Okija_juju: [b]When a man truly oves you, he is simply going to be himself in front of you.. He wouldnt hide anything from you. He wouldnt pretend to be all those thing swritten up there if he isnt that way.. He will simply love you the best way he knows. He would try and understand you and try as much as he possibly can to make you always be happy including occasionally inconviniencing himself.

- He may not hold you in public (because he is shy),

- He may not open the door for you (because he just doesnt see the significance),

- He may not remember everything you say (because his mind is filled with other stuff as well)

- He may not be overly-protective of you (because he isnt insecure)

- He may not always apologise after every fight (because of his man pride)

- He may even forget your birthday (because he barely even remembers todays date)

- He may not always call you and text you -(because he barely has time to hold his diick while pissing)

- He may not take you to fancy restaurants (because he prefers home cooking)

- He may not buy you flowers (because he wasnt raised like that)

But be rest assured that if he truly loves you, he would love you the best way he knows how to, which may not necessarily be the hollywood way.. [/b]

Bros well done. you just said it all. you are truly matured. not all those small pickins wey dey write nonense here.

no go read your books!ashawo!

This is really wonderful. Good thinking

well most men still show all these signs and still breakup over little mistake by the girl.the signs i think, works at the beginning of the relationship were you still have the "butterfly thing" in your stomach but subsequently when bigger chanllenges comes by,thats when you will know if he loves you or not; for the man who has the Holy spirit in Him.....i wan bring church come here ooh!

Love for female, fame and fortune!!!!!!!!!!
Hmnn.

As far as i am concerned it is only God dat can gve u true love.nt all dos signs.

Lucky me then, though he doesn't do everything written there but I know he loves me

Stop dreaming Julie...wake up!!11

[size=28pt]@Poster, any sharp guy can play your role model as outlined and still be cheating on his girlfriend.
It is a script and it can be well played by all players.[/size]

See how the ladies dey shout for joy for this article! The title of this article suppose to be 'how guys fool ladies' and not that crap.

Just like the way I loved iyabo otu kudirotu muibaotu weimo otu tawakari otu and aminaotu but all disappoint me

@Op nice write up...this is classy......

Okija_juju: I dont think you get it...

I do get it mister but you on the other hand do not.
This article is talking about good guys who really do care not 'good guys' who use their niceness to get into a lady's pussy.

Those things written up there mean nothing..

To you? Yes.
But to me, they mean more.
cos if I was waiting on my man to always voice out how he felt, I won't be dating him right now.

Good guys have these traits naturally.. Should a girl rely on these traits alone as a proof of love, then she might be doomed especially if all the guys she meets are like me..

Definitely, she needs more than those traits when dealing with a 'good guy' like you.

Sweet!

Chrisbenogor:
Utter Nonsense!

And you quoted the whole post just to say that??

...SMH. It's more like "signs he's a player"

sadeiyare:

Spoken words are very powerful ; I agree, but Op my question is this.why will a lady after seeing and feeling all this love from a man, choose to break his heart and go after a guy that doesn't give a heck about her, why do ladies prefer bad boys ? Hope I am not derailing the thread

Honestly speaking not every female does that, but i think if your lady doesnt have an emotional connection to you she will do that...if the feeling isnt mutual, between the two of you, she will leave regardless
Plus some women dont know what they have until they loose it,

binger: How can a guy do ALL THESE THINGS and not have the courage to tell u aloud: I Love You?...i'm perplexed

Its possible, i dint grow u in a family where it was said all the time "I LOVE YOU", but we made it our duty to show it through our actions, n im the same way till this day, it sounds weird for me to say i love you, but i can show you better then i can tell you, so its not unnormal to b that way

Damn! I can't believe I just went defensive for the other side

Okija_Juju, you'l definitely pay for making me do this

Okija_juju:




Then pray our paths never cross..

I will bring you to your knees and have you crying on your pillows every night in under 2 weeks.. All these traits listed above are not a problem for serial good guys like me who grew up mostly around women and know what they like..

I am all these things to many of my female friends.. BUT that doesnt mean I love them either.. I just believe that every woman should be treated nicely..

u do love them, because if u didnt u wouldnt even care how theyre treated, it doesnt mean ur in love with them...
Being in love is definietly different from just regular love

Theben: Nice article op, you should however note that men are great actors, they might act the enlisted points without having an atom of love for the babe.

Very true, but i think females can tell when its genuien and when its all an act...i no the game cuz ive played it well, so i personally know when its genuine n when.its not, jist.my opinion.

Yield: Sweet!




And you quoted the whole post just to say that??

He knows thats why hes mad.

Orikinla: [size=28pt]@Poster, any sharp guy can play your role model as outlined and still be cheating on his girlfriend.
It is a script and it can be well played by all players.[/size]

this post was went for the good guys, not you players out there, the genuine real MEN out there totally understand, and should come out and say this is true atleast.

Any gal expecting all this above only needs a DOG not a man

nkemmu: well most men still show all these signs and still breakup over little mistake by the girl.the signs i think, works at the beginning of the relationship were you still have the "butterfly thing" in your stomach but subsequently when bigger chanllenges comes by,thats when you will know if he loves you or not; for the man who has the Holy spirit in Him.....i wan bring church come here ooh!

your right its through tough times you see if a man really loves you, cuz he will endure it with you, all the fake lovers will be hurry to find the exit.

igboji collins: Any gal expecting all this above only needs a DOG not a man

y is that, guys mame it seem like its so wrong for a girl to want to b loved n appreciate, reading all these post from all you guys makes it sound like this three word phrase is a suicide to your manhood!!!

Okija_juju:


I dont think you get it...

Those things written up there mean nothing..

Good guys have these traits naturally.. Should a girl rely on these traits alone as a proof of love, then she might be doomed especially if all the guys she meets are like me ..

well thank the lord, we havent crossrd paths

ivorybabe88:
Very true, but i think females can tell when its genuine and when its all an act...i no the game cuz ive played it well, so i personally know when its genuine n when.its not, jist.my opinion.

please stop thinking cos obviously most females can't spot the difference.

ATMC: You just made my day!

So you were itching to hear dis?

....

mirob: My man does all these but he doesn't call everyday so I'm really realy doubting his love for me,

This is what makes me mad! I will break up with anybody who says I have to call them daily it doesn't matter who - girlfriend, fiancee, mother,father,children, brothers,sisters, wife (when she or I are away from home) there is no one I can call everyday - never! never!! [quote author=mirob]