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HARDDON:
It is very likely she isn't been truthful with u right now. Its complicated .

Im 90% positive that u ain't d only one in d equation now

U have to dig d truth up urself , directly or indirectly .

I don't think she is cheating on me,she is so open that she will tell me if she has a new guy..I even have her Facebook password, I have not seen any sign of cheating from her and her best friend knows am the one dating her...she said i have hurt her so much and she still loves me..she just told me I should give her time away from relationship that she needs to be her normal self again.she also said we can date later in the future.s ince we separated all her post on FB and whatsapp has hashtag selflove

IRIEBOY:
she is hot in bed(nice boobs and ass) I miss her personality,she is a nice babe.i want to marry her but we are still in our early Twenties..I really love her...I understand your last statement..just advise me on what to do now? thanks

Boss HARDDON am waiting for your reply?

HARDDON:
This is why it is always gud u know what u want b4 setting out to meet any lady!
How can u be with her for 5 years , no qualms then from d blues ur ego overruled?

B4 I say anything, define d r/ship! What do u want?
U missed the way she banged u?
Her personality? Aura? Homely attributes or what exactly?
Do u want to marry her now?

Every other things is secondary . once u know define what u really want!

But I should tell that from the happenings within this her second coming,, the VERY DAY A WOMAN FED THE HOUSE, HUMANITY WAS DRIVEN FROM D GARDEN OF EDEN!
If u have a fine mind, u wud understand that !

she is hot in bed(nice boobs and ass) I miss her personality,she is a nice babe.i want to marry her but we are still in our early Twenties..I really love her...I understand your last statement..just advise me on what to do now? thanks

SmellingAnus:
there were some of my mentions you didn't reply that lead me to that conclusion...

lolz i hail the both of you..

asodane:
Lol you sounded as if you are the girl in question. Easy girl

tell her oooo...

halfricanadian:
HEARTLESS OP ARE U NT D CAUSE OF HER SPIRITUAL PROBLEM U TOOK IT FAR TO HER SISTER

WASTE THEIR TIME YOU ARE VERY HEARTLESS HUMAN

UR KIDS WILL GROW UP ND ANOTHER MAN WILL CAUSE SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS FOR THEM IN THE NAME OF LOVE

MOSTLY UR DAUGHTERS

HEARTLESS HUMANS

GOD IS WATCHING U ND WILL REPAY U ND UR KIDS A BILLION FOLD


GOD WILL EXPOSE U TO D WOLRD ND TO HER FAMILY TO SEE THE WICKED MEN THEY WERE ABOUT TO HAND OVER THEIR KIDS TOO

GOD WILL B D ONE TO EXPOSE Y'ALL BET IT WITH ME GOD WILL EXPOSE YOU PUBLICLY

guess you created a topic and complained about a man using diabolic means on you,please I don't do such..don't use your ex boo to judge me...am not a jazz man.thanks

halfricanadian:
HEARTLESS OP ARE U NT D CAUSE OF HER SPIRITUAL PROBLEM U TOOK IT FAR TO HER SISTER

WASTE THEIR TIME YOU ARE VERY HEARTLESS HUMAN

UR KIDS WILL GROW UP ND ANOTHER MAN WILL CAUSE SPIRITUAL PROBLEMS FOR THEM IN THE NAME OF LOVE

MOSTLY UR DAUGHTERS

HEARTLESS HUMANS

GOD IS WATCHING U ND WILL REPAY U ND UR KIDS A BILLION FOLD


GOD WILL EXPOSE U TO D WOLRD ND TO HER FAMILY TO SEE THE WICKED MEN THEY WERE ABOUT TO HAND OVER THEIR KIDS TOO

GOD WILL B D ONE TO EXPOSE Y'ALL BET IT WITH ME GOD WILL EXPOSE YOU PUBLICLY

lolz what are you saying? I guess you read my post upside down.. I said they are facing spiritual problem... I have nothing to do with the spiritual issues..am just her BF and we had issues in our relationship.. why would I harm her and her family?? please don't insult me

Stamagba:
lol....bros chill na

haha thanks for telling him that..

SmellingAnus:
nice advice dear... But I still feel the girl is no longer into him and it's best for the op to move on... What do you think...

hmmm thanks

DZTech1:
Are you mad?!
5 years ke. Abi you use jazz? How old are you both to have so casually tossed aside a 5 year investment?
My friend, stop wasting her time, I take God beg you.
For your own good, better propose and marry the girl or get out of her life.
Anyway, na she I blame. Silly girl wey no see responsible man.
And as for YOU- you're clearly not ready to settle down so show some integrity and take a stand.
A word is enough for the wise.

lolz we are both in our early Twenties..

Caint wait to see a great Nigeria..

Berlyn:
Ber√lyn is Typing

Berlyn am still waiting for your advice?

abbeyology88:
IRIEBOY


I wanted to contribute but wen I got to d end of ur story I had to decide to leave.

I hate people wanting general advice and believe d only persons dat are qualified to contribute

Should b C copied.

Since u ave copied ur advisers...


*I slide out*

Good Luck


*noquarel Ooh*

boss take it easy..it's out of curiosity..please I need your input?

devilmaycry:
Bro jst gimme her numbs...one night is all I need.. Lol...jst kidding... Ok let's look into the matter , u knw what she's trying to do ? ...mayb to see if u love her to that extent by testing you ?....or mayb she really needs that time for the heartbreak...?...or mayb she wanna be in control of the relationship ?...or jst mayb she tryna drive u away buh doing it through This ?...my advice for u bro ...is to be cool....be ur best towards her and also give her the time she needs...things might jst turn around...who knows

thanks bro..really appreciate..

aaronson:
Listen bro

I study human behavior from unorthodox point of view and I can tell you no one person on this earth operate on conscious level. Every decision/choice made was first thought of in the human mind and funny enough the mind plays tricks on us.

Now

She having to break the ice by calling you first to ask about your wellness was a dead give away and you was in control then. The moment you lost control of her was when you called back begging, by so doing, you gave her back the power baton in the relationship.

Here is how you would get it back.

Act like she don't exist! She would get back to you, then act like you no more interested, she would start to be the one begging you. Then you would gain your power back in the relationship.

The reason why it would work is because she broke the first ice signifying she can't do without you.

thanks bro...really appreciate

ADUNOKIKI:
OP,
One thing you should know is that the reason she called you and still give you audience is that she still have feelings for you.

Give her time, be her friend and a brother.
She is just scared you might hurt her again.
She just want to be sure you are now a good person and have changed...

ok dear...thanks alot

kiddoiLL:
i've seen heartbreak ruin people, like its a movie...give her time to heal, stay with her through the healing process.. what i mean is check on her a few times, show care and not cus you love her. do it like a best friend would do..i pray things work out for you both

i will..thanks a lot..

onstelly:
You treated her bad, you broke up with her and you didn't make an attempt to make things right until she called, that not nice one bit
You really need to give her sometimes because she might still be angry and bitter towards you and also use that time to work on yourself.
Wishing you all the best.

I really treated her bad..don't even know when I bursted into tears in her presence when she was telling me how bad I made her feel after I broke up with her..thanks alot for the advice

eph12:
Hmmm.. Me thinks if you pester or put pressure on her you will only succeed in pushing her away. Just understand her, remain friends with her, be there for her, be her best friend. In summary kindly allow yourself into her friend zone willingly
I will advice in the main time you focus on yourself. Focus your energy in achieving some life goals. You will naturally look soattractive to her again and other ladies join sef

thanks alot bro

Cutehector:
The pastor told her to keep away sex from sometime




I used that line for my ex when I didn't want the relationship to go anyfurther



Op I can stand on my grounds to let u know that she is not in love with you anymore. Best move for u is to move on right now why the wounds aren't still deep.

thanks boss.. am aware of the spiritual issues.two of her sisters were attacked spiritually last two weeks and few data ago,her mum and dad are now broke(their businesses are down).she lost her grand dad last month..

sirusX:
Wounds take time to heal...and it's best you give her time to get over the past. You can help by doing things you know she would love...things that get her all smiles and laughing...looking forward to sharing memories with you

thanks alot

FlawlesRebirth02:
Ok••••op is still `typing`

ok dear..thanks

I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5yrs,last year we had issues which was mainly my fault due to my ego and insults towards her, so I broke up with her,she tried to reach me but I ignored her,so after 3 months of no calls and messages ,she called me and asked how am doing ? few days after the call I began falling for her and pleaded for her to accept me back,though it took lots of pleading then she accepted me back..Things were moving well again then few months back she sent me a message that she needed time away from the relationship and I asked her what is wrong she said her life is complicated ,she said since I broke up with her last year,her life has been upside down,she told me her family is facing spiritual issues and the pastor told her to keep away from relationship/sex for some time...she said she is not breaking up with me but just needed time away from relationship, so I promised her that I will do away with sex for the mean time so we agreed and the relationship was moving well.. i complained that she was not the babe I use to know(she was not into the relationship like before)then two days ago she still told me I made her life a hell by breaking up with her and I apologize again.we both bursted into tears and kissed each other,she told me that I should give her time to figure her self out cause she wants to be her old self,she doesn't understand herself ..she said she very much still love me,she doesn't want any relationship for now, and we are not dating now but later we can date when she feel is ok with her.. she sent me a text that she didn't say those words to hurt me,that she loves and cares for me..please what should i do? advice needed

Bro I have been in a relationship with a girl for about 5yrs,last year we had issues which was mainly my fault due to my ego and insults towards her, so I broke up with her,she tried to reach me but I ignored her,so after 3 months of no calls and messages ,she called me and asked how am doing ? few days after the call I began falling for her and pleaded for her to accept me back,though it took lots of pleading then she accepted me back..Things were moving well again then few months back she sent me a message that she needed time away from the relationship and I asked her what is wrong she said her life is complicated ,she said since I broke up with her last year,her life has been upside down,she told me her family is facing spiritual issues and the pastor told her to keep away from relationship/sex for some time...she said she is not breaking up with me but just needed time away from relationship, so I promised her that I will do away with sex for the mean time so we agreed and the relationship was moving well.. i complained that she was not the babe I use to know(she was not into the relationship like before)then two days ago she still told me I made her life a hell by breaking up with her and I apologize again.we both bursted into tears and kissed eachother,she told me that I should give her time to figure her self out cause she wants to be her old self,she doesn't understand herself ..she said she very much still love me,she doesn't want any relationship for now, and we are not dating now but later we can date when she feel is ok with her.. she sent me a text that she didn't say those words to hurt me,that she loves and cares for me..please what should i do

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SirShymexx:
Yes, you are right as well. You can always use baby oil with other moisturising cream. I think the Vaseline lotion is also nice, then maybe Jergens, Nivea, or Olay. I won't recommend cocoa butter cos it doesn't work the same way with everyone. But the most the most important thing is to use something that won't clog the pores and let the skin regenerate the natural. And to stay away from bleaching cream.

Also, most kids tend to get darker as they grow naturally but as they get closer to adulthood, they'll get their natural complexion back the natural way.

please how much is the Johnson's Baby Oil Aloe Vera and since you have started using it,how effective it is to your skin and which bathing soap can I use with it

boomii:
For your baby, you may try E45 or Sebamed lotion (I think both have baby lotions). Spots will fade eventually, it can't be instantaneous. Both creams were recommended by my dermatologist.

For you, there is Olay active hydrating moisturiser. It evens out skin tone without bleaching

Please stay away from bleaching agents e.g mercury, hydroquinone, etc

please how much is the OLAY? is it a lotion? and which bathing soap would u recommend??

Tebag:
Where is the game n.a....Abu u no dey post again

I did..check the previous pages

Youngetskilz23:
nice . if it plays expect 3K from me. quote me anywere.

it's OK bro..