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Hello Nlanders. As we know not all things that our boo is terrible at makes us fall out of love, some actually makes us fall in love. What is your boo so terrible at but it actually made you fall in love? Saw mine at the tennis court and she was playing really terrible and my coach told me to train her and that was how it all began. Share your short story. Mods lets have general fun please

Well it would have been easy to pick like that but its a contract job with some clause for 3years and not even close to your career.

For those at work never grumble about your job because what you have gotten if properly used will take you to were ever your dream is, it may look blurred but you will surely hit your mark. For us still searching for job i believe that one day God will put a big SMILE on our face. This is for career minded people. You have been searching for a job, someone came with two offers. A job that you love so much with 50k per month salary or a job that you don't like and you will not have time for yourself except on Sundays with 200k salary plus free accommodation. Which will you pick? Please career Nlanders help

Menh i de vex. I be this guy when no de send much again unto job level because frustration don hit me so tey interview no de fear me again because i don find work tire. So i go one interview on Friday and after i row with English them no too feel me but as i begin throwey pidgin them con de feel me. As for sha the pay small and na for abuja so i lose gad the job (actually Got the Job). Oboy for any interview again i don cut chain if i row with English i go chip in pidgin.. Seriously why can't i speak pidgin in an interview for a marketing job that would involve me talking to traders (market men and women) or any other job were u meet people who enjoy using pidgin more?

seriously tho this is not funny my head almost killed me over same issue. What i did was to slow down because i love her so much but then a little sense came in. I was loving this girl honestly and there was no problem until a prophet told me something and problem came. I started loving again and the problem disappeared. When you re honest with love nothing easily vexes you and nothing will spoil your relationship

Have anyone ever observed that their partner has a particular bad attitude towards a certain thing but excellent in the rest, that when ever they bring out that one bad attitude everything they have done so far is rubbished by that single attitude? So mine has three attitudes that gets to me so bad I'm scared of marrying her... 1. she sees no reason to greet me because since we in a relationship we are equal. (8yrs older). 2. She loves to talk back like if something is kept carelessly and i want her to correct her mistake by keeping it well she will reply me by saying 'Mr perfect why don't you remove it since u know it shouldn't be there. 3. I have forced her to learn how to say I'm sorry immediately she makes a mistake or make me angry and she shouldn't add any other words but she will always say 'is it not sorry you want then she will say I'm sorry. I broke up my 3years plus relationship with her today but i don't know if it was a right decision, please Nlanders help before it gets worst.

This is really boiling me out... I have absolutely nothing but my tithe and i have followed paying my tithe strictly and i have already kept my tithe to pay on Sunday but someone very close to me is in great need of help i have no cash but my tithe, if i help this person with my tithe have i faulted?

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pls where are you guys seeing this score? I have checked my mail and my dpr page but nothing there... Still showing approved.

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Hello Nlanders. I have been having this issue for years now, although i have seen doctors but no proper solution, all their test shows its malaria parasite or typhoid and they give me tablet i take it well but nothing have changed. People touch me and scream because my body temperature is very hot and i just smile and tell them its normal, this has been going on for years. Sometimes i don't notice it sometimes i do, especially when I'm bathing with cold water, the water flowing through my body gets warm before touching the ground people enjoy my body when the weather is cold but i don't because the slightest change in weather maybe cloudy weather i can't stand it I'm already shaking as in literally shivering, i easily feel cold its now affecting me. This is my first cooperate job and i can't work properly cos every 20mins i have to sneak outside and stay under the sun for few minutes because i can't stand the AC. Please i need help from anyone that have an idea about this. Thanks

location and pics please. I am in lagos

Darkseid:
Funny you are still asking this. There are many IDEs on the playstore for app and web development. The one below is for Java. Programming on phone sucks though.

please what kind of phone are you using? Can someone learning understand programming with this?

Darkseid:
Funny you are still asking this. There are many IDEs on the playstore for app and web development. The one below is for Java. Programming on phone sucks though.

please what kind of phone are you using?

wow, thats great. I just need one device that can handle calls and still program/design web. Please share more light. How fast can it be and how well can it design and how reliable? Cos i want to buy a tablet for web design and can any tablet work or u need to have a good grade?

I have been asking myself, technology is advancing and even our phones can do alot of things our laptops and desktop can do. So i ask in the future can a tablet or a mobile phone be used for programming in the nearest future? Yes or No please give reasons. Mods do the needful

I have been asking myself, technology is advancing and even our phones can do alot of things our laptops and desktop can do. So i ask in the future can a tablet or a mobile phone be used for programming in the nearest future? Yes or No please give reasons. Mods do the needful

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Its quite hard to resolve these issues. What if your own close pal or direct boss backlash you to the top boss and this pal is actually doing a fine job or the boss is looking for a way to bring in he's own person? My brother even if u wash plate for them they will still delete you...

arantess:
Loving (John 13:35)
Compassionate (Mt 25:35-40; Lk 10:33)
Service-oriented (Mt 23:11)
Sacrificing (Mt 19:21; Jas 2:14)
Giving, Generous (Mt 5:42; Lk 3:11; Jas 2:15-16)
Merciful (Mt 5:7; 18:33)
Long-suffering (Mt 5:41)
Patient (Lk 8:15; Jas 1:3; 2Pe 1:6; Rev 2:2-3; 19)
Peacemaking (Mt 5:9)
Forgiving (Mt 18:21, 35; )
Fidelity in marriage (Mt 5:27-32)
Taking action on Jesus words (Mt 7:24-27)
Meek, Gentle (Mt 5:5, 22)
Humble (Mt 18:1-4; 23:12)
Trusting, Faithful (Mt 6:25-34; Lk 12:21-24)
Moral (Mt 15:19-20)
Honorable, Having integrity (Mt 5:33-37)
Prays (Mt 6:5)
Fasts (Mt 6:16-18; 9:15)
Value the Word of God (Lk 8:21; Mt 10:40-42)
Not Materialistic (Mt 6:19-21; Rev 3:17; Lk 12:15)
Not Judgmental (Mt 7:1-5)
Not Self-righteous nor Hypocritical (Mt 24:51; 6:2, 5, 16; 23:13-29)
This is the crux of the matter, if we can do these Heaven is SURE...God bless and help us all. Amen

pls whats the meaning of that scripture 'Jas' under giving generously and sacrificing

[color=#990000][/color]The number 2 question has been answered very well to my satisfaction but I'm still confused about the number 1 question. What is the fate of two partners that are now separated and one partner has already moved on and marry another but the other refused to marry. If the partner that has decided to move on divorce this new partner and decides to go back to the first partner that did not marry. Has this partner committed a sin of fornication or adultery? For example a man marries a wife separates from her and marry another. This time he divorces this new wife and goes back to the first wife that he separated from, has he committed an abomination before God or did he do the right thing?[b]The number 2 question has been answered very well to my satisfaction but I'm still confused about the number 1 question. What is the fate of two partners that are now separated and one partner has already moved on and marry another but the other refused to marry. If the partner that has decided to move on divorce this new partner and decides to go back to the first partner that did not marry. Has this partner committed a sin of fornication or adultery? For example a man marries a wife separates from her and marry another. This time he divorces this new wife and goes back to the first wife that he separated from, has he committed an abomination before God or did he do the right thing?[/b]The number 2 question has been answered very well to my satisfaction but I'm still confused about the number 1 question. What is the fate of two partners that are now separated and one partner has already moved on and marry another but the other refused to marry. If the partner that has decided to move on divorce this new partner and decides to go back to the first partner that did not marry. Has this partner committed a sin of fornication or adultery? For example a man marries a wife separates from her and marry another. This time he divorces this new wife and goes back to the first wife that he separated from, has he committed an abomination before God or did he do the right thing?

I'm confused the bible should straighten things out but i can't seem to get my head around it, maybe I'm not seeing it well and i need help. Deut 24:1-4 and jer 3:1 had their shares and advice according to the law of God about how to divorce (encouraging divorce) BUT 1 cor 7:10-11 and Matt 19:9 and few other new testament chapters disallows divorce and even Luke 16:18 doesn't even allow a divorcee to get married again. According to the bible and todays law a paper for divorce must be given to them. According to the bible in deut 24:3-4. It is an abomination for a woman to get married and be divorced then get married to another man and divorce again (maybe the new husband dies) and return to the first husband if the exhusband accepts her its an abomination. My questions: 1. What is the fate of a woman who never re-married but the ex husband has already moved on after the divorce is it an abomination if this husband comes back to re-marry her (she was a first wife)? 2. Can we call couples that are separated (even when there was no legal paper or traditional backing acceptance) divorced? Bible scholars Nlanders help me answer these questions. Mods pls do the needful.

eyinjuege:
There's no how the two families can unite.
Your step mother would probably want nothing to do with such an idea.
You are an adult now. The only business that would have kept them together is you, but only when you were not of age. They would discuss school fees, feeding etc for you.
Now you are a man/woman of your own, what else do you want them to discuss about?
Maybe when you're getting married, they can come again to discuss planning your wedding preparations. When you have children, you will have to take them seperately to each grandparent. Your mum would be more useful as she can provide hands on care for your children, and they can stay overnight with her if needed. Sadly, I doubt it would be wise for the children to stay overnight at your dad's as you would be burdening your step mum with the care of your children.
Please don't complicate your father's life he's had for 22years..
He's being married far longer to your stepmum than he ever was to your mother.

i don't even want to scatter my fathers relationship, i want the families to be at peace and it only can happen if the parties involved can agree to be at peace. Already have a step sister that is 3years old and God knows i love her, and she needs her father can't be that selfish to take away that. I just want peace and reconciliation

Richy4:
It might be that your dad is equally seeking the peace that you were after...unless u open up u never can tell.

For him to show up on your graduation day means that u have not been relegated to divison 2 despite that u sided your mum's story from the beginning..

So talk to him, let him know that u were not doing it for him to leave his present family.. but for there to be harmony....U know, no one knows tomorrow, No one knows when his or her time will be up on this planet..it is always good to have a clean heart as everyone prepare

U are a wise son .. so cool that u thought about helping them out..

let me just try. I'm tired of the blame game.

thorpido:
They are adults.You can talk to them but I doubt if you can change anything about their disposition especially since your dad has remarried.
I think you should concentrate on your own life and future(I know it's hard) and try not to make the mistakes they made.

it would be a sad one if nothing is done, i would beat myself up if i did not try. If i try and nothing happens gives me more peace than not trying at all

My mother got married to my father and very few years after the marriage they were separated and so it has gone for 23yrs. Although i have been one sided (obviously my mother) but i have decided to go in dept and saw that my mother wasn't so innocent she and her family never really submitted to my father's family when the issue started (although my father was wrong but his pride wouldn't let him admit it) my father was seeing another woman (married to her till date) and my mother on the other hand wanted my father to tell everyone the fault was from his side. this has been going on for years as both families have been pointing accusing fingers. I'm more exposed now and tired because even at this moment the psychological effect is still there. I love my mother and would do anything for her but i want peace. I relate with both (my father not too well because he has another family) infact on my graduation day was the first time they saw and took pictures together in 22yrs, i cried for joy. I may not get my father and mother to come back but i want them to talk to each other for my joy and their future grand children's sake. Obviously my mother would be easier to talk to but how do i tell her to apologise for what she was innocent about for peace to reign? How do i let my father understand that i want peace and this will not affect his marriage with the other woman? How do i unite two families that have hated each other for years because of an issue not worth causing a sweat not to talk of breaking up the family for that long? please I need advice. mods do the needful pls

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