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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 3:32am On Mar 18, 2020 |
NextD18: WAS PATIENTLY WAITING FOR YOU, MR LEGEND OF THE VIRGIN SERKER. |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by lovingyouhun: 3:47am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Korllami007: Your mouth bad sha, but you really scored high in this....88/100 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by CassieCougar: 4:29am On Mar 18, 2020 |
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ABOVEDELAW: 4:37am On Mar 18, 2020 |
BS! Korllami007: 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 4:38am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Vega100:�AVOID � A BAD � MARRIAGE � After salvation, the most important choice you will need to make is who to marry. This choice is so important that if you miss it, you will suffer for long, if you get it right then you will enjoy forever. A bad marriage can affect every other area of your life. This subject is so important, so many married people are hoping to be single again so as to make the right choice. If you are single please don't just be in a hurry to get married, you have the best opportunity to prepare for it. For two people to come together to live in peace and harmony, they must agree spiritually, mentally and physically. Just like an elephant cannot marry an ant so also a believer cannot marry an unbeliever. If an elephant marries an ant how would they live, if a goat marries a fish where would they meet? You must look for a Godly man or a Godly woman to marry, nothing can beat this. The devil's primary target is the family. He knows that everyone belongs to a family and if he can make two wrong people meet then he has succeeded affecting the community and nations negatively. Ignore your age and the pressure for a moment, the pressure in a wrong marriage is far worse. God has somebody for you but you must set your priorities right. What do you need in a woman? What do you need in a man? Marriage is not about what you want, it is about who you need, that will make you better while you make him better. It is about destiny. That is why you must know your purpose before you get married. Genesis 2:18. You must pray before you choose. God knows the best person for you, it is only wise to seek His will. It is very easy to know God's will when sex is not involved. The moment sex is involved and you want to know His will then He will blank you out.Why? Because you have broken His first Law of NO SEX before marriage. If you have had sex in the past then you need to repent totally and stay away from each other for sometime then you can seek the face of God. Your marriage will not be hell on earth. Your marriage will be honorable in the name of Jesus Christ. Don't marry for sex, don't marry because you are of age, don't marry because you are getting old, don't marry because you are lonely, don't marry because you need someone to support you financially, don't marry because you mistakenly got pregnant, don't marry because you don't want to lose the person, don't marry because of family pressures, don't marry because you like the idea of marriage and admire every wedding gown you see, don't marry because all your friends are getting married.But get married because you want to fulfill destiny. Get married because you want to be a help mate. As a man, get married because you want to fulfill your purpose.God will help you in choosing, please let His will be done in your Life. Amen! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Nobody: 4:40am On Mar 18, 2020 |
If a famous person known over the world, divorce his wife because she lied about being a virgin. And it becomes a subject of discussion over the world. All these small girls that are aspiring to do more than those before them (whoring) will realise that virginity is the number one pride of a woman. Post like this encourages young girls to dash out priceless virginity. 7 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Amanda4life: 4:51am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Paxie55: Virgin male are so so faithful in marriage 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Amanda4life: 4:53am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Paxie55: Virgin male are so so faithful in marriage Every single thing you do he will appreciate it 7 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Sunxhub: 4:54am On Mar 18, 2020 |
But opkonity guarantee am abi? |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by pfadom: 4:59am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Virgiity is nothing without good character. Many virgins found themselves in such state not by choice, the environments in which they are brought up do not allow or encourage mingling with opposite sex. You will be shocked by the number of porn movies on their gadgets and the toxic nature of their character mostly hiding under religiosity. 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by enemyofprogress: 5:01am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Virgin that does not have sweet ringtones, that one na virgin? Virgin that cannot scream and wake up your landlord and his entire family members that one na virgin? Abeg make i hear word jare Dominique is driving me crazy |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by freethinker01: 5:21am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Chi59:. If u read the post very well, you'd see it's self-contradictory but you decided to say this because it appeals to your emotions and the fact that you're loose. Once you hear the word virgin, you become bitter hence, it triggers your annoyance cus you lost yours for a dime. I don't blame you tho. 5 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Paxie55: 5:31am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Amanda4life:Exactly. |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by emkz: 5:36am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Vega100: You believe the cause of her problems is she has grown really fat and unattractive. Is this what she told you, or you are making an assumption? IF this is what she told you, virginity should not be part of the narrative you presented. You can't tell your childhood friend to fight to force a man to re-love her and treat her with respect. She'd be facing psychological trauma, stress and loss of self-esteem. Tell her to consider getting a trial separation (there is no stigma in that). The kids would be with her of course and that her husband would pay to look after them. Give him the freedom he wants to ravage other women. When he comes to his senses (they usually do), he'd want to get back, then she'd dictate the terms of engagement. Staying with a man or woman who disrespects you either by talking down on you, or bringing another woman/man in your presence is outright foolishness. Tell your friend (you) to know her worth. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by richardokon710(m): 5:41am On Mar 18, 2020 |
but the question is do we still have virgins 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Farki: 5:44am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Korllami007: Just a minute sir, are you a virgin? |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 5:45am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Korllami007: Lmao. This is funny as hell. But kinda true too |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 5:49am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Ayoswit: Abegi X10 |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 5:52am On Mar 18, 2020 |
emkz: Be prepared to father someone else's child 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 5:54am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Chi59: You seem to have a problem with virgins. Sort urself out |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by kellyjc(m): 5:56am On Mar 18, 2020 |
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Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by 21cents: 5:57am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Adeagbo77: They don't understand.. I can go extra miles to make a wife I met a virgin happy. The fact that she could keep her legs closed and prove dogged against hormone-rushs effects till marriage is the greatest discipline a woman could have. I'd cherish her for life because of that. and if she ain't one, I'd always see her as a used product because marrying a non virgin can be likened to marrying a prostituté who has been dicked by different men. men shouldn't even pay bride price for a hoeee in the first place since the seal is already broken. 4 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by andyanders: 5:57am On Mar 18, 2020 |
unmask:Exactly on point. Most see other people as evil. Their sexual experience is zero. They just lay on bed like log of wood. In fact, don't wanna talk about this. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 5:58am On Mar 18, 2020 |
jmoore: This is just true. It's talks like this that makes people promiscuous. Virgins are wonderful people, especially in the 21st century. But all these whores always find a way to discredit them with this "character is all that matters". 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 6:04am On Mar 18, 2020 |
ndcide: Exactly. I wonder what this post is meant to achieve. What brings character in this? I'm 100% in agreement with the bolded. I don't know how talks like this from op helps anyone. A virgin will read this and be influenced to start whoring around. I may not marry a virgin, but I sure as hell will do 1 week thanksgiving if I marry one. They are a wonderful set of human beings. Rare to find in this stupid, corrupt world. 3 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 6:10am On Mar 18, 2020 |
UndauntedYOCA: I don't know what y'all gain from post like this. Using style to discredit virginity. Like someone said, Non virgins are not better than virgins. Let that sink. There is no correlation between virginity and character. you can encourage good character without bringing in virginity. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by 21cents: 6:11am On Mar 18, 2020 |
cococandy: pls go and sit down and shut the Fawk up!! we know you're a public toilet already but dont try to justify our wants with that useless rhetoric of yours. 5 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by Youngzedd(m): 6:11am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Remijuice: Full time simp. 1 Like |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 6:12am On Mar 18, 2020 |
Adeagbo77: Finally, someone is talking sense |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 6:13am On Mar 18, 2020 |
walexy06: You've not met my babe. Prettiest lady in the world |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ayokunl: 6:15am On Mar 18, 2020 |
This is a misleading post, u have just succeded advising every lady to get themselves disvirgined before marriage 2 Likes |
Re: Virginity Doesn't Guarantee A Stable Marriage (a Must Read for young ladies) by ityP(m): 6:17am On Mar 18, 2020 |
fullblast: Because her hymen wasn't broken doesn't in any way mean she is a virgin please. Someone who is having anal sex is actually worse than a lady whose hymen has long been damaged. |
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