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Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 6:51am On Aug 22, 2015
kaboninc:
Fake politics is what we're practising abi?

I chi you.

You also play politics. In whatever form you think it is, politics is played....and by you. Politics is just about acquiring power. Are you saying you have no intention of acquiring power....in whatever guise?

Life is about compromises. Politics is all about compromising between two alternative interests and these interests are usually personal even when we claim it is for a greater good.


As for my loff for her, a conviction will trial you. Lol. Jussss ask her. My loff over flows any container it feels and the earth is just the smallest.
As for ur love for her she told me the other night when we were alone at the corner of the dark arms in arms and she sang ur song for me smiley wink. Ask her

As for politics according to ur etended explanation I must say that you are politically in love with MizMyColi grin grin


I didn't also say u play fake politics I said real politics as in the deep one.
Family › Re: 9 Tips For Keeping The Spark Alive In Your Marriage by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:26am On Aug 22, 2015
LastProphet:
as much as i wish what you said will work, it doesn't just work, just get married because its the right thing to do but as per release rekindling the fire forget it. at a point marriage is a real burden but prayer and commitment can keep it going. as per the spark please forget it, human biology suggests otherwise. better keep your mind mind off sparks and face the objectivity of raising your kids, saving for retirement, building a retirement home, helping others, social responsibility, etc. take your mind off sparks because after kids the sparks are on a natural decline and it will do you good to accept it as normal
Are u seriously serious? I know that marriage can be burdensome but it I don't want to believe what you just said. So why give ur life to a miserable last phase of ur life?
Politics › Re: You Can Probe Amaechi, Court Tells Rivers Govt by IsaacBuchi(m): 6:00am On Aug 21, 2015
Wike and Amaechi fighting like tom and jerry since 1989..... I beg let one side win let's celebrate kwanu grin

What is the use of a fight when no one is winning? It is as if we are watching a political seasonal movie....deceiving and entertaining the grassroot
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 11:37pm On Aug 20, 2015
KingTom:
You don't even know the half of it man, someone is actually calling himself"Mentions" grin
Lolz...tell me shomethingz grin
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 11:22pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc:
You cannot offer her more than me nau. The loff I have for her can fill this earth. Ask her...she knows.

She's with meeeeee...... tongue

Am no sharewwwwing with you. I don't share sweeries.


So you like politics? Hmmmm Hmmmm

You support political actions with good intentions is just the same thing my Miz is harping about. We play politics in every facet of our lives....family, church, school, offices, weddings, kporakpo meetings...name it, politics is involved.

So pick your choose or choose your pick. Lol.
grin hilarious....while I can say she doesn't know my breathe exist, I can bet she cannot even see a grain of sand of your love.....fill ur love beyond the earth she might notice it. grin grin grin

You are just sugar coating politics.....real politics is not university SUG, nor school rivalry, or office antagonism, or family clash ...real politics is actually dining with the devil with a long spoon. wink


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Oh Lord, some people are fighting on the thread let me watch the movie on DSTV cheesy grin
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 11:08pm On Aug 20, 2015
KingTom:
So I have become a subject of public ridicule abi? God just see my life cry
Make Una stop Na. grin
kpele o...Lol....neva knew that was a moniker.... kaboninc just wanted to invite....haha...Nairaladers what a fun people cheesy
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 11:05pm On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:
@Isaacbuchi
Please send me an opening mail on mizmycoli at gmail do t com

I typed a reply that only you might be comfortable reading.
Lols
wow! ....i don win jackpot grin grin...am doing that with the greatest speed of light...
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 6:16pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc, really animal kingTom...I can't help but lmao grin grin

No matter how a dog barks he cannot roar like a lion. MizMyColi no matter how she changes her skin she knows her root...She belongs to us. You just got to be polite to ask us to share wink

We are not derailing...our discussion is still about Miz been unemotionally available to his real family. grin grin wink smiley

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As for the invitation no but thanks...I don't do politics...I only support political actions with good intentions and ideals no matter the party.
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:55pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc:
I see you have a problem with politics. angry angry angry

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics. cool cool

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold.... cheesy
Lolz...

I said it....there are here....I got to scurry off before the attack me in the name of Mix cheesy

don't worry kabonic I would not even dare openly or secretly to take her away....all I ask is can we share? grin
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:54pm On Aug 20, 2015
kaboninc:
I see you have a problem with politics. angry angry angry

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics. cool cool

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold.... cheesy
Lolz...

I said it....there are here....I got to scurry off before the attack me in the name of Mix cheesy

don't worry kabonic I would not even dare openly or secretly to take her away....all I ask is can we share? grin
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:50pm On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:
Lols.
I am currently discussing politics elsewhere.
Not on NL.
Serious deliberations actually.

Well, I think at the end of the day, we can agree that everyone should be given a free rein to do whatever their heart pleases...As long as they do not portend any danger to humanity.

Like I said earlier, I'm working on a balance, I do not claim to have apprehended.
Politics is a new passion/hobby for me.
I intend to see it through.
Did I read "serious deliberations"? Well that's bad for us but maybe good for you....so far as the deal fetches you money I cannot be against that. After all politics is the fastest route to be rich in naija.


As for "portend danger" we can't lie about that...the deeper you go the devilish politics becomes.

I am proud of you especially how you can put ur head around that complexities of politics...Enjoy ur new hobby.....Don't forget ....ur other fans are waiting. smiley
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m):
MizMyColi:
cheesy

I've been subconsciously waiting for a comment like yours.
Lols


It's not as bad as you view it from the outside.
Just trying to form a degree of balance.

It is as dangerous as it is outside as it is inside.

well, while some dudes are having a fun filled moment having you around the politics section....some other fans like me hurriedly skip reading any of your post from the politics section.

I cant stop you from entertaining ur politics fans, but babe it is not balanced in any way.....u r "engrossed" into politics.

So I am subconsciously waiting for u to consciously turn ur attention away a bit from politics. wink

#StillPetitionFromAfan
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 7:21am On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:
Thank you for your contribution IsaacBuchi

Thank You.

I'm one of your fans and you make it easier for me to enjoy reading ur post if you cut the time you give politics section and give it to family or something like this one. Politics is heartless...Just Saying.

#PetitionFromAfan grin
Family › Re: When He Becomes Emotionally Unavailable by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:28am On Aug 20, 2015
MizMyColi:

As ladies, we sometimes wonder where we got it wrong, if it's a crime to show emotions and love passionately, because we find somewhere down the relationship that our loving overtures and care is met with outright resistance. This continues for a while until we are finally able to write the guy off. Sometimes, when they come back, it's either too late or never as it used to be.

We move on to another person, and it's like a cycle.
Well, truth is, it is always going be a circle if we fail to recognize the signs and fail into the trap of an emotionally unavailable relationship and which is what TrulyHis's thread was about, good enough you referred to it. In a relationship where someone leads you to believe that they love you and you swallow the pill, you are bound to start another circle if you thread again wrongly.


For starters, we ladies must realize that we cannot keep doing things the same way and expect different results.
It is not entirely their fault. Relationship is like two people preparing a meal. In this cooking everyone contributes an ingredient. Some however withdraw their own part of the contributions.



The reason why the guys who employ this sick method are able to get to us is because we look up to things that are without for validation. For example, we can only love ourselves and see ourselves as beautiful if that guy (who more oft than not is emotionally unavailable) sees us as such.
It is sad that we have attached our worthiness as humans to things that are without (e.g., people's affirmations, our cars, money, jobs e.t.c).
Smh.
Everyone who is heartbroken is bound to get hurt no matter your self worth. Importantly as you mentioned it vital that we love ourselves which can help us rise above our hurt feeling quickly. Women are however very sentimental and that is how there are created. Sadly, they are created to be attached to something, especially man, which makes it a greater struggle.

Until they start looking inwards, within....for joy, peace, love, whole self acceptance and what have you...ladies aren't going to be redeemed anytime soon.
You will know that you are making progress when someone calls you Ugly or Fat or a Failure, and you look at them and smile....why? Because you have become connected to the reality that however you are, your curves, your contours, your smoothness, your sleekness, your edges, even the so-called imperfections are the same things that make you so amazingly beautiful and wonderful.


Let me ask this question:- How many of us can really believe this about ourselves?
Even if we can, we would rather allow society be our yardstick of acceptance, both of self and others.

And just so you know sis, I haven't arrived either, I am not perfect. But then, I'm determined to leave this world better than I met it, and that entails working on becoming a better me....

My dear sister, learn to be your own best friend, your own motivator. Learn how to be mentally strong enough to let go of emotionally abusive people and relationships. Do not let them and the negative energy they exude be the defining factor of your life.
Stop acting out of desperation. Do not become an "anything goes" lady.
Show yourself some dignity! Stop feeling like the guy is doing you a favor by dating or marrying you.
You are as much a blessing to him as he is to youkiss You are not valueless my dear, please rise above your mind.
Be confident enough that whatever you desire for yourself, you can have.
Dis-identify from the negative tendencies of your mind.
Your true nature as a woman is one that every celestial being envies.
Die daily to your ego. Allow your true being, your true consciousness grow more and more within you.
You are enough. You are worthy. You are complete. You are whole.

^^How willing you are to believe this about yourself is a direct determinant of the proportion of changes you will see in your life.

Sometimes, it's okay to be selfish. A love you have not given to yourself, you cannot give to others, and cannot receive from others either.

A word is enough for the wise.
Indeed I love this insightful part!
As much as we want to have a high perception of ourselves we need to realize we need to continually work on ourselves and to improve the quality of who we are as a person and not about the qualities of our beautiful face, curvy back, firm bosom or rather ugly body, shapeless back, falling bosom as the case may be. The more we realize we have attractive qualities, or have something to contribute to the society and are a blessing to others, people will flock to us like flies and we can easily forget the heartbreaks, the rejections and possibly any existing flaws or imperfections within or outside of ourselves.


We cannot rise above who we are inside - @JuniorPortland
wink
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: A Advice Is Needed! by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:48am On Aug 20, 2015
Take it that he sees certain potential in you and hence you need to believe in urself and make the perception a reality.

First I'll suggest that you meet him and talk. Explain to him that you feel unqualified for this post because of many factors but you will be pleased if he can coach you in some important roles/duty required of you in this new position.

Second consider this role as a vital opportunity to grow. A role that would effectively increase your skills and your business network, which is something you would be greatful for later years in life.

Now I don't understand what you mean by he would sack you if you don't pick the offer. Why would he sack you?
Politics › Re: Senate Forgery: Police Report’s Whereabouts Unknown -PUNCH by IsaacBuchi(m): 7:19am On Aug 19, 2015
When only #50 can trip them off.....why won't it get missing....smiley

Fighting corruption in naija....how real?
Politics › Re: Police Salaries In Major Countries Of The World. by IsaacBuchi(m): 11:41am On Aug 18, 2015
Sneaks in silently to follow Sile12 and his captivating threads, Sile12 my man!
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Pls Help A Brother!! by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:40pm On Aug 16, 2015
dejitenaj:
I urgently need a job to cater for my family... Anybody in Ilorin Kwara state who can be of help should please contact me. I have BSc in Economics. Pls help a brother


Thank you
Oga, how do u want someone to contact u...drop ur number. I'm in Kwara let's talk.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: List Of Fake/scam Recruiters In 9ja!! by IsaacBuchi(m): 12:08pm On Aug 10, 2015
Busted! smiley

Good Job Op!
Business › Re: My Salon Is Ready For Business But No Stylist by IsaacBuchi(m): 10:53pm On Aug 09, 2015
All that likes for me....I feel flustered in a good way tongue) ....singing "I don get Alert Godwin ooo!" .... Good night jare!
Business › Re: My Salon Is Ready For Business But No Stylist by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:03pm On Aug 09, 2015
You are welcome & I am glad it did help.
At least you should given me a "like" if not for anything so I can get an Alert wink on my phone. undecided
Don't you know se.un pays me for every "like" I get. grin

I wish you rich blessings in your new salon!
Business › Re: My Salon Is Ready For Business But No Stylist by IsaacBuchi(m): 2:02pm On Aug 09, 2015
You are welcome & I am glad it did help.
At least you should given me a "like" if not for anything so I can get an Alert wink on my phone. undecided
Don't you know se.un pays me for every "like" I get. grin

I wish you rich blessings in your new salon!
Nairaland General › Re: How To Make Front Page: Important Things You Should Know by IsaacBuchi(m): 11:32am On Aug 09, 2015
I love misssclassy sad
Business › Re: My Salon Is Ready For Business But No Stylist by IsaacBuchi(m):
Alert:
...or do I just get someone to manage it and how much will the person pay per month? Besides I have already bought lots of hair products and accessories I displayed for sale, how do I go about that?

I don't get that part.


Alert:
Also I want to sometimes come in and maybe do some minor works like helping wash a customer hair etc. or would I just stay off when I hand it over to someone to mange? Help pls huh
Do u have some experience with hair styling? It is never a good idea to leave a new business to an employee even a stranger at that. You can only do that when you have built enough confidence with the staff. At the point where you let your hand off fully supervising the salon, I think the traditional way of doing it is agreeing on a monthly amount the person has to remit.

In my search for employees a friend once said, "look for people who are desperate". To you like I said salons around you who have staffs they are training & some are good enough to start off on their own. They cannot wait for an opportunity to leave their boss watch and kick off to manage a free salon like yours.

I do hope my answer is really helping?
Politics › Re: Obasanjo Advises Buhari To Deploy Soldier To South South by IsaacBuchi(m): 3:36am On Aug 09, 2015
Baba always playing a political chess game. Know where to place ur next pawn, Buhari. Just saying! wink
Business › Re: My Salon Is Ready For Business But No Stylist by IsaacBuchi(m): 12:10pm On Aug 08, 2015
I had a similar experience. Opened up barbing salon. Was my first entrepreneurship experience. Paid one year rent & struggled over a year to get and keep a barber there until the rent expired.

People claimed the mistake was that I should have found someone who would manage it before paying rent or learn how to barb myself, and manage the place myself whiles looking out for a barber who'll take over.

Well I don't know if their analysis and solution was true. why do I say that? Because when people build companies they don't always have ready staffs to start the company. The send out adverts and most times the have influx of applicants (it is not always easy for starters though to get willing employees to risk working for an unsure startup company)


For you, however, you have acquired the salon and furnished it. So you have to do extra effort to get a stylist to mange it as soon as possible. Or else the more time goes the more frustrating it can become. Why not talk to other salon's with stylist around the area or other places. Be open to them and ask them to help you by letting out a staff for you.

My dear, the road of an entrepreneur brings down a lot of sweat on the eyes brows. You'll get one, keep up the search.
Crime › Re: Why I Slept With My Friend’s Teenage Daughter – UNILAG Lecturer. Picture. by IsaacBuchi(m): 4:16am On Aug 08, 2015
When old men disgrace themselves in the laps of babies...smh...Useless old pedophile! huh
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Help Help Help by IsaacBuchi(m): 9:52pm On Aug 07, 2015
What has 17k got to do with switching off your phone at work? Would he have been needing help if his salary was higher say 100k? That's the job he chose, if the circumstance does not suit him let him leave.
There are no chains in life than the once we have accepted.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Job Seekers Hate Marketing Jobs (A Must Read) by IsaacBuchi(m): 6:57am On Aug 07, 2015
thank you for taking out the time...Great advice I must say!

7lives:
Google search B2B, other Nigerian based marketing consultants and distribution companies, when you see sales promoters in the market approach them for information, there is always a space somehow provided you are not expecting a high salary.
The marketing managers are like football coaches,always looking for strikers, when you get an opportunity make good use of it, let your employers see you as a goal getter, full of ideas, a very good team player and sometimes ready to work with minimum supervision.
You can also work as a sales agent, if you can raise some money you can carve a " niche" for yourself marketing for distributors, go there with reasonable amount of money, as you continue to patronize them, ask for credit facility, once you can prove to them that your relationship with them will also impact positively on their business they will give you a credit facility, but remember that you will need a guarantor or two.
Most distributors are looking for high quality partners to work with because the more they sell the higher their commissions, some of them sells at a discount rates in order to meet their targets which varies in categories, this is where the sales agents are profiting reasonably.
Politics › Re: Don’t Give Fashola Appointment,civil Society Group Tells Buhari-PUNCH by IsaacBuchi(m): 5:43am On Aug 07, 2015
We all know who the thieves are, you don't need to tell him. Baba we are watching you.
Nigerian's would judge you in 2019 and praise you as a man of honor or shame you as a fraudster of change.
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Why Job Seekers Hate Marketing Jobs (A Must Read) by IsaacBuchi(m):
Totally, marketing is the bedrock/essence of any business. I have been looking out tirelessly for some to work with but no better lead.
How do i get some for my business?

7lives:
Your head dey there.
Originality + ability = na we own the society.
Marketing is the best job any one can do provided you have the charm and the gift of advocacy.
Marketing is the reason so many young graduates are not either mad or have not commit suicide.
Marketing is putting food on so many empty stomachs.
Marketing is where Nigerians are now taking economic refuge.
So who's not marketing in Nigeria at the moment, join us for a power pack night vigil at..... and your life will never remain the same, the moment you can successfully convince anyone to take a decision that put few naira notes in your bank account,you are a marketer.
Marketing does not kill, it only make you stronger.
My people perish for a lack of knowledge, spread the word.

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