Mrs.Chima:
While i was dating....my hubby was saved as potential suiter #1

#1, damn how many were there!!

Kasham annie: If u want a woman wit all this quality then u hav 2 hav dose qualit or else u won't value her

Thank you for saying that!!

da808cutie: personally, if i were to go out with an older man, it would be because he's a lot more matured in mentality.

ummmm hell yea, women go for older guys because there more mature, and they know what they want in life, n have already exprienced the crazyness of life, and so are more laif back then the young ones who are still panty chasers.......when dating a guy of the same age as me, i always feel like the lack maturity

Excelboi: HotAmalah, so how can a man have all dis 24 in his brain only? Many won't even recall 5 out of it.

is it that much to remeber, its basically KEEP YOUR WOMAN HAPPY, treat us, as you would want to be treated....period

deshclones: Crap....all the attributes of a born again..........moreover being born again is no requisite for making a good husband.

Thank u , christians still arent perfect!!

I dont know why all of you guys are making it seem like there arent any good woman out there, because there are good ones including myself.... just like men arent perfect and dont possess, the majority of those qualities, some women dont neither, but dont stir us all in the sour pot pls....

KingMEXX: I know sometimes its quite discouraging. Jus hang in there, hapiness would sure come yur way one of these days

jovie50:
don't worry, it will b ur portion! U will fulfil destiny in grand style!! Mark my wordz!!! Just say AMEN, dear.

thanks guys......AMEN to that

Dahbutter: Sign he wants to marry u- He no longer uses condoms 4 u! The ones in his wallet are 4 his mere fuckbuddys

Okija, chop knucle you killed the thread right there! One champion beer for u

Mayb the mentality of people in america is different, but not using a condom, is not a sign he wants to marry you...lol, he just wants to feel your insides better

carefreewannabe:

girl, you said you go after "bad boys" so why do you ask yourself this kind of questions? it's obvious why it happens to you that way. if you figure out how to appreciate good people you will not have to suffer no more and you will be appreciated in return.

for your info, i dont date bad boys my friend, honestly i tried a bad boy and it wasnt for me... I know how to appreciate a good guy, but you need to understand that guys no matter good or bad, when a female shows that she cares too much they use that to their advantage, so mayb i need to b more bitchy, cuz guys respect those çore i see.

Ladiesguy:

Tu est jolie, j'suis Nigerien, marse j' parle empe francais, mon nom s'est leo. Au vouse?

Je m'appelle melissa, achiente

baddestday: I do dat and u can't blame me considering a past experience. I was dating a lady where I used 2 work b4. She was cheating on me wit a co-worker dat was supposed 2 b a relative of hers. They even live 2gether wit d MD. They belong 2 a difrnt tribe 4rm mine nd always speaking der language in my presence. I used her phone 2 cal one day nd wat I discovered was beyond my imagination. She apologised wen I found out. U wld b surprised @ d level of evil nd harm sum1 u thnk u r datin nd in luv wit can do 2 u.

thats y i want to know things despite the say , wat u dont know wont hurt you, before i get too emotionally involved...

brixton:

Sweetie, it won't hurt me later cos i love wit ma brain not ma heart... I can always knw thru oda means wen she start dancin etighi to anoda nigga's kukere song! I will nt snoop to knw wots goin on in ma woman's lyf, else ma smartness is useless!!! Snooping is fo jobless and disrespectful minds

Lol another niggahs kukere song, its loving with your brain, that will lead her to that...anywayz when u really fall in love, all that will change...

brixton: My fiancee is d queen of snooping.she does it in a provocative manner den cmes baq to fight me ova ha findings. I neva check hers cos 'wat u dnt knw won't hurt u'

It wont hurt u now, but it will later, id rather find out sooner then later where i c an figure out a way to deal with the problem or drop the dude ( depends on how emotionally involved i am)

mimima: Am doing it and i dont regret doing it.So that i will know when my things becomes another person's kini

i agree plus truth b told i would do it to, cuz i want to find out the truth before i inbed myself in a relationship i think is monogomous, when its probably not, but only if he gives me a reason to snoop.

i dont know why females always hate other females, she looks great, and in america, the way she is styled is whats trending right now, many wouldnt know, so STOP THE HATE, PLS

Legit1: Is she African?

Plus,where were those pics taken?

Shes a ghanian actress, it looks like los angelas, california

Ladiesguy:

Bon, cava ma cherrie? Bienvenue mon choco.

MERCI

I think before you make any moves to dump your girlfriend, you seriously need to think about how much she actually means to you, every relationship has its bad days, and she might not be perfect, but if you think this other girl is worth you dumping your girl friend go for it, do what makes you happy

In america theres this 80/ 20 rule, where they say dont leave someone who has much more of the qualities you want for someone u desire, whose not even close to comparison.

BUSHY-ANUS:
most women seem to shun my company because they claim i am too short.
Now women, how do you rate the height of a man?
is it a real determiner in your assessment of a man?

worried boy

I personally prefer a taller guy even if he is an inch taller then me, but then again for a femle i think im tall... 5'8" so i like them tall...i dont know but a tall guy for some reason makes me feel protected...lol
, smh

FlowerPower: I'm not a Naija girl, but I would date a man up to 2 years younger than me if he was stable in life with an education, career, and God fearing.

I hope this is not an ad for a sugarmummy

Im with you on this one, aside from that maturity is very important, because women and men dont think alike, women on the maturity level are always up there compared to men, so as long as hes mature i can dig it

Onegai: A lot of guys I know swear up and down that they're looking for nice girls. Yet she comes around and they don't like her, or she is too young, or one thing, or another weird excuse. I have 2 male friends, both dating what I would define as marriage-material sort of girls, both girls physically stunning and smart to boot. Well, One friend broke up with his chick. Granted, he was young, but what was his reason? "She wanted to marry me, and I didn't know why she just wanted to marry me. When I have nothing". HUH?? Now, a few years later, he's meeting girls who, once they realise he's poor and without a car, suddenly realise he's quite short, gosh how busy they are to meet him and how he's a "great friend" and no more. His ex, meanwhile, loved him short and car-less. The other, same thing. He's too busy suspecting his sweet new babe of trying to settle down with him. I've advised him to study her, but he keeps seeing imaginary stuff (he's stopped eating at her house because he's worried she will jaz him, meanwhile babe is upset her man no wan chop her soup. And she dey pray for him, helped him with a contract at her office, bought him a small val's day gift out of her small salary when he got her nothing and decided to sleep with him because he insisted, though she's been celibate for YEARS). Meanwhile, my mugu is seeing all her flaws magnified and can't wait to get rid of her. Funny thing: they have mutual friends, who can tell him all her exes would KILL to get back with her, she's so nice.
Guys, why do you not like good things?

I ask myself that all the time, im a nice girl and i seem to always get the short end of the stick all the time......ive noticed that guys are more into women that dog them out, and show them more attention when they are treated like sh1t. The women that respect them are always taken advantage of or are said to show " too much love".....

shymmex: Nice girls died a long time ago; all these chics alive now are opportunists, they all fall in love for reasons to them, and they will be gone when the smoke clears.

Guys, when I da girl suddenly falls in love with for no damn reason, and she's screaming 'marriage' - please, run as fast as you can. Chics can NEVER be trusted; if you believe her bs love and reciprocate that bs; you're on your own because she's gonna mess your life up.

There are two rules to the game:

- NEVER FALL IN LOVE WITH A GIRL.
- NEVER TRUST GIRLS; GIRLS ARE THE BIGGEST LIARS SINCE LUCIFER.

I let my guard down once; got emotional and fell in love with this girl that's always telling me how much she loves me and how she would do anything for me. It was so crazy that if I tell his girl to jump, she would. She was everything you would describe as a "nice girl" - but two years down the line, when I finally decided to give her a chance, and reciprocate the love - then, she showed her true colours. Damn, she turned me into a stalker and almost messed my life up.

Phuck bytches for real, I'll never believe that love shyte. I prefer a girl that tolerates me; gives me the chance to do whatever the phuck I wanna do; and don't expect too much from me than that love bs.

I hope u see where you went wrong, cuz u tellin everyone to not fall in love, when its obviously clear that she spit the same foolishness to you, you did to her....women are not dogs, where you tell them what to do when you want it how you want it. We have feelings too....i would of did the same shit to your ass too, remember WHAT GOES AROUND COMES AROUND, and u got a dose of your own medicine.

acidtalk:


God bless you.
Variety is the spice of life.

Different holes, different excitment.

2 bottles of Gulder for you.

Ohh all this shakara you doing, you for got to mention different STDs as well

Obinnau: if u are dating the girl that the girl will take u to her father and say to her father "Dad, this is my BF help him to secure admission" and the dad will give u admission? Hell no. The man will surely know that u are in the relationship for the material benefits. One last word. Don't ever leave a virtuos girl because u think that the girl next door is better.

Took the words right out of my mouth!!!

Ladiesguy:

Okay, got you... Are you ivorian? Tu parle francais?

oui je parle francais, tu vien do? ( my french writing sucks)

this is funny, cuz i have a nigerian friend who says 85 % of these sayings...lol

jovie50: IT'S WHEN SOMEONE WHO U LOVE, LOVES U BACK, KEEPS SMILING AT YOU & KEEP TELLING U THOSE SWEET WORDS EVEN AT OLD AGE WHEN GRAY HAIRS SET IN, WRINKLES ALL OVER UR FACE & WHEN D BEAUTIES AND CHARMS ARE ALL GONE, THE URGE N LOVE FOR SEX AIN'T THERE ANYMORE.

thats what im waiting for ooooooo , smh