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[q1uote author=ZaOzaRoom post=75247440]I'm planning on taking a quick credit loan of 150K from GTBank.
If you have taken a loan from them before please share your experience.[/quote]

Ive been married 5 years, the sex is good and usually regular (providing we're not fighting) but my husband has been having sex with me while I'm asleep. I know it sounds crazy! Im a very heavy sleeper and he's taking advantage of it. On a few occasions I've awoke to him fingering me and about to put it in, if he knows I'm waking up, he stops. I am all for being woke up for sex but what is driving me crazy is that he stops every time and pretends like he isn't doing anything. I hate sleeping in clothes, I'm a naked sleeper but I don't think that is an open invitation right?

Last weekend, I woke up again to him trying to get his dick in me, he froze until I acted like I was still asleep, I wanted to see how far this was going to go. I pretended to sleep and wake up 3 different times, everytime I "woke up" he pulled out, heart racing and held me in position real tight until I fell back asleep, finally he finished all over me and went to get up to get a towel and I said.... was that good for you? HE TRIED TO ACT LIKE HE WAS ASLEEP!!! I told him I was awake the whole time and asked why he did that and why he thought it was okay. His answer...I was Hot, it wont happen again.

Fast forward a week...I haven't been talking to him all week. I go to bed with clothes on all week because the thought of him doing it again just disgust me. I confront him about it, he acts like it's no big deal, I'm his wife so it should be fine, he wouldn't care if I did that to him and when I asked why he stopped when I woke up he says because he knew I'd be mad, he didnt want to get caught. I am trying to wrap my head around the whole thing. I'm pretty open minded, if it was a fettish or something, maybe I could be ok with it but he will not give me anything.

At this point in feel like I can't trust him anymore and I don't know what to do. Has anyone else ever dealt with this? Do you think I should believe him? He is only admitting to doing it this 1 time even though I've told him I've caught him before.

To the woman my husband loves

I hope you know how he likes his eggs. I hope he showed you how he likes to cuddle in bed at night. How he isn't very confrontational, or so he says, but he loves to pick a fight. I hope you know he's destroyed my life, and my son's life, all for you. He'll probably give you his mother's ring, the same one he gave me, not very long ago. I hope you like the church he goes to, and how hypocritical he is even though he claims to be a godly man. I hope you go to church with him on Sunday, because I wouldn't. I hope you can sit through every family gathering at the same overpriced restaurant, and know when and how to speak to his family. I hope you know he doesn't like it when you don't text back immediately, because if you're too preoccupied to text him, you must be cheating.

I hope he tells you all his secrets and lets you read his prayer journal. He probably has some bullshit in there about how he's trying desperately to save our marriage even though he's been fucking you since before we were even married. I hope you aren't too opinionated, he hates that. I hope you never cut your hair or lose a little bit of weight, because he hates that too. He only sleeps on the left side of the bed so get used to being by the wall. Enjoy outings with his mother, who'll beg you to leave him because he'll only break your heart and lead you on.

I hope you know you lifted a huge weight off my shoulders. Trying to be perfect all the time is fucking exhausting. I hope you can do it. I hope you enjoy being yelled at when you don't answer the phone after the first ring and having shit hurled at you from across the room because things don't go his way. I hope you are fucking prepared.

But most of all, thank you for convincing him to leave. The toxicity and resentment was taking a toll on me, mentally and emotionally. I can not thank you enough for your help. Thank you for convincing him to file for divorce. We have no property or kids together, so it should be a breeze. Thank you. If you hadn't been there for him, who knows. I may have been stuck with the bastard for life. I'm not mad he cheated on me with you. I'm sad. Sad that he'll put another woman through his miserable bullshit, all in the name of "love".

I hope you know what you're getting into. Best of luck

Please Airtel, Don't be unfortunate like Mtn

Massive recruitment for 30k job. Meanwhile Buhari daughter works at NNPC with 6.7 million per month salary. Massive recruitment

'Even on handcuffs, he was pointing and challenging Tyranny'
Kanu that Japaa?? ��

if i hear say i click

So Mtn wants to start scamming children now

Darkseid:
One thing that most people fail to realise is that commercial bike riders make more money than your average banker let alone a keke driver or bus driver. Those guys make over 200k every month, it's just that most of them have been wired to remain poor.

200k? You spoilt your own argument with this exaggerated figure. Enough with the lies oga kai. Boys go just dey lie

Dear Op , is this what you want to spend your entire existence doing? All you do is talk about celebs. Of what value is this to you and the society?

Back To Airtel�

I tell you one thing , IF YOU WANT TO BE GREAT IN LIFE, be careful with the way you condemn people.. don't let hatred cloud your judgement. Dear OP what exactly do you think you will gain from this? Likes? Is your aim in life simply to trend on Nairaland? Be wise.

What did you buy?

AnonyNymous:
Best thing to do is to get a 4G sim, since I got one I've never had any problems with speed. Even in the far away Ekiti.

Please is there a separate 4G enabled sim?

All these noise for a bunch of thieves. See how we defend them? This type of mentality needs to stop

Whether my vote counts or not I am going to VOTE. All of a sudden, they telling us our votes won't count. They have seen the rate at which people are collecting their PVC. Especially national and state assembly election, i must vote.

Are there Christians in Iraq ?

Your rant session is hilarious, speak for yourself and stop generalising.

But you are doing exactly the same thing. You just opened a thread to beat around the bush. I wish women can talk about things bothering them instead of emotionally shutting their men out when things don't go well. Bottling things up is dangerous.

dudebuck:
you did not vote JOnathan out, you certainly will not vote out Buhari.

Just the same way people never believed Jonathan could lose. Stay ignorant bro

HiddenShadow:
Because Jonathan is a democrat.

In a democratic system, voting simply translates to sending out the right message to the government. It is only fair that a non-performing government should be punished, and one that has been doing a good job be appreciated and voted to power. And this is the responsibility of every citizen of the country.

HiddenShadow:
Because Jonathan is a democrat.

You have proven my point why votes count. Blessings to you and yours. Organise! Don't agonise!!

Your whole argument is anecdotal evidence, the fact that u copied n pasted this makes it clear that u have nothing of value to contribute. If u don't want to vote fine , but don't come here and spread misinformation and filth. Voting doesn’t count yet politicians bribe folks at polling units? Say something of value or shut your ass up.

Voting doesn’t matter , yet Hillary was defeated by Trump.. Can u see the loopholes in your logic. I can give u more examples

2018 , these m0rons still joining cults. Loosers

If votes don't count then how was Jonathan voted out? I'll wait