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budaatum:
Its just sex, you said. So why should he concern himself with his wife's happiness?

I think you should introduce him to the women you just have sex with so he can stop worrying his head.

My statement here simply validate what I said in the other thread “it’s just sex” and it really is. Stop attaching importance to it. Most women have no use or value beyond that. Imaging letting the fact that another man is piping ur wife wore you down? Sounds absurd right? That’s it.

budaatum:
I am very pleased for you to hear you get the just sex that you want. And may you continue to deserve and get it.

Amen. Thanks

budaatum:
Have you tried putting chains around her legs and tying her to yourself so she can't go see her ex-husband?

Seriously, I think your supposed love is turning your brain to mush, and it indicates a low self esteem in yourself, or you'd be asking us how to stop yourself receiving the abuse she's giving you.

Abuse? Where the abuse here? His wife simply enjoy having sex with her ex and not him. Where the abuse here? Rather he should work on making her happy and ask the other man what he’s doing better so he can start doing it too. Maybe with time she will stop going to her ex

Samantha125:
The man just announced to the entire world how he's physically abusive towards women and you don't see anything wrong there?

It's like you guys have normalised GBV over there to a point that a man can even comfortably brag about it publicly without any fear of repercussions.

Exactly! Real! Because omg imagine a man claiming he will beat his woman cuz her food isn’t good enough omg. I can’t even breath omg I’m literally shaking rn like omg like literally omg 😦

Samantha125:
Something like that, I still don't fully understand the whole LGBTQ community yet, especially the transgender one, but he's among them.

Are you a woman? Doubt it! You can’t be a woman if you don’t support degeneracies flying around the modern world. You rarely see a woman finding anything wrong with “indiscriminate abortion” “homosexuality” “transgender” etc the only issue they have with this is when you say “trans men are women” lol they don’t want any other gender to be competing with them for
The good thing of life men afford women with

We4all:
Over flogged topic! Have you ever heard of the word 'responsibility'? I believe in every home, every one is responsible for something. A man shouldering the financial responsibilities doesn't make him better than the woman who is shouldering her own responsibilities by taking care of the home front and risking her life to birth babies that will inherit his name and give him a bragging right. If women bring nothing to the table, then why don't you just continue to live a solitary lifesyle and leave women alone? Life is not that hard!

The question wasn’t even directed at you. Why are you pained? Who hurts you?

budaatum:
And you are perfectly entitled to whatever it is you are interested in or want or don't want, but you don't then need to try to convince us it is the women who are not worth wanting when you don't deserve a woman and when we know better.

If I don’t deserve women, I wouldn’t be getting women. The fact that I get women mean I deserve women. What you deserve is what you get. This is how life works. Rather, most women, not all, that I have met strive to deserve me.

Besides, there’s nothing to be deserved when it comes to women. Like I said, it’s just sex.

budaatum:
Comment after reading the below.

https://www.nairaland.com/8514857/what-women-bring-table-marriage#136739321

And please consider that if women don't bring anything to a relationship with you, you can always marry a man who does bring something into a relationship with you.

I have no interest in dating a woman or having a committed relationship with them. It’s just sex. My commitment ends on the bed. And I always say this. I never hide that from any woman

Mrexcell:
So the courts will just impose the payments without any dna test?

Yes that’s exactly what I meant. US court has what they called “legal paternity” and “biological paternity”. If you were dating a single mom and she has evidence that “with receipt” that you once or used to buy things for her baby, then you’re the father. The court will slam you with a child support if you separate with the mother.

If you want more explanation on this lemme know

budaatum:
I think there's a problem with where you've been looking, and I suggest you look elsewhere and wider. Perhaps start from inside your own mother's home, and come tell us she brought nothing to the family you were brought up in to.

As a point, a man and woman met at work. He was a lawyer and her boss, while she is an accountant. The work had a no married couple policy, so they decided the wife should resign. But when she told her boss, he informed her the company is doing a review, and would likely need accountants more than lawyers, so they reconsidered, and he resigned. The company eventually got rid of half the lawyers it employed.

Since then, like 20 years ago, the wife has been bringing home all the bacon, and the husbands contribution has been providing a roof, which he is able to do because his father has property.

They have 3 children that the man says bother him when he is watching Man U. He does not help them with their school work, nor engage with them much, which his wife has to do when she gets back from work. And when night comes, he wants to fuq, and she, being a Christian who believes its his entitlement, lets him.

They moved to UK last year, because the wife wanted to do her masters, and they now live in a house bought by her mother. She studies and works, while he still sits on his lazy ass watching Man U!

Now tell. me she brings nothing to the table in marriage!

lol using 0.000000000000000000001% of case to argue against the 99.9999999999%. You’ll be alright

Sonnobax15:

This female parasite should let Cubana chief priest be jor . It's only senseless people who will say that child belongs to CCP when it's so obvious to everyone with clear eyes like myself that that baby looks exactly like the mother herself . Abi the native hen go still claim say na CCP born her too? . Honestly,I blame men who believe whatever that comes out from the mouth of these modern day bannies without caring to add a little pinch of salt to it to know whether it's worth digesting or not

If that lady is in America and there’s evidence that they once dated, the child is his as long as the woman says so. I’m just happy there are some parts of the world where it’ll be hard for a woman to just put a man on child support payment and alimony payment for the rest of his life so she doesn’t has to work no more. This is very common in the US. She place u on payment with the help of the court and they ganish 45% of ur wages for her

penearth:
Who did he rape was not explicitly stated? Abi him rape self? This thread no follow

If you masturbate to urself in America it’s 40yrs in prison

koladata:
Yes, it is possible, just tell the school you want to apply to that you identify as master's holder.

I just did that and email the graduate admissions of Stanford and this is what they told me are you lying?

Pakute:
https://www.vanguardngr.com/2025/09/nigeria-to-launch-nigcomsat-2a-2b-to-boost-digital-connectivity/

This thing con look like that stuff Dey use to make popcorn

Kobo has been on Nairaland since 2007 or so. And his post 2007 forward to like 2014 when Nairaland starts gaining traction all show he’s male. He post like a male and share some very intelligent takes. Post 2015, he started acting like a woman, share mundane or very gynocentric take no matter how low IQ or ridiculous such take sounds.

I made my research so I know what I’m talking about:

Mistaresa:
You can even apply for P.hd with ur NIN in U.S, German, France, Portugal.... I think even Australia accepts it.... 😁😁😁

Liar 🤥. You’re lying. I just checked this and evidence say that it’s not true. What do you gain by misleading me omg 😦

Premiumbuy:
Premium Be Unto You




I love the way you believed her, because at the end of the day everything is about mindset.

I’ll reach out to Forbes still

Last night, my wife told me, in the heat of passion, that I’m richer than Elon musk. That struck me cuz I used to think I was poor all these years. But then it hits me. I’m actually rich I just didn’t know it. But when she threw that at me, I couldn’t but agree.

This morning, I told her what she said last night and she said she was joking and she didn’t mean it wtf 😬. Nonetheless I believe her and I’m trying to research how I can reach out to Forbes so they can evaluate my wealth.

Helpout12345:
As usual, she is looking for sympathy or validation to dump the man she used to japa.

In the whole of UK with power given to women legally, a man will be punching you and you didn't call the police.

She didn't, never loved the white man to begin with. She just used him to escape Nigerian poverty

Lol 😂 this guy.. looks like you know women way. Wotgoor revealing too much, I know of women (very close ones for that matter) that successfuly carry out this type of trick. Use the man japa go USA, the man filled affidavit of support during green card stage so he can’t bail out now that the lady is fcvking other men in the US. Some even go to the extent of having baby with him before the man take them away from Nigeria cuz they know child support is guaranteed in the US when they decide to bail out and marry a man they want in the US. Lol these are just open trick tho


Not just Nigerian women.. this is for women generally .. the moment they get their green card in the US, they divorce you and leave ur ass, leaving u with financial wreck, you still go Dey pay her monthly cuz she’ll take ur ass to court (most US court award alimony even for marriage less than 5yrs, exception is Texas), and if you have a child together, you’re doom, they slash you with CS.

To enjoy women in the western world;

(1) make sure you don’t take any woman there (don’t sponsor any woman). Marry in Nigeria and have babies. Never take her there.

(2) when you get to the US, if you’re good looking, yu get options. But make sure you don’t procreate with them (there are tricks wise men use for this one), you can marry them if you want but ensure u protect ur properties (have offshore account in case things go south

Tboyfrosh123:
If you have Old Nepa Bill you can also tender it at Nnsuka for PhD in Elect elect

Wait, is this really possible or you’re just whining me? NEPA bill? Tbh I have some nepa bill at home. Do people that use NEPA bill to enter pay more in school fee because they don’t have BSc or MSc?

Kobojunkieee:
You and your friends should ask yourselves why you think you deserve the romantic love of a woman or even a man, given your lack of hitting some basic milestones in life to date.

You’re right. And I agree with you.

Are you a woman?

IGBOPROMISE1:
Funny thing is, almost all emigrants and illegal aliens looking to relocate head straight to Western Europe and the US! As we speak, even citizens of the three countries in question, two of which are run by despotic and brutal regimes, would have the west as their first and possibly only choice when seeking to emigrate!

I might be wrong here but what has mass emigration of Chinese to the west got to do with the present situation? I mean China is some fvvking 1.4Billion people. That’s a whole lot more than all western countries combined (EU and US, with their Asian allies). If US has this much, they will emigrate too.

Kobojunkieee:
What school or government agency gave you this information regarding programs in Germany? You have only a WAEC degree and not much else to show for it at 39(approximately 4 whole decades on this planet), but are you interested in love?

A WAEC degree at 39 isn’t bad. I have friends who have nothing. Again, are you a woman? Do u want to marry? You chat like a woman tho

Esthered:
Do you have sisters, aunt's, does your assertion apply to them?

😂 I know this is the first question they will ask. No clear thought or reasoned opinion to counter thr argument . Rather, they come with “is that what you think of ur mom”? Cuz they know the argument is true and they really have no use outside sex

Kobojunkie:
You don't think people pay to get a PhD? And you are sure of this, how?

Because they said they don’t psg in Germany

Besides, kobo are you single? 😒😒I am interested in love tbh