₦airaland Forum

ibkayee:
Let's be honest. Black men are at the bottom of the socio economic ladder on average, why would the group of women with the highest social currency (white privilege plays in here because I'm not even saying they deserve it, but that's just how things are) be chasing after the men with the lowest? White woman average are not rushing after black men for anything serious. Are there are a portion oyibo women who go for them despite this? Sure, but definitely not the majority or even that many in the grand scheme of things. I’d also like to clarify that there’s a difference between being open to dating someone and coveting them as whole, the latter just isn’t true, we can agree to disagree lol.

And black women are at the top... Calm down nah...

ibkayee:
Lol we'll agree to disagree. Like I said, there are exceptions but oyibo women as a collective, generally are not 'rushing' after Naija men, or interested in them. Not sure where you got your stats from...but a handful of white women who lusted after some black men and a few personal anecdotes of some oyibos ladies hitting on you does not equate to white women as a whole rushing naija men lmao

Facts remain... African Nigerian Women are left out.

ibkayee:
Whenever you see a Naija guy in an interracial relationship with an oyibo woman she usually isn't someone he'd go for on a normal day if he didn't need to use her to stay in the country. She's usually really old or just not considered desirable amongst her own, and this makes them easy targets.

There will always be exceptions and I'm not saying that 'genuine' relationships between Nigerian men and oyibo women don't exist, but they're not common enough to be creating conversations. 9/10 he's just using her for a visa or something and he's usually the one pursuing her lol

This is a psychology article dated as far back as 2010
With statistics to back up facts...


https://www.psychologytoday.com/ca/blog/love-in-limbo/201008/unequal-love-across-the-color-line


Sis... If that was written 10 years ago, you can imagine the numbers now...

Black/African men in the 'abroad' will in fact date and marry in these order of preference,

White women
Latinos
Asians
Carribeans
Aliens

before

Africans/Black


You must be living under a rock to believe black men only fufill fantasy... In one year, I've had more white women hit on me....

Again... Just pull up facts and numbers... Show me one article that says white women don't dig black men...

I should've used Nigerian men... But I'm too tired to type... Just change the black to Nigerian men.

ibkayee:
I've lived with white people and all other types of races my entire life, it just isn't a thing. Other than satisfying a fetish, black men generally aren’t on their radars like that when it comes to long term relationships.

Ontop of that, naija guys (who may technically fall under the umbrella of 'black men' but there's a difference and Nigerian men are not necessarily who people are thinking about when we're talking about about 'black men') want to add themselves to the equation lmao.

Outside of the black community, Naija guys aren't even relevant or 'mainstream' like that for anyone to be rushing after them in the first place. Unless the oyibo woman just happens to hang with a lot of Nigerians (which isn't common)...nobody knows you. When they think of Nigerian men the only thing they probably know about them are emails from the random 'Nigerian princes' asking for money lol

Whenever you see a Naija guy in an interracial relationship with an oyibo woman she usually isn't someone he'd go for on a normal day if he didn't need to use her to stay in the country. She's usually really old or just not considered desirable amongst her own, and this makes them easy targets.

There will always be exceptions and I'm not saying that 'genuine' relationships between Nigerian men and oyibo women don't exist, but they're not common enough to be creating conversations. 9/10 he's just using her for a visa or something and he's usually the one pursuing her lol

This is absolutely not true...

You're a "black woman" in another country legally, are you saying only black women imigrate legally and black men don't...?

One... that's stereotyping and two that's complete bullcrap...

In London... Black men is a tinq... I don't know the type of people you roll with... But 110%... 75% of the ladies in London are into/slash dating black men.

London is too crowded and before you see two white people holding hands walking down a street, you'll count 10 half and half before you'd see two old white folks...

And in Canada... Right now... Presently... I've got white women hitting on me...

You really should go out more...

ibkayee:
Lol nah they don't

I'm safe thanks, just keeping myself inside. Stay safe

Plenty examples... Not 3rd party stories...

ibkayee:
Lol it really isn’t, and I’m not even ‘hating’

Btw, longest time stranger. Hope you’re keeping well

Fam... I'm good... But you know white girls rush 9ja boys...

Yeah... Hope you're safe in London...? Shii is real here too... But we good good...

ibkayee:
LOL

Which oyibo women are rushing naija men? Jokes aside, please explain

Stop... We both know it's true.

Barca latest signing with $180 million release clause flops at his unveiling...


Sell your Papa house carry Napoli... You go cashout big...


https://www.youtube.com/watch?feature=youtu.be&v=_LUfyyOnkUg

Always wanted to visit, turns out they are playing away this weekend...

Can't wait till Monday and won't want to watch my first Arsenal game at Bournemouth...

Back to base Yo!!!

Lana1:
Walahi. I know we aren't great at the moment, but losing to this Arsenal should be a sackable offence for any of the other 19 teams.
3 different managers and dem still no good.

Yeye dey smell...

If una draw this match... I no go troll...

Cc: Lana1

NihiIist:
You invite a girl to come over, she promises you. Because of her, you quickly arrange your house, clean everywhere, wash your toilet clean, lay your bed and spray airfreshner. You even down a bottle of alomo bitters and all sorts of concoction just in case.

The time for her to come is here as you agreed and well you decided to give her about an hour or so maybe she'll show up but she doesn't.

You call her phone to ask her whatsup, she's not picking, some will even switch off their phone.

Pls if you know you wouldn't come, you shouldn't have made the promise. It's nothing but wickedness

Baba... You don marry nah... This one you dey lament so... I don't understand...

Should this be a question...

This is ridiculous...

Jokes... 9 degrees and they want to die... I was out with just bare shirts in -4... And I don't sleep with heater until it gets to -20...

Ibime:
In honour of Pepe, we cross to the Ivory Coast with Magic System.

This one is for Afrodoc2


Et on dit premier gaou n'est pas gaou oh
see'est deuxième gaou qui est niata oh ah
Et on dit premier gaou n'est pas gaou oh
see'est deuxième gaou qui est niata oh ah



https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CKUZ-ZIUiwg

Your head is there...

Where are the Emisery fan boys and grinding out football...?

Changeofscene:
Then why are you asking for help on a public forum.Hisss

Trolling is actually a mental illness... Starve the him off attention and watch trolls die a natural death.

Iamdmentor1:
Ruiz added so much weight. See belle. Did he think this was Suomi wrestling?

Those criticising Joshua for not delivering a knock out must think boxing is easy. It isn’t at all.

Besides, Ruiz was bent on knocking Joshua out and that was one of the reasons he lost.

You sabi... One alomo for you...

Renforce:
I swear! He's a die hard Chelsea. That night cos of the pressure from the game momsi forced him to go to the room cos he has HBP. We totally forgot he has a TV in his room, baba went there put it on and was watching....naso d ref take kill my papa o. He was 69

You can never forgive Barca... Lailai

LadySarah:
The Cleric he hosted,is his own place devoid of evil?
If not for money these ppl will not talk with an Nigerian

Go and read and be enlightened... Mufti is from Zimbabwe...

It won't hurt you to gain knowledge about whoever you want to spite...

See Mourinho doing wonders at Tottenham...


The board totally screwed us up... And I think... Mourinho had changed his approach to matches...

What's that bastard Liverpool fan doing here...

Coming to preach the gospel of grinding football again...

Fucking clown...

Roland17:
@ipopAlomo, your sabbatical should be over by now.

Yes nah... Since last week sef... I knew his time was up...

Congratulations to all of us... But another problem has arise... The Arsenal board are taking a piss... And we're in big trouble.

Where are those arm chair grinding football analyst...

You better follow your manager out of the club...

Eyin werey...

Backing mediocrity and uselessness... Good riddance!!!

Roland17:
Southampton had a whooping 21 shots, prior to this game, Southampton had managed a mere 13 shots in 3 EPL games. Are you wondering how manly we had? Well, we had 12 with 5 on target...against Southampton!!!

Grinding machine football... Best form of twice to get a draw...

I hope the grinding machine analyst are enjoying grinding football...

Who are we playing next...?