Nairaland General › Re: Nairalanders, Realise The Damage You Do. by Inkman(m): 9:51pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
akunjohn: To cut the long story short,what you mean is that you are too old to laugh your trouble off. I always come to nairaland to unwind after all the wahala of the day,You have to see life in a very exciting way. All the banter sometimes makes us to come here and laugh off our problems. DesChyko: If no one was intending to address this issue, perhaps we should get it over and done with. It is difficult to be precise in talking about this without being derogatory to the affected person(s), myself included, but I'll try to maintain civility. If there's anything I could notice about Nairaland in the seven years I've been an active follower of this forum, it is the decrease of quality original content and the increase of 'juvenile tendencies' in this forum. 'Age' they say, 'is not maturity', but if you really assess the predominantly insulting nature of the 'new crop' of Nairalanders, you must be forced to really weigh the real influence of age in the decision making of individuals. Experience is the best teacher, and that is something that gets better with age. I've tried selling Nairaland as a site to get updated on information to people within the age range of 25-60 and I must say their feedback is not at all encouraging. After viewing the 'comments' of Nairalanders, only few of those within the lower age-grade (20s) appreciated the comments by the 'Nairalanders' under each post as being funny/entertaining. Majority dismissed the insulting banters as childish and were thus, not interested in associating credibility with this forum. We can certainly learn from our peers and 'younger ones' but taking away the knowledge and experience of those whom have seen more years than we have will make a charade of any attempt at learning in both formal and informal settings. We can't expect professionals and veterans in all walks of life to spend their time playing 'nannies' or spectators' over feuding inexperienced individuals where their professional opinion would have been of great benefits. Perhaps, I should be particular, there is this thread on frontpage where a nairalander hinted at the unfeasibility of campaign promises of the president-elect, citing challenges and deficits with detailed figures and explanations. I myself, having been a critic of an identical modus operandi employed by the Imo State governor for almost three years now was looking forward to broaden my knowledge with submissions on that thread, while looking forward to present a similar criticism of the (hopefully) governor-elect methods. What did I notice instead? The entire comments on that thread begs for professionalism. A cacophony of supports without significant buttressing and counters without commensurate detailed calculations summarised the futility of hoping to learn from the 'frontpage Nairalanders'. The only field majority of them recorded A was of course, in making sure the accompanying insults were monstrous enough to provoke a weak-willed 'Nairalander' into a battle of 'mentions' and 'battery'. The only word for this is 'PATHETIC'. Spaces and logic reserved for 'experts' were taken over by 'who-knows-whats', evidenced by their complete lack of knowledge in the discourse. I think we need to slow down and think for a minute. Here we are crying 'foul play' at South Africa's tolerance of Xenophobia, screaming 'off with you' at the nosy US Govt, making sure our disgust at their antics were heard, but are we really qualified to do that? What image are we painting of ourselves? Knowledgeable? Tolerant? What exactly justifies our stand against their inadequacies? These abominations we call 'comments' (contributions) to matters that require in-depth knowledge? I personally think the moderators are being too lenient. I'll leave us with two key phrases: 1. Tact is having nothing to say and saying nothing. 2. Violence (insults) is the final resolve of the incapable. Have a nice 'night'. akunjohn: To cut the long story short,what you mean is that you are too old to laugh your trouble off. I always come to nairaland to unwind after all the wahala of the day,You have to see life in a very exciting way. All the banter sometimes makes us to come here and laugh off our problems. |
Politics › Re: What Is It With Olusegun Obasanjo And US Presidents? by Inkman(m): 9:44pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
living it up! Ebora owu as he tore his membership card was pdp torn to shreds. |
Celebrities › Re: Pic!!!! Chai When You Want To Date Dangote Daughter. by Inkman(m): 9:37pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
 more like when you want to be dangote's Clown |
Art, Graphics & Video › Re: Amazing Art Work... Can You Tell Which Direction He Is Facing by Inkman(m): 9:19pm On Apr 20, 2015*. Modified: 10:05pm On Apr 20, 2015 |
facing frontal side aka 2face |
Politics › Re: Buhari Meets And Speaks With Journalists At His Daura Home, Katsina (photos) by Inkman(m): 10:53am On Apr 18, 2015 |
mai gaskiya |
Romance › Re: Five Ways To Tell If A Girl Has Grown To Being A Lady. by Inkman(m): 10:32pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
1 2 3 and 5 are on point i dont see any reason why my woman shouldn't air her views in an open conversation even when she isnt being directly referred to. |
Phones › Re: Mass Protest Tomorrow All MTN Users Switch Off Their Phone by Inkman(m): 10:15pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
victor2008: Let the change start maybe you should suggest porting to a different network |
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Politics › Re: Igbos Existed Before Adam by Inkman(m): 8:51pm On Apr 17, 2015 |
hmm interesting  |
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Celebrities › Re: Comedian Sir James Lavishes N.3m On Gadgets! by Inkman(m): 1:58pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
na there you go fear 'ad sense'  btw i only knw pa james of papa ajasco na im dey the pic? |
Music/Radio › Re: (creative)what I Made Whith The Symbol In My Phone (a Must See) by Inkman(m): 1:51pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
nice creative indeed new media art huh |
Crime › Re: [photo] See The Woman Who Kidnappped The Orekoya Boys And Magodo Kids by Inkman(m): 1:37pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
what a waste
beware! that of innocence it masks a thousand violence.. |
Politics › Re: Aftermath Of Elections!!! Two Men Divorce Wives For Voting For Apc by Inkman(m): 1:30pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
SHARIAREPORTERS what's really your problem? do you need to visit a psychologist ?
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Politics › Re: Aftermath Of Elections!!! Two Men Divorce Wives For Voting For Apc by Inkman(m): 1:26pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
the dude on my roof is just a sore loser a blind hater high on some cheap goof  |
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Politics › Re: Ekiti APC Lawmakers Insist On Fayose’s Impeachment by Inkman(m): 1:18pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
hmm fayo how market |
Politics › Re: Photos: Obanikoro Reacts To Nigerians Killed In South African Xenophobic Attack by Inkman(m): 1:16pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
Mr koro tweeting is not the same thing as working oo hope you don't end with a few tweets and expect Nigerians in SA to be automatically safe |
Politics › Re: See Them OOO!! See The 10 Most Influencial Politicians In Nigeria. by Inkman(m): 1:10pm On Apr 16, 2015 |
hmm |
Phones › Re: It's Official Burna Boy Is Breaking Guinness World Records With TECNO BOOM J7 by Inkman(m): 8:20am On Apr 16, 2015 |
Oluwa Burna we dey with you i hope the techno boom is worth all the hype |
Politics › Re: Amaechi To Get The Position He'd Always Wanted. by Inkman(m): 4:52pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
when Weak-A shows rivers people his true form which is already visible to us... Rivers people will cry for an Amaechi only then will they know who their true betrayers are... I pray its not too late by then. |
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Politics › Re: Igbos Want FCT Ministerial Slot by Inkman(m): 11:50am On Apr 15, 2015*. Modified: 5:05pm On Apr 15, 2015 |
lol ok but last i checked Abj didn't have lag.oon  *mod* can we give it to Ngige?  i know they'll still kick... *in M.I.'s voice* which kain pikin be dis** |
Politics › Re: Buhari To End Fuel Subsidy, Rationalise Mdas by Inkman(m): 11:26am On Apr 15, 2015 |
LordTudor: Summary
1. Fuel Prices to go up soon (even though GMB and APC criticized GEJ and instigated public protest against this in 2012).
2. Mass sacking of workers in MDAs.
3. GMB clueless about what to do until October 2015.
4. GMB to focus on insecurity, corruption and unemployment (But still cannot tell us how he will do this. I hope he's not thinking that merging EFCC, ICPC would automatically translate to fighting corruption. Meanwhile, in other news, GMB already saying "don't expect magic from me"
5. Our manifesto reflects zero tolerance for corruption. (I hope Amaechi, Fashola and Tinubu are going to jail for stealing from Rivers and Lagos State to fund political campaigns).
6. Some of GEJ's programmes e.g agriculture and power reforms were SUCCESSFUL and would be CHANGE CONTINUED. (I thought he said the GEJ's government was a failure).
7. Tinubu's Alpha Beta template for tax collection now to be used nationwide. (Hmnn...Asiwaju don hammer!. Now you know why the passionate kissing of Oluremi "the slowpoke" Tinubu) are you that pained that you no longer desire a better life? Better dont bring a curse upon yourself thank me later |
Politics › Re: Buhari To End Fuel Subsidy, Rationalise Mdas by Inkman(m): 11:23am On Apr 15, 2015 |
i will never support a lost cause
i believe in change change is here Nigeria will be great again |
Celebrities › Re: Fans Mock Cynthia Morgan For Piercing Her Nose (see) by Inkman(m): 10:20am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Holmes07: [/b][font=Lucida Sans Unicode][/font] Mr English teacher u shld av used ''did'' instead ov ''do'' And Mr shrek.. "How do you pass English examinations" is faultless. [b] its shows the author is appalled by the sheer massacre of English and wonders how the "lil-miss" manages or intends to pass English Examinations. Hope you've been enlightened? Thank me later  |
Jokes Etc › Re: Please Describe This Negro In One Word by Inkman(m): 7:16am On Apr 15, 2015 |
nutcase |
Politics › Re: Rotimi Amaechi : You See Your Life? Picture by Inkman(m): 6:41am On Apr 15, 2015 |
Amaechi is a great man He is a hero and will forever have my respect his name shall be engraved in gold upon the plaque of history |
Politics › Re: Why Buhari Is A Certified Illeterate, Criminal -see Proof by Inkman(m): 4:32am On Apr 15, 2015 |
OP you just certified yourself as nairaland's first illiterate. |
Romance › Re: hi by Inkman(m): 5:59pm On Apr 14, 2015 |
hmm! |