You are the one that should keep quiet. Why will Mike seize the little boy's source of income? Is he the one that pirated it? Doesn't Mike know the dons in the pirating business at Alaba who are directly responsible for this? Why didn't he pick a man of his size? It's on top one small boy he wants to form LAW ENFORCEMENT OFFICER... abeg, let me hear word...
,, A PRACTICING DOCTOR AT 30yrs. YOU GUYS THING MARRIAGE IS AN ACHIEVEMENT
SHE SIMPLY DIDNT SEE IT AS AN ACHIEVEMENT, ITS SOMETHING ORDAINED BY GOD AND MUST HAPPEN.
UNA THINK SAY < SHE BE JOBLESS HUSBAND SEEKING LADY < TO BE ADVERTISING HUSBAND ON SOCIAL MEDIA
IS SHE A CELEBRITY ? OR IS THE HUSBAND A CELEBRITY?
NKOGHERI
Well, just in case you dont know, female doctors mostly get married between 25-29 years of age... They know how important it is for women to give birth early... Most of my colleagues got married just after med school or during their house jobs or NYSC... Again, some consider marriage an achievement and are not stupid for thinking so... No wonder, they dance and make merry like say tomorrow no dey when that day finally comes... Everybody get Wetin dey make am happy... Some na graduation, some na employment, others promotion, still others MARRIAGE, many others CHILDREN... so don't belittle someone's joy with statements such as IS MARRIAGE ACHIEVEMENT!!!
Evercurious: Hope you wont mind a peck from me. I still d9nt understand how people would term a 30 year old lasy as old. Sorry at that age , marriage wasnt evn close to my list
Well, science tells us kids born by women 30 years and older have a very high chance of being challenged... Plus, considering the fact that menopause is just about 15 years from 30, it explains why some may consider age 30 to be a little late for a woman to get married. Then too, u are probably one of very few women who wasn't thinking of marriage at age 30... Even women in advanced countries, where age isn't really a thing, would be searching for a marriage mate on or before 30...
izombie: Op i saw this your post late so i am typing this on page 19. Let me start by saying that in every relationship, the person that cares less about the relationship is in charge. In this case, your wife. Now listen and listen good. The more you try to suck up to her the more you irritate her. This is how to treat this kind of people, stop trying to impress her. Stop buying her gifts. Just buy the things you need at home for everyone. Remain a good husband to her but stop complaining about her social media but instead stop posting pictures of you and her online, just like she's doing. Check her profile relationship status, if it doesn't say married, don't complain about it, just change yours to single. Even if hers says "in a relationship", put yours to single. Stop buying her any birthday present. Just say happy birthday to her and that should be all. Pay her with her own coin. Act aloof. I tell you, she'll start appreciating you more.
This is the most sensible comment on this post so far. This is the only advice that would work magic. I hail you sir, you have what it takes to man a house. Your wife is lucky to have you
KevinDein: Your ex has all these positive qualities but he was a turn off to you .
I swear to god you ladies are genuinely confused. Woe to men who take you guys serious.
The story may just be wash u know... I don't see any guy being in any form of relationship with her type of person... She's the type of person that would literally bring the roof down on any man... Personally, I am convinced her ex ended the relationship and not the other way round
Lol... It's the truth whether u like it or not... Even the Bible designate the man to LOVE HIS WIFE and the woman to RESPECT HER HUSBAND. It doesn't mean that the man shouldn't respect his wife or the wife shouldn't love her husband, it just means the husband's love should overshadow the wife's and the wife's respect should supercede her husband's... Its as simply as that... If a woman loves a man more than he does her, that relationship just can't work...
Hello house, Pls I need mature advice on this issue. I had to create this account as to remain anonymous.
I've been married for 2 years plus, with a son and expecting another. The problem is that my wife is not proud of me, not proud to be associated with me and does not show excitement concerning me or gifts that I buy for her.. She is just too plain, too emotionless.
It started from our dating days.. We dated for a year plus.. She never wanted people to know about us. Always hiding me. As if the relationship was a secret. She never asked me for a pin.. I was happy she wasn't the demanding type. When I proposed to her, I expected her to go over the moon, show excitement and flood social media with pictures.. But no way. She was just mute and calm about it. She didn't even accept the idea of pre-wedding pictures when I suggested it.. Said it wasn't compulsory, she doesn't have time and energy for that..Few weeks later, she uploaded very beautiful studio pictures of herself alone in nice clothing, shoes, accessories on her facebook timeline without any caption about getting married or love.. Nothing about me at all.
Wedding came... She opted for a small quiet wedding.. Although we could afford a big wedding.. I was surprised.. So unfeminine... Women always prefer loud crowded weddings to show off.. She was supposed to be extremely excited as she was getting married esp at over 30 years when a woman is considered by societal standards to be hopeless and too old for marriage but no! She went about the whole festivities like nothing special was happening to her.
After the wedding, she didn't upload our wedding pictures on social media like normal women do. I then uploaded few pictures of us and tagged her. She immediately untagged herself and told me I could post whatever I wanted without necessarily tagging her. Months after, she uploaded 2 pictures of herself alone in wedding gown and traditional attire.. None of mine till date. She doesn't have any picture of me or us together on her facebook profile, she doesn't upload any picture of me or us on her whatsapp. It's always her picture alone or with our baby or her parents and siblings. She hardly even takes pictures with me at social functions. She prefers personal pictures. Sometimes, she will even crop me out of her pictures and post only herself. She just keeps going on as if I don't exist. When I ask her why, she says she doesn't need to display me online to know she is married to me. On my birthday, she didn't wish me HBD on any social media platform but she uploaded pictures of her 2 male colleagues at work(she is a medical doctor, a surgeon in training and planning to relocate abroad soon) and wished them HBD, wrote nice things about them. Back home, all I got was a small get together, cake, drinks and gifts but I would have preferred to be acknowledged online as well. On her birthday, I dare not show her off or say anything on social media, she won't find it funny.. She prefers everything we do is private. The part that breaks my heart is her attitude towards gifts.. When I met her, she was working, earning big, lived alone and had a car.I was happy she wasn't demanding or greedy... But I noticed if I buy her something, she just coldly thanks me and that's all. I am an Architect, working in a firm and also into private jobs.. I recently completed a project and was paid in millions.. I thought I should surprise my wife so I bought her a new car(an SUV).... She acted so plain.. Just said thank you and that was all.. Instead of displaying it all over social media platforms, write lovey dovey epistles about me and celebrate me like other women do.
By all standards, I am handsome, tall, dark, educated, nice guy, well to do, so why is she not proud to show me off? Why does she not want me to show her off?
In all fairness, she has been a very nice partner so far but why this cold abnormal attitude ?This is not how women ought to behave. I am getting tired already,i have discussed this with her but she doesn't wish to change. What could be wrong with her?
Lol... I think you are not alone... I have a female friend who is a doctor/surgeon... She posts pictures of only herself and coworkers on Facebook... We hardly see her husband.. .. We comment most times as to why she doesn't post pics of him... But she posted his pic for the first time and celebrated him on his birthday some months ago... I'm sure it's a thing with female doctors... They prefer low key marital life... I know this because, I have so many female friends who are doctors... Enjoy marital life and forget about public gratification
I always tell men, marry the woman that loves you and not the one that you love. You are more like the available option for her cos age wasn't on her side. I would have said that the love will grow but there was no mutual love in the first place
She married you out of societal pressure, you are nothing close to her Dream man.
But there is hope, you can use reverse psychology to put her on her toes.
It's actually better the man's love exceed that of the lady. Women are wired for affection. This woman under consideration is one of the few weird women who doesn't crave affection. When a man loves a woman genuinely, it is easy for the woman to reciprocate, even if initially, she didn't feel anything for him.
STOP GIVING HER ATTENTION. BE MORE COLD TO HER THAN SHE IS TO YOU. MAKE HER THE LEAST OF YOUR PRIORITIES. HANGOUT MORE WITH FRIENDS AND JUST LIVE HAPPY WITHOUT HER IN IT. IN SHORT, PRETEND YOU'RE SINGLE BUT DON'T CHEAT ON HER. SHE WOULD VALUE WHAT SHE HAS
Meliaen: Bitter product of incest. No wonder your mum killed the man you thought was your father when he found out the truth about your birth. Oloribuku. Ashiwere.
Lol... I'm the exact representation of my dad... Can you say same about your dad? Would u even birth kids in this life after your dad used ur destiny? Lol... Tell the world how ur dad raped u and eventually used ur pant... Plot twist: ur destiny couldn't even fetch him a Benz... Hence, he'd still die a poor man
Meliaen: Your father is dead? Your mum should be dead too. Or maybe you'll die before your mother so that she will continue to mourn you till she dies too. Bastard child.
Well, no one can tell the future... Whether I die or she dies, I like it u realize someone would mourn... Your mum, on the other hand prays everyday that u die and rid her of the embarrassment of ever knowing u... Nothing would give her more comfort...
Meliaen: When I said you were daft, it wasn't a feeling, I just knew. Where have I insulted tuface in my comments. You're the low life insulting Blackface since morning. Did tuface fuckkk your lose hole to defend him?
Lol... See who is talking? Someone that they've used her pant and destiny
Lol... At least I know my papa... Can u say that about urs? Probably, Tuface was yanshing ur papa that's why u hate him so much? Please, go and finger ur mama pussy abeg and stop disturbing us here...
He's dead���... Your brothers, father, uncles and future sons are foolish. If ur father isn't too stupid, he would have allowed ur mum give him only a Mouth Gig the night u were conceived... At least, he for avoid having an embarrassment of a child like u
Meliaen: Is that you on your profile? You're ugly, too thin and look gay. No wonder I thought tuface had been banging your butt hole. Anyway your business. Just do something about those skinny legs, it's disgusting to look at.
Your father, brothers, and husband no go fine reach half of me sef... As u fine reach, post ur pic na... Plus come my Facebook and see how girls dey trip for those legs... In ur next life sef, my type cannot toast u... All this smelly pussy babes would be talking when class is around? Mumu
Frankiss44: Have u even seen a copy of the suit that Blackface filed against 2face? If you have u won't be ranting... I have watched more than one interview where blackface has said repeatedly that 2face didn't steal the said song, that it was co-written by both of them... His argument is that 2baba was suppose to remit his share of royalties from the song.. And 2face argument is that he can't do that since blackface also sang the song too but his own version didn't blow
Tell one foolish Melien or something about this... She has refused to have sense
Meliaen: It is not a feeling, it's true but that is not the issue. The real problem is tuface not acknowledging what was done, not addressing the issue and his entitlement sense.
Lol... Tubaba must have given u belly and denied it then. Cos its clear u have a personal beef with him... You and Blackface are good for each other... Mumu
Meliaen: It's the contrary actually. Ass lickers like you are the ones insulting blackface. For example, you have insulted him in every of your comment. That said, you're the bigger problem.
Lmao... So my comments about him is gonna resurrect his career? I don die... See eh, Blackface is as irrelevant as the last 4 letters in QUEUE
Meliaen: Those who think they know it all have no way of finding out they don't. They're the BIGGER FOOLS.
I don't need to know it all. I just need to know it now... Even the holy book says, TAKING OFFENSE LIE IN THE BOSOM OF FOOLS... Blackface and fans can insult Tubaba all they like, it won't stop Tubaba's shine, neither will it resurrect Blackface's black career
Meliaen: You aren't the one wearing the shoes. You can't decide for him how he finds closure.
Lol... He should know the majority of persons think he's a fool... No one is taking him seriously... Not even tubaba... He claims Tubaba stole his shine... But if he was half a good an artist, I wonder why he didnt try to hit it big with another one... HE IS A FOOL...
Meliaen: Exactly. People are quick to bash blackface. Only God knows what truly transpired between them. Tuface could also be having entitlement sense I.e not genuinely apologizing for whatever it was or addressing the issue. Sometimes, it's not so much what the other person did to us but "are they genuinely sorry"
Abegi... Blackface is the only fool here... No matter what TuBaba did to him, it's been ages... He should let it slide... He is only hurting himself and would continue to unless he gets sense... TuBaba wasn't bothered and still isnt bothered about him... Hence, TuBaba would have peace of mind and all even though he really was the cause of everything... Anger consumes... Blackface is the only one who needs to heal, or one day, we go hear say him don commit suicide
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