₦airaland Forum

Ladycewhy:
According to these penis people ,a good wife material must go with the "struggle love " mantra. Gold is a precious possession I wonder why they dont want women to dig for it. Why must women hate money just to prove they are virtuous. Geez.


Nigerian men only praise a woman for being able to take care of her man ,their children, his family and friends,his needs , support him,prays for him, it always has to revolve around HIM.lol. These men act like God put them in charge in earth to constantly tell women what to do with themselves.


I don’t advocate for malicious gold digging: I advocate for the woman’s right to be accepted for her natural instinct of wanting to mate with a financial secure partner who she Knows can provide for her offspring! I’m hoping more women can wake up & start listening. It’s not about malicious gold digging, it’s about OUR PRIMAL INSTINCTS & RATIONAL THINKING! Who here wants the leftovers in life?

Ladycewhy:
You must live under a rock or something. Many men when they are struggling settle for the available and when they make it, they are constantly looking for the trophy side chick good for the passengers seat,infact that is when they will know their wife is not fair enough,tall enough or doesn't have the spec.

Many rich men who came from grace to grass ,go check out their first wives ,not all that of a trophy wife,but I am sure their side chicks are the exact opposite. Stop deceiving yourselves on this forum.we must put an end to "struggle love". I don't need to suffer and nearly die because of a man before I can enjoy him, like the saying goes, "don't marry for love ,go to where rich people are and marry for love". Who says a woman can't have the best of both worlds,rich people fall in love too.

MrSensor:
Forget about all this long list that you mentioned.

When a woman see a car key sef she can spread her legs very fast.

Toks2008:
You all get it twisted.

There is nothing wrong in desiring a guy that is capable but you all fail to realize that wealth is progressive meaning it is step by step so ruining a way from broke guys make you a real gold digger cos that made guy you want was once broke and can still be broke even if you met him as a rich guy.

Except you all want to be second wives it makes no sense expecting a guy in his early 30s to be made. This is common sense ... So work hard on making your own money so that the young man you are with will have enough space to build his wealth.

Nuff said.

Toks2008:
There is a difference between broke leeches and a broke undemanding lady.

I know many broke ladies who will never leech on any man.

Ladycewhy:
exactly my point, those who have no gold to be dug are the ones who are the loudest. It's by nature that men love to be in control and money is one way men have that control, I can understand the pain of broke men tho.

Have you seen a beauty queen marry a machanic? , Korean skin care products don't come cheap you know.

Having her own money is just an added advantage if she has good character and nice assets,it's the way life goes .


One would think you are a dangote or idimi the way you said someone like you. . Don't worry,I am sure there are guys better than you who would be interested.

Arda1000:
poor based on paper statistics,I heard the whole IGR of Osun is higher than Ebonyi,now I know you are some where from that dumpsite called Osun,kindly share the pictures of your location let me share mine,note Ebonyi is not America but she is a beauty among the uglies, including the IDP's place you called state.

One4me:
The Policeman is known, his face is not hidden.
If he were to be my family, l will dedicate my Life to eliminating all hi sfamily members, one by one or together.
There are tons of ways to do that, even without a gun!
The family should publish his name (Inspector Ago Egharepbe) and picture on Social Media, let him be well known, you never can say

Until these killers in police Uniform are made to know that there is a price to pay for murdering innocent citizens, this sort of nonsense will continue.
Despite all the effort of the various Commissioners of Police to check this incessant abuse of Power, this one still killed an innocent young man.
IGP and Osun state Commissioner of Police,, over to you or is this one another free murder by the Police?
This is sheer Murder, Inspector Ago Egharepbe must not go unpinished, we cant have killers in Police Uniform

Bkayyy:
If you are not like this, I have no business with you

Ladycewhy:
stop paying mind to these penis people on this forum. The ones who don't even have gold to be dug will be the ones to first shout gold digger. The owners of real gold will definitely appreciate it being dug ,after all gold in dirt is useless until it's dug .


Nobody likes suffer head, I don't know why a lady should be shamed for desiring the good things of life as if there is dignity in poverty, why is it wrong for a woman to desire a man that can take care of her and her offspring?. Even if I make my own money, I will still want a man that is twice richer than me, with the rate of insecure men left on earth ,it's best that way.


No woman should ever feel guilty for wanting the best things in life and for her offspring. Even the Bible says " a man who cannot take care of his household is worse than an infidel".

Petyprincess:
I understand your point but do you feel a guy with good qualities don't approach ladies?

You can't blame women for not approaching a guy that matches their criteria but the question is are you matching his criteria?

For example a lady might want an old and extremely rich man while the man wants a young,beautiful girl but this lady is 35 years old so the point of getting this man is extremely low

The point is no matter how high your criteria is, if you have the criteria this person wants in a lady you will easily click. One thing guys don't know is a lady don't have to be rich to get a extremely rich guy,most rich guys look for entirely different criteria they prefer in a woman.

Above all we have preferences which everyone should respect,when guys say they want under 18,young and virgin girl i dont get mad but when a lady says she prefers a rich guy there is always a problem!!

EzzyCarter:
Good riddance . Arsenal has always been a dumping ground for Chelsea's expired players. Enjoy your free gift

Arda1000:
am quoting you because you mentioned poverty and Ebonyi together,let me ask you have you visited Ebonyi or are you suffering from ignorance?

LegendHero:
An Igbo saying high rate of SW’ners are invading the SE lol. Your brothers are all over the SW states living and breeding children here while many sell gala and fan yogo on the road side.

They even arrested one not too long ago begging in Ekiti while lying she is blind. There are several of them domiciled here doing that rubbish.

Wonders they say shall never end!

Gracchus:
Is this all you have in defence old fool? I thought everyone should face the politics of his region, why is tinubu giving you sleepless nights? Is he the one bleeping your wife or he fuccked your godforsakem mother too, huh? Like a your useless tribesmen who carry tinubu matter for head, y'll should face the politics of your region, our politics is none of your godammed business, same way we don't give ratass about the politics of your irrelevant region.

whytediamond:
Failed government giving birth to failed society. Them no provide work for these guys on legitimate hustle just to feed. Later, they turn to criminals because of joblessness, society go burn them alive.

The world is a jungle. The poor oppressed by the rich and powerful.

How far that NDDC man that fainted?
How far the slapping senator?
How far Maina?
How far Magu?
How far Evans?
How far Naija politicians?

Abegi... yeye dey smell.

Kriss216:
Niger Delta is PDP
PDP is Niger Delta.

Edo can never be Lagos.
We don't entertain cowardice in Niger Delta.
We are brave warriors.
We hate oppression and godfatherism hence we say shame on Ambode!

kingzizzy:
They are still calling Ironsi's name, a man who ruled for only 6 months. They have been ruling since 1966 and did far worse than Ironsi.

During Ironsi's time, there were 4 Regions, there was resource control and there was fiscal federalism

All 3 disappeared under those who took over from Ironsi, yet they are still calling Ironsi despite the fact that they 1000 times worse than him

gwafaeziokwu:

Awolowo responsible for our defeat? Where he take gather liver from?

Britain stopped Biafra.

We knew him as a coward who fought a war with Biafran children when other men were flexing muscles in the war front. Till eternity his name is registered as a cold blooded murderer of innocent children numbering between 1 to 2 million. Now that is a fact!

gwafaeziokwu:

Awolowo responsible for our defeat? Where he take gather liver from?

Britain stopped Biafra.

We knew him as a coward who fought a war with Biafran children when other men were flexing muscles in the war front. Till eternity his name is registered as a cold blooded murderer of innocent children numbering between 1 to 2 million. Now that is a fact!

gwafaeziokwu:
Just picture a country where Awolowo refused to endorse state creation by Gowon and insisted on regionalism. Where south West supported whole heartedly confederation as proposed by Ojukwu at Aburi which is far better than regionalism and make it a whole lot easier for each region to go their separate ways because they have acquired loose autonomy.

I wish the men from the west had the balls in 1966, Nigeria would have been the pride of Africa but alas Awolowo and Ogundipe ( two Yorubas) cowered in the moment of decision. Ogundipe own was worse. He was the next in command but he ran away for dear life making it easier for an officer(Gowon) junior to Ojukwu to take over.

Ojiofor:
Can you quote me where I made such statement?

gwafaeziokwu:
Almost 60 years and you are still playing the same moronic card. More than 12 helpless people were killed in southern Kaduna today and you are not even bothered. Why? Because deep down you do not feel any connection with the southern Kaduna man yet you answer "one Nigeria" with them. Death is walking all over Nigeria at the moment and all you could think of is a man that died 50 something years ago.

You all hated his unification decree but rejected confederation at Aburi and embraced state creation which was never agreed upon by national consensus. Tell me which is worse; unifying the civil service while maintaining the region or the outright dismantling of the regions by Gowon as he imposed state on everyone.

I ask again, if you hated unification decree so much, why did you celebrate state creation. More importantly, it's been ages, why can't you change things to what you want or did Aguiyi Ironsi throw the key to constitional amendment into River Niger as he fell to the bullets of Danjuma and co?

Ojiofor:
Wake up Gen Aguiyi Ironsi from his grave and ask him what was in his mind concerning resource control before he was killed by your heroes who consolidated on his unitary system of governance instead of abolishing it like they abolished four regions under Ironsi.
Current Nigeria leaders today can go back to what Nigeria was before the military intervetion rather cunniving and conspiring Yoruba folks will blame a man that died 54 years ago for all the troubles facing the nation.Go and join Sowore and protest for a better Nigeria that is what sensible citizens do