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walexy06:
�.. Hmmm, so now u want me to meet her to be sure? Let's plan that.

Lmao. To be sure of her beauty. I'm sure of the other issue and only me needs to be sure

Jimmyubah2:
Get Opay Olla M1 lite for 20k.
Dual 4G, Fingerprints, 2gb ram, 16gb rom, android 9, 3000MAH battery with helio A22 mtk chipset. I use the phone and it's awesome. The cameras outdoors are decent.
Its one of the new phones launched by opera mini.

Can you post some pics the phone took and how's the battery?

Leezah:
Erm, sure.

It guarantees a major risk of sexual incompatibility. It guarantees massive disappointment and a likely painful divorce if you do end up being sexually incompatible. Or a lifetime of “adjustment” in a broken marriage.

Tell me, does having never travelled in your life, guarantee anything when you travel abroad for the first time?

Virginity is just that - lack of experience. Why in the wide world would that be good, or guarantee anything.


I keep count on stuff like this when I was still a practising English lawyer/solicitor and handled matrimonial cases (divorce), among other things.

Exactly 50% of my “virginal bride” marriages ended in divorce. Most of them (40%) were contested divorce, and the rest (5–9%) uncontested. (In case anyone wonders, a diligent lawyer should ask the client if she had entered the marriage as a virginal bride — to cover all bases as it may or may not be a relevant factor for certain claims.)


Sex — or lack thereof — is a completely separate thing from romance, which is also different from marriage. And frankly, the definition of a “successful” marriage varies between cultures, and goes beyond baby making if you ask me (because you can easily make babies without getting married).

In fact, in 2009 I still remember meeting an old couple (around 60+ years old) at East Avenue Medical Center who had grandchildren and looked like a happy family in the traditional Catholic sense… until the grandpa stated out loud that he and his “spouse” never actually got married.

That (among several other experiences) shattered so many of my preconceived notions about relationships.

I wanted to comment on this, but for some reasons, I decided to check out your profile. I'm glad I did. Have a nice day

Showbby28:
That same virgin lady can still knack another man, while still married to you, and bring home a blissful bastard for you to train.
Las Las, personality speaks more than virginity...

The probability of that happening is much more greater with a non virgin wife than it is with a virgin one.

Jochabed:
Real virgins don't blow their trumpets, the just read and pass. But for anyone to discredit them in a subtle way, I think it's not fair. We are at a time whereby sin is now normal, we are so use to it that we no longer celebrate morals. Yes. Virgins should not be foolish. By being virgins alone, the should come with extra oil which is character.
But For a lady to remain a VIRGIN in this present day, I don't care how her character is that alone should be commended. Do you know how many nights they go hugging their pillows due to the sexual urge the feel but yet still choose to close their legs, trust me it takes CHARACTER to do that. So all this character is better than virginity is all rubbish.

Finally someone has said it. Even ugly girls are regularly pressured to have sex. Most guys just want a vagina. They don't care about the face. Some would say "the babe is a virgin because she has no suitors". That's a big lie IMO. Being a virgin in this time of ours is a BIG DEAL and should be commended. Let's stop using subtle language to discredit or discourage them. They are doing well

Amberon11:
But the males who have been encouraging Male promiscuity and female virginity have been sensible?

Most of the female comments here encourage both male and female chastity. Were the non-virgin females deflowered by themselves? In countries like Afghanistan everyone either male or female marries a virgin, do you know why? Because fornication is strongly discouraged regardless of gender. It is foolishness to only advocate virginity for one gender when it takes two to have sex.

You're quoting the wrong person. I didnt say virginity is a gender thing. Bye

Amberon11:
Just like you can preach infidelity without bringing in non-virgins, right?

I hardly see anyone preaching infidelity in relation with non virgins. Just stop fooling yourself

busuyi44:
a good back up phone but no having 4G is a bummer. 4G wifi device came to my rescue

How's the battery and camera?

busuyi44:
a good back up phone but no having 4G is a bummer. 4G wifi device came to my rescue

My sis was using Gionee p5 mini. It didn't have 4G too. She lost it though. I'm thinking of getting her this

UndauntedYOCA:
Lol, does this look like I am discrediting virginity. If it looks like that to you then that's fine, I won't even bother to dissuade you from thinking so.

Y'all can preach the character card without bringing in virginity. Hope you know.

shadeyinka:
My wife was a virgin when I married her and by God's grace we have a beautiful marriage. I've never thought about getting a DNA test for any of my children, neither have I ever remotely thought she could have even had any kissing relationship with any of her exes. I even know some of her old boyfriends and we all have cordial relationships.

I think you have chosen a wrong theme for your writeup. A good marriage isn't dependent on how virgin you were but on WHO YOU ARE and WHO YOU FINALLY GOT MARRIED TO.

Virginity helps when you've married a good man as it foster greater TRUST between husband and wife in situations where
1. Barrenness of the woman comes into the picture
2. Separation due to travel or job requirements is expedient within the marriage
3. When unforseen circumstances seem to suggest infidelity
4. When all your children turn out to look like your best man or your baby turns out to be an albino! LOL
5. Finally, general peace of mind with respect to trust and integrity issues. A lady who kept herself without your watch will most likely keep herself within the confines of marriage.

I dont know any truer statement than this

ayokunl:
This is a misleading post, u have just succeded advising every lady to get themselves disvirgined before marriage

As in eh. But they will tell you that's not the aim of the post. They fail to understand that you can talk about why having good character is important in a marriage without bringing virginity into the equation. I find posts like this irritating and annoying.

Lucrativress:
Please if you are a virgin please keep keeping it
It has this self pride and dignity that can't be bought,it seems like the only thing money can't buy.
Work on every aspect of your life especially socially.
It will help you know the right and fun way to do thing's
Before getting married,up your sexual game,explore the net.
Be a hoe for your marriage and only for it
Virginity's pride can't be measured,pay no heed to all these nonsense

Best comment I've read so far. You're a wise lady tbvh

Lucrativress:
Really I think posts like this shouldn't be encouraged, cause they're now getting too much
Funniest thing is virgin ladies don't see themselves superior to non virgin ladies,in fact they crave for the spotlight most non virgin ladies gets.
Why keep on bringing up Post's like this time after time?
What are you really trying to justify??
Let me tell you the mind of most virgin ladies
It's either,It's just against God's word,it's been fully imbibed in them they just can't see themselves having sex before Marriage or they really don't want counts in their lives.
Next time write "Virgins up your games socially" not trying to justify cultural wrongs
I think inferiority complex is what's doing some of you,that's why you keep bringing up these topics
It's becoming soo stupid
What concerns your friend being a virgin with a failed marriage

One of the first females who said something sensible. It isn't easy to be a virgin in the 21st century. They need commendation and not subtle thrash like this that will make them lose it the next minute. There's absolutely no correlation between virginity and failed marriage

Gemineye:
Comments have been encouraging and nice so far . So pple still have sense

Nonsense OP. This virgin vs non - virgin sh1t has always been one sided. A single virgin with a good character is a gazillion times better than a thousand non virgins with same good character

Tell.them pls. We don tire for this virginity and character stuffs. Virginity isn't easy. We should stop pushing them to break it with this subtle nonsense talk

NextD18:
Bruv, a virgin lady is a virgin because she's decent and morally raised enough to avoid immoral and premarital sex.

That's the only reason.

Lmao. You have sense

NextD18:
Many of them. You will never see them on social media arguing unnecessarily, trying to impress people and posting indecent pictures.

You have sense. One babe in my class got married recently. She's the most prettiest lady in my class. Babe was a virgin when she got married. Very disciplined and cultured lady. The way her husband adores her eh. Just like you said, she didn't have time for unnecessary argument. She's actually someone who hated gossips. Her posts were devoid of indecency. I wish to marry her type honestly

samtinx:
Sweetheart I have never seen a man who married a VIRGIN woman doubt the paternity of his children

I've never seen too

SoNature:
You are right

While it is a good thing to marry a virgin, it's a disaster marrying a circumcised virgin. Those ones never enjoy it... never...

Of course, she has never done it before, and she's waiting for Mr. Right to be first guy.

Sure, you will never enjoy sex with her. If you are a guy who enjoys sex, you are so finished. Funnily enough, there are many girls who are like that out there.

Na malo girls u dey talk about.

angelfallz:
Compatibility is what you're looking for. However, for me I'll be looking for a lady I'm compatible with among virgins.

Aswear, your comment dey gimme joy

fullblast:
Marriage is all about crisis management. Are you a good crisis manager?
That should be the topmost requirement before delving into such serious Union.
Virginity has nothing to do with it.
Just like the op, I'm not promoting promiscuity.

Way back in school, I know a lady who kept her virginity but loves anal s3x and 69 position. Is this one a Vee? Lol! But She's married now. At least I know something the husband will never know.
I just pity those that have fetish for Vees. You can't be certain that it's tested or untested Ok. Lol!

Experience, they say, is the best. Most of the outgoing ladies end up marrying the best husband materials. Remember, I didn't say ALL of them.

My advice: Build up yourself in all ramifications. Do not stick to handouts only because life is a jig-saw puzzle.
Prove most things (DO IT YOURSELF). This will earn u firsthand experience. Hence you become a better crisis Manager to EASILY overcome the twists and bends in life.

Because her hymen wasn't broken doesn't in any way mean she is a virgin please. Someone who is having anal sex is actually worse than a lady whose hymen has long been damaged.

walexy06:
Me that want to marry a virgin, am I even a virgin? Please no need to live double standard life.. Let virgins go for virgins n others as dey please.
One thing I know is, all virgins are ugly, I am a living example.

You've not met my babe. Prettiest lady in the world

Adeagbo77:
It's a matter of choice or available lady within your reach. Whether virgin or non-virgin the best thing that can happen to a man is to get a good well-mannered and cultured wife. If that's complemented with a nice and responsible husband, the marriage will be an enviable one. All the same, there's nothing as sweet as marrying a virgin with qualities of a good wife. Any time, any day that man would continue to cherish her. I am talking from experience. When I met my wife as virgin, I gave her special gifts and bought a big ram for her father. Ladies don't be deceived, you would be more appreciated by your husband if you marry as virgin.

Finally, someone is talking sense

UndauntedYOCA:
Great! I think the most important thing is for both of them to be of good conduct, not each, involving God first is of utmost importance (don't come for me over this, I have the right to have my belief) and lastly, as much as some folks are clamouring for virgins have also never had sex then that's great. Marrying a virgin is wonderful, at least you know say nobody don dey there but it doesn't even guarantee a peaceful home, a virgin can also eventually cheat in the marriage. Those who aren't virgins should also be careful of how, when and with whom they have sex
I happen to know a guy who married a virgin, Nigga still relishes the first time he had sex and the girl he had sex with . In all, being supportive, being each other's peace, being good listeners, ability not to keep grudge with one's spouse, resolve matters asap, build each other, not be violent in any form and not cheat dey important!!!

I don't know what y'all gain from post like this. Using style to discredit virginity. Like someone said, Non virgins are not better than virgins. Let that sink. There is no correlation between virginity and character. you can encourage good character without bringing in virginity.

ndcide:
Rubbish!!!!!!
This stupid thread is for your ilks. Whatever message you think you want to pass, can be passed without bringing virgins into the narrative.

It shows hollowness to try to admonition virgins who have decided to take a noble path, with a general idea that should apply to all.

Keeping your virginity is an icing on the cake, it's a crown to the head of anyone who successfully took that path.

Non virgins are not better than virgins.

Treat character and attitude issues on its own, don't bring virginity to it, especially if you don't respect it.

Exactly. I wonder what this post is meant to achieve. What brings character in this? I'm 100% in agreement with the bolded. I don't know how talks like this from op helps anyone. A virgin will read this and be influenced to start whoring around. I may not marry a virgin, but I sure as hell will do 1 week thanksgiving if I marry one. They are a wonderful set of human beings. Rare to find in this stupid, corrupt world.

jmoore:
Neither does a borehole guarantee a stable marriage.

You said the husband was giving her hell. So what's the correlation with virginity and hellish husband?

I choose a virgin 1 million times over a non-virgin.

Those that use the phrase 'virginity doesn't guarantee a successful marriage' are usually borehole lovers.

You hardly see anyone saying 'non virgin doesn't guarantee successful marriage'. Your dislike for virgins would always show no matter how hard you try to mask it.
Nonsense!!

This is just true. It's talks like this that makes people promiscuous. Virgins are wonderful people, especially in the 21st century. But all these whores always find a way to discredit them with this "character is all that matters".

Chi59:
A sensible post riddled with silly comments from narcissistic, small - minded simpletons whose only aim in life is to remain buried between a tight kitten.

You seem to have a problem with virgins. Sort urself out

emkz:
While we need to interrogate the correlation of virginity with marital stability, what did your childhood friend do to trigger such erratic behaviour from her husband? Except he is a mad man, this story is one-sided.

Virginity and stability in marriages are anti-correlated; keeping your body chaste without paying attention to developing your character will not insure a successful marriage. I can marry a prostitute who has abandoned her ways and has turned a new leaf than a virgin with a questionable character.

Be prepared to father someone else's child

Ayoswit:
Staying faithful to your partner is the real deal here. Some ladies who married as virgins are easy target for other men lustful sexual desire especially if their spouse isn't faithful to them. Virginity is a woman's pride no doubt but a lady with a great personality whether she is a virgin or not should be a better option for a man that wants to settle down maritally.

Abegi X10

Korllami007:
There are millions of non virgin women giving their men wahala by fvcking their exes a day before their marriage then probably give you someone else kid to train. There millions of non virgin women a cross the world that they characters can turn north pole to desert. Most infedelities in the world are mostly perpetrated by non virgin women.

I would rather marry virgin with wahala and enjoy my tight pussy than marry a community sperm depot with wahala.

It's a food for thought.

Lmao. This is funny as hell. But kinda true too

festwiz:
Funny enough, for me, it's actually the inverse...my preference in this order

Android One/Stock Android
Oxygen OS
Sense UI
-Everything else-
TouchWiz
MiUI

You clearly hate customization

Sweeetheart:
I don't see obaseki losing his second term bid as he's 85% of the plot against Oshiomole


Oshiomole is not as smart as I thought he was, he put his mind expression in his face too early which give Obaseki tactics on how to hold him by the balls


as it is now, the legislature is at Obaseki's mercy, he had succeeded wooing key politicians in Edo state and the federal govt is behind him. any attempt to fight obaseki might be Oshiomole final straw

You seem to be the only person who really understands what's going on. Obaseki would win second tenure. Oshiomhole would back off. It's a fight he can't win. I'm sure kyari has warned him about this