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kaboninc:
I see you have a problem with politics.

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics.

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold....

kaboninc:
I see you have a problem with politics.

Well, I will resist any attempt, in any form whatsoever, be it overtly or covertly to take away my Miz from Politics.

But I'll welcome you gladly into the fold....

MizMyColi:
Lols.
I am currently discussing politics elsewhere.
Not on NL.
Serious deliberations actually.

Well, I think at the end of the day, we can agree that everyone should be given a free rein to do whatever their heart pleases...As long as they do not portend any danger to humanity.

Like I said earlier, I'm working on a balance, I do not claim to have apprehended.
Politics is a new passion/hobby for me.
I intend to see it through.

MizMyColi:


I've been subconsciously waiting for a comment like yours.
Lols


It's not as bad as you view it from the outside.
Just trying to form a degree of balance.

It is as dangerous as it is outside as it is inside.

well, while some dudes are having a fun filled moment having you around the politics section....some other fans like me hurriedly skip reading any of your post from the politics section.

I cant stop you from entertaining ur politics fans, but babe it is not balanced in any way.....u r "engrossed" into politics.

So I am subconsciously waiting for u to consciously turn ur attention away a bit from politics.

#StillPetitionFromAfan

MizMyColi:
Thank you for your contribution IsaacBuchi

Thank You.

I'm one of your fans and you make it easier for me to enjoy reading ur post if you cut the time you give politics section and give it to family or something like this one. Politics is heartless...Just Saying.

#PetitionFromAfan

MizMyColi:

As ladies, we sometimes wonder where we got it wrong, if it's a crime to show emotions and love passionately, because we find somewhere down the relationship that our loving overtures and care is met with outright resistance. This continues for a while until we are finally able to write the guy off. Sometimes, when they come back, it's either too late or never as it used to be.

We move on to another person, and it's like a cycle.

For starters, we ladies must realize that we cannot keep doing things the same way and expect different results.

The reason why the guys who employ this sick method are able to get to us is because we look up to things that are without for validation. For example, we can only love ourselves and see ourselves as beautiful if that guy (who more oft than not is emotionally unavailable) sees us as such.
It is sad that we have attached our worthiness as humans to things that are without (e.g., people's affirmations, our cars, money, jobs e.t.c).
Smh.

Until they start looking inwards, within....for joy, peace, love, whole self acceptance and what have you...ladies aren't going to be redeemed anytime soon.
You will know that you are making progress when someone calls you Ugly or Fat or a Failure, and you look at them and smile....why? Because you have become connected to the reality that however you are, your curves, your contours, your smoothness, your sleekness, your edges, even the so-called imperfections are the same things that make you so amazingly beautiful and wonderful.


Let me ask this question:- How many of us can really believe this about ourselves?
Even if we can, we would rather allow society be our yardstick of acceptance, both of self and others.

And just so you know sis, I haven't arrived either, I am not perfect. But then, I'm determined to leave this world better than I met it, and that entails working on becoming a better me....

My dear sister, learn to be your own best friend, your own motivator. Learn how to be mentally strong enough to let go of emotionally abusive people and relationships. Do not let them and the negative energy they exude be the defining factor of your life.
Stop acting out of desperation. Do not become an "anything goes" lady.
Show yourself some dignity! Stop feeling like the guy is doing you a favor by dating or marrying you.
You are as much a blessing to him as he is to you You are not valueless my dear, please rise above your mind.
Be confident enough that whatever you desire for yourself, you can have.
Dis-identify from the negative tendencies of your mind.
Your true nature as a woman is one that every celestial being envies.
Die daily to your ego. Allow your true being, your true consciousness grow more and more within you.
You are enough. You are worthy. You are complete. You are whole.

^^How willing you are to believe this about yourself is a direct determinant of the proportion of changes you will see in your life.

Sometimes, it's okay to be selfish. A love you have not given to yourself, you cannot give to others, and cannot receive from others either.

A word is enough for the wise.

Indeed I love this insightful part!
As much as we want to have a high perception of ourselves we need to realize we need to continually work on ourselves and to improve the quality of who we are as a person and not about the qualities of our beautiful face, curvy back, firm bosom or rather ugly body, shapeless back, falling bosom as the case may be. The more we realize we have attractive qualities, or have something to contribute to the society and are a blessing to others, people will flock to us like flies and we can easily forget the heartbreaks, the rejections and possibly any existing flaws or imperfections within or outside of ourselves.


We cannot rise above who we are inside - @JuniorPortland

dejitenaj:
I urgently need a job to cater for my family... Anybody in Ilorin Kwara state who can be of help should please contact me. I have BSc in Economics. Pls help a brother


Thank you

Alert:
...or do I just get someone to manage it and how much will the person pay per month? Besides I have already bought lots of hair products and accessories I displayed for sale, how do I go about that?

Alert:
Also I want to sometimes come in and maybe do some minor works like helping wash a customer hair etc. or would I just stay off when I hand it over to someone to mange? Help pls

7lives:
Google search B2B, other Nigerian based marketing consultants and distribution companies, when you see sales promoters in the market approach them for information, there is always a space somehow provided you are not expecting a high salary.
The marketing managers are like football coaches,always looking for strikers, when you get an opportunity make good use of it, let your employers see you as a goal getter, full of ideas, a very good team player and sometimes ready to work with minimum supervision.
You can also work as a sales agent, if you can raise some money you can carve a " niche" for yourself marketing for distributors, go there with reasonable amount of money, as you continue to patronize them, ask for credit facility, once you can prove to them that your relationship with them will also impact positively on their business they will give you a credit facility, but remember that you will need a guarantor or two.
Most distributors are looking for high quality partners to work with because the more they sell the higher their commissions, some of them sells at a discount rates in order to meet their targets which varies in categories, this is where the sales agents are profiting reasonably.

7lives:
Your head dey there.
Originality + ability = na we own the society.
Marketing is the best job any one can do provided you have the charm and the gift of advocacy.
Marketing is the reason so many young graduates are not either mad or have not commit suicide.
Marketing is putting food on so many empty stomachs.
Marketing is where Nigerians are now taking economic refuge.
So who's not marketing in Nigeria at the moment, join us for a power pack night vigil at..... and your life will never remain the same, the moment you can successfully convince anyone to take a decision that put few naira notes in your bank account,you are a marketer.
Marketing does not kill, it only make you stronger.
My people perish for a lack of knowledge, spread the word.

menesheh:
you don't see air but you feel it and its impact

johnydon22:
it is absolutely illogical and irrational to fill a gap you don't have answers to with any thesis that pops in mind, it is misleading as it is preposterous. . it kill the intellectual curiosity that drives the zeal to learn what exactly happend.

If we have swallowed the god did answers of the ancient men, we wouldn't have gone to space by now, we would still be of the opinion that the sky is the abode of the gods.

Your analogy is like "I don't know how a child is formed, heck that means i will just believe a god does it" But just a simple touch of science with the use of ultra sound you can monitor the formation of a child first hand see exactly how it forms. . .

"God did it" is never an answer to any question

johnydon22:
Disbelief is not a weight on the negate. . . atheism in a nutshell is simply "I don't believe you" so until you as the claimant of the god thesis proves your claim it is still as good as nothing. . . . Only Gnostic atheist will make the absolute statement "Am sure there is no god"

menesheh:
will you accept god did it as an answer

johnydon22:
That you don't know how something came about doesn't imply you should cook of any imaginary fiction to fill this gap. . .just say you don't know until study and observations proves otherwise