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When a topic is posted here it should be for enlightenment to others there shouldn't be stuggle or blackmail or the use of harsh words towards one another.We can't fight for God .God knows how to touch the hearts of those needed to be touched.Violence can't take us to anywhere.But let's be cautious of what we say when we are trying to drive our points home.
Peace to everybody on board .

trini- girl,
Tithe is a thing of its own ,u can't say because u pay tithe u won't give to the needy.The needy abounds all around us in the church,our neighbours, family members,friends ,widows, widowers,orphans,students,the needy could also be in ur office.U pay tithe and u also remember the needy always.
There is still reference in the new testament also about paying tithe.

BOLEX
aBI WHAT IS THAT YR NAME .I SAW W-E-N---------------------
FOR CLICKING ON A LINK ON YOUR PAGE.I HAVE PROMISED NOT TO CLICK ON ANY LINK AGAIN .
THANK U, IT WAS A HECTIC FUN

Its called 'inarun' the itching is like someone who has taken chloroquine injection and is reacting to it.Its in the blood system.It itches from within and not outside but u still have to scratch it.
That's d description I can give about it.

Ladies on board, Can we see d way d lives of ladies (though some)are spread like a blanket outside.
D QUESTION IS ,WHO IMPRGNATED THESE LADIES?MEN I THINK?
THAT'S Y WE NEED TO BECAREFUL WHEN SAYING I DO TO ANY MAN.
TO AVOID ALL THESE LABELS .THINK 2WISE

U know now y do u want me to use the whole mouth to talk .We are adults.Ask someone in the closet o.k

mcgboye
Look like I said b4, that pre information atimes can aid one to have the mind of exploring when u get to NYSC camp.My advice is that becareful cos in d bid of exploring alot of people have exchanged their career,fortune,success e.t.c.U may say real lie.When u meet a lady that u want to woo,do u tell d person I want to use u and dump u?NO
Men will say I want to marry u, but deep within them SOME may mean use and dump.If u fall into d hands of a girl who will believe ur words without looking back and later get jilted, some may not have d spirit to forgive, some will go to extra lenght to deal with d guy.
I have seen where a male corp member dated some girls where we were posted to,during mating ,one of the girls targeted d semens of dis male guy.It was a terrible case.
So beware.
Not that people do not start a good relationship that leads to marriage from NYSC but like d bible says 'things are pure to those who are pure themselves' if u don't have d mind of cheating u 'll not meet someone that will cheat u ok .BE PATIENT AND DON'T DO GIRA-GIRA OK

ObaMan
Thanks for yr response.But whoever scores d highest mark in class is a winner,if u can get my childish analogy.The percentage of ladies running after men is low compare to that of men running / deceiving ladies out their.NYSC is never to be blamed.

If we ladies could be wise enough not to fall into yr deception, it could have been good.But we keep on falling to those sugar coated toungues even after many warnings.

I have once served and God helping me.I can still raise my head to say I scaled thru.Where I was posted to do my primary assignment I was the only female corper their and we all related well.
The ultimate thing that I did was that I quikly made my stand known that I was engaged, the name of my fiance and any hour could not go bye without me talking about him.I had the best opportunity to mess up cos my fiance was not even in the country then.But I believe if a man/woman committs fornication d harm is to yr own body the guy has nothing to loose if u contact AIDS or whatever.Virtually all d guys have been to my house in Lagos I know their fiancees. when u also occupy yrself with something tangible. I was seriously involved in the Christian Corpers fellowship in Edo state then.
FINALLY THIS BAD BEHAVIOUR HAS RUINED A LOT OF PEOPLE'S CAREER,LEFT ALOT WITH SINGLE MOTHER STUFF.FATHERLESS BABY COS THE GUY RAN AWAY,MADE HELPERS TO RUN AWAY FROM U COS THEY BELIEVED WE SENT U TO SERVE AND NOT TO BRING HOME ILLEGITIMATE BABY.
IT TURNED SOME TO END UP TASTING 2 HUSBANDS IF NOT 3/MEN TASTING 2 WIVES IF NOT 3 THAT THEY'VE NEVER BUDGETED FOR IN LIFE .
Thanks let's warn our younger ones not to fall victims.

A chamelion will always be dsame.As u have them in men so also u have them in women.
Aside NYSC stuff, have u not heard of a man/woman that will date a co-tenant ?Is either one of them is married or already bethrothed to someone.Or a friend that dates d husband/wife of his/her friend?
Pre information of d NYSC helps some pple to have planned what they will do when they get to NYSC camp.Especially with this slogan 'one life to live 'NYSC one year to spend so utilise it'.Is as horrible as anything u could ever imagined.
M-E-N are to blame as they go about deceiving these innocent souls of ours.Someone who was never a medical student will claim to be one with d mind of helping the poor lady to get a job from his father's company after d service year but the lady will not think that 'AWUUF DEY TEAR BELLE'

Pls lets stop the use of derogatory phrases,sentences against God.Because u've once being attacked on your religion does not mean you have to treat some other oppositonal believers to your faith with contempt.Ok.What gave u the assurance that your religion does not practice atheism,incest e.t.c.
What we say on this board depicts our individual personalty,our background and even the acceptance/rejection of our religion by others.Lets respect ouselves.
If a minister of culture is well cultured he/she will not speak against Deities.
Saying this worships, bible, money e.t.c is not fair, it shows that the speaker would be a violent human being.
Not your tone or your philosophical / points/views or how u are able to use slanderous words against others will change the whole world to your own religion, rather it will make people to avoid it like a plague.Be wise with words .Byeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee

I didn' t really understand  your point of''intimidating'
Who is intimidating who?
The word/term 'Courtship'is  peculiar to christian fold and this is a period of correction,observation,modelling, re-shaping.of both patners behaviour.
Then courtship martures to become engagement that is when both families' are notified(better still, aware of the relationship) from that, the  final stage  is the wedding itself or engagement ceremony which has to do with the payment of bride price.
So if a christian sister goes out with an unbeliever brother,  what ever she sees later in life she sholud not complain.If the man decides to go about with other women she should be satisfy,if the husband stops her from going to church later no qualms.
BE NOT EQUALLY YOKE WITH UNBELIEVER THAT IS WHAT MY BIBLE TELLS ME.

I didn' t really understand your point of''intimidating'
Who is intimidating who?
The word/term 'Courtship'is peculiar to christian fold and this is a period of correction,observation,modelling, re-shaping.of both patners behaviour.
Then courtship martures to become engagement that is when both families' are notified(better still, aware of the relationship) from that, the final stage is the wedding itself or engagement ceremony which has to do with the payment of bride price.
So if a christian sister goes out with an unbeliever brother, what ever she sees later in life she sholud not complain.If the man decides to go about with other women she should be satisfy,if the husband stops her from going to church later no qualms.
BE NOT EQUALLY YOKE WITH UNBELIEVER THAT IS WHAT MY BIBLE TELLS ME.

Isaiah 42vs 6
I the Lord, have called in righteosness,
And will hold Your hands
I will keep you and give you as a vovenant to the people
A a light to the Gentiles

Some one said when u stay 2gether that u'll study each others behaviour.
Ask a man that is married/a woman that is married for 25 years if he/she has stop seeing new behaviours from his/her patner's life . NO.
Bro paul says in the bible that it is better to marry than to burn(other meaning of that is than to flirt,full of agro,been moved)
Don't sell yourself cheap.Let your man pay your bride price first.
Even when u are not doing the engagement party .BRIDE PRICE FIRST B4 ANY OTHER THING .
DON'T DO WHAT U CAN'T TELL YOUR CHILDREN TO DO LATER IN LIFE
WILL U BE HAPPY WHEN YOUR FEMALE CHILD LEAVES HOME AND DECIDES TO LEAVE WITH A MAN WHOM U DON'T KNOW HIS FAMILY (AS IN SHOWING THEIR CONSENT FOR THEIR SON TO MARRY YR DAUGHTER)

Who am I to judge?
Do u all know that tradition does not permit it .
All religions do not permit it.
Then what are we talking about?
If we want to be sincere, staying together happens among the so called less priviledged
Am I making some senses at all?Carry a research out and u'll see
I'm not talking of a girl from a rich home that elopes with a boy
Those people involved do not like it ,cos it brings ridicle from the man's youngre ones especially when they girls like her.
If your home is spacious what will u be looking for in a man's house?

Don't let us be harsh with our responses to topics.We can't think the same way.More so,he threw a topic open. So, let us rub ideas, thoughts, minds e.t.c together. Someone out their could benefit from a logical response and not derogatory comments.Thanks.

Thank u Gaby.I have once tried it but d response was that v.mobile , and others were not a national carrier.So they've stylishly prevented free S.m.S.Or have u ever tried sending messages on that website of late?.Thanks a lot.

Hi thanks for yr response .But I don't understand what u meant by hmmmmmmmmmmmmm

Hi,
Does anybody know of any web site where one can send text messages to G.S.M free.Thanks

U are graciously welcome on board.U'll enjoy this site as an oyinbo man enjoys ciggarattes.
I like u jare,(yoruba) uncle segebee for not being ashamed of yr Jesus,and He will not be ashamed of u when u need his presence in public. Amen
welcome once again.

o.k we will tell u in December

what can u do to someone who provokes u often without apologising.Or that will just apologise without sincerity