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I was listening to the radio and this question was asked.. Please i need comments from people... What is wrong in a man taking his wife's surname?

I was listening to the radio and this question was asked.. Please i need comments from people... What is wrong in a man taking his wife's surname?

Ejikecarlos:
I also got the mail. If anyone has had an experience about the CBT, Can you please give us a hint or past questions? God bless

really looking forward to that day... Please whoever has a clue should help...

Well hope we get to the promise land... Please I want those in lagos to create a WhatsApp group let's follow up...

Let's not take it from them... They have one heart... I pray Nigerians will work with one mind like this someday

jesusjnr:
Try and sit at Jesus feet and learn if it's a good thing or a bad thing, because if the teaching you enjoy corresponds with His, then it's a good thing.

But if not then it's a bad thing, because at the end of the day it's Jesus that would decide every ones fate, and not someone else.

So it would be good for you to make sure that you do what He asks of you, so that at the end you would not start blaming the person whose teachings you were following, if they were contrary to His.

Yea it is

czarina:
I think it happens when you get too used to a particular preacher or church. Not good at all in my opinion.


Personally, being a member of Living Faith for over ten years, I can't stay in a Church beyond two hours, so I avoid going to other churches even when I'm invited.



Let me guess, you fellowship at Living Faith? Wrong?

Not winners... Dominion City... I feel guilty sometimes but I can't help it

I have been a particular member of a church but lately I discovered that when I get an invite to a particular church I come but I don't enjoy the preaching. Most times I end up pressing my phone through out... But if its my church I will record, take notes and be so focused. I'm confused now because I don't know of I'm doing the right thing. Is anyone else on this table?

Mizwisdom:
Under your parent's roof, he brings girls to sleep with? your parents are to blame

wow!!! Did I ever mentioned this here... Please read... Infact my parent doesn't even stay in Nigeria. I'm talking about battery here, not this you writing

Mizwisdom:
Talk to your parents they have failed woefully

you did not read what I wrote

Chubhie:
I believe you, brother and girlfriend are young. Experience is the best teacher. Once you guys have age on your side, make all the mistakes and hopefully learn from them.

what's your definition of young... I'm sure you did not read what I wrote...

5thElement:
So how old exactly is your brother who has an iPhone, brings girls into the house to bang and y'all still living with your parents in the same house?

I am trying to make sense of all of that.

men bring girls to the house even married men play games that is not my concern... I'm particular about he's battery life style not he's iphone (the fine face and iphone there was used to express a reason) and No we don't stay with our parent �

psalmsmiles:
bro, i`d advice you to firstly talk to your brother. His anger is inbuilt, i understand but as a man he has to control himself.
Sorry 2 ask but do you guys still live with ur parents? if it's you who pays the rent, i think you should start by giving him conditions to live with you like not bringing in girls but if u live with your parents, maybe u should consider moving out..
Sooner or later he's going to learn to control his anger, make wiser choices and be more responsible but what's going to happen b4 then is what you can't say..


Reason with him, bring him closer and if he doesn't want 2 change, give him space!

actually we stay alone... Its a two bedroom flat, he stays on he's side and me on mine. He pays more bills because he earns more apart from that every other thing you have written there I have done it... I almost ruined my reputation in church because the first time he came he got a fling with one of a vabriant sister and broke the girls heart... I wish he could start now... Because he should be married by now... Can't babysit forever

Shibaraba:
Obviously you've tried everything.
My advice is always be there with him when he starts his battery so you can minimise it or separate it if you can. Because one day water fit pass gari.

E never lead to serious police case thats why,if it has he will mellow.
Trust me,a trial will convince him

haba i cant be there for him always na... you have a point with the police thing sha, but this is Nigeria the effect might not be much...

https://www.nairaland.com/4191052/should-cover-up-hes-addicted

First of all happy new month...
May this month bring what we have been praying for to us... Amen

Its a lengthy one but its important, someone might need it

This was a topic I posted on 23th November 2017. My brothers battery life style after a few period of loving ...


Happened again yesterday... This time it was worst because the girl has anger issues like my brother...

They have been dating for over a year now and I was calmly telling my elder brother how aggressive this lady was because the signs were glaring but he said he was going to continue because atleast she will teach him how to calm down that he wants to learn how not to be a woman beater. I kept my cool for months...


Last month he told me how the girl cheated on her and he caught her red handed and even the friends confirmed it that she slept with someone in the friends compound and they did not want to tell him because they saw that he was loving her the more everyday but since he has found out she's a cheat that he should do the needful... He told me the friends were even planning on how to have sex with her in turns behind he's back. She goes to the friends compound anytime she feels like (be careful of people you call friends)

This girl leaves in Benin, we stay in lagos, my brother said he wants her to come to lagos so that a proper break up can happen, I was really mad telling him not to and even my cousin who is a girl and my aunt refused whatever reason he was bringing (one of the reasons is money, she helps him during financial crisis sometimes. Not me oh, I have sense not to fall for that ) but he refused. She came in the night they had sex almost immediately. So many things was going through my mind but I kept my cool, they started forming love birds the next day, I said cool.

I was bathing in the evening when I heard two people exchanging words, it was serious I had to just leave the house for both of them. Turned out she caught my brother cheating too (via text or whatever I couldn't tell). I left them because I don't want to hear non sense

I got calls from neighbors, told me to come and separate fight that they can't put their mouth in boyfriend and girlfriend issues. I came and I separated but I was ashamed because she opened my family and my brother to the whole compound and all who cared to listen, reigned insults on my mum, dad, aunts, even me that was standing there, called her people and was shouting that my brother has killed her.. I swallowed it all because I knew where the problem was coming from. It was really bad.. Even right now I'm crying because the anger in me can't come out because I locked it in... Yes I have anger issues too but I killed it years ago... Thank God for salvation ( yes I preached and we even attend the same church but you know siblings) .

I have been so quiet since yesterday. Landlord has come to warn us. Hearing side talk how they have no respect for me or my brother again (mad man has no shame is the family that carries the shame)

I have decided to start warning any lady that he brings home or that is forming love towards my brother... (Yes he's a fine dude and carries gadgets that easily catches ladies eyes. Eg Iphone x ) the problem is ladies get confused because I'm really cool and my girl and i has never had any open quarrel (we have issues alot but we handle them quietly and yes my girl knows I'm aggressive but she knows exactly how to handle it) so any lady that looks at us paint the picture that my brother will act likewise.

Ladies please study a family well not only the person in particular ask questions especially the ones any of the family member is dating they have a low key truth about the family...

Please what else should I do... I really need to do more because tomorrow it might be battery leading to death of any party

ShinqRambq:
Nairaland not Fantasy land.Oboy u nor get yearn

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ShinqRambq:
We have alot of Low-budget "Joro"s here in NL,always cumin up wit fake stories.I sori for d ones dat wasted or will waste deir comments and advice on a ficticious story.

wow, do you know someone's fiction is another's reality... Stop behaving like Buhari's 150 cows that refused to grow and multiply... I know you are smarter than that

Deicide:
So having sex with a girl is punishment for her some guys mumu sha.

Sha i blame society that made us to think women don't like sex.

Women love sex... Infact if you not giving them good to look for another guy that will...

Jayslicky:
Your friend is very foolish, why have mad sex with her, he is only giving her more pleasure and he is not making himself comfortable. There are other ways for payback.
1. Let him lead her on in the relationship to the point of marriage, then in flash dump her useless ass. In this time he should always use a condom when having sex with her and make sure she contributes to the fantasy wedding.

2. Send some of your friends that she doesn't know to hook her up and plan on catching her in the act. This is a less cruel method.

3. He should confront her and give her a hot slap, make sure you take what you her given in the past, that's if it's in your name.

4. Let him go and make more money and care less about her.

I advice he goes for no 4 but if he still feels angry he can go for no 1.

I'm so showing him this

emillysmigael:
Makes sense my brother... you did the right thing.
Been vengeful does not help anyone neither does it ease pains. He should just break-up with her already and move on.

I still don't understand his style of reasoning

Hello everyone, I have one major issue bothering me, I have heard of it but never has it happened to me or someone close till last week. My friend was suspecting that his girlfriend of 5years is cheating on him so my friend and I did an investigation and it turned out to be true. Well I told the guy to move on with his life or still collect money from her and just pretend you still love her if you really want to pay back but he said he wanted to pay her back with something worse, I never understood what he meant until this morning when he said he invited her over and he's going to have mad sex with her and break up with her, saw so many enhancing drugs, what got to me is that they have been having sex for 5years and some times mad sex, he tells me most times. What kind of mad sex will he give that will make a difference now before breaking up. I had serious quarrel with him and left his place.. I might be wrong though...

1 year and 11 months getting her down the aisle in December

This dude on Twitter caught his girlfriend cheating on him, he's reply was amazing
Watch the video


https://twitter.com/nyaikae/status/1088303739629387777?s=21

So I have been having sleepless nights and unable to look directly at my pastor. My friend and I did something wrong, at first I couldn't see anything wrong in it but it dawned on me when my friend lost his job and apartment and also got a ban from all church activities all in one day. It happened like this.... So we just finished our workers private meeting in church, a friend of mine just got a ban from church, losing his job, his apartment and on the verge of losing his work permit visa. It happened that one of our pastors uses his car for Uber (side hustle in the UK) and we that has been good workers in church had an opportunity to work and stay in a free apartment (the wife owns the company). On 30th of December 2018 my friend and I went to the club after we were done he called an Uber not knowing it was the pastor from church (wonder what he was doing in that area cos we went far). He came out from the club with a girl and entered, he was too drunk to know who was driving, they did all the touching and kissing and finally got to the hotel and dropped still not knowing who the driver was... I have been swallowing spit since. I was going home and he was going to an hotel different route so we took different Uber. Hmmmm... Is this how village people work?

Really confused oo

Happy Sunday nairalanders please I have asked my pastor and other few members who I believe should know but non of them is really giving me a worthy answer... I was in church when a couple came to thank God for a successful traditional marriage but during the process the pastor said they should not come too close together that they have only done half of the marriage process and he asked hope you guys have not had sex because the proper wedding which is the one the pastor will officiate has not been done.. Please for Christians in the house help me to understand this statement if its right or wrong... My advise is Christian home should pick one marriage process and let's move on with our lives?

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