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alexialin:
It's not that I have lot of anger bottled up.. But the issue is this, I place myself in the mother's shoes.
I have a son and he is married.. Then out of the blues, he came excitedly to my house saying mama, guess what? My wife saw a cheap land, the price is unbelievable and I honestly want to buy it.. Wow! This is a good deal.
If am close to my son, which I know I will definitely be and with all my children by God's grace. I will love to follow him and see the land with my own two eyes. My son is about to own a land.. Forget maybe I want to buy for his other siblings. But the issue is am going with my son to see the first land he's about to buy. That's a great joy for some parents to hear, I don't know of other parents o.. But their son is progressing. It's a good news.
And if his wife kick against me coming along?? . I will be very hurt. Cause have taken her as part of the family. But it seems she sees me as a stranger or the third wheel.
That's if am the MIL of the op.
That's why am angry


Little things like this cause discord and suspicions towards the wife. If she doesn't know.


Anyways all my kids whether grown or babies will be close to me and confide in me. Cause what an old woman is seeing sitting down, an adult will not be able to see it, even climbing ontop a roof.

Pataricatering:
Your husband has absolutely no right to call you a vagabond , fool , idiot or any other abusive word ! That is verbal abuse and I'm amazed at the comments on this issue. Your mother in law does not seem to know her boundaries - husband and wife make plans for their future not husband , mom and wife. Your mother in law has to respect the relationship you have with your husband as you must respect his relationship with his mom. As for your husband the next time he calls you fool or vagabond - tell him very clearly without mincing words - to NEVER EVER call you that ever again ! And walk off. If you respect him then he must respect you!

Truelies2017:
NAiRALAND ooo!!! So that is hpw the whole lots of you deviated from the vagabond topic to MIL. I stated in my post he didn't call me that because unsaid his mum shouldn't go with us to check the land. He called me that cause I refused to tell him his mum has asked to go check the land without the consent. The question here is should a HUSBAND call his wife a vagabond. Besides i dont have any issues woth my mother in law at all. I love her like my mother. Deviating from the topic won't bring the answer. It will only casue more problems btw us. TRULY sometimes nairaland isn't the place to.pour out your mind. They will only nicely compound your issues spicing it up with joy pepper sauce.

Pidgin2:
I used to think you were intelligent, now I'm highly disappointed.

How do you consistently make front page even with this garbage? You must have connections

chidexxy007:
Sorry oh, cos Arsenal's season has already ended so you think other clubs run same calender as you guys...
Sorry to break your heart, we still have April nd May to fight for it nd with Arsenal 1point from us... u knw wat that means..

pcguru1:
OMG i swear to God i told my Mauritian friend not to ever recommend it to me, that i could succumb to epilepsy , the camera tilts too much, there was a scene where the woman wanted to shoot another woman, and one guy was like driving from yaba to VI, the camera kept spinning and shaking when she says something provoking, the guy reach there and stopped it, i was like "am done"

TINALETC3:
Wat abt me dat hv small boobs and flat yansh , I jst pray Al dis busty ladies dnt take my man

Lana1:
When u realise u've played UCL for 19 straight years and still couldn't win it once.....

Lana1:
When u realise Vardy won the league, rejected u and still went further than u in the UCL...

Deprince2656:
Wetin the lion dey do for the second picture?