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[quote author=Okija_juju]I dont think you get it...

Those things written up there mean nothing..

Good guys have these traits naturally.. Should a girl rely on these traits alone as a proof of love, then she might be doomed especially if all the guys she meets are like me .. [/quote]well thank the lord, we havent crossrd paths

igboji collins: Any gal expecting all this above only needs a DOG not a man

y is that, guys mame it seem like its so wrong for a girl to want to b loved n appreciate, reading all these post from all you guys makes it sound like this three word phrase is a suicide to your manhood!!!

nkemmu: well most men still show all these signs and still breakup over little mistake by the girl.the signs i think, works at the beginning of the relationship were you still have the "butterfly thing" in your stomach but subsequently when bigger chanllenges comes by,thats when you will know if he loves you or not; for the man who has the Holy spirit in Him.....i wan bring church come here ooh!

your right its through tough times you see if a man really loves you, cuz he will endure it with you, all the fake lovers will be hurry to find the exit.

Orikinla: [size=28pt]@Poster, any sharp guy can play your role model as outlined and still be cheating on his girlfriend.
It is a script and it can be well played by all players.[/size]

this post was went for the good guys, not you players out there, the genuine real MEN out there totally understand, and should come out and say this is true atleast.

Yield: Sweet!




And you quoted the whole post just to say that??

He knows thats why hes mad.

Theben: Nice article op, you should however note that men are great actors, they might act the enlisted points without having an atom of love for the babe.

Very true, but i think females can tell when its genuien and when its all an act...i no the game cuz ive played it well, so i personally know when its genuine n when.its not, jist.my opinion.

[quote author=Okija_juju]Then pray our paths never cross..

I will bring you to your knees and have you crying on your pillows every night in under 2 weeks.. All these traits listed above are not a problem for serial good guys like me who grew up mostly around women and know what they like..

I am all these things to many of my female friends.. BUT that doesnt mean I love them either.. I just believe that every woman should be treated nicely..

[/quote]u do love them, because if u didnt u wouldnt even care how theyre treated, it doesnt mean ur in love with them...
Being in love is definietly different from just regular love

binger: How can a guy do ALL THESE THINGS and not have the courage to tell u aloud: I Love You?...i'm perplexed

Its possible, i dint grow u in a family where it was said all the time "I LOVE YOU", but we made it our duty to show it through our actions, n im the same way till this day, it sounds weird for me to say i love you, but i can show you better then i can tell you, so its not unnormal to b that way

sadeiyare: Spoken words are very powerful ; I agree, but Op my question is this.why will a lady after seeing and feeling all this love from a man, choose to break his heart and go after a guy that doesn't give a heck about her, why do ladies prefer bad boys ? Hope I am not derailing the thread

Honestly speaking not every female does that, but i think if your lady doesnt have an emotional connection to you she will do that...if the feeling isnt mutual, between the two of you, she will leave regardless
Plus some women dont know what they have until they loose it,

very true^^^ but its still nice to hear your man say i love you once in a while

ATMC: You just made my day!

good to know

Men like to talk about few things which is of interest to them but unfortunately, its not interesting for women. Take a look at the things men love to talk about with girls.
1)Lovemaking: Almost every man wants to talk about lovemaking to his girl and this is of major interest to him. Men love to talk about orgasm, make out and anything which is related to sensual desires. He wants to know about a girl and wishes to discuss about her desires and thoughts on this topic. Every man is always ready to talk about lovemaking at anytime of the day!

2)The wild yet funny moments: Sometimes, when you fall out of topics during a conversation, you can ask him about his friends who was silly or funny. He must have come across some weird character which is memorable. You can't always talk and ask about this. It is best to use the funny aspect later on when the situation is relevant.

3)Wit and humour: Men love to talk to women who are not only intelligent and beautiful but also have the talent of using wit and humour. You have to be smart not only with your personality but also while talking! Men hate talking much about serious emotional stuffs every time.

4)Future plans: Men love to discuss about their future plans in terms of career, family and your relationship. Most of the men don't actually like to discuss about the future of the love relationship as they are scared of the responsibilities or might not like giving promises when they are not sure or confident about it!
Men love to talk about these things to girls and feel happy when you don't discuss about some likes or dislikes every time.

cindyrella: Na lie o!
I am single and I wear a ring.

She is single only if she says so...

i agree, only if she says she is, and a ring doesnt mean anything, i wear rings to not get approached by guys, if im interested in one already ( not like they care that its there...lol)

190: ive warned all 3 of them (wives to be) to always call me baby,lolliopop or cubbycake else divorce straight

LOL OMG

gendebs: The only condition that can make a lady call me a "baby" is if I have sucked her breast. Babies best food is breast milk. So, if u wanna call me baby u must be ready to give me those oranges to suck aside that no way.

LMAOOOOO SMH

[quote author=nl.official][/quote][b]Fact #1: Most men are still in love with their wives when they cheat.

Fact #2: Men usually cheat with women they know.


Fact #3: Men cheat to save their marriages.


Fact #4: Men hate themselves after affairs.


Fact #5: Cheaters often get friskier with their wives when affairs begin.


Fact #6: Women cheat just as much as men, and their affairs are more dangerous.


Fact #7: A wife often knows her husband's cheating.


Fact #8: A couple will never work it out when the husband is in the midst of an affair.


Fact #9: Affairs can often fix a marriage.


Fact #10: Even after rebuilding the marriage, a husband may still miss the affair.


Fact #11: A cheater knows he's hurting the woman he loves, tearing his family apart and sacrificing his honor.


Fact #12: The wife's not to blame if her husband cheats on her.[b][/b]

[b][/b]WHERE THE HELL DID YOU GET THIS BULLSHIT FROM, LIKE SERIOUSLY

dabrake: A real man is original. One who won't fake attitudes to please a woman. That's my kind of person.


@op, you too dey watch film. BTW, why are we always reading about that real man bullshit? Who is a real woman?
Nonsense and ingredients.

LMFAOOO

yemi2plus2: I'm happy b a player...No heartbreak.. #BanginContiuna

YOUR TIME WILL COME...SMH

Almubaraq Sadara: u might want a real woman in ur life, but d question is dt; are u realy a real man?

VERY TRUE, SOMETHING GUYS NEED TO THINK ABOUT.