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MizMyColi:


Issacbuchi that's a long one y'know...

I don't like debating with my friends.
I'd rather we make peace with our differing opinions.

opeugo:
A grown man crying on his wedding day, scared to sign the register (with an eleganza pen) and the look on the bride's face saying, "u better sign for ur own good". Choi —

Lol...op u must be crazy...cant stop laughing at the bolded

This cries must be beyond signing this paper....He looks like someone on gun point

MizMyColi:

You Win!

Ummm...that feels good.

Thank You for spending your leave with us.

MizMyColi:
Well, true than, to an extent......
Lol
And what if I contend that Pol section is home?

MizMyColi:


You didn't win o
I'm on leave

MizMyColi:
This writeup is written by a Nigerian, especially for Nigerian Ladies.
Please understand that while I and the writer share this view, you are under no obligation to share.
If it does not resonate with you...please feel free to toss it out and shout like Orubebe did "WE WILL NOT TAKE THIS; THIS IS UNACCEPTABLE"
If it does resonate with you, please welcome like a breath of fresh air.


https://wordsmithf./2015/09/30/woman-you-are-more-than-a-ring-and-a-title/

Welcome Home

Beautiful Article.

Our mothers must be praised for the effort they have made yo raise us. The values, and culture they ve tried to transfer might sound archaic but not entirely out of place. Inspite of the civilization of more developed countries I would choose my African mothers any day any time over them.

The Holy Book at 1Cor 11:9 says " And what is more, man was not created for the sake of the woman, but woman for the sake of the man".

While that is true we also recognize that the beauty of a man is his family, the happiness of his wife & kids. As such he needs to learn from an early stage that his skills, his dreams and goals are also tied to realising the joy of his family directly or indirectly. (i.e if he wants to marry)

If a man or woman doesn't think of marrying he/she still realises that he he is affected in his judgment by the impression of people. Just like it is said, 'we dress because of others'.

Tallesty1:
A Lady after reading this:



Lady: Oh, I love this. Thanks MizMyColi, I just wish our ladies will learn.

Then she receives a message from boo.

Boo: Are you free? Let's hang out.

Lady: Oh! I love this. Thanks boo.


So she goes out with boo, straffs him all night and everything she read wipes out automatically.


And everything still remains thesame.




BTW, the op failed to realize that marriage increases a man's or a woman's worth too. I don't care who you are or what you have achieved, if you are single then you are incomplete.


And What's with people and their recent attack on marriage btw? Is marriage the only institution that is failing?

Nothing on earth is better than a blessed marriage, it's an achievement on its own, the reason most fail is is our sin.

It is sin that will make a man to hit his woman. It is sin that will make a man see a woman as a lesser being, it's sin that will make a man to cheat on, beat or mistreat his woman in any way. Same thing goes for the woman.


Listen, if we all should repent and follow God's guidelines for marriage then believe you me that marriage will become the best thing on earth.

You have a beautiful way of sharing rich ideas with stories. Love that! Following You immediately

Tallesty1:
.......... So I think the best thing to do now is to divorce her. I can't take it anymore. He concluded.

And for like 40 minutes i was lost in thought. I gazed into the river that is flowing in front of us but there was nothing there to talk about. What should I say to him now. I asked myself. Even bible itself acknowledges that it's terrible to live with a nagging wife?

"Your wife realy have a bad tongue" I said. Just to break the silence and hopefuly get something to talk about "But there wouldn't be much problem if you control your anger"

"Do you think it is that easy? I laugh when people tell me that I need to be counselled on anger management when they know there wouldn't be a need for that if she behaves accordingly"

"what do I say to him" I asked myself again. I looked at the stones we each sat on but there was no answer there. Just then I looked at the river again and noticed that a herd of cattle has started crossing through the river.
As a result, the water became very muddy. I told him to go and get me a drink.

”The water in the lake is very muddy. I don’t think it is suitable to drink, Let's go home if your are thirsty.”

"No, lets stay a little longer. I'm not very thirsty".

After a while, I again asked him to go back to the river and get me some water. This annoyed him a bit. But he didnt know i was looking for a story that will help me to help him.

He obediently went back to the lake. This time he found that the mud had settled down and the water was clean so he collected some for us to drink.

I looked at the water and then looked up at my friend and said, “See what it takes to make the water clean. You let it be and the mud settled down on its own. It is also the same with your mind. When it is disturbed, just let it be. Give it a little time and it will settle down on its own.” if the words she is saying are disturbing you then give her space. Visit a friend and come back when her blood is calm. If you think she is purposly doing that then try to make sure she doesn't succed by giving her positive response. Act like you are un-aware of her bad character. She wasn't like that when you married her right?

No; she wasn't

Tame her then, pray for her, let her hear when you tell God about her nagging. help her the best way you can to become her old self, be firm regardless of her action, enlarge your sense of things. Stop listening to the sound of her voice and start hearing the unspoken words in her heart, the hidden meaning of her words because she could be trying to express herself. Return her harsh words with sweet ones, pet and show her love, buy her gifts, take her out occasionaly, help her at home. She could be batling stress. She is your wife and divorce is not an option in marriage”

I Wished Him Luck And Left Asaply








^^^^My conversation with a friend years ago^^^^





The cause of the problem most times is in us.

MizMyColi:
Hahahahaha

Pulling me out is not an option swerriee
Maybe you should talk of helping me balance both passions....like you've been doing.
My inner circle consists of politicians.
GEJITES, BUHARISTS, PDPIANS, and APCIANS.
Plus, I'm a natural when it comes to administration and people orientedness.....it was only a matter of time before I towed this path.
Hehehehe

Don't worry I noticed already that I couldn't pull you out...I was just trying hard to console myself So far as I can keep you closer that is comfortingly enough for me

MizMyColi:
Hahahahaha

Isaac o o
Why do I have a feeling you'll soon be hooked to politics like I am

If you're familiar with a Behaviour Modification term called modelling, You'd get what I'm on about

Megawax8 you're next in line

You are already hooked....I'm still hovering
Until then...I might as well playfully and prayerfully pull u out

MizMyColi:



Thank you sincere9gerian for this.

repogirl:
Risk kwa? E never decline finish already?

MizMyColi:


Na from clap them dey enter dance.

Let's just say i was looking for you, I decided to casually stroll across your neighborhood in case i could stumble on you. So in the process my eyes was drawn to one slanderous catastrophy being committed by one of your neigbour, so as a kind Samaritan I decided I could fight on your behalf...since you were not around.

MizMyColi:

You got me cracking off my ribs.

Why r u laughing? Is it the APC change? Of course their change is laughable

Or is it my presence in politics? I was just passing by and I poked nosed

MizMyColi:
Hope your liver will still be intact o.

I'm giving up all for you.....Get MizMyColi Back or Die Trying

MizMyColi:



and you expect Kaboninc to just be moping?
Mbanu!

Lolz!
He should get ready for a duel
Clash of the titans

**warming up** where is he?...... I can't see him