₦airaland Forum

Dalohad:
Whatever you politicians do, please leave our institutes of learning alone.

It will be destructive to the image of Nigerian tertiary institutes, for the world to learn that a VC can be bribed to hide the result of a former student, in order to achieve a political aim or settle a political score.

I hope the VC looked well before rushing to press. If the VC is found to have dragged the revered name of UNN into the murky waters of politics, he should be made to resign, arrested and jailed. He is one of the reasons Nigerians are mocked and unduly scritinized globally.

His professorship should be withdrawn. If the government of the day cannot ensure that, pressure groups and civil societies should write to the US embassy and EU and have him and his family blacklisted for visa bans forever.

I finished from a Nigerian University with a Medical Doctorate and if any VC decides to hide my certificate because I joined politics, I will chase him and his family to the ends of the earth to make him pay.

I sincerely hope this is not the case in this Nnaji Vs UNN case.

Do not tamper with the sacredness of our institutes of learning. It is off-limit for your toxic politics.

The way yall consider not being able to go abroad as the ultimate punishment worse than death always suprises me. All ur actions and inactions in life are geared towards behaving well so they won’t deny u visa. Every little things, calls are made to deny visa. Our whole life revolve around visa. It can be annoying tbh. I pray Nigeria get it right someday

thank God thank God thank God thank God thank God

Sirhush:
There is no need to beg, I'm sure she will regret her actions soon,

I pray so. At least she should come home so I can apologize properly

AllBlack:
my brother,

don't allow societal pressure, pride and ego to make you lose a good woman in your life.

Phone call? That is not what an adult should do. A real adult should know that going in person to the parents house is the matured thing to do.
Go there with someone your wife respects in the society and from your note, we can see she respects your landlord's son very much. Go there with him. Give him a new bottle of olive oil so that he can use it to communicate with your wife and the begging can ENTER VERY WELL.
Love is a powerful thing and a good woman is hard to find. Do all you can to keep your marriage.
I wish you and your wife can resolve this and you can learn not to offend her by minding your business next time.

I agree with some part of your statement but I want to clarify some of it. Do you think it’s okay to go with the landlord son? He was the one sleeping with my wife. They were also seen together yesterday and ever since she left and after she accused me of badmouthing her she’s not picking my calls. Send her messages everyday yet no reply. I know I made a mistake by asking her too many questions about sleeping with him but I was just pained .

Maybe it’s okay to call one of her friends so we can go together?

We have been together for 3yrs (2 in marriage). We’ve been having some patch ones lately due to finances. Which I told her I’ll sort it and get her the money she want to use. I’d have borrowed but no one did.

Lately, our landlord son is around. He just came back from the Netherlands as he’s been living there for years. My wife started moving very close to him (between we live in a large compound and my landlord has a whole section of the storey building to himself while the tenant share the other two storeys). She got his number and they started chatting on WhatsApp. Will see her giggles and she told me the guy is helping her find free school in Europe.

I had no idea they were sleeping with each other until the beginning of this month. When I knew and asked her about it, she got angry. But i saw a text where she was begging the guy and saying sorry he couldn’t penetrate well. That was the second time they were having sex from the chat. Now she’s angry and went back to her parent house saying I connived with the landlord son to ask her out and accuse her of infidelity.

Mind you it’s been months we last had sex. Which was mainly due to my financial condition.

Is it okay to call her parent and ask them to beg her, at least she can come back home

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Dzzzz:
Do 70yr olds in America go to farm?Alaye go find better thing to talk.

That’s because America is better than Nigeria. Nobody works over there. For instance, Nigerian who go there on visa when they land at the airport, they’re given their own $70M USD check to get them started. Some use a negligee fraction of this to enroll in school, some establish business. Considering they don’t pay rent, they don’t pay for foods as these things are basically free, it all makes sense. And for people who go on visa, their green card is shared to them right at the airport.

Mentholated:
The funny thing is that she is using a well known tactic that women have been using for years to set their partners up.

1. He always locks me out of the house and I have to go through the window atimes.

2. He abuses me all the time, belittles me, accuses me of cheating and always threatens to hit me. I have to go to my friends place atimes to feel safe ( Her friends will collaborate this story).

3. He is insecure, always call me to know where I am and if I do not pick immediately he shouts at me ( Any of her friends that have witnessed any of your calls will collaborate her story).

4. If she is really heartless she might add that you force yourself on her atimes which makes her feel worthless and suicidal and have to go to her friend's place to feel safe. ( Her friends will)

5. Your kids might have heard you people argue one of those days that you want her to acknowledge any of her bad behaviours. The question will be like this " Have daddy ever shouted at mummy". The answer will be yes.

6. Stay safe bro.

Damn! Same script that was played on my uncle before he became suicidal in that same UK. From ur number 1 to number 6, it all checks out. Well, he’s dead now and the woman and children have all moved on.

Why? I thought they said we eat healthy and they eat sugar over there? Does sugar make one age well or what? Like you can easily see an 82yrs old white man with his wife who’s 80 walking and doing excercise. But in Nigeria, men already die before 55yrs. Apart from significant familial responsibilities killing Nigerian men, what other contributing factors make things this way?

CodeTemplarr:
A system that works unlike the other one he escaped.
Someone entrusted to make the call was harsh but the system was alive for him.

And for 40yrs he was in limbo , scared of his life? Yet the system work? Nigerians

god is good to you, to me, and to everyone else. Praise him

D00msDay:
Make ur City boy go there first na. They there they support corrupt politicians. Politicians wey their families they jolly for America and Europe.

But he’s been there twice since he became the president of Nigeria. Why didn’t they arrest him?

hartson:
his narcotic records are with the FBI.The moment he lands dem go grab am straight to gada room.

He’s been to america twice since 2023.. why didn’t they arrest him?

SmartPolician:
During an interview with Seun Okin, Wike claimed he doesn't like travelling to America. It's possible they have already barred him from entering the country.

Also, it is likely that Tinubu is already barred from going to the US because of the dossier the FBI has on him. That's the kind of character l@ptop boys are here promoting. Youths without values.

Lols some of you are failure

Abdul05:
Na only nigeria You pay tax and still go Contribute money for transformer Wey no go work..


Bro, suffering dey naija..

Wait, people pay taxes in Nigeria?

SmartPolician:
During an interview with Seun Okin, Wike claimed he doesn't like travelling to America. It's possible they have already barred him from entering the country.

Also, it is likely that Tinubu is already barred from going to the US because of the dossier the FBI has on him. That's the kind of character l@ptop boys are here promoting. Youths without values.

God help us

Maryeama:
Hello everyone. Is there anyone doing consular processing for EB in Abidjan here. Please I have some questions

What do you want to ask?

Fiscus105:
Even though man will marry woman after her own father sponsored her education alone. Afterwards, man would force such lady to abandon her father's name and impose his on name on her, not done with that oo, all the seeds ,that she experiencing excruciating pains to bore, the seed would bear such man name. YET MAN STILL AT DISADVANTAGED.


Frustrated and hopeless guys who refuse to have life, would lament all his life and eventually end bitterly.

Ok

There’s no doubt that today’s men are the most disadvantaged in all of histories.

These men invest so much only get so little. Only to get disrespected at the constant for not doing enough. They work so hard just to make life easy for women. Everything they strive for in life is for women.

In the past, women were loyal, submissive, and are happy to be wife and mothers while enjoying the good things of life men have to offer for just being women. Today women aren’t wife, but partners. This is the new term with which married people refer to themselves. Yet, marriage remains traditional as ever with the man carrying all the weight in the relationship while he get rewarded with sex during weekend as a “thank you my slave” gift.

Today’s men fight for their right to slave for women so badly. They provide, work hard, go to market to buy good stuffs, get home , cook, bath the baby, pampers, wash clothes. And these men even revolt the ideas of anyone that say “ a woman is supposed to cook for
Her husband” before u know it, you see these men saying “omg is she ur slave” “why not enter the kitchen and cook for her” it’s absurd

Today’s men get cheated on and they dare not leave because they’re afraid of missing out on the golden pvssy their wife serve them

They take care of another man child while they know.

It’s even worse for Nigerian men abroad. Their wife bring different men home and they dare not talk or they will be sent out of their own home and be made to pay alimony all through their life.

Tenrack:
God have mercy. Marriage scares me more with each passing minute. my married friend who used to tease me for not being married yet would hit me up now and then requesting data, financial favours. God abeg.

Lol they’re being drained by their wife and wife’s family

SpencerForbes:
That’s apt. My question is how they manage to remain loyal to more than one man. I can’t even flirt with more than 3 girls at once.

The problem is you think they love. They can’t love you. They have no capacity to love a man. To them, when they look at a man, they laugh, all they see is wallet

There’s no doubt that today’s men are the most disadvantaged in all of histories.

These men invest so much only get so little. Only to get disrespected at the constant for not doing enough. They work so hard just to make life easy for women. Everything they strive for in life is for women.

In the past, women were loyal, submissive, and are happy to be wife and mothers while enjoying the good things of life men have to offer for just being women. Today women aren’t wife, but partners. This is the new term with which married people refer to themselves. Yet, marriage remains traditional as ever with the man carrying all the weight in the relationship while he get rewarded with sex during weekend as a “thank you my slave” gift.

Today’s men fight for their right to slave for women so badly. They provide, work hard, go to market to buy good stuffs, get home , cook, bath the baby, pampers, wash clothes. And these men even revolt the ideas of anyone that say “ a woman is supposed to cook for
Her husband” before u know it, you see these men saying “omg is she ur slave” “why not enter the kitchen and cook for her” it’s absurd

Today’s men get cheated on and they dare not leave because they’re afraid of missing out on the golden pvssy their wife serve them

They take care of another man child while they know.

It’s even worse for Nigerian men abroad. Their wife bring different men home and they dare not talk or they will be sent out of their own home and be made to pay alimony all through their life.

Yeah That’s right.

I remember one time I asked this friend of mine who was a lady why her past two relationships failed (she was a single mom).. so she told me she cheated on the father of her child and he sent her out of his life

Tbh, that’s honesty at its peak. Women of other countries can never be that honest and loyal. Being able to say the truth even when it hurts is the peak of loyalty

What’s ur take?

legitnow1:
IMAGINE LIVING WITH SOMEBODY THREATENING U EVERY MINUTE.

BOLDLY DISREGARDING U, BECAUSE 1 CALL U WILL BE BOTH JOBLESS AND HOMELESS.

PLUS CRIMINJAL RECORD.

This is the summary of Nigerian men in America.