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Phenomenal16:
...I pray God gives u one sincerely

Lol. I just want a good wife.

rosalieene:
Please help me ask and tell them ooo
All of them talking rubbish now, if a thread pops out tomorrow of how a gf denied her bf sex, you will see how they will be insulting the girl Upandan.
May God have mercy on this generation of men.
Most girls were pressurized and some were manipulated into having sex..... it's only a few that gave it willingly.

Continue fooling yourself. Apart from those who were raped and sexually abused, all the non virgin ladies gave their virginity away willingly. Stop living in denial. Except he raped you, you willingly decided to let go of it. Quit the blame game. If a bf talks of leaving because the lady denies him sex, she should know clearly that the guy isn't for her. Except ofcourse, she is interested in letting go. Accept responsibility for once please

rosalieene:
You make it seem like its just exactly how it is.
Do u know what virgin girls are passing through? All because you guys are pressuring them into sex..... saying you can't have a relationship without sex. Some are already so frustrated because of you guys.
You know the truth!
If you've had sex before, did you do it with ghost? Then you have no right to condemn anyone.
The change starts from you all.

Abegi. Everybody is pressuring. Y'all just feel it's the guys that ONLY enjoy and crave sex. See eh, come back to reality. Codedly, U guys are to blame. How many ladies sincerely believe a relationship can be without sex? Very very few. Y'all just know how to pretend. She wants to knack, gives the guy signs, then when he attempts to initiate the knacking, y'all start the pretense. Like I said, there are many ladies out there who are virgins, who are pressured to give in, mostly by their fellow females sef and guys too, but they don't. You know why? Because they value virginity. No one is condemning anyone sha. Any guy who craves to get married to a virgin has made a choice. Like I said, some guys even prefer the non virgins. So, forget about them changing. Find your category

luminouz:
Urrrghhhhh!!!

Lol. Thank God for the immune system. Heaven knows we would have long been dead

rosalieene:
How will you see Virgin to marry when you lots will be demanding for sex in a relationship?
how is it possible? who disvirgins the girls?
If you all will keep your dicks in check and work on a no-Sex relationship, the world will be a happy place.

Even when she is not a virgin and doesn't want to do the do, you will pressurized her and claim she is doing it with someone else...... afterwards you will still open your rotten mouth to call her borehole and a slut.

Lmao. Even if the guy wants to be a good guy and not ask for sex, she will still ask. How comes some girls are still virgins? Abi you think say virgins don finish? Or you think they've never been in relationships before? They have. Still, they lay down their standards and don't give a Bleep when the Bleep boy leaves. Maybe you lost your virginity to someone who pressured you to, but know this: YOU, AND YOU ALONE DECIDED TO GIVE IT. IT WAS YOUR CHOICE TO MAKE. So instead of foaming with anger, accept it. Las las, some dude here says they don't care about virginity. So, make your pick from there

luminouz:
They NEVER!! they use a spoon naaaaa...

What they do in that jos is very unhygienic bro...

Yeah. It is truly o. We're very unhygienic here tbh. Even sugarcane sellers use their bare hands to get sugarcane from their bunch. And many people just chew immediately after

Nairalandmonika:
Chai, the reverse is the case for us, seeing someone use bare hands to sell akara for the first was very strange and unhygienic to us.

Where is that?

luminouz:
No. 2 and 4 are wrong!!!

Boiling drinking water doesn't do shiit...the virus doesn't live inside water and what akara seller uses her hands to count akara for u? Where do u stay bro cuz even in the village, akara sellers use big spoon to count whatever.
Mai Suya is still plausible sha

Wow. This is strange. Akara sellers don't use hands to count akara where you stay? Every akara seller here in Jos use their bare hands o. I really didn't see it as unhygienic until now. Wow. Na only God dey protect person o

lexy2014:
Am surprised buhari is no longer eager to travel to UK. By d way, were are his kids?

Lol. You sure say dem no dey naija since?

lalasticlala:
A female UK Twitter user, Aphrodite @d_psycho_guru has shared her coronavirus story, how she got it and the symptoms she experienced.

Read below:



Source: https://mobile.twitter.com/d_psycho_guru/status/1240254860236390400

I wish this woman met Buhari

MarieSucre:
Let's clarify:
1) It doesn't mean anything to YOU. The same way Tinubu becoming president will not mean anything to you as an igbo man. The only time it will become a problem is if you become pained about it for no reason and start saying or doing things to sabotage it, this is what causes racism, tribalism, religious extremism and sexism.

2) The question, shouldn't be HOW but WHY.

WHY aren't more women in the world's richest list?
WHY aren't more women company owners?
WHY aren't more women inventing and producing things?

Then when you find the WHY, you now go back to HOW and ask:

HOW can we get more women to harness resources to make them richer?
HOW can more women become company owners?
HOW can more women gain better access to the factors of production so as to be involved in the inventing and producing process?

Do you see what I did there? I charted a path to how we can open dialogue leading to a solution.

It's the same way asking "HOW many white men are killed by policemen" does not do anything constructive for the conversation but saying "WHY is a higher percentage of black men killed by the police", starts a productive convo.

Or "HOW many African nations are in the top ten economically viable nations" instead of "WHY aren't any African countries economically viable" and "WHAT can we do to change it".

So If someone sarcastically asks you "HOW many Europeans are crossing the Sahara to get to your shithole continent", you reply "WHY are Africans crossing?" This goes for other aspects of life.

Stop renforcing a problem!

Be part of the solution.

I just returned back to 2020 to remind you that the bolded is NEVER happening. Tinubu would never be President of this nation. Don't deceive yourself. OK bye

busuyi44:
Battery backup is OK but camera is below par. Everything drags like Glo,like by force to launch apps(blame d 1gb Ram). D inertia is too much!! A lady dt is not camera focused should be able to use it without issue especially if she hasn't handled flagship phones.

D drag is relative sha since I have handled better phones b4, Xiaomi MI 8, MI 9 and Samsung galaxy note 9

The lady in question used a Gionee p5 mini before it got missing. You think she might have a problem with this. I mean, the P5 mini was 1GB RAM too. And it's a 2016 phone, so maybe this Nokia c1's camera may be better

Pataricatering:
I hope it’s not ur gbola that is tiny sha ? It’s usually u men that have two inches gbola that are always talking shit .

Do you have borehole? It's usually borehole ladies that get angry at two inches gbola guys

damocool:
seal being intact doesn't make any lady a virgin 100%... many of these so called virgins masturbate and still reckon themselves as a virgin, which is totally false..

If she masturbates, the hymen should break, right? Those ones no follow for virgins abeg

drnoel:
Anyways, I didn't know olosho work was being done in secondary schools. Na wah for the secondary school u went to, mine was a refined one though all boy but we had a girls school close by.
Anyways, no one said anything about dating anyone. That's Ur own talk. U should get married and free urself from all this small girls who only know about money and dick.
Cheers!

Lmao. Young girls in secondary school, probably below the age of 18 having sex is olosho work bro. Maybe not pro olosho but surely amateur or beginner olosho. Anyways, you're contradicting yourself. I responded based on your previous comment. Cheers too

ClassicMan202:
You see your how your brain works abi??

She said don't be unfortunate and you are saying back to sender.

Like their leader, English is very difficult for them to understand. No blame am

sinkhole:
you see am? These are the mumu people advising the incompetent leader!

Lmao. Na today you know say that guy don sell him brain?

drnoel:
Oh! I forgot to say if one were to make a survey, that was my personal opinion. I was talking based on life's experiences.
Yes, ladies of younger age bracket are generally more naïve, that is true. But remember back then while in secondary school. Those girls in our set that already had boyfriends and where having sex, already knew how to turn boys their age around their fingers but the ones that were still virgins were still learning work. That e.g alone also adds to my point.

Lol. This your talk eh. Those girls already having sex knew how to exchange or promise sex for whatever they wanted from the boys. Don't get it twisted please. That's not experience. That's olosho work. So if you are looking to date a lady with olosho working experience, I say, WEHDONE SIR

ReadyMadeToTo:
It's an insult to those that are dull to call that mumu man dull. Buhari is utterly useless. I spit on his empty skull

franchasng:
congratulations Sir virgin. Are you not ashamed as a man talking about your virginity, it speaks a lot of who you are.


Listen, the father of Jesus wasn't a virgin, but the mother of Jesus was a virgin.


Throughout the Bible, no reference was made about a man's virginity, but so many verses made reference of a woman's virginity.


All the men after God's heart who were very close to God in the Bible, most if not all of them were never virgins, in fact they were mostly bad men.


So reexamine yourself again. Marrying a virgin as a man is useless, don't even mention it anywhere again cos it makes you appear

Lmao. This talk weak me aswear

Olafisoyem:
Going to school is not a guarantee of a good life so don’t go to school

Lmao. Best summary for a stupid thread

drnoel:
U can understand what I wrote however u want to. Makes no difference, u will keep Ur opinion. And I never said sex was necessary to build experience in a relationship.
Anyways, let me stress this though. If u take a sample of virgins and non virgins, u will see that virgins rarely keep a relationship ofcos we know some variables that may be the cause. There are more non virgins in long-term relationships and experience is built in that way. That's one way to look at it.
Another way to look at it is this. More Virgins are in the younger age bracket, it's not so easy to find older virgins not that there are none but it's even rarer to find older virgins in long-term relationships. We know the younger a woman is the more likely inexperienced she is cos u need the factors that help one build experience to be present.
So in the nutshell, virgins are inexperienced and naïve.
U don't have to agree with me but it's true.

Lmao. You conducted any survey on this, or you know someone who did
On your second point, I'd have you know ladies (not virgins) of the younger age bracket are largely inexperienced or naive

drnoel:
Am not in their marriage so that portion no concern me. If a man insists the children are his, DNA pales in the back. His decision, his stress. I won't carry panadol for another man. But I believe that DNA part wouldn't be necessary as the kids are their fathers carbon copy.

Well good for him. My point, no even trust your own wife 100%, talk less of trusting someone else's wife that was once a runz girl

drnoel:
It translates to being naïve bros. That one knows about sex and dick doesn't make u experienced about relationship or how to keep a man, among other things. U are purposefully being myopic. Virginity has nothing to do with being strong-willed or patience. Fine, maybe the self control part, I can relate with that one. Bros u can't throw the baby with the bath water and stop thinking restricted, open Ur eyes and see.

Lmao. So, those who are experienced are those who have sex in their relationships? And a virgin isn't experienced in keeping a man because keeping a man actually involves sleeping with him? Lmao. Just so you know, virginity has everything to do with being strong-willed and patient. Virgins are pressured almost daily to break their virginity. Guys with sweet mouth, those with money, funny guys; all want to shift her pant. Her resisting all those pressure isn't being strong-willed Plus, I hope you know say even virgins dey feel Hot. She wants to knack. But for some reasons, she wants the knacking to take place in her matrimonial home, by her husband. So she waits. If that's not patience, then I don't know what the hell it is.

drnoel:
Told u I know this one, we still keep in contact. She is not running shit now, just her mother's company. I still jab her about her university days and she blushed anytime I mention it, and begs me not to tell her hubby. It's not like the man has no idea but he didn't run things with her so only knows the superficial things she did. Such is life.

As I said, the fact say you never catch am, no mean say e don change. Nobody on earth hides infidelity like a woman. I just hope the husband has a little over 100k to do DNA test for his first child most importantly. The earlier, the better

Matrimonous:
This you post makes no sense. Does marrying a LovePeddler guarantee success in Marriage?. You are just discouraging people from being chaste. I need to tell you on average, chaste girls make better wives so stop posting trash.
VIRGINITY IS AN ADDED ADVANTAGE ANYTIME ANY DAY.

On more than average actually

drnoel:
Also not true. I know a lady that was raped 3ice. She won her school pageantry those 3x and I suspect the organisers where the ones response. The last issue was more dastardly than the rest. Over 20 guys went thru her or so we heard. Anyways, she is married and 3 kids and is homely.
I also know another issue or a runz-girl that is married and not giving her hubby stress. U can't use abstract issues to arrive at a misnomer

Well, what I know is, ONCE A RUNZ GIRL, ALWAYS A RUNZ GIRL. If you never catch am no mean say e don change.

drnoel:
This statement is silly esp if u make the mistake to place both virginity and character on similar pedestal. That would be wrong cos they are both abstract variables.
U can so place virginity with naivety and it what u mean by good character is naivety then u are making a big mistake. Cos people don't get naïve for long. Once the lady in question has had several children then u will see her true character. Then how u treated in the past comes to play and if she is good then u don't have a problem. If she is bad, Ur own don finish

Being a virgin doesn't translate to being naive either. You think virgin girls don't know dicks and what sex is? You think they don't have intense cravings for sex? Lol. You're mistaken. Virginity is strong-willed. It is self-control. It is patience. You can add other adjectives to that list but I hope you get the gist. My babe is a virgin. Hasn't tried any type of sex (vaginal, oral or anal). But she isn't naive to what having sex entails.

cococandy:
Mmm but you’re not her husband. Because it happened for him doesn’t mean it will happen for you.

Lol. It is happening for me too hopefully. I got a virgin too, stubborn but sweet. As I said, na money I dey find now

Some oloshos are angry on this thread o. Lmao.

cococandy:
Then be her type
Behave like her.
Keep your virginity. And be quiet.

Maybe you will find one like her

Her husband isn't a virgin but that's far from the point. Plus, I think I've found her type. Hopefully, money go dey to marry am