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senatordave1:
Something tells me he's positive

I don't even care

tessbadmos:
Selective and biased prayer kill u there.

Aswear, bunch of hypocrites

ChristianNorth:
You right, but right now, I prefer Osinbanjo to Buhari

Both na the same boat carry them

MelesZenawi:
You dey mind hypocrites.

You are praying for Osinbajo and wishing kyari death.

Small children and their brains.


Osinbajo is fully part of the system..

Don't mind these tribalistic fools. Osinbajo is as terrible as all those idiots in aso rock. If God decide to end them all, so be it

Sweeetheart:
she said it herself in her other two monikers that's she's only a troll and only seeking attention here. I no blame her though, observing her you will know she's a daughter of high profile using this place to keep boredom

Except that

Yenefer:
Let’s be clear.
1. The virus does not spread. You spread it. Stay at home.
2. Hospitals are not the solution. They are the war zone. Only you can defeat this disease. Stay at home.
3. There is no cure. Stay at home.
4. People are dying. Stay at home.
#Covid19Out

You be very foolish girl. It's not longer a hoax?

NamelessOGBENI:
"Worth your dick"

Hahahahahahahaha...

Lol. My dick is too special. I dey use am dey torment babes

Obinnau:
Nigerians were saying that we are resistant to the virus. Now the chicken has come home to roost.
The worst is that people are still taking the pandemic for granted till now.

Though I am surprised that the numbers are not rising at an alarming pace.

No be who come hospital dem go test. Hundreds of Nigerians are walking about with the virus and they don't even know it. Some will recover sef without showing any symptoms but will still transmit to others

popoolaopeyemi6:
The problem most good girls have is that they often fall into the hands of wrong men, not wrong in the sense that they don't care about her but in the sense that they are selfish. To say the truth almost all men are, but if it's someone you deeply love, you'll be goddamn hurt. I was in this lady's shoe and what hurts most is the fact that I'm almost crying right now knowing that someone is about to pass through what I passed through. I tell guys if you know you ain't financially stable why walk up and build anything with a girl in the first place? You should have kuku left her, and not build something with her and just leave her all of a sudden. This shit happened with my almost 4 years relationship, mehn I was hurt, was even eyeing an insecticide inside my trolley as at that time but thank GOD for the friends and family I had around me, I was unable to do it it still hurts, and that's the problem with loving someone overly, he never will love you the same way you do. This shit isn't in the least way palatable. You wanna break up with a girl who truly loves you and you wanna know how to go about it without hurting her? TF there's no way to go about that. What we have amongst guys of nowadays is the selfish ones who can risk and sacrifice anything to achieve their career. Not saying there's anything bad in it, but it shouldn't be at the detriment of an innocent girl. What we're you doing encouraging her to love you in the first place when all you can offer her is pain?. Wetin broke guy dey do around relationship sef?

Everyone is selfish though. I agree that he made a mistake of dating her when e never set for him life. But the deed is done. It's better than keeping up the relationship until 4 years as in your case. He should break up while It's still early. Also, ladies and guys dey break each other heart. We just have to move on when it happens. I've always been on the receiving end of breakups. My immediate ex sef do me strong thing. But when she is in town, she invites me for drinks and I gladly accept. We're still good friends. I just believe that is the essence of dating. it is a time to survey your partner. Problem is, don't waste time surveying.

OVA200:
How much you wan sell your k5 pro?

38k
6GB/64gb

personal59:
Just hear yourself out.....but Germany prime minister can be negative why the doctor that guide her can be positive abi............ To you that's correct but for that kind of news in Nigeria it's a lie...............................


Why do you like to hear bad news about the country every time

Buhari getting corona virus isn't bad news o

PrimadonnaO:
I eventually did my shopping yesterday because I saw it was becoming necessary. I get my news quite alright.

That's good

Dcaliphate:
Ok, goodluck with that, when e start to happen just remember someone gave you this piece of advice for free

I've dated girls who loved me more. It ended in tears cos I got tired of the relationship. See eh, ladies want love and attention. They are hooked when you give them this. If you love a lady so much, except she be olosho, she would reciprocate your love and stick for life.

Dcaliphate:
he doesn't know, i always tell guys to find a girl who loves them more than they love her... cos thats the kind of relationship that'll serve them better..No stress.

Lie o. I want a girl who loves me, but my love for her must be way more than hers.

PrimadonnaO:
LOL. It is because I have sense that I realize panicking and acting in frenzy would do me absolutely no good. The people who out of fear went to start consuming chloroquine are the ones who have sense, abi? Or the ones who keep forwarding all manner of broadcast messages, verified or not, are the ones who have sense, right?
I haven’t stepped out of my compound since Friday, well largely because I had no pressing reason to.... I have two bottles of sanitizers... I have my vitamins and take lots of water... But I’m not doing any of these things out of fear, but only because wisdom is profitable to direct. I had a very important function to attend on Thursday last week, and I went for it! I didn’t go on a shopping spree buying things in excessive quantities. But if it looks like the malls will be locked down, I’ll go for basic shopping. I don’t watch CNN, I don’t watch all those unverified videos and listen to the voice notes people are spreading like flu. What’s all the fear all about? I mean, what the heck!

I'd advice you do. FG has encouraged lock down of Lagos and Abuja. By next week, if there is a geometric progression of the disease, every system go shut down. For your good, watch CNN

Debaks1:
well... He got one part right.... Malaria is killing more ppl than this virus.. Yet no panic....

There is no panic because it isn't a novel illness and it isn't extremely contagious as corona virus. Also, there is a cure for it unlike this virus. The mortality rate maybe very low at 2% but with the ease of contagion, if about half the population of the world (3.5 billion persons) come down with the virus, 2% mortality rate translates to 70 million deaths. If that isn't a cause for panic, I don't know what is

Kuddy1010:
How would you feel if she walks up to you and tell you she wants to focus on her study coz she's in 200L and you're a distraction, as in if the table turned,how will you feel? all I see here is selfishness or probably you ain't telling the whole story, I'm guessing you've seen a working class lady and you realized the Uni babe ain't your type anymore.

Don't dump that girl if she's good like you claim,alot of you think every girl out there prioritize money over love, most of the girls out there only wants your loyalty and love reciprocated, not some #5000 you'll credit her account with.


Lastly thread carefully that girl might be your ladder to success tomorrow, think twice before you walk out of her life, above all do what suits you.

No girl is a ladder to my success. If she told him she wants to break up to concentrate on her studies, he will no doubt be heartbroken for a while but he will definitely get over it. Break up isn't palatable but sometimes, it is necessary. If he is considering breaking up, it's clear he wants out. I'm sure he has thought it through. He just needs suggestions on how to end it the right way

INnaMAN:
Everybody in conclusion that the girl is a good girl bla bla.know it that there are things the op has seen and might or will not tell u

No mind them. The moment Op began nurturing thoughts of leaving her, e don carry him eye see something. People are just too sentimental to see. We should give him suggestions on how to breakup the right way, instead of telling him not to break up

fabienjoe:
'Mere' malaria? It's just that there are medications for it.. Malaria is a very serious disease. We in Africa have managed to acquire partial immunity to it. Have you ever seen a White Man with malaria? If you do, you would realize how life threatening malaria could be..

Very true

Yenefer:
This whole Chinese virus or white flu is a conspiracy is a hoax. I will not believe it until a very rich person, first class celebrity, or athletes died due to the virus. I’d like to know, who is in charge of this country? I have an important message

If you love Nigeria, you'd join hands to report this account

Pegi23:
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He won't and you didn't either..this world is too small period. I pity u both

Lol. When two good people are not good together, the best thing is to break up. Like I told you, I'm living proof. My ex was a great lady and I'm a great guy too but we weren't good together. We broke up. She's with a great guy now and I found myself a queen. I don't regret shit. Even if what I have with this babe ends, I'm very much convinced I'd find someone even better. Life isn't one dimensional; one can find love even 10 times over. Don't pity me. Pity yourself, you seem like someone broke your heart. Accept it and move on

Pegi23:
So u want to break that poor girl hrt abi

Men are scum. Fk u. U will never find someone like her. Arrange your life kee u there

He will find someone better than her. I'm living proof. If you break up with a sweet girl, you will find someone sweeter

jagorinho:
you got the first part, the guy is just trying to mask the breaking up on the altar of trying to be focused, but the truth is, he is feeling he is not financially buoyant enough to run the relationship, and having known that fact, he knows the likely outcome of such scenario with time which is infidelity on the part of the young lady, that is why the o.p said towards the end of his story that " he doesn't want to have the thought of the lady taking another dick"
my advice for him is simple, there is no mitigation in break ups, the country is hard, we shouldn't drag unnecessary burden to ourselves, when you are not comfortable with something again, you withdraw like a man without cutting corners.

You are the only one who spoke truth. The babe is a student. She may not be asking him for money, but truth is, she dey collect the money somewhere else. Las las, it will end in tears if he continues.

Spanishmilf:
100k

Spanishmilf:
and add money

Hmm. How much?

UndauntedYOCA:
God bless you immensely bro!!! Good girls are scarce good girls are scare yet he wants to break up with one.

Good girls plenty. Guys just have to open their eyes to see. Anyways, Op would still find another good girl

obailala:
The truth is that the Op doesnt really like the girl. The whole talk of "not being ready to commit to a serious relationship" is just an excuse men give to avoid commitment to a partner they dont really like.

Thank you

Spanishmilf:
Available

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galantjoe:
Getting good girls nowadays is very hard. My advice to u is for u to tell her that you will focus more on getting urself financially update that u may not give her much attention as it was before. Hopefully when things turn around both of u will dinn on a golden table.

Nobody deserves to be placed second. If he can't put her first, he should end things now

Mariangeles:
That's not true.
That's simply inhumane.
Do you know what that might do to her? It'll destroy her!
It'll totally mess up her studies.
There are better ways to go about matters that concerns the heart. They're delicate issues which needs to be handled with utmost care.

Read his comment again, this time carefully. There's nothing inhumane about it

Nomanlike:
Good morning Nairalanders..

There's this gal I want to break up with. She has always been kind to me and we loved us. But the thing is I'm a graduate who's trying to put his life in order and I don't think I can afford anything called concrete relationship right now.

She's in 200 level and you all know how these students girlfriends can be especially when we are not assisting them financially.

At first I thought it was a fling until she got serious. I want to remain focused and not have any gal emotionally attached to me. I want to break up with her but the thing is she loves me so much (I know cos she let me read chats of niggas asking her out, picks every call if we are together and speaks with freedom and she tells niggas I'm the main guy)

She might not understand if I tell her the reason for break up is I want to stay fully focused and not think about my gal taking dick etc..
Brothers how best can I break this news to her ??!

Anyone advising you not to break up is giving you wrong advice. As long as you've started contemplating breaking up, it just shows you don't really love this babe. In any relationship, if the babe's love for you pass the one you have for her, just know it wouldn't last. Na guy suppose dey head over heels in love. Break up now while it's still early, focus on your life. I promise you, in the very nearest future, you'd meet a lady who would sweep you off your feet and you'd be very prepared to take her to the altar. About how to break up: Meet her at her place, explain to her exactly the way you explained to us. Beg her to forgive you. Wish her well and take your leave.

Mariangeles:


You are a monster! Period!
@op, if you even dare to consider this piece of trash, you're even worse than the giver!

As callous as his advice seems, it's the best anyone has given in this thread