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Don’t do babes things. Tried just once at 32 for marriage but dishonesty, lies and unfaithfulness. Focused and straight forward in my quest.

funmisticqueen2:
oga 6m per annum is decent, but marriages comw with extra expenses, especially when kids come in. That might be something to factor in.

I wish you the best with your babe

A personal vow and all close to me are aware. Seeing greater heights and is pushing myself towards it with sacrifice.

UndauntedYOCA:
True though, I really pray God gives you a great spouse. Do you run an NGO?

Thanks friend. There are things that actually can’t be hiding since others will make it known not minding how humble and simpler you are. Yes, I am a Christian and I hate dishonest characters and cheats in any form. I am not a pretender but a friend to many. Once ones way is clean, odds will be working out for your good. I am very mindful of my destiny direction and I don’t want anyone close to me to be a distraction. I believe that all will be beautiful in it’s time and that there are still some remnant that are faithful and would be committed to to true courses.

UndauntedYOCA:
As much as money is essential, I think character is really important.
For me.
Relationship with God is the most important.
Respect and attitude toward others.
How charitable that person is
Finance
How the person manages situation etc.
Pretend to be broke, maybe it'll help. It should actually help, this is what I intend doing once the money starts coming.
Good luck bro and whatever your religion is, prayerfully choose a wife and do not settle for less than you truly deserve.

Correct it. Say some men as it’s same in some women. Don’t generalize it.

God bless Nigeria.

Let’s not judge a man till he is found culpable. God help Nigeria and bless Nigeria.

I can’t imagine this wickedness by some women. Never had a girl friend nor into any relationship till I was 32. Entered into one with one I know but the hell broke out since she felt she has honesty and I can’t do anything considering my Christian convictions and family . Wanted just someone that would enable me meet up with my destiny demand even if she is not working. The family used all that to conspire against me in different ways irrespective of the sacrifices I kept showing that all I demanded was honesty especially in financial matters. They said I will be the loser considering all I spent and the strong love for her.

But God is very Faithful, quite higher. The truth will always be manifest with time. God have mercy on all innocent men in marital challenges.

Victory is sure.

Hmmm.

SweetCunt97:
Abeg him grammar too much jor... Interested on what ground exactly? No vex me abeg

Somehow an uphill.

crackland:
You're everywhere my brother, and I'm finding it difficult following your line of thought.

Perhaps you should just go with SweetCunt97's suggestion regarding her cousin. She herself might even be interested as well.

Why the pic? That’s truth. Do you think otherwise?

crackland:
Kai...
https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/sad.gif

Said errors like personal weaknesses but not lies, unfaithfulness and cheats. Such are not weaknesses.

crackland:
If you already have no problem with errors (deception, unfaithfulness, lies), what then is the issue?

Hmmm.

SweetCunt97:
OK lemme recommend my cousin to you then.

I have no problem with errors but provided we are open to corrections, is not repeating, not deliberate and void of unfaithfulness of all kinds and cheats.

crackland:
You do that by leaving a space in your heart and mind open for errors.

This is not to minimize anything though, but to provide an emotional buffer.

You can only control your own actions and reactions, NEVER that of another person...not even someone you love.

Had never picked just entered once and clear cheats everywhere. It’s well.

SweetCunt97:
Baba you speaking grammar for us here. Simply pick a seemingly nice lady and see how it goes.

I personally hate lies and unfaithfulness and is not ready to reap that since I had never planted it against any and won’t. How can one minimize falling into the trap for the sake of his destiny commitments.

Not that. Read recent replies. Don’t need anyone that would distract my destiny commitment through lies and cheats since some persons say one trust a lot and easily.

fykes:
If all u think if marriage and marital commitment is in monetary value.... Believe me you have started failing.
You already have a mindset that women are leeches and I can't see how u won't be attracting gold diggers with such mentality.
Having money now doesn't guarantee u will have it tomorrow so if u don't find any reason to marry except form ur supposed deep pockets, pls stay single and save someone the troubles

I have explained the reasons. Won’t add any other. It’s well dear. Dead to that. Thanks.

Saintmary:
A cheat will always be a cheat. Stop trying to change people. And if you're the cheating type, don't expect a faithful partner.

Thinking if there are ways to make someone not to cheat on you because of your truthfulness in other to meet up with your destiny demands.

cococandy:
Since you saw all that, that means you already know it’s doable. What is the purpose of your thread then? For us to answer questions you already know the answer to?

There are things you can’t hide to those around and strangers know with time. But sincerity sometimes put a lot to unnecessary challenges.

Many hate the truth.

SweetCunt97:
You can pretend to be a broke man to ascertain who loves u and willing to stay by u faithfully without much money.

Hmmmm. You don’t need it sha. Support those around you.

Millenniumlady:
When he gives gou bring it to me

Hmmmm. You don’t need it sha. Support those around you.

Millenniumlady:
When he gives gou bring it to me

I have seen a lot of homes around that survives with less than $100 monthly and needs little or no assistance from others. I understand what you are saying. Taking all responsibility on family and given stipends.

sisisioge:
Oga....Nigerian guys are getting married while averaging 600k per annum. Most of them make terrible husbands though because tight finances bring on a lot of angers.

As per your income....you are more than ready financially. You just need to check your readiness on other areas.

Not inclined to that. Low keys.

xendra:
show off (rolls eyes)

Business is growing but thinking of faithful one.I mean true Christian one. Is a vow that is pushing it up and the Faithfulness to it.

GuestLog:
If you don't save enough to expand your business, you will be left with nothing to offer charity. Think about this!

Funny friend. No shouting. Low keys.

God bless Nigeria.

johnkey:
Oya do charity for us here if you sureOya do charity for us here if you sure

I have read a lot of post and had also been in relationship just once after reserving myself till early thirties. Differences came when mistrust on request for finances became rampant and deception and unfaithfulness with her ex increased. That made me then to be secretive on my earnings since I gave her room to see the cash flow and ensured that no lack in her side nor family.

Presently, someone that earns at least #6m in annual income though work for different companies and projects in Asia, North America and Europe from home good to carter for his own family.

Let me add, I spent at least 50% of my earnings in charity work. I believe in charity from my youth and nothing can take it away from me. Though work might not flow continuously but that is the minimum annual earning for some years now.

God bless Nigeria.

I know what I wrote and I know what I know. Don’t judge what you don’t understand now. God bless Nigeria.

Nairalandmonika:
Was Nigeria ever great.

A height you don’t know and understand the depth, just be quiet over it.

God bless Nigeria.

Topmaike007:
be giving yourself false hope

Worth reply again since the height defers.

God bless Nigeria.

sircatherine45:
I'm not a Christian, but God in His Holiness, hates rubbish. Very soon, this country will split, then you'll understand

I'm not an IPOB member FYI

Don’t judge what you don’t understand. One day if God permits you to, you will understand.
God bless Nigeria.

sircatherine45:
keep deceiving yourself

If you are tired of this country, please leave. I love Nigeria and I believe that Nigeria is blessed and will be greater again.

God bless Nigeria.

That’s my good man. God bless Trump. The Lord Jesus preserve you and give you uncommon peace in all sphere. God bless President Donald Trump. I love � you.

God bless Nigeria.

God is Faithful. Think big, work big and trust God. He is too Faithful.

I love Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria.