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In this dynamic age, it is not too difficult to distinguish between a serious/committed partner and a ‘runs babe’.

Some of the signs that will enable you know that your own gal is manifestly a ‘runs babe’ are summarized below.
1. Demands: Quite frankly, almost all gals would make one or two financial demands to their guys while dating and there is no escaping this reality.

Regular recharge card is the simplest demand. If they call you just once, they will ask that their phone be refilled if you require further calls. Many Nigerian girls are always short of credit.

If your own gal is the type that would even ask you to drop some cash through the window before coming out to see you, no-one needs to tell you that you are definitely dating a ‘runs babe’ who is only interested in your money and not yourself as a lover.

2. They Like Parties: In the evenings, most runs babes go to clubs, parties, gardens or even hotels to solicit for men like the common practitioners. This is very common in most cities.

3. Insatiable Sexual Apetite: If your gal has an insatiable sexual appetite, watch out, she is likely to be a ‘runs babe’ because of her experience in patronizing different men on a daily basis. It’s just impossible for any average guy to meet the sexual demands of a ‘hustler’ unless one wishes to be a Viagra addict with the concomitant side-effect of premature stroke.

4. Lousy: A runs babe is naturally a barefaced gal who, most often, talks dirty openly and possibly has no regard for anything called respect. They behave anyhow and more often than not, are always abusive because they have no shame. As most of them are high school and university drop-outs, their vocabulary is often limited. If your gal is incorrigible and not amenable to correction, she is probably one. There is no sense of commitment and they are usually prepared to end the relationship at every flimsy excuse without remorse. If your gal friend shows some of these qualities, she is very likely to be one.

5. No Integrity. A typical ‘runs babe can tell 10 lies within 10 minutes. They are even worse than professional sex hawkers in hotels and other public places, even though they appear a bit more sophisticated than the professionals because of their higher educational exposure, yet the advisability of considering a typical ‘hustler’ as a future marriage-material is very low.
http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/08/five-signs-your-girlfriend-is-a-runs-babe.html

Nairalanders, if your girlfriends have above mentioned qualities now is the time to dump her.

A scuffle between a woman, identified as Beatrice and her neighbour in Idanre, in Ondo state has reportedly resulted to the death of her two year old son, Vanguard reports.

According to sources, one of the thugs brought by the suspect to settle scores with the mother of the deceased, reportedly removed the baby from her back by force and smashed him on the concrete floor.

The neighbour, Toyin Akinrosotu, who is the major suspect, has been subsequently arrested and detained, while the bereaved woman wants justice for the loss she suffered.

Another source demised claims that thugs smashed the boy to his death, claiming that the baby fell off the back of his mother during a scuffle occasioned by an argument, although there were no confirmed reasons for disagreement.

The police authorities in the state have since transferred the case to the Criminal Investigation and Intelligence Department (CIID) for proper investigation, while the remains of the deceased has been deposited at the General Hospital mortuary for post-mortem examination.

Another eyewitness recounts that the suspect, who lives at Awolata Street, Idanre, reportedly led some suspected thugs to the house of mother of the deceased and she was thoroughly beaten up, an incident which led to the death of the boy.

The toddler, who was allegedly smashed on the floor, died after being rushed to the hospital while his mother later reported the incident at the police station leading to the arrest of suspect.

In another incident, a 54 year old man was recently arrested by the police for allegedly raping an eight year old girl (name withheld) in the Ajegunle area of Lagos state.

http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/08/sad-mother-and-neighbour-were-doing-this-until-2-yr-old-son-died.html

Nigerian music artist, Omawumi Megbele whose husband, Tosin Yusuf recently posted a picture of himself and their children has shared the first picture and video of herself since the birth of her baby boy in Florida, last month.
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Ever since the birth of her baby, she been absent from the social media except she wants to hail or say hello to one of her friends.

The Music artist took to her instagram page 14hours ago and posted a 15 second video of herself singing her popular song “Serious Love Wantintin” with the caption: “Testing the voice….”
https://instagram.com/p/6z7JHStKQR/

http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/08/omawumi-post-picture-of-self-after-delivery.html

“Bad boys aint no good
Good boys aint no fun
Lord knows that I should
Run off with the right one…”
-Mr. Wrong by Mary J. Blige

When was the last time you heard a song that celebrated the virtues of a good man? That same representation is lacking in film, television, and all other forms of entertainment. Popular culture celebrates the “bad boy” while deriding the good guy as often as possible.

What makes a bad boy appealing to any woman? There are a number of possible reasons. The following are a few of those reasons straight from their mouths.

Attraction

“Bad boys are attractive.” To say that bad boys are attractive is an assessment of an entire group of males that fit within a particular category. It implies that it’s only bad boys that are attractive.
A man’s physical appearance does not dictate his behavior or character.

Behavior and character are not confined to a particular look. A man can pass or fail the fluid concept of attractive and be either a good guy or a bad boy. Arguably, what each culture finds attractive is in many ways socially engineered, which explains why different cultures have different standards of beauty.

The bad boy is a mainstay in film, television, print, video games, and every other form of entertainment. Every generation has had their archetypal icons that fit within the bad boy construct. “A picture is still worth a thousand words” and each image is useful in shaping the reality of a people for good or bad.

Protection

“A woman wants to feel protected.” Many women express this need. While this epression is an understandable desire, it assumes that a woman can only feel protected with a bad boy in her life. Ironically, bad boys are more likely to jeopardize a woman’s sense of security, at least emotionally, if not in many other ways as well.

Bad boys are notoriously unfaithful.

They’re in such high demand that they spread themselves thin among many women instead of confining themselves to one woman as is typical of good guys. Apparently, being in such high demand affords them the privilege of unending forgiveness for such treasonous infractions even when the behavior becomes habitual.

“Bad boys ain’t no good
Good boys ain’t no fun…”

Is there really fun to be experienced during the process of an impending heart-break? If so, is the fun worth the scars that are left behind to mark the memories?

Sex

Often, sex is the reason given for why a bad boy is the preferred choice as though bad behavior and good sex are somehow synonymous. For most couples, sex comes sometime later.

There has to be some initial draw that piques a woman’s interest in a man long before getting to any point of physical intimacy and there also must be something to sustain her interest after the initial allure. Sex comes sometime later after this level of connection has been established between most couples. So then what is the proverbial bridge that connects bad boys with good sex?

Social Constructs

Where do these notions come from that are ascribed to bad boys, and why are those who do so much bad loved so much, while those who do good are labeled boring?
Bad boys and good guys don’t fit so neatly into their respective neatly labeled boxes. To be a good guy does not relegate a man to being hopelessly boring or necessarily physically unnattractive.

The opposite is true of a bad boy. A man can be good and still manage to make a woman feel protected contrary to the popular (mis)representation of popular culture. I think it’s safe to say that entertainment and other media outlets greatly impact our ideas of attraction as well our behavior.

Certain behaviors and appearances are rewarded and others are cause for rejection. We learn these lessons early on when we are still innocent and unaware that our minds are being shaped.

We have learned that “Beauty and Beasts” are a perfect accompaniment to one another. We have learned that love always has a tragic end as demonstrated by “Romeo and Juliet.” We have learned that physical attraction is more important than substance as taught by “Cyrano De Bergerac.”

‘How we appear is more important than who we are’ is the lie that has been sold, and we’re all paying a hefty price for it in the decline of our relationships. Good is to be rejected and bad is to be desired.

It’s only when we awaken that we realize we, as well as those we choose to share our life with, deserve “the good” that life has to offer us. “The bad” comes as a part of life and not as a preferred choice over good because ‘it makes life more exciting.’ True love makes life more exciting. It frightens us, it thrills us as it builds us and we are free to experience the fullness of its true essence between us as it was meant from the beginning.

Is the bad boy all he’s made out to be?

http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/08/bad-boys-wins-girls-good-guys.html

South African pastor, Prophet Penuel Mnguni, creates new buzz as he prays a ‘snake spirit’ into the body of a female church member during a sercvice.

Amongst he’s many unorthodox methods of manifestations, with his gullible church members as victims, he has successfully prayed a ‘gay spirit’ into a male church member, as well as make other members eat snakes and clothe.

According to his church’s Facebook wall, the girl named Naomi manifested the spirit.

Below is how they reported:

“During the service the man of God, Prophet Penuel commanded the Spirit of Snake to enter one of the Congregants, Sister Naomi from Soshanguve. She began to manifest as the Snake and the man of God commanded the Spirit of Snake to come out. The Woman was set Free. We have the Power to control every Kingdoms without being possessed, for we are raised above all (Colossians 3) To God be the Glory.”

This new manifestation is following the burning down of his tent church by area youths outraged by his ‘manifestations’.

http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/08/south-african-pastor-prays-snake-spirit-into-church-member.html

In a male dominated industry, our super talented Nigerian female music stars have done well to stand out, becoming some of the biggest names in the entertainment industry, through their talent, hard-work and consistency.Not only are they making waves with hit songs, they are also appreciated by fans and corporate agencies who have invested huge sums of money in endorsement deals with them.

So, with input from some industry experts, based on Vocal Ability, Lyrical Content, Mainstream Acceptability, Consistency, Commercial Value, business ventures and current endorsement deals; here is a compiled list of the Top 6 Most sought-after/Bankable Female Musicians in Nigeria at the moment.

CHIDINMA

Chidinma Ekile; the unrelenting beautiful singer-songwriter, recording artist and stage performer is the first ever female winner of the ‘MTN Project Fame competition’. Since her big win 2010, and single after single later, this 24-year-old star has proven her being worthy of the title.
Ms Chidinma hit it big by debuting the smash single ‘Jankolikoko’ ft Sound Sultan right after she was crowned. The single ‘Kedike’ later became her trademark tune, earning her awards after awards including ‘Best Female West African Act’ at the KORA awards in 2012, as well as earning her the tag name ‘Ms Kedike’.

This City People nominated ‘Female Musician of the Year’ is one star that knows how to deliver songs in a way every class of audience in Nigeria today can rock to.
Following the release of a video for her ‘Emi Ni Baller’ single, she became the first female musician to peak at number 1 on the ‘MTV Base Official Naija Top 10 charts’. Beyond this, her pure talent has made her an MTN ambassador.

WAJE



Aituaje Iruobe is one Nigerian singer whose vocal range covers three octaves. She is mostly known as WAJE, an acronym for “Words Aren’t Just Enough”.

Bring up the discussion about who the best female singer in Nigeria is anywhere and Waje’s name will always pop up. The talented lady behind the remake of P-Square’s “Omoge Mi” and the female voice in the duo’s 2008 hit track “Do Me” and Banky W’s “Thief my Kele” blew up after her duet with MI. On ‘One Naira’ in 2011, with her vocals and outstanding lyrics, she earned her place in the industry as a force to reckon with.

Her vocal ability has earned her awards as ‘Best Rhythm And Blues Singer’ at the 2011 City People Entertainment Awards, ‘Best Female Vocalist at the 2011 Nigerian Entertainment Awards, ‘Best Female Vocalist at the 2011 Hip hop World Awards, ‘Best African Act at the 2011 Deafa Afro-Europe Awards, ‘Best Vocal Performance at the 2010 South South Awards, ‘Best Female Performer at the 2010 South South Awards, ‘Musician Of The Year at the 2013 City People Awards, among others. She is currently a Globacom ambassador.

SEYI SHAY



Deborah Oluwaseyi Joshua, known by her stage name Seyi Shay, is a recording artist, songwriter and producer who was born and raised in London to Nigerian parents. Shay has toured with P. Diddy and Beyoncé in the UK before now, and has written and worked with a number of the industry’s finest like Brian Michael Cox, Chipmunk, Rob Knoxx, H-Money, Cameron Wallace, Jolyn Skinner, Joshua Tree, and Joe & Brian Higgins, to name a few.

This singer/songwriter’s journey started in the UK where she was part of the musical group ‘Boadicea’. She returned to Nigeria and dazzled us with hits ‘Like Loving your way’, ‘No lele’ and ‘Irawo’. But it wasn’t until her single, ‘Murda’ that she really struck gold.

Her vocals are as solid as her lyrical strength. She can switch from traditional RnB to Reggae, and then Pop without dropping in delivery and quality. She was nominated for the 2014 Channel O Music Video Awards’ ‘Most Gifted Female’, the City People Entertainment Awards’ ‘Musician of the Year (Female)’, the Nigeria Entertainment Awards ‘Female Artist of the Year’, the World Music Awards World’s Best Song for “Ragga Ragga” as well as for ‘World’s Best Video’. She finally landed herself the City People Entertainment Awards for ‘Best New Musician of the Year (Female)’.

So far, she is making the right moves everywhere she turns. She recently inked an endorsement deal as the face of Hollandia Yogurt, as well as an endorsement deal with telecommunications service provider Etisalat.

TIWA SAVAGE



Mrs. Tiwa Savage Balogun is one Nigerian female artist with the phrase “star” written all over her. This Nigerian beauty is a triple threat with her natural songwriting ability, her electrifying stage presence and a voice that stays powerful through many stages.

Mrs. Savage took over Africa with the single “Kele Kele Love”, which went on to become an anthem for women everywhere around as it took the number one spot on numerous radio and television stations across the continent.

Her big break was at age 16 when she started off a background singer for George Michael. Her determination didn’t stop there as she went on to do backup singing for a host of artistes including Mary J. Blige, Chaka Khan, Blu Cantrell, Kelly Clarkson, Andreas Bocelli, Ms Dynamite, and much more.

This University of Kent graduate has written for some of today’s A-list artistes and producers and has also received numerous song-writing credits. She has won the City People Entertainment Award for ‘Female Musician of the Year’, ‘Best R&B Soul Song’ for ‘Kele Kele Love’ at the Afrotainment Museke Online Music Awards, ‘Most Stylish Female Artiste’ at the FAB Magazine Awards and ‘Most Promising Act’ at the Dynamix Youth Awards. She also picked up the ‘Best Female Act’ at MTV Africa Music Awards, Best Vocal Performance (Female) (The Headies), and was nominated for the ‘BET International Act Award’.

Her hard work has paid off so much she is a brand ambassador for MTN, Pepsi and Forte Oil.

OMAWUMI



It’s easy to see how Ms. OMAWUMI Megbele as the number 1 highest paid female performer in Nigeria. ‘The Queen! Omawonder’ as she is often called has been a consistent force in Nigerian music since she burst onto the scene in 2007.

After finishing 1st runner up in West African Idol, she went on to entrench herself in the industry. What makes Omawumi special is her unique ability to appeal to every class of person in Africa with her choice of language (pre-dominantly pidgin).

She released her debut Single ‘In The Music’ a kwaito-based sound which she fused with pidgin English and the song became an instant hit. Hitting number 1 on various radio stations and getting multiple nominations and awards including the most coveted award ‘Next Rated’ and ‘Best Female Vocalist Awards From Hiphop World Awards 2009’ amongst others is a few of her accolades.
Ms. Omawonder has also proven she is more than just music as she delved into the movie industry and is doing great. She currently has four brand endorsements– Globacom, Konga, Mortein & Malta Guinness.

YEMI ALADE



Yemi Alade made her debut in a girl group named Noty Spices in 2005. Her musical discovery began after she won the Peak Talent Show in 2009. She later released her first single “Fimisile” under the Jus’ Kiddin’ label

In 2012, she signed to music label Effyzzie Music Group and released her single “Ghen Ghen Love.,

In the last quarter of 2013, she broke records when her most recent hit single, “Johnny”, produced by Selebobo, was leaked on the internet. The dance number received major critical acclaim and became an instant smash hit, topping and dominating countless music charts across the globe. It been listed as one of the best songs of 2013 despite the fact it was released towards the end of the year without a video.

The music video for “Johnny” was released in March 2014 to critical acclaim and now has more than 16 million views on VeVo/YouTube

SOURCE: http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/08/top-6-nigerian-female-music-stars.html

Is this Nicki’s response to Drake dissing her man in a new track ”Back to Back freestyle? Hours after Drake released a track in which he slayed Meek,Nicki shared photos from her print pink tour in Toronto ,Canada,which happens to be whee Drake is from..

In a new track aimed at Meek Mill,Drake rapped
“You love her then you gotta get a world tour/
Is that a world tour or your girl’s tour?/
I know that you gotta be a thug for her/
This ain’t what she meant when she told you to open up more,

I guess Nicki won”=t be taking part in this beef as she is so close to Drake, he has always called her his ideal woman..

See photos below:


http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/07/nicki-minaj-shares-photos-from-toronto-tour.html

Everyone’s new favorite song, Ashimapeyin, now has a video! The song became an instant fan favourite as soon as it dropped a couple of weeks ago; a very rare feat considering how long we have to wait for certain hits to “grow on you”. This one was different. Thankfully, the Black Diamond CEO has decided to bless us with the dope visuals. Watch below.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EG_oQU2uZpY
DOWNLOAD VIDEO: Wande Coal – Ashimapeyin
DOWNLOAD AUDIO: Wande Coal – Ashimapeyin

Thank you all for your comments, i will work on the next post.

Marriage was not designed to make you happy, satisfied, or whole. If you go into it for any of the aforementioned reasons, you’re in for a rude awakening.


Want to know why?

First let me preface this post by saying that I in no way claim to be an expert on marriage. My husband and I have been married a little under four years and we’re still learning a lot of things about being married. If you want expert advice, talk to someone who’s been at this for decades (and let me listen in). I can only share what I’ve learned so far. Further, I assure you that, despite the tone of this post, I really love being married. However, I don’t want people to be delusional about what marriage is or is not. So let me share with you what marriage cannot do.

Marriage cannot make you happy.

I think it’s safe to say that many people who want to be married think that marriage will make them happy, but I maintain that’s just not true. We’ve all grown up with the fairy tales where the princess finds a prince, gets married, and lives “happily ever after.” Simply put, nothing can “make” you happy. Absolutely nothing. Happiness is a personal choice and is not contingent upon one’s circumstances. There are plenty of happy poor folks and miserable millionaires. If you aren’t happy before marriage, chances are you won’t be happy in it. And unfortunately, a lot of people get dejected when they enter a marriage and realize they’re not as happy as they thought they’d be. Learn to be happy independent of outside influences.

Marriage does not equal satisfaction.

Let me be clear: you will not be completely satisfied in your marriage 100% of the time. You’re talking about two people who were raised by different mothers, were taught different standards, and somehow decided it would be a good idea to join together and become a unit. But because they are still two very distinct people, clashes naturally arise when expectations don’t align with reality. He has different ideas about cleaning than you do. She has different ideas about money than you do. You both thought sex would be more plentiful than it currently is. Somebody is going to be disappointed occasionally.

There is not a single person on earth who can completely live up to your expectations because all of us fall short. Whomever you marry will likely disappoint you, and I’m sure you won’t do much better. And don’t think you can change the things you don’t like about him or her. That’s a dead-end road, and even if you did “fix” those things, chances are you’d only find more things later that need to be “fixed.” Go into a marriage expecting the other person to fall short (within reason) and decide preemptively to extend some grace when they do.

Marriage cannot make you whole.

Everyone wants to feel complete, whether it’s in their careers or their personal lives. They somehow don’t feel like they can sit back, relax, and enjoy life until they have something they’ve always wanted. Sadly, plenty of people put their happiness on hold for some hypothetical day in the future when they have everything they want, including a marriage and family. If partial contentment is your status quo and the way you live your life, I can guarantee you that once you do obtain the things you think you want, you’ll find a reason not to be happy with them. Something will always be out of place.

Oh and another thing”… do NOT go into a marriage expecting your spouse to make you better, fix your hurts from your past, or give you everything you ever thought you’d need. Only God can do that. Please, if you have personal issues that you’re aware of, work on them before you get married or you will sabotage yourself. Your spouse is not your therapist or your fairy godparent.

So, why go for marriage in the first place?

Well, only you can answer that. But I can tell you one indispensible prerequisite for a successful marriage: be prepared to work. Marriage is beautiful, blessed, and sacred, but it’s not for punks. They say it takes work, but I say it more than requires work “” it is work personified. It is a full-time job requiring a lot of spiritual, mental, and emotional strength. When you hear the words “for better or for worse,” imagine what the “worse” could possibly look like and honestly ask yourself if you have the wherewithal to thrive in those situations. If you don’t have it, that’s fine. There are far worse fates in life than to live it as a single person. But if you feel you have the fortitude to fully submit to another person until one of you leaves this earth, by all means go for it.

There is honestly no nobler thing than to dedicate your life to someone other than yourself, which is essentially what marriage is. You have to have the heart of a servant to do this thing correctly. Can you still fix him a plate even after he’s thoroughly pissed you off? Would you still put gas in her car for work tomorrow even after she’s stepped all over your ego? After days of fighting and arguing, can you still muster the humility to pray for one another? These are the types of things successfully married people do. In this job, you don’t clock out just because you’re not “feeling it.” That’s a hard thing for people to understand in a culture of selfishness, but it is what it is. Strong marriages are comprised of strong people, so you must ask yourself before you get to the altar, “Am I strong enough?”

Source: http://hub201.com/marriage-was-not-designed-to-make-you-happy/

I don’t really like to write on which artiste is better but what I saw today prompted me to write this piece.

I want to ask a question before I’ll continue this article.

Assuming that you see a post on your Facebook timeline which reads “Mhen Seriki Dey Rap Pass Olamide I Swia. Na Seriki Be The Real Dagrin Of Our Time. Agree Or Die”

What would be your reaction? I have the same thought here. I was like, “Is this guy high on fake drugs?” How on Earth would he say something like that? This is why I want to write some differences between Olamide and Seriki.
The facts (Mine):

Seriki is just a rapper but Olamide sings and rap. Seriki raps mostly with typical yoruba language while Olamide raps with both yoruba, pidgin and the foreign accent. I’m not saying seriki is not a good rapper because he is killing the beats too but Olamide can go on any type of beat in which Seriki may flop because of his slow rhymes. Lastly, OLAMIDE is arguably a hit maker.
Why am I writing this?

I am not writing this to say that Seriki can never be like Olamide. I’ve interviewed some people on this topic before I wrote this article. Below are some of their responses:

Ans: Seriki better than Olamide ke. Sleep and Death no be same na

Ans: Olamide is in a different world. He decides what to do and when to do it, just like messi. He can be the crazy durosoke and shakitibobo at time. And sometimes he brings the Eni duro flavour and Zero joy hard core stuffs to the table

Ans: Even a blind man at Kano street, Oyingbo, knows Olamide no be Seriki mate.

There are many differences between Olamide and Seriki which I may not finish if I continue to list them. So, I am passing the keyboard to you guys to know your thoughts about the issue on ground.

You Think Seriki is Better than Olamide?

Source: http://hub201.com/olamide-or-seriki-who-is-better-2/

Mavin Golden Boy, Korede Bello Release the video for his hit single “Godwin” The video features Nigerian Comedian bovi who gave us some cool intros

Remember Anything you do na Godwin oooo

DOWNLOAD AUDIO: Korede Bello – Godwin (Prod. By DonJazzy)

Watch below:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w14zUTXOhYE

LOL! i no talk am like that oooo

jamex93:
so u mean tonto get all this bad habits too bad

While we can all agree that nobody is perfect, there are actually a few things that would adversely affect a relationship if a man chooses to partner with a woman with some not-so-great attributes.

Naij.com presents you with the 10 kinds of woman a man should think twice about making a wife.
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1. The Bitter Woman: You know that woman that always seems to be angry at the menfolk all the time? Perhaps she has had her heart broken one too many times, but this woman is always bashing on men and talking about how they are no-good or useless. A man might not want to settle down with someone so bitter as it is guaranteed that when the opportunity arises, she would hurl hurtful insults and intense, hateful words his way due to all her unresolved anger.


2. The Selfish Woman: If you want a happy home and a partner that wants your happiness as well as hers, then you should steer clear of the selfish woman. A woman who is determined to make sure she always comes first would not be able to build a cheerful and loving home with you.

3. The Materialistic Woman: A woman obsessed with material things would certainly not make the best wife. If all she cares about are material possession over family, faith and spiritual fulfillment, then she will not make the best partner.

4. The Flirty Woman: Are you attracted to that woman that always seems to flirt with one person or another? She flirts like a butterfly from one man to another and makes all men feel like she is interested in them. Well, beware, because a habit like that might be hard to break after marriage and you would not want to start hearing that your wife has had flirty conversations with all the men in the neighbourhood.

5. The Party Freak: She is invited to every party and attends them all. She is always dressed in the most flashy clothes and is the ultimate party girl. She lives for the next big gathering and cannot say no to an invitation. Such woman might not be the type to settle down in a marriage.

READ ALSO: 7 Reasons Why Men Like Women With Curves

6. The Spoilt-Brat: A woman who grew up having everything handed to her and has never had the experience of actually working for something is unlikely to make the best wife. No matter how much you might be willing to provide her with the kind of lifestyle she grew up with, remember, marriage comes with kids and kids require sacrifice. If she has never had to work or make sacrifices for anything in her life, it is unlikely that she would start now.

7. The Attention Seeker: While some women naturally like attention, when it becomes an obsession, then it is not a good idea. A good husband makes sure he has time for his wife, but this cannot happen 100percent of the time so a good wife should understand that.

8. The Gossip: Does she always seem to never mind her own business? Is she always focused on what someone else is doing or how someone else is living their life? Then you do not need this kind of woman as a wife. A man needs someone that would build a home with him and this requires some focus on her own plans and her own life. If she is too busy minding someone else’s business, then you are fighting a losing battle.

READ ALSO: Why You Should Stop Using Your Phone In The Bathroom

9. The Commitment-Phobe: A woman who finds it difficult to commit to anything (school, jobs, family, friendship, etc) would also not be able to commit to a marriage. If she seems to lose interest in everything quickly and is always looking for the next thing to jump into, then you would have a hard time keeping her focused in her marriage.

10. The Disrespectful Woman: If she seems to always be disrespectful and rude (even if it is to people she considers beneath her standards) then you need to think twice about marrying her. Respect for a fellow human being is a very important attribute in who we choose to spend the rest of our lives with so it is definitely not something that should be taken lightly.

Actress Susan Peters turned 35 today and to celebrate, she had a dinner last night in Abuja..She looks way younger than her age..Happy birthday to her.

Photos below

Always’ is the lead single for Skales’ debut album, Man Of The Year. The video was shot in Lagos, Nigeria by Squareball Productions.
The ‘Man Of The Year’ album is set to hit the streets on Monday, May 18th 2015 and the launch concert will hold on May 31st 2015 at the Federal Palace Hotel Marquee, VI, Lagos Nigeria.

As we wait for the release of the album #MOTY in few days, Skales presents this rhythmic tune to raise our expectations. We can’t wait anymore!!


What and enjoy!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IM0oWvsfUPM

DOWNLOAD Skales – Always Ft. Davido

Almost everyone wants to feel important and also give the impression that they are “big girls and boy”. A lot of women, in a bid to try to impress other people and belong, have done some “foolish” things.

We’ve all been there at some one point or the other in our lives. It’s a position almost every lady has found herself in at one point or the other.

So desperate are we to create a false impression and belong that we go way out of our comfort zone and make a total mess of ourselves.

The truth is that at that moment, we are feeling cool with ourselves, thinking we are having a swell time but later we get to realize, they are not as cool as we thought.

Let’s take a look at some of the “dumb” things ladies do just because they want to create a false impression or they want to belong.

1. Shoepidity (Wearing ridiculously uncomfortable shoes just so you look hot): Have you ever seen some ladies walking awkwardly on the streets with their very high heeled shoes? That is what we call shoepidity. It is not comfortable in any way, you are in pains and you’ve even got blisters but still you insist on wearing it, trying to impress God knows who. Some ladies would buy a shoe that’s not their size and force themselves to wear it just because they want to impress a certain somebody. Ladies, why are you putting yourself in pain because you want to belong? If you don’t have a car and you must wear those heels to an occasion, help yourself by wearing a comfortable flat and carry the heels in your bag till you get to your destination.

2. Taking private drops: [/b]A lot of ladies are guilty of this. Don’t get me wrong, I am not saying it is wrong to take cabs but when you know you are not buoyant enough, take a public bus. It is very clear that taking public transport is way cheaper but some would rather take a cab even when they are down financially just because they want to create this false impression that they are “big girls”.

[b]3. Buy things they can’t afford: Some ladies walk into a shop and they tell them the price of something which they know is way out of their budget. They still go ahead to buy it, maybe because a cute guy is standing close by or they are with their friends and they don’t want to ‘fall their hands’.

4. Shop at expensive stores: Dear ladies, just because your friend shops at an expensive store does not mean you have to follow suit. You have no idea how she makes her money. You could the same thing your friend bought very expensive at that store for a cheaper price in another store. Stay true to yourself and shop where you can afford.

4. Buying expensive asoebi dress: Nigerians are familiar with the Asoebi trend. Some ladies will do anything just to be among those wearing asoebi even if they have to borrow money. Some ladies actually get hooked to their future husbands during wedding especially when they belong to asoebi ladies. Believing that they might be one of those lucky ladies, some would buy expensive asoebi dresses even when they have no money to pay for it.

5. Starve yourself: Some ladies when they go out with a guy will be forming, “I am not hungry”, even when they are famished. Some would order for a very light meal just so they appear posh and classy. If you and this guy hit it off and you become more, he’s going to one day see you really dig into food, so quit pretending and be you.

There’s no need trying to impress people who don’t even care. People are going to like if they want to, irrespective of what you do. You lose friends by being fake. If you want to really impress people, do something useful, which will win you more fans rather than engage in dumb behaviours that will hurt you and drain your pockets.

http://my360vibes.com.ng/2015/05/five-stupid-things-nigerian-ladies-need-to-stop-doing.html

A secular blogger has been hacked to death in north-eastern Bangladesh in the country's third such deadly attack since the start of the year.

Ananta Bijoy Das was attacked by masked men with machetes in Sylhet, police say. He is said to have received death threats from Islamist extremists.

Mr Das wrote blogs for Mukto-Mona, a website once moderated by Avijit Roy, himself hacked to death in February.


Sweden has confirmed it turned down a visa request from Mr Das in April.
He had been invited to attend a press freedom event by the Swedish Pen writers organisation but officials in the country's embassy in Dhaka refused the request, citing a risk he might not return home.

Swedish Pen told the BBC they were in the process of submitting an appeal when they heard of Mr Das's murder.

Read more @ http://my9jablog..com/2015/05/bangladesh-blogger-ananta-bijoy-das.html

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Janet101:
Thks,

I know most of us probably start the day with a cup of hot coffee or tea. However, when it comes to water, most people prefer it ice cold. According to Ayurveda, you are doing it wrong Regular consumption of warm water, especially in the morning, has beneficial effect on the body. It stimulates digestion and eliminates metabolic waste.

Here is Why You Should Drink Warm Water on an Empty Stomach Every Morning



1. Cleanses digestive tract
A cup of warm water in the morning will cleanse your body from toxins. Water and other liquids stimulate food digestion and maintain digestive tract. Warm water dissolves food faster, and thus eases digestion.
If you drink cold water during or after your meal, it will thicken fats in food and create fatty deposits in the intestines. Fortunately, you can drink warm water instead of ice cold and stimulate your digestion, especially after meals.

2. Relieves constipation
Sooner or later, we all deal with constipation, which is a result of poor peristalsis.
Cramps and bloating are caused by lack of water in the body. Drink a glass of warm water in the morning to stimulate your intestines and help your body to function properly.

3. Relieves pain
Warm water is believed to be the strongest natural remedy, and it can relieve menstrual pain. The heat relaxes stomach muscles and relieves cramps, thus soothing pain. Warm water is great for cramps, as it stimulates capillary circulation and relaxes muscles.

4. Melts pounds
If you are trying to lose some weight, then you probably know that a glass of warm water in the morning helps in melting fat.
Warm water increases body temperature and boosts metabolism. In this way your body can burn more calories. It will also support proper function of your vital organs, including kidneys.

5. Stimulates circulation
Warm water stimulates elimination of toxins in the body, and thus improves circulation.

6. Slows down aging
Premature aging is a real nightmare, but luckily, warm water can help you slow it down. Toxic deposits in the body accelerate aging and as warm water flushes toxins out, it will also slow down the aging process and increase skin’s elasticity.

http://hub201.com/drinking-warm-water/

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Don't forget to share the info like Gt Bank wrote on their time line "Help us tell everyone"
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There is nothing she'll do that will make me hit her in public, i hate hitting people ah swear

Thanks sir

EricRichie:
Okay okay.. The first reasonable post I have read since morning...

Culled from http://hub201.com/things-to-accept-for-your-marriage-to-work/

As human beings, we establish expectations for the people in our lives. Sometimes they are pretty reasonable and sometimes they aren’t because we are establishing expectations based on what we want, not based on who the other person is. When we do that, we are setting ourselves up for frustration and heartache.

Here are 8 things You Need to Accept for Your Marriage to Work

His or her past.

We all have one. Reliving it is not in anyone’s best interest. If you decided to marry someone, knowing what his or her past entailed, you have to accept it and move on—no matter what it is.

Genuine apologies.

I know forgiveness can be hard, but when you forgive it’s really about allowing yourself to heal. If your spouse wronged you in some way and you have decided to stay, you have to also decide to accept their apology.

There won’t always be answers.

Human beings usually want an explanation for why things are the way they are, but that explanation is often not available. Life can be challenging, bad things happen to good people daily, and we have to learn to accept it and create the best circumstances with what we’ve got.

You will be wrong.

We love to be right, but it just can’t happen all the time. As much as you think your spouse is always wrong, sometimes you are the one who is wrong. Accepting and embracing our imperfections is actually pretty healthy for us all.

You won’t always like your spouse.

There are moments when you don’t care for him/her all that much. It doesn’t mean your marriage is in trouble or you are doomed—it simply means we are all humans and we all have our moment.

Some habits won’t change.

You have to accept that your spouse probably showed you who he or she was before you got married. Don’t expect an exchange of vows to change who they are. Sure, compromises should be made, but some of your spouse’s habits will never change.

Some things will matter to you more.

Throughout your marriage, you will have a number of different experiences. In time you will come to realize that you both won’t always feel the same way about a particular issue. That’s okay. Your spouse is not required to share your convictions. Give them the space to choose what matters to them while still respecting what matters to you.

They may process things differently.

Different people express their emotions differently. When your spouse is angry, frustrated, sad, happy, or even devastated, don’t expect them to process things or express their emotions in the same way you would. Everyone deserves to process their experiences in a way that feel authentic and works for them.
Over to you!

What are some things you’ve learned to accept over the years? I’ll love to read them via the comment section.

Did you read the post well?

enoqueen:
U said ten, where are the remaining ones

Lol, I would av post all the gist if I have the time...make una no vex for moi.

may01:
Bella cheated on Edward
Op,it'd be better if you give us the whole gist. Nobody's clicking on that link

Concerning infidelity, it’s usually assumed that the man did the dirty deed and the female is always the victim. Believe it or not, but research has shown that roughly 73 percent of cheating is done by women. Shocked? Hollywood relationships probably make up a decent chunk of that statistic. Over the years, there have been a lot of female celebrities who have cheated on their husbands. This list covers 10 famous females who just couldn’t remain loyal.

[size=20pt]1. Heidi Klum[/size]

When Klum and her hubby Seal broke up it was a huge shock to everyone. The couple had been together for seven years and already have four kids. Rumors point to an affair between Klum and her bodyguard which caused the divorce.

[size=20pt]2. Kristen Stewart[/size]

Her acting skills may be questionable, but this young actor sure made a mark on the world with her work in theTwilight series. Her long time boyfriend Robert Pattinson kicked her to the curb when he found out she cheated on him with director Rupert Sanders.

[size=20pt]3. Jennifer Lopez[/size]

J.Lo and Ben Affleck had a fling after meeting on the set of Gigli. Lopez divorced her current husband to pursue her love for Affleck. Karma got her in the end as Ben moved on to Jennifer Garner.

[size=20pt]4. Madonna[/size]

The singing sensation cheated on her husband Guy Ritchie with the allstar baseball player Alex Rodriguez. At the time, Alex was currently married as well. The two eventually came clean and divorced their former lovers.

CONTINUE READING..

tHE List is long so plz click on the above link to view the rest thanks

G-Worldwide Entertainment recording artiste Kiss Daniel finally releases his follow-up single to his mega smash hit “Woju” titled “Laye”. Kiss Daniel continues in the tradition of giving his fans “good Music”. The build up for “Laye” has shown that the fans want to see more music from the young man who stormed the music industry by surprise in 2014. The wait is over!



“Laye” is produced by DJ Coublon who also produced “Woju”. The two have struck a good working relationship that seems to bring out the best in both of them.



“Laye”, like “Woju”, will showcase why many have said this kid is “Next to Put Africa on the Map”. Listen, share and enjoy!



DOWNLOAD Kiss Daniel – Laye (Prod by DJ Coublon)

Source: http://hub201.com/lies-ladies-tell-to-deceive-men/

Women are so mysterious, most times enigmatic. They have more layers than an onion, and no man, not even the very wise King Solomon was able to figure them out. Women are just confusing by default. Though many of them strive to be honest, truthful, and forthright; truth is they do not always tell the truth. Don’t get me wrong, men tell lies too, but most of the time, women tell the bigger lies, especially when in a relationship, trying to lock down a relationship, or trying to get out of one. These lies ranges from white lies, half-truths told to keep the peace, or sometimes just a lie of the highest proportion. Like I said, guys lie too. And maybe some of my female readers will decide to be awesome and tell us the lies men tell from their own perspective.

Now like I said, women tell lies sometimes to get something from a man, get into a relationship with a man, lock down an existing relationship with a man, or trying to get out of a relationship with a man most times because of another man. Let’s hear some of these lies.

(1) I’ve slept with just two guys in my life:

Ordinarily, men should not bother to ask their women how many guys they have been with before them, I have written about body count before and it was even a big issue on twitter few days back. When a woman is asked for her body count, she will almost definitely lie about it and reduce the number. But the worst liars are the ones that will tell you “I have slept with just 2 guys, the one who deflowered me, and one guy I was dating in school, and it happened only once” When a girl tells you this, don’t believe her, don’t argue with her. Even if she has slept with 300 men, she can tell you her body count is just 3, and if 130, she might just tell you 13. It’s a matter of removing one or two zeros. So, whatever your woman tells you her body count is, don’t argue; just keep quiet. Jesus didn’t die for that, did he?

(2) The sex was great, you are the greatest:

Listen bros, I am not saying you are not good in bed, But almost every woman will tell you that you are the next best thing in bed; that the likes Crixus and Spartacus are learners compared to you. But I need you to know that it’s hard for most women to be frank about sex, especially when the news isn’t good and they want to lock down the relationship with you. You are advised not to listen to her, but rely on her body language instead.

(3) I have never cheated on you and I never will:

This is very easy to say for women, especially when you are just done taking her to cloud 9; she will swear will everything that her honey pot has never been tasted by anyone else apart from you and it is meant for only you till thy kingdom come, she will even swear to that effect. My advice? Don’t bother your head, don’t start finding out, just nod like a zombie and continue polishing her KONGO as long as its available.

(4) I’ll be ready in a minute:

Listen very carefully: You are going out on a date with a woman but she had earlier asked you to come to and pick her up at home. When you get to her and she goes “I’ll be ready in a minute” Tell her you want to get a recharge card down the road, turn your car back, go back to your house and slot in season 1 of 24, Game of Thrones of any interesting series. And before you are done with episode 6 probably, she would call to ask you if you had gotten the recharge card, then you can switch of your TV and DVD, and drive back to her house; you’d be right on time this time.

(5) I’m fine:

If you offend your woman, and before you apologize, she tells you “Don’t worry, I am fine” Biko, start calling everybody, her mother, her father, her grand uncle and anybody that you know she listens to, and tell them you have bleeped up and you are a repentant sinner who needs forgiveness from your woman. If you fail to do that, you can start writing your will or something close to that.

(6) I will never get possessive and I will never nag you:

If any woman tells you this, it’s either she doesn’t love you at all, or you are a maga, simple! Women get possessive and women nag. If you believe otherwise, come and collect your learner permit.

(7) I usually don’t give guys my number, I don’t know why I am giving you:

Do you want to hear the truth? You are the number 9,999 dude in your hood that is getting that number. So don’t start jubilation that you have hit the jackpot, don’t dull yourself and start loving up, play your game very fast and tap out as quickly as you can. Yeske!

(cool You are the only one I ever wanted:

When a woman especially the one from 30 years and above tells you “You are the only one for me, you are the one I wanted, I have been waiting for you all my life” Just nod and tell her she is FANTASTIC! Don’t argue, after-all you are the fall-back option, the last resort, the only one who didn’t run. You are the Awilo Longomba of Nigeria.

(9) It is not you, It is me; you deserve a better woman:

This one of the classic lies women tell when they want to leave for a fresher, richer and more handsome dude. You will do yourself a great favour by not drinking hypo or Dettol. She is done with you, she is leaving. All those talk na bobo.

(10) My father had a dream that something bad will happen if I marry you:

I will not say much about this, if a woman tells you this and you believe her and start hurting or running to your pastor to pray concerning the dream, when her father’s name is not Joseph; you will have to give me your Pastor’s number, you need to be delivered from the spirit of mumunism. Yes, there is a word like that.

Am sure there are still loads of other lies girls use in deceiving unwary guys today. Drop yours!

Comedienne Helen Paul is not your regular entertainment persona, unlike most of her peers in the entertainment industry, the “Jara” presenter is always interested in Nigeria’s political discourse.

Adding her voice to the “bring back our girls campaign,” the mother of two writes down her views and disappointment in President-elect, Muhammadu Buhari recent statement that he can not guarantee the safe return of the kidnapped Chibok girls.

Read her piece as published on The Trent below:

Hmmm… it’s one year and some days now since the Chibok girls have been missing. Yet, the days are still counting because we have no clue about their whereabouts.

This is a very sad development indeed. No doubt, it was a disappointment that the outgoing government failed to locate and rescue the girls from the hands of their Boko Haram abductors.

As a mother, who knows what the pains of child labour and child upbringing are all about, I heaved a sigh of relief when Muhammadu Buhari emerged winner of the presidential election.

It was not because I like him more than Jonathan, but because I listened to one of his campaigns, where he promised to bring back the girls if elected into office. Perhaps, Nigerians elected him on that premise.

I feel that, at least, it will be a great achievement for whoever locates and brings back the girls to their respective families.

In fact, whoever achieves that will be celebrated as a hero all over the world. But then, I have seen another reason to believe that all politicians are the same.

Their modus operandi may only be different. A few days ago, exactly when it clocked one year that the girls had been missing, Buhari broke my heart, just like that of other Nigerians when he said his government could not promise to bring back the girls! I felt really devastated because that comment was a sharp contrast to the promises he made to all Nigerians and the world at large during his campaigns.

Honestly, I try not to be disappointed because you can always expect anything from Nigerians, politicians in particular. They can promise heaven on earth during campaigns, but the moment they get to power, they promptly renege on their promises. Such is life in this part of the world where we find ourselves.

I tried to put myself in the shoes of the parents, relatives and neighbours of the missing girls, who, perhaps, solicited votes for the retired General after hearing his campaign promise that he would bring back the girls. How will they feel now hearing him say something to the contrary?

There is an adage in Yoruba that says ‘omo eni ku san ju omo eni sonu lo,’ meaning that it is better for someone’s child to die than to be missing.

I can imagine the different thoughts and imaginations that would have saddled the minds of those girls’ parents. If the girls are dead (which I don’t pray for anyway), the parents will mourn for sometime and recover, but that they are missing is another experience entirely.

More worrisome is the fact that the parents have to nurture the wound till this moment, and not even with any hope of sort in sight. Wahala dey o! Come to think of it, where are those prophets, Imams and native doctors who claim to have all the powers in the world?

Where are those native doctors we watch on Africa Magic who can disappear and appear to make things happen? Or they only exist on Africa Magic? Where are the prophets and Imams who always claim to us that they communicate directly with God?

Are they all sleeping or they have just been deceiving people all along? In a country like Nigeria where people believe so much in spiritual powers, I expect someone to have used same power to rescue the girls, if they truly exist. I have been thinking aloud on this issue for a long time.

Can’t the association of witches and wizards also do something about it with their powers? After all, Oyinbo men have witches and wizards to, but they use their own powers positively.

Some of the results of it are the aeroplanes, computers and other things we call technology. But black men use their own witch and wizard powers to destroy fellow humans.

They can be here in Nigeria and use spiritual powers to ‘control’ someone in faraway Australia, but they cannot ‘control’ ordinary Boko Haram here to release our precious girls. This is just my imagination.

Those spiritual powers may not be true anyway; perhaps we have such a mentality about them because of the movies we watch. But in every nonsense, there can be some iota of sense.

I’m just thinking aloud with my ‘jargons,’ but I’m sure there are lessons we can learn from it.

Disclaimer: The opinion expressed in this article is solely that of the author and does not represent the official view of Hub201.