u got dia?
Better ask questions before proposing!

Only the Pirate of the Carribean has won his case against a lady in 30years. He shared his secret.
Make ur MONEY! EASY MONEY, in hard currency!
Avoid them now. I have warned you!

Seems like a society NOT for a man to live or thrive in. And boy oh boy is that true.

Sweetplum:

Infinityfabric, you are sounding like a tough man. Talking about market place, that's your own opinion.

It's not just an opinion, It's fact.

And am not Nora Vincent. I m not here to disguise as a man, mean or try homosexuality.

The point flew over your head madam, once again. I'm sure you're fun to play with.

Personally, my fiance is a cool guy. So...I ll just enjoy myself.

I'm very sure he's NOT brokey and you didn't choose because he's a VIRGIN.

In my own world, a man must conform very well.

I never said you were wrong tho. That's not just the topic.
Again, women virginity is valued by men.

Just go into one of your WhatsApp group and ask the ladies if they prefer a virgin or a wealthy guy.
Go ask men if they prefer a virgin woman or wealthy woman.

Sweetplum:
we are saying the same thing.
I m not too much of emotions. Whatever a man do, a woman must do too. It's tit for tat

Men can say: if you're not a virgin, you're out. I've never heard a woman say that.
Women themselves don't place value on male virginity when selecting mates. In fact they're likely to prefer men with experience.

I''m not talking about virtue here, I'm talking about the marketplace. Generally, a virgin > non virgin. A rich man > not rich man.

Whatever a man do, a woman must do too. It's tit for tat

But one gets called hoe and other... sharp man. The only woman (Nora Vincent) who tried to be a man committed suicide.
YOU CAN NEVER LIVE LIKE A MAN NOR DO WHAT MEN DO WITHOUT CONSEQUENCES.

Sweetplum:

Oh, so you are talking about finances and virginity. What an unwise man!
Virginity is virtue for both male and female while finances is also important for both gender. Cos men always appear to be the financer of homes doesn't make dem to become the one to do anyhow. Know this and know peace.

There's no point in prolonging a talk with a female, they lead with emotions.
I'm clearly saying one thing, you're clearly saying another.

Sweetplum:

Are you a virgin?
You can't give what you don't have. We may v spoilt girls but we v spoilt men. Stop these prejudice against women and know peace. Continue and eat sour.

I don't know any women who made being a VIRGIN a condition for the man. It's like a man asking a woman if she can carry the financial load of the family.
In short, VIRGINITY in women is like being resourceful as a man. Both are coveted - for a reason.

I mean where else do you expect him to be ? In the mosque reciting Qur'an ? Or hosting quiz competition ?

While a drug addict musicians and other sub-standard beings might tell you everyone is criminal or of bad character, you still meet good people out there when you go out.
Same applies to VIRGINS, with the number covert prostitutes, repentant and unrepentant veterans roaming about the streets, you's think no girl might be a VIRGIN.

But lose hope not, there are still quite a number girls who's decided to be Alan Sharer.
The problem is you're less likely to see them roaming about advertising their goods.
I've personally met 10 or so in the last 3 - 5 years, so it's not as bad as you think. And they're the majority in my list.
In fact I've met more of them than the used ones.
You just need to be deliberate with your search and NOT just wishing to be LUCKY.

Perks (from experience):
- Since they're mostly marriage minded they're focused, It's you and you only, until you mess things up.
- They're not much of a financial burden because,
- They come from stable home with caring father or brother or other family member doing the financial and emotional provision.
- They're LESS likely to be 'ACTING', then show you fire after marriage.
- Since you're their only ticket to Romance, prepared to be destroyed like 9000 times a day.
- Easy for them to move on when things don't work out.
... list is endless.

Disadvantages:
- Nothing to see here.

Zonefree:

Where will one see a virgin Nigerian girl for marriage? The last virgin girl died in 1969, we're left with siofra, candidlady, magnoliaa and other demons.

I've met at least 10 VIRGINS in the last 3 years.

Super story. You people dey lie just to make women look bad.

I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.

This is the life of a SIMPle man. This happens to you when you don't know your worth.
A woman is disturbing ur life while some people have four with no issues.

What a failure! Too bad it will take years to reprogram you out of the Matrix.

Zonefree:


That's good. I endorse your tears.

Weeping and sorrow are what makes a man amazingly SIMPle.

Comrade, I sight you oo.

When you go black, you never go back.

Worst is they will get married to someone who didn't know that they were selling their body in the name of hook-up & runs.

Another free advert for VIRGINS.

They use coded language, leg chain & crypted WhatsApp status/Update.

Oh oh oh. have you checked their Instagram too? That's where they do the prostitution contracts.
Future wife might just be just flown to Abuja as we speak.

Marry Virgins or stay single. Don't negotiate with TERRORISTS.

Samantha123:
I don't know how to cook Nigerian food.

I got you baby:
https://www.youtube.com/c/SisiJemimahsRecipes/videos

I can buy you lunch for a whole month.

Translation: I hope you're not broke ?
Answer: Ofc, I'm NOT. And you'll have to cook, if you can't - time to learn.

Samantha123:
I don't know the last one, but already I can feel it in my bones that I'm a whole lot better than her.

Well, well, that's looking debatable. You're already evading cooking.

Samantha123:
I don't mind doing the chasing, investing, and doing the marriage vows as long as the man wouldn't feel intimidated.

In fact, I can start chasing you now..

Well, you wouldn't be the first to chase. I just hope you're prettier and smarter than the last.

This post can be made in brief and less disjointed way.

Samantha123:
And why do you expect women not to talk about being extorted, exploited, deceived, and manipulated by you men too?

YOu can always make a post na, I'm very sure the Mods didn't restrict you.

Women are the ones who suffer the most in relationships

Not really, you're looking at the less than 10% of men who has the option to do as they like, while forgetting most men will be thankful to get just one woman in their lives.
Men have to do a lot to even get a small percentage of women to reply him, and you dare say women lose what ?

, but they choose to be silent while most of you men would nag and play victims over an issue that you started but failing to finish

Maybe when women start doing the chasing, investing, marriage vows etc then we can talk.

The Op is making a decent point, albeit is in a disjointed way. But the base is valid.
Now you go make valid post and see what happens.

If you work on yourself and keep upgrading yourself you will make it better in foreign land with prayer.

So you won't make in Nigeria if you do these ? Olodo oshi. IF you're a failure in Nigeria. you're more than likely be a failure elsewhere.

Stay in Nigeria dey confuse people.

Nigeria with low or no taxes VS Oyinbo collecting almost all your money in taxes then you still dey shit on the ground.
Now who dey confuse ? Later u go dey shout oyinbo racism. Abeg stay there ooo

Ignore her, she will find person.

She is not beautiful, she is just average but she is good!

Of course she's NOT beautiful. Beautiful girls for don get a lot of other options na.

But I am not really into her like she is into me.

She's not beautiful so... no surprises.

This girl calls me almost everyday!!! It is as if I had her kidney..
Sometimes I ignore her calls and I don't even call her at all but she keeps doing her calling like it is her job.

I was hoping she would read the message I was passing to her but she was not..

What made me think so is the fact that recently, she told me that she turned down someone because she likes me..

Don't worry, she go get tired. They always do.

Weirdcamila:
A wise man avoids women.
Two is a crowd.

A wise man have at least two stable women in order boost competition.

Ogbeni, this one is cheating ADULTERY. That's why you're afraid.
This happens because:
1. You're scared of your wife
2. Wife is better in some ways than the side chick.
3. You've never told your wife you'd fornicating or have another woman.

All in all, these are the traits of a weakling. The rest of us just tell our wife, madam, no be only you ooo!

Can u show us where the homeless dey ? Where dem match shit on top ground ? Oya sow us na.
Keep deceiving people about the crap cities.

MasterJayJay:
Biden 79 years old is seen riding a movable bicycle with one hand.

You forgot the version where Biden fell down:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=5QFpPIx7rXo
They're both the similar in this. At least Tinubu get sense and dey do am in doors.

All Clichés

ObamaMessi:
Women are all useless regardless of their origin.

This is evidently untrue, historically inaccurate and factually incorrect.
If woman don scam or cheat on you, use am learn, NOT every women are like you Nairaland female thugs.

She said no sex till marriage, mean while she isn't a vergin

So, the fourth day, sex happened but I discovered dt, her pussy was too wide, I didn't enjoy it

That's the definition of a vergin, this guy don't know anything.

I called her n informed her dt, her pussy was too wide n she wasn't happy . She blocked me n stopped taking calls

Man look like he don dey get sense

After some days , she picked n I begged her cuz, she is a lovely person.

Alas, vagina was stronger.

But I dnt know if I can g t married to her

Wetin, u go marry dis one oo. In fact she don get belle

D day I met her, she informed me dt she dated her guy for 6years, I want to believe dt, d long years relationship would v contributed to d wide pussy so, it's not her fault .

How old are you ? 22 ?
Have you checked her phone ? Her Instagram ?

Pls dis gal is young and hard working but, I want advice. Shd I take her serious , since it's obvious dt, her 6years relationship might v led to d pussy been dt wide?
Is always threatening me wit taken my name to her church alter if I shd leave her.....she isn't demanding.....24years old lady

You no get sense, GO FIND A VIRGIN, THIS IS NOT YOUR WIFE!

Olodo oshi, na fornication wan destroy you life like this ?
No be today, dem plenty outside. Let guess, you're NOT a broke guy ?

Many of these men will not bother with a mature and independent lady because they know these type of ladies will see them for the coward and failure that they are

Correct, why bother old car when you can get new one for less price (sometimes even Indomie or table water).

A 35yrs old woman is mature enough to know what she wants, but no, they won't go for her

You're a 35 yo and you're far from mature like Buhari is far from his 2015 promises.

They will rather be disturbing Young girls in their prime and be looking for virgin up and down

I mean... it's a free market.

MITCHELL96:
Nigerian ladies will choose the one that can knack well as they don't have sense na.

Women don't care if a man can cook or not.

If you open their head na different type of DICK and timetable for DICK APPOINTMENT full their head.

It's your problem if all you attract is prostitutes.

These simps are the most dangerous to women. Wish they'd both listen.
Simps can't just help themselves in the sight of half-pretty women, let alone sth more.

Assuming all these are actually true and NOT some fake outrage.

This is definitely a post made by a woman - on her period. It lacks substance, riddled with inconsistencies and using exceptions as rules everywhere.
This is what they do when they're in similar situation and needs a cope. Madam, you don reach 30 and no husband, shit happens. No need to be normalizing an obvious cope.