promkingzz:
Omo mehn, u must be on some marriage proposal contest measuring dicks with other guy on NL I haven't discovered yet lol. Isn't she not 3rd gurl I've caught ur randy ass proposing to on NL?lol enjoi urself

LOL

Mynd_44: Is this topic still on?

yea, he just got off topic...lol

carefreewannabe:

I really had nice intentions and wanted to inspire you one way or another.
I see you get it all wrong so let's forget about it. I wish you the best.

Oh no be my guest, i just wanted to correct a statment u made, this is a forum, no feelings being hurt trust me, ive heard worst.

carefreewannabe:

As you were obviously referring to me. Let me tell you something.
I'm 100% with you. She has to search within herself to find the reason why ALL of her relationships fail. I know what you are talking about it.
But I'm a step ahead of you in this case. I know some of her other posts and the "problem" with her is that she puts a lot of pressure on herself and focuses too much on a relationship in order to feel fulfilled. This is my impression. To have a happy relationship requires, however, that you first become happy with yourself. This is the first step. If you are not happy with yourself, nobody else will.
I could say more about her but I don't want to quote her and make the discussion more complicated.

Ummm i would love to hear more because it seems to me like u no me so well (being sarcastic),
Those posts are not writtwn by me but merely topics i find interesting to share...so dont use that as a map to describing the kind of person i am.

The only thing i can agree on with you is that i do take my relationships seriously, but i most definietly dont need that to be fulfilled.

With the last person i was dealing with, i think i was emotionally vulnerable because i was trying to fill the void of losing my daughter, and i guess needed the affection, knowing they werent a potential mate (ill take the blame for that)

Please dont assume based on the small things u read.

claremont: Maybe the problem begins with YOU, you need to search deep within yourself and ask some hard questions. You are also well advised not to listen to those who say 'you are young', 'wait till 35' e.t.c'; I wonder how that solves anything.

I don't know about you but If I have been in serial relationships that ended disastrously, I would begin to think that the problem may be with me.

I think the only thing thats wrong with me is that i let guys get too comfortable in the beggining, and fall for the crap they tell me, because i want to give them the benifit of the doubt and, believe they are being genuine...

190:

uve broken my heart!

sorry didnt mean to

KINGwax: you got me ivory! Remember?

Lol yea, i didnt forget...lol

190:


please

no buddy!!

KINGwax: 2 & 4 on point. But i'm considering stopping the number 4 issue because all these girls are nothing but witches!

Wat happened to ur babe....shes a witch now...lol ur crazy!!

190-the-clown:


allow me to see the size of your BOOOTAY

i'll correctly predict how long your man would stay with you

Just allow me take a little peck

Lol, omg, your too much, smh!

KINGwax: ivory!!! You!!! Hmmm. No comment for u o

What did i do now ....lol, the message doesnt show unless i open it on my phone, stop the nonsense...lol

190-the-clown:
and least but not the last,

the size of her BOOOOOOTAY!!!

thats the area im specialized at


the bigger the NYASH the more chances of me staying put in that relationship

Lol thats sad, ud stay in the relationship because of how she looks physically, so if shes hoeing around but has a big , ud stay with her, guys confuse me....smh

Abujafood: OP

I feel that way too! I think the best thing to do is to just break up with such a person. A perfect match shouldn't ever feel you're too clingy when you're merely showing how much you appreciate them! Do they mean to say being loved is too much burden on their shoulders?

Being put off because you're not getting close enough. If this is my reaction because you felt I was too clingy then it's bye from me!

A perfect match in a relationship is infectious, you both infect each other with love!

i definietly agree, it hurts, but sometimes the best thing to do is to just let it go....why stay with someone who doesnt appreciate you!!

acidosis™:

#teamSINGLES

I like the sound of that, but i dont want to bbe single for too long...lol

carefreewannabe: Am not a relationship expert and I find relationships very complicated sometimes but maybe it's just that you haven't found your perfect match yet, the one. I guess you're still quite young. Don't give yourself too much headache. It will happen. Don't put yourself under pressure. If you succeed in making yourself happy and your life great, you'll have crowds of men chasing after you and then you'll choose the right one. The one that fits you.

Im 24, and your probably right, i havent found the right one yet!

Have you ever felt like no matter what you try to do to make a relationship work, it just doesnt.
Its eaither you show them you care, and they say your too clingy, or you give them their space, and you get accussed of cheating...i honestly dont know what to do anymore.

What would you do if you were in my position?

binger: Nice one...evy point u wrote is generally true,except 4 d 1st...only sissylicious dudes do dat.

maybe it was written in a sweet way, but what guy doesnt like to talk about F***, comon guys....lol

Seun: According to the theory, when you send mixed signals to a woman you are playing her own game against her and it works really well to get them into bed (i.e. relationship).

Wat game?

Seun: A girl or woman is more focussed on the emotional aspect of a relationship, while men are more focussed on the physical aspect.

When you're in a relationship, you need to be able to look at things from the point of view of someone of the opposite sex.

I agree with you 100%

Cheating is cheat, anything you cant tell your partner, about something u said or did with the opposite sex, is already a bad sign, period!!

siobahn: He doesnt call me regularly again. No. 5 is a thing of the past and he's always using 'I' now. infact updating me of what is happening to him na when i don quarrel with am before he go talk. Infact i don tire

But my colleague is doing all that now and i kinda like it but i just don't dig office relationships
What will i do now??

me neither, but if he shows intrest and they other semms to not give a damn, go for it.

Deep Soul: The two major causes of break up are conspicuously missing

1) Cheating

2) Lack of communication

Very true!!

lovedgal: Putting myself through school too. Having to pay tuition and accommodation and other miscellaneous fees together has been hard and he sees it. Even I wouldn't see a friend and not offer to help if I had the means without them asking me

Very true, if he has the means and cates he should atleast offer

SELFWORTH:

But totally unrealistic....Where will you find such a person?

seriously i dont get it, where in this article does it say guys must possess all these things no man is perfect so goes for women, but these are things we look for in a good man, so chill bro!!

SELFWORTH: Pure crap!The fact that it's posted by a woman makes it 'crapper'.I wonder why women think they know about men.
A player can do those things so well.

The man who can do all these things does not live on this planet.

for your info i got this from a site, and wanted to share, and even if i wrote it, wat make it so crapy

2morrow: Chai! This one na longthing oooo.
Ok! Make i drink sobo... I dey come finish ham

lol no comment

kayjegs:


Nothing can be more correct than this piece. This is just the whole truth...

thank you, guys need to just be honest with themselves, there's nothing wrong with expressing your love, and it certainly doesnt make you a wimp.