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Romance / Five Basic Tips On Safe Online Dating By Smith by Ivegotsolutions(m): 11:25pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
Since the emergence of social media platforms such as Facebook, Whatsapp, IMO, Twitter, Instagram etc, meeting and socializing with people has become so easy that people across the globe can relate and at the same time communicate with each other irrespective of the distance. Many have benefited from this trend while to some people, it is an experience they wouldn't want to remember. On 30.05.2015 I just stumbled on the devastating news of Angela Russo, a missing Arizona young woman who was gruesomely murdered by Lashawn Johnson after she was reportedly missing. According to Angela Russo's mother, the deceased went on a date with Johnson, a man she met on a dating site. Here in Nigeria, a young business woman few years back was strangled to death in a hotel room by a set of young men she met online. The death of these innocent people and so many other social vices motivated me to publish this article which gears towards educating social media users on how to handle online dating. One has to be very careful when dealing with online dating, because in most cases you have to deal with total strangers whom you don't even know their mental state. I have been active on social media for over 13 years and within this period, I have come across so many people who in one way or the other have benefited from online dating. If you are going on a date for the first time with someone you met online, you have to put into consideration the points that I will be sharing. RISK ASSESSMENT APPLICATION: When going on a date with people you meet online, please always apply the risk assessment theory. What this means is that as you agree to hookup, try to identify any hazard that may come up in the cause of you meeting up with a total stranger. When you identify, then you have to analyze and evaluate if you can proceed with such date. When applying this theory, you have consider the personality of the individual, the location, number of people involved and the distance. THIRD PARTY INVOLVEMENT: It is advisable to involve a third party before embarking on an online date. Yea, this is a mistake most victims of online date make that you have to avoid. Make sure you inform someone close to you of every move you make by sending messages. BE PROACTIVE: Be at alert when you are going on a date with someone you just met online, do not be carried away by mere mirage. In most cases, the bad guy out there concludes on how to carry out his evil plan when he realize you are being carried away by his gimmick. So never allow yourself to be carried away by sweet talks, smell of his perfume or any other thing he may throw at you to fall. TAKE A SELFIE: This may sound awkward and challenging, but It is a trick you have to play. When you meet him or her for the first time, just pretend to be exited for seeing him or her for the first time. politely ask for a selfie and when he agrees take it asap. While you chart with him forward the pics to the third party you involved earlier so that they will know the person you went on a date with. MAKE USE OF YOUR MOBILE GPS TRACKER: GPS which simply means Global Positioning Systems will enable your love one to determine and track your precise location. So before things get out of hands, you will be easily located. If the above tips are properly made use of when meeting an online date, it will be very difficult for the evil ones to carry out their plans. Remember that any strange person you are meeting from the social media platform is a suspect until you are certified that his or her intentions are genuine. Good luck as you search for true love. http://everydaywithsmith.com/2016/06/01/five-basic-tips-safe-online-dating-smith/
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Celebrities / Re: AY Spent 9Years In Delta University by Ivegotsolutions(m): 2:31pm On May 10, 2016 |
God is always faithful! looking back 2008 when I arrived Eko, I can Only say thank you Lord 1 Like |
Culture / Re: How My Village Cow Culture Killed My Two Uncles by Ivegotsolutions(m): 2:02pm On May 08, 2016 |
obidaddy: Is a tradition your Dad believed in and all required should be done on his behalf. But for you, let your entire community know that you are now a born again and you are not part of the tradition if its to extend to you. |
Culture / Re: How My Village Cow Culture Killed My Two Uncles by Ivegotsolutions(m): 12:35am On May 08, 2016 |
Okeycima:Hahahahah not at all! Just to hear your own side. |
Culture / Re: How My Village Cow Culture Killed My Two Uncles by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:54pm On May 07, 2016 |
Okeycima:Am waiting for you |
Celebrities / Re: Kenneth Okonkwo & Ifeoma Welcome Baby (Photos) by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:05pm On May 07, 2016 |
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Crime / Re: Bride Kidnapped Days After Surviving Acid Attack By Rejected Suitor (pic) by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:04pm On May 07, 2016 |
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Celebrities / Re: Felix Aigbe Libarty To Tiwa & TeeBillz: Your Marriage Is Under Spiritual Attack by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:03pm On May 07, 2016 |
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Politics / Re: Fulani Herdsmen Obstruct Okorocha And Journalists In Owerri by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:00pm On May 07, 2016 |
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Culture / How My Village Cow Culture Killed My Two Uncles by Ivegotsolutions(m): 9:24pm On May 07, 2016 |
Please if you are from Mbaise in Imo state, ask your parents to reveal your culture, tradition and history before is too late. I got to know my uncle in 2008 when i just relocated to Lagos from Abia state. I was called by a friend for a job offer in Lagos, i needed a place to stay in Lagos before the job will be given to me. My Dad arranged with this my uncle to acomodate me. When i met this man, i was very happy at how his entire family received me. In 2014, my uncle relocated back to my village with his family. Two weeks back, i got a call from him and he requested i should send him some cash to enable him see a medical doctor. He told me that he was having a contineus hiccup. I managed to transfer some cash to him, and he was very grateful. To my surprice, my dad just called to inform me that my uncle and his elder brother just died. I was very shock and divastated with the news. Few days later, the third brother to this my uncle was about dying from the same strange hiccup. After some enquiries and consultations, some elders revealed that 36 years back, my unlce's dad died and they were supposed to burry him by slaughtering a cow but they could'nt because of their financial stand back then. They made a promise to slaughter the cow when they grow up, a promise they forgot to fulfil. The tradition is that until they slaughter a cow for their dad, they will never taste a cow meat when they attend any burial ceremony in my village. Some how they had a taste of a cow meat in one of the burial they attended and the result is death. This tradgedy can only occour when a wicked old man who inderstand the history and tradition triggers the clause. For instance, if an old man who understand the culture report you to the gods by performing a libation to the gods and reminding them that you had a taste of the meat without slaughtering to your late dad. The demons incharge of this tradition will kill such person. RIp to my uncle! He was burried today. I still wonder why we continue to practice this tradition irespective of the growth of christianity in the land. Please know the culture and the traditions of your land to enable you avoid rubbish tradgedy. Admin please push to the front page for all the learn
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Phones / Re: Lets Talk about Android! by Ivegotsolutions(m): 11:07am On May 07, 2016 |
I have a blackberry passport Silver edition, thinking of swapping it for BlackBerry Priv. Do you think is a good move? |
Celebrities / Re: Tiwa Savage And DR SID, Could This Be The Romance Teeblizz Talked About? (VIDEO) by Ivegotsolutions(m): 7:43pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
the Chemistry though! |
Celebrities / Tiwa Savage And DR SID, Could This Be The Romance Teeblizz Talked About? (VIDEO) by Ivegotsolutions(m): 7:23pm On Apr 30, 2016 |
Please go through this over the moon by Dr Sid ft K-Switch and the video then you will understand where Teeblizz is coming from. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9GbDti01uDY HOME ABOUT US ADVERTISE REQUEST LYRICS SUBMIT LYRICS GOSPEL ARTISTE LIST Login popular artistes: m.i abaga olamide wizkid Search for lyrics... Go Dr. Sid – Over the Moon ft. K-Switch Views: 1766 0 11 Comments Posted By Bukie on March 11, 2011In Dr. Sid · K-switch 29 Audio Player 00:0000:00 Chorus I I I I I I I feel like am flying over the moon I I I I I I I baby I feel like am flying over-over the moon Hook (2x) The way you dance all over me The way you dance all over me Dey make me kolo eh heh Dey make me kolo eh heh (Repeat chorus) Baby,baby k’ama roll,girl i like the way you roll I know you gbadun ma parol,O ya tete k’ama roll Baby,baby k’ama roll,girl i like the way you roll I know you gbadun ma parol,O ya tete k’ama roll Verse 1 Respect Girlfriend,party at da day Me like it anytime when you sweep up your waist And me can’t deny the fact say me think about you everynite always In our class our own Me lecturer,so me i fit give you all A’s K Switch,Dr Sid and you know this is, Don Baba J Some like,Some like me not Some like me hot Some like when me light it up When i pull up in a the fancy drop She wan make me fly all over the moon like astronaut Ha! Do you know what you’re doing to me The way you dey move and wine that thing Everything nice and everything crisp You already know it’s a bad man(say) thing (Repeat hook) (2x) (Repeat chorus) Baby,baby k’ama roll,girl i like the way you roll I know you gbadun ma parol,O ya tete k’ama roll Baby,baby k’ama roll,girl i like the way you roll I know you gbadun ma parol,O ya tete k’ama roll Verse 2 Shawty say you(you) really wanna go(go) Out tonite,so mama rock the dance floor And i say yeah,sure we can go We can do anything that you want to, Shawty looking fly from head to toe Dream say she’s a Ten,I said she’s the koko I like the way she wine and make her body move Body so sexy,i loose control Baby i cant stop-stop Staring at you when you drop-drop Bringing it back to the top-top I wanna get-off at your bus-stop(your bus-stop) You Top notch Body so hot that i must touch Baby am like that hot stuff(hot stuff) Girl you know i like (Repeat hook) (2x) (Repeat chorus) Baby,baby k’ama roll,girl i like the way you roll I know you gbadun ma parol,O ya tete k’ama roll Baby,baby k’ama roll,girl i like the way you roll I know you gbadun ma parol,O ya tete k’ama roll
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Politics / Re: What Is Wrong With This Ekweremadu's Handshake? by Ivegotsolutions(m): 2:41pm On Apr 27, 2016 |
Master Moson Milking millie
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Politics / Re: I’m Ill But Not Dead, Bedridden – Babangida by Ivegotsolutions(m): 9:44pm On Apr 24, 2016 |
IBB has seen it all, at least you have the time to amend your ways now. |
Religion / Re: Pastor Mboro Prays For Couple In Their Bedroom While They Almost Have Sex by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:48pm On Apr 19, 2016 |
Iluminati Pastor 1 Like |
Politics / Re: The State Of Nkannah Bridge That Connects Arochukwu Community To Akwa Ibom by Ivegotsolutions(m): 11:55am On Apr 16, 2016 |
nawtyme: Am entitled to my view ok! If Aro is Heaven why do you guys scatter the whole Village in Nigeria in the name of Migration? Counter my opinion but don't insult me ok. |
Politics / Re: The State Of Nkannah Bridge That Connects Arochukwu Community To Akwa Ibom by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:30am On Apr 16, 2016 |
nawtyme:My childhood friend and neighbor is from Asaga I was there for the mom burial. See when I was growing up, I was a leader of a gospel band and I toured old bende like Dubai. The church we planted in Arochukwu will never grow. We host crusade in Ndi Orji, Atani, Isinkpu and many more with Diocese of umuhia Anglican communion. Aro-Okigbo Nma nmanu! |
Politics / Re: The State Of Nkannah Bridge That Connects Arochukwu Community To Akwa Ibom by Ivegotsolutions(m): 10:07am On Apr 16, 2016 |
nawtyme: There is no part of Community in Abia state I have not been to. Arochukwu is yet to see the light. You know that am right. |
Politics / Re: The State Of Nkannah Bridge That Connects Arochukwu Community To Akwa Ibom by Ivegotsolutions(m): 9:39am On Apr 16, 2016 |
It will take God's mercy for development to enter Arochukwu. Arochukwu and Okigwe are the major route for slave trading back then. Story has it that many slaves pick their sand and cause their land before they are being shipped. No amount of development in the southeast will ever reach Arochukwu and Okiqwe. Ask Omenuko the slave Merchant |
TV/Movies / Re: Lagosians Storms Multichoice Head Office In Search Of Explorer Decoder (photos) by Ivegotsolutions(m): 11:36pm On Apr 09, 2016 |
emy9ja: yes my explorer came with the multi LNB |
Nairaland / General / Accident On Benin Road Just Now by Ivegotsolutions(m): 2:38pm On Apr 01, 2016 |
The accident just happened before me along Benin/Asaba Road. The trailer was descending from the hill and the driver lost control and climb the bridge. The trailer is loaded with soap. See pics below
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Politics / Re: Tunji Braithwaite dead by Ivegotsolutions(m): 5:05pm On Mar 28, 2016 |
Oh! I will miss his analysis on Channel TV. RIP sir. |
Family / Re: Police Release Man Arrested For Marrying Wife Without Parents’ Permission by Ivegotsolutions(m): 8:41am On Mar 18, 2016 |
Igobang:So when the parents refuses the introduction rites and every effort for a peaceful get together, they should fold their hands and get old? 13 Likes |
Business / Re: Today's Naira Rate Against Dollar, Pound And Euro by Ivegotsolutions(m): 12:03pm On Mar 17, 2016 |
This is just the beginning, by the time we get to Revelation then we will realize the mess we got ourselves in. |
Celebrities / Re: OAP Freeze Fires: “Why Is Lekki Gardens MD In Prison & TB Joshua Walking Free? by Ivegotsolutions(m): 9:32am On Mar 12, 2016 |
greatiyk4u:You see your life? |
Celebrities / Re: OAP Freeze Fires: “Why Is Lekki Gardens MD In Prison & TB Joshua Walking Free? by Ivegotsolutions(m): 8:29am On Mar 12, 2016 |
greatiyk4u: So Fashola is a clueless ineffective buffoon? 16 Likes |
Politics / Re: Yahaya Bello And His Wife Amina Loved Up In These Photos by Ivegotsolutions(m): 3:03pm On Mar 11, 2016 |
What's Oshe doing there? |
Politics / Re: How Can You Pack Senators In A Bus- Senate Leader, Ali Ndume Queries by Ivegotsolutions(m): 12:40pm On Mar 04, 2016 |
We are always sentiment in judging politicians, The man has a valid point. If a Minister goes in a convey, whats wrong with our Senators having official cars. When we are ready to cut cost in this country, it has to apply for dick and harry. 4 Likes |
Family / Re: Woman Talks About Killing Her Adulterous Husband On Social Media by Ivegotsolutions(m): 3:30pm On Mar 03, 2016 |
What goes around comes around. |
Travel / Re: Container Falls On Major Highway In Ikeja Area Of Lagos. Photos by Ivegotsolutions(m): 3:24pm On Mar 03, 2016 |
Drabeey: The hook disconnected! |
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