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Ok, its dabing2008@yahoo.com. Hope you are doing good. God will make your joy complete. Say me well to DH.

Hmmmmm, this thread has gradually come alive, I thank God so much.
@yeni, a big congratulations, this is the Lord's doing and it is marvelous in our sight, this goes to show that our God is able to do ALL THINGS. Congrats and happy 9months.
@pet.b. I wish I had followed my heart in 2007 that I first went to Nisa hospital and we were asked to go for IVF, then we were considering d amount needed for it and we gave up. We were also 4years in marriage then. Who told DH that those who go into IVF don't have faith? God can still do it anyhow HE wants it but let ur hubby not see people who go for it as faithless. you can still talk to him though and maybe recommend this thread for him.
@Amazon1012, yea they are doing very well, my wife eats a lot these days : afang soup, editan, afia efere, roasted fish, ice cream etc. She has added so much weight, up to 12kg but she still looks gud though. Everyday I lay my hands on d tommy and prophesy upon them. they cant afford to fail, we have experienced all the delays for them, am sure God Has given them speed on every side already.
@All, thanks so much for all the prayers. Nogen my sister, you have not told me d latest dance step you are practicing, pls am waiting to hear from you. Pls Blendy we should not allow this thread to die, lets keep charging people up till God will turn around our captivity. Love you all.

@Abibby, we are doing very well, she had an appointment today and God is really in control, we are trusting Him to push to wk 36, we started shopping for those great Generals two weeks back, its really fun buying things for 'our own'. Up until now we have been doing it for our nieces n nephews, cousins etc. God is so faithful.
Sincerely the thread is dull, pls lets know what is going on sisters so as to join you in prayers.
Nogen, Venuss, Safe06, Oviasouth, Charisjaden, Honeybony and the rest of my sisters, I know God will soon visit you people, He knows the right time to do it, please don't be despair, He is faithful.
@Ebony13, thanks so much, my joy wont be complete till I hear this good news go round to all of you.

@Bucacious, it is well with you. Am happy with your level of faith. I can remember when we lost ours too at week 10 in Oct 2011, it was very traumatic but we had to trust God for a turn around. Pls be encouraged and push on. it is well with you.
@All, hope you are all doing fine. God is so faithful to us, we will be at week 24 on Friday, God is doing us good and I know He will answer all our prayers and heart deepest sigh IJN... Amen.
@Blendy, hope the boys are doing good, I can only imagine how you are coping with their 'wahala' and work, the Lord is your strength. Greet them for us.

Lol @Venuss, How man go do now? I read one of these science courses in school so we do ask a lot of questions, we don't work with assumptions, some people may view some of our questions as silly. But this your quadruplets wish na waoooo, this triplets is a handful already, you need to see how my wife sleeps at night, I think this number is ok for now, al the scan results still show triplets, we hope to check their sexes maybe next week, everything is moving very well to His glory and praise. I hereby pass on d baton to you and the rest of my sisters in that our IVF thread.

@tjkii, thanks so much my sister for this good work. I want to assure you that I believe JEHOVAH JIREH, He is able to do it, I want to give them the best that I can, I have waited this long for them, so no moi moi, lol. I will do my best and I know God will help me. Besides, I have very supportive sisters in Blendy, Venuss, Oviasouth, CharisJaden, Nogen, Safe06 and the rest of my sisters in Ivf thread who will continue to pray along with me for God's openings, therefore, NO SHAKING.
Aaah , exclusive breastfeeding, u want kill my wife? Lol. We will start stocking their food a month to their arrival, pls do well to mention some of the formular that we can use. Thanks so so much for all your efforts, may God increase you on every side.

@Ticha, a big congratulations, thanks for sharing the good news here finally. I sincerely didn't know much about you and I had to read some of your posts in the Weight lost thread, I must confess you are doing a good work there and to think that you gave details of your procedure there (i.e DR, Stimming, EC, ET) is very amazing. I wish you a happy and stress-free remaining part of the gestation period.
And to my other sisters, God will do it for you all, He is able to do it. Bless you all.

tjskii: Uw,glad to see my posts wernt in vain ,as per d prices I just put up wat I got mine for as at almost 18 months ago,thyr just sposd to be a guide,u cud get them cheaper or more xpensive now,and of course bear in mind that certain brands are more xpensiv than others

Thanks so much for the list, its been of immense help to me, this is exactly what we were discussing this morning with my wife and I assured her that I will get every info that we need and this list has come handy now. Pls if u still have any other items to add don't hesitate, and for multiple do I need to buy all these items by the number they are or can some items be shared? What are those things that can be shared? Pls forgive me if the questions look silly.

@Tontolo, it is well, some of us have the same experience (the insensitivity of the doctors). Where we did our first two cycles the doctor was so insensitive. He only used us to equip his clinic, he was too full of himself, was after our money, didn't empathize with us. Till today I still regret going there. I would have mentioned his clinic but he is one of the members of a team that is in charge of my wife's antenatal in National Hospital. My wife said when he saw her, he exclaimed 'Mrs ...., is it u?, oh the Lord is good. Congrats, am so happy'. Pls my sister, move on with ur life, our God will lead u aright as He led us to FertilAid. It is well with you.
Gimnaeto, Tanidabi, Honeybony, Slushia, Venuss, Abibby pls what is going on? I hope u sisters have not thrown in the towel, u cant do that because the miracle is nearer now than ever, pls keep the fire burning, no going back. If we couldn't stop after the failed attempts till we got our result, I prophesy upon you people that nothing can stop you till your miracles come to fruition in Jesus name.....Amen.
Am singing Potters' house song for u ppl.
' I have listened to you,
I have heard your requests,
I've come to tell you,
That it's only a test just hold on,
Be strong just hold on, this test is your storm,
It wont be long just go through, hold on'.
God bless you all, please if I haven't mentioned your name doesn't mean I don't have you at heart, though I speak with some of you on phone very regularly, God bless you real good and answer all our requests in Jesus name..... Amen.

Am so thankful to God for doing this great thing, am happy some other person is talking about Dr Shaibu cos at a point i sounded as his PRO. Nothing gladdens ones heart like referring someone to a place to get his/her need met. I thank God for this forum too, many more ppl are going to be blessed too, just get ready my sisters still waiting. I still have ppl here that we talk on phone very often n am happy they are making progress in their procedures. GOD BLESS U ALL.

@safe06, she is not in Abj, she got the information from this thread and called my number, she eventually visited the clinic sometime ago, maybe you can just read her earlier posts and you will know that God is faithful. She has one kind strong faith that I have never seen anywhere, and her faith has paid off.

Congrats my sister, and to think that there was a serious impediment and you had to come from that far distance to get the treatment shows the kind of strong spirit that you have there. Am so happy for you and am trusting God that soonest Abibby, oviasouth, Nogen, CharisJaden, Safe06, and d rest of my sisters will also come to testify. Congrats, take time and rest and take ur cyclogest religiously.

@Akintrr1, we are very fine, I have been a bit busy though I have been visiting this forum almost on daily basis and I still speak with some sisters here on phone. The lord is very faithful, we did a scan again on the 29/05/13, they are doing very well.
Pls let me share this: know that when the battle is very fierce, the war will soon come to an end. We almost ended our marriage when my wife started suspecting me last year, she was listening to so many people and acted very unruly, I thank God for the wisdom and the grace He gave to us to weather that storm. Pls when you see your partner is behaving funny during this trying moment just exercise a little patience because you may not know what God is planning and may God cause every war we may be facing come to an abrupt end IJN..... Amen.
Abbyy, Nogen, Oviasouth, Venuss, CharisJaden, T-wallpaper, Safe06 and the rest of my sisters here I hope you people are doing fine. Pm05337 I hope your Madam is doing fine. Love you all and I know God will definitely answer all our prayers, pls don't give up, don't give in, God is in control and will wipe away all our tears.
@Blendy77, I hope the boys are doing good, thanks for the good work you are still doing here, it is God who will reward you.
@Pikinmama, thanks for all the encouragement and love, pls know that we love you so much here and we appreciate what you are doing here. God will bless you.

@Safe06, it is well with you, just get prepared cos they will soon arrive in doubles n triples as u desire. I had a little pity for my wife yesterday in church when she couldn't dance as she used to because of those great Generals in her womb,that will soon be ur portion and the rest of my sisters in TTC and IVF threads which you are one of my greatest sisters in those threads. Continue with ur good work there n trust God to perfect it for you. take care.

@Amdman, u have just made me shed tears again, trust me i know how you feel having been there quite longer than you have been. The thing is that, we wish it could happen sometimes the way we plan it, I actually thought I could have the number of children i needed within the first seven years of my marriage so as to settle down n groom them, but it was never to be. My brother just commit your ways to God, do the needful and trust Him to fix it up for you, by His grace I will soon be a father after so many years, Come 27th May, 2014 i will be celebrating with my children by His grace. I trust God to do it for you too, it is well with you. Pls stand by your wife and encourage her, the Almighty God will visit you sooner than you could ever expect it. Bless you.

@Amatu, it is well, that is not the end of the road, the Almighty God is working things out for you, at His own time He will manifest His glory in your life, so be encouraged. God bless you.

Oh praiseeeeeeee the Lord. This is one news i have been desiring to hear in this forum, its been awhile now, am happy the floodgate for more of BFPs is now open for Nogen, oviasouth, Abibyy, Charisjaden, T-wallpapers,Venuss, Safe06, Mostmerciful, Honeybony, Beloved1993, Smiler, Slushia, Tanidabi and the rest of my sisters in God's waiting room to announce theirs. Our God is faithful to do it. Bucacious- congratulations and may God keep you strong and healthy through out the gestation period.

@Blendy77, trust be when it comes to issues like that, I will do it and am trusting God to give me my heart desire, however am relaxed and I know He knows the best for us. How are those great men? I hope they are not stressing you too much. One man called from Jos and mentioned how this thread has been of immense help to his family, he needed your e-mail address which i had to give to him since he said he wanted some pieces of advice from you this morning. He said he has been a silent reader for a while now. Pls keep on the good work here and know that our God will reward you abundantly, thanks for being such a great instrument in God's hand to add meaning to peoples' lives. Bless you my sister.

@Beloved1993 I really salute your courage and the attempt to move on with another cycle this soon, it is always good to get over things we know we cant change. I thank God for the grace granted you, I pray this cycle yields the desired result.
@Smiler, I thank God for your resilience and resolute spirit, thanks for not giving up too soon because God will compensate you for all you may have lost in this whole exercise, He will cause you to forget all the pains because He is going to do something that will cause you not to remember the past, you are blessed.
@Abibby, na soooo my sister, God is really faithful, our next antenatal visit is on Thursday, pls remember us in your prayers.
@All, I desire to see this thread as active as the TTC thread, God will definitely give us things to testify IJN.. Amen. Love you all.

@safe06 we are very fine, the Lord Has been so faithful, u cant believe we are already in our week 16 and those great Generals started kicking y/day, we had to google 'fetal movement in the womb' and we saw that what they have started already was normal at their stage, it is fun knowing that i will soon be a father.
@Nogen my sister pls go ahead with it, ours we did it in Nov n if not d tight schedule we had in Dec we would done it then. Remember u must come to Abj wit a big tommyooo, bless you.

@all, pls why is d house so quiet? Does it mean we dont have anything to share? God of all creations, please give us the reason to make this thread very active by giving my sisters BFPs. We must all testify, the Lord who did it for us is quite able to do it for the rest of my people here.

Slushia, it is well. I am happy with your level of faith, God will never put you to shame, He will soon do something that will cause people to celebrate with you and all eyes shall see it. Please be encouraged, btw did you ask your doctor why d embie was dat grade, why wasnt atleast 3 fertilized, have you considered using donor eggs ( or how old are you)? Am sure with the answers to these questions people like Blendy, pikinmama etal will advise you on what to do next. Bless you my sister.
@All, it seems we have not had any cheering news lately, am believing God that very soon great news will start coming that will make us to forget all the BFNs that we seem to be recording. I wish all my sisters BFPs, God will turn things around very soon, just hold on to Him, it is well with us.

Happyyyy Anniversary my sister, i thank God for giving you the reason to rejoice, God is interested in making our joy complete. I rejoice with you and wish you many more happy moments in life, it is your season of joy.

Pls why is d house so quiet, has God left us or people dont have something to post? I know our God has not left us and will not leave us because He still has to visit Oviasouth, Gimnaeto, Venuss, Abibyy, Mostmerciful, Honeybony, T~wallpapers, Nogen and the rest of my sisters in this forum! CharisJaden n Slushia i usher u into a week dat u must get ur bfps, you people have exercised great faith n i trust God He wont fail you people, am so proud of your confessions and faith, it is well with you.

@Gimnaeto, it is well. at this point no word is strong enough to console you, but our God is faithful to help you out, pls dont give up the fight for you will surely win. There is nothing impossible with God, He is able to wipe away your tears. It is well with you.

@Gimnaeto, pls relax n do ur blood test moro, am awaiting ur bfp testimony moro, go and conquer. It is well wit u.

@Honeybony, the lord is your strength, i know it is hard to praise God under this circumstance but you must do it because this is what will make the devil go mad ( when he must of thought you will be down and out). God is working things out for you my dear, He will wipe away your tears.
@Slushia,i like your spirit and your expectations shall not be cut off, I join you in prayers and i trust God strongly that whether D-grade or Z, God can still use it for His own glory, continue to be positive.
@Gimnaeto, if i hear you exercise any fear again i will take permission from your DH and give you a serious knock on your head, lol. Seriously, pls just relax and pray,the Lord is able to fix it up for you, pls read that Slushia's post again because you were even complaining of your B-grade. God bless you, am awaiting your bfp testimony.
@CharisJaden, it is well with you, keep faith alive and know that the God of all flesh, in whom there is nothing impossible will do it for you IJN Amen. take time and rest and pray, it is well with you.
@Zoefavour, congrats and I beleive God that he will give you the strength to carry it to full term.

Congrats my sister, God is really awesome, may God keep you safe and sound to carry it to full term. Even if its advert let it be, you don't owe anybody any apology, when somebody does something good he should be talked about and recommended to others. I know its God that uses these great doctors who put on human face, who will ever tell me not to talk about Dr. Shaibu Sunday? Abeg leave matter for Mathias, it is well with you, i need more of this testimony in this forum, I am happy people are really encouraged with what we are doing here. @Blendy your 'little' effort is paying off, more grease to your elbow.

@Peace5050, Fertil Aid Clinic is a fertility clinic run by Dr Shaibu Sunday at Gwarinpa Estate in Abuja, you can check my previous posts and you will get every info you need about them. We did our 3rd-5th cycles there.
@All, we are going to start our antenatal on Friday at National Hospital, our doctor actually gave us a letter to one of the consultants who will really be of help and is good in managing multiple preg. See me am now talking of ANTENATAL, the same word I used to hear from people's mouth, God is truly wonderful, i know He will do same to every of my people here.
@Gimnaeto, how u dey? Which day u go break that goodnews of bfp? pls stay calm and know that God is working things out for you, we have you and the rest of my people here in our prayers. Love you all.

Peace5050, you are welcome on board, I thank God for giving me another brother after pm05337, by God's grace we will keep growing because this struggle shouldn't be painted as the 'women's thing', we must be actively involved. I quite understand how you feel because i have been there, several suggestions like the issue of herbs from one Ijaw woman here in Abuja; impreganating a girl who will bear children for me without the consent or knowledge of my wife; meeting one prophet who will carry out series of deliverances for us. But I vowed not to do anything that will not bring glory to God. God has never and will never fail those who trust in Him. Please sisters be praying for your husbands, you dont know how many pieces of advice and suggestions we get everyday, I trust God to still keep your husbands focused and cause them to stand by you all the way.
@Nogen my sister, it might interest you to know that we had bfp at our 1st trial( though we lost it at week10), the 2nd cycle was still done there but it failed, but when i noticed they were not caring that was when we moved to Fertil Aid. The 1st cycle there we didnt have enough embies so Dr Shaibu was constrained to do tranefer at day 3, our 2nd cycle we had enough quality embies did blastocyst transfer, when that one failed that was when our Dr asked whether flushing was done after that cycle that we had miscarriage and thereby recommended hysteroscopy for us which we did in November last year, we started our 3rd cycle there in January and here we are today, almost at our week 13.
Why I am restating this is to show you how far we have gone and that: yes it is good to take necessary precautions so as to achieve bfp at 1st attempt but the whole thing still lies in God, He alone determines what happens at any time, the only thing I will advice is that we shouldn't give up. we must keep trying. As Blendy rightly said, if yours works out at 1st trial thank God, if it doesnt still thank God and move on, dont give up. I have a colleague who went as far as India but had bfn, she came back and did it here in Diff and got twins ( a boy and a girl), you can go anywhere but know that everything lies in our God. God bless you all.

salsera: Our babies are here! Congrats believer84!!!
Are they identical? Oh this is such great news oooh!. Seems you have handed over the baton to inwangobio for triplets, and I wonder who inwangobio will handover the next triplets on this thread.

Trust me,i have a very long list of people we have already handed over the baton in the spirit to: Oviasouth, Nogen, Gimnaeto, Abibyy, T-wallpapers,Mostmerciful, and the rest of my sisters too numerous to mention,(as many as who desire it), God is faithful to do it. Pls keep the faith alive.

Congrats Believer, this our God is so faithful. The princesses will continue to grow in wisdom and statue, and in favour with God and men, may God provide the means to give them the best in life. And to think that you are one of the sisters who have made this thread what it is today, i say God bless you real good. I also pray for and key into the strength to carry ours to full term as you have done. I wish my sisters still in God's waiting room this same testimony.
@ T-wallpaper, all thanks to God who is just using this forum to touch lives, we are only instruments in His hands. May God bless all our efforts in Jesus Name.... Amen.

CharisJaden2013: Hello everyone. I am so glad to have found this forum. It has really helped and encouraged me a lot. God bless the creator of this ivf nairaland forum and all the wonderful people that have been sharing their testimonies to bless and encourage others. A big Thumb up to Inwangobio. You are one man in a million. God bless U Sir. @ pipkin mama, thank you for the tips. I am currently on my 3rd ( and hopefully last) ivf. I am due for egg retrieval tomorrow. Pls house pray along with me. Thank you and baby dust to all the beautiful mothers and fathers in waiting.

You are welcome and thanks for the compliments, we are happy you found the forum helpful,God will also give you a testimony that will encourage and help others in this journey. We (in this forum) are one big family so you can be sure we have you in our prayers, we also agree with you that this is your last cycle IJN...... Amen. Just keep us posted on every development and ask questions whenever you need clarification on any issue, we have some great sisters here who can give you true life experiences, God bless you.