Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 9:39pm On Jun 02, 2016*. Modified: 9:58pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
zicoraads: As a guy in a relationship, most times we can smell a new 'friend' of our lady who wants more than just friendship miles away.
Now, if a brother is not comfortable with a new friend his woman has just made and is asking that his woman remove the said guy from her life...BBM, Facebook etc. but the girl is claiming that she can't just remove him because she feels it isn't right and is also sighting examples of the guy's female friends that she has learnt to live with...is she right by claiming the guy is over reaching and has no business with the friends she makes...? Is the brother wrong in insisting that the guy leaves? Or, his woman has taken an interest in the other brother and he is about to be kicked to the curb? Zicoraads, If the woman has an obvious attachment to the other guy, then her hubby or boify has the right to ask her to delete the guy's contact from her phone and vice versa. However, if he has a problem with all her casual male friends (for instance, snooping through her phone and asking her to delete male contacts for no cogent reason) Then he is obviously suffering from insecurity issues and she'd be right to point out an example. Cause idealistically, they are both entitled to have friends from the opposite sex. You get?  |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 9:11pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Ivyy I'm Sorry! by ivyy(f): 9:06pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 9:00pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Every girl at one point in time or the other becomes dramatic in a relationship. They know it's not fair to the guy but they still do it. Though some are major drama queens but others show it albeit minimally.
Now to my question...
What is the importance of being dramatic sometimes in a relationship?
Is it necessary?
What point are you, as a girl, trying to prove by being unnecessarily dramatic to your partner?
Who drama epp? 
N:B By dramatic I mean being "bïtchy" once in a while.
cc: Every girl on this thread.[/color] Relationship or no relationship, girls are naturally dramatic  In relationships, it isn't necessarily but because we are girls, we naturally will exhibit our traits at some point. There are several reasons why girls exhibit such traits but I think the most common reason is to test a man's love for his woman even when she's proving difficult. |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 8:49pm On Jun 02, 2016*. Modified: 9:14pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]Okay safarigirl let's start with this.
What is the importance of a male bestie to girls who are in a relationship?
Is it really necessary?
If yes, why so? And how can you handle such without complicating things in your relationship.
cc:
Other girls who would like to answer.[/color] Friendship in it's ideal sense is a basic human necessity. Some find it in the opposite sex and others find it in the same sex. The problem however, is that so many who claim to find it in the opposite sex lie to themselves as most times they want something deeper. As a girl, I think it's wrong for any lady who's in a serious relationship to go about flaunting another man as a bestie. The point is, her man should be her bestie. |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 8:21pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
dannyben5: My second quest.is a girl's love more pure than that of a guy? Cc:twaci and others From my perspective, when girl is truly in love and a guy is truly inlove, the guy always loves more  |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 8:18pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Cutehector: Fifth question
If I offend my girlfriend, like a very very serious offense, and she gets all upset about the matter, should I as a guy, keep on pestering her with apologies that moment?
Or just give her time to cool down, befor coming to apologize. Note that in some cases, guys think dat not apologizing at that moment would mean he doesn't give a damn of her feelings, hence this second motive.
So which of the two works out best in seeking for forgiveness from a broken hearted girl The first thing is to apologize(very very important) cause you don't want her thinking you feel no remorse. Then you let her cool it off and then you apologize again and again till she accepts  |
Romance › Re: Ivyy I'm Sorry! by ivyy(f): 7:16pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Ivyy I'm Sorry! by ivyy(f): 7:15pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Speakdatruth: Really I'm sorry Days goes by and seconds ticks on, 60secs and a minute comes on No time to lie to myself, no time to say who you epp I saw you among many but never allowed the realities I was a lair, glueing myself to frivolities I lied to myself about your height, your beauty and your chance I'm down on one knee pls make me your knight Your maturity keeps pulling me, the more I pull back the more I'm toward you Just take me in my ignorance, I'm here with full assurance, let me be the Mr, let me be the man Let me support your course, let me break this curse once and for us Then I was blind, now I see so bright
You're my Queen, you win every heart ignoring the whimps my sugar baby, you sweet my belle, no be lie mehn You are forgiven  |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 7:11pm On Jun 02, 2016*. Modified: 8:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
dannyben5: av been observing, now my quest.why is it that girls can never summon the courage to walk up to a guy she like even if she dying imside to have that guy? Cause the Nigerian society is quite frigid on stuffs like that. Some guys do not apreciate girls who make the first move on them. Hence, most girls are scared of rejection. |
Romance › Re: Know Us Better (Girls Edition) by ivyy(f): 7:05pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
UyiIredia: What's the best way to approach a girl ? Nice idea you had by the way. When you come on as someone who isn't interested in her romantically. Best strategy. |
Romance › Re: A Pic Story Most Male Romancelanders Can Relate To. by ivyy(f): 6:57pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
refiner: ....  ....
funny....indeed!
ivyy were is that popcorn?
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Romance › Re: Is This The Most Endowned Girl in Nairaland by ivyy(f): 2:52pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Celebrities › Re: PHOTOS: 70 Years Old Body Builders With Six Packs by ivyy(f): 2:49pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Not cute  |
Celebrities › Re: Munachi Abii Shows Off Slim Figure! by ivyy(f): 2:39pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
The weight loss is unnecessary  |
Celebrities › Re: I Didn't Rub Anything On My Body - Olajumoke Reacts To Allegations by ivyy(f): 2:34pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Probably just her bathing soap  |
Music/Radio › Re: Eleven Lines You will Surely Hear On Nigerian Songs... by ivyy(f): 2:31pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
very on point  |
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Romance › Re: Message Of Apology To The Guys Sending Pms by ivyy(f): 2:17pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
pcguru1: That's why people need to be careful HR can get your tweets and any weird comments all they need is your email or first name especially if you mentioned it on nairaland. Okay, i get that. |
Politics › Re: Buhari Will Be In Rivers Today For Ogoni Clean-Up by ivyy(f): 2:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Wish A Sweet/hot/pretty/handsome Nairalander U Admire A Happy New Month by ivyy(f): 2:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
@ coolguy89 wishing you the same. Have a blessed month.  |
Romance › Re: Message Of Apology To The Guys Sending Pms by ivyy(f): 2:10pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
pcguru1: Lol ...... Just joking.....or am I ? (-_-) maybe I should even branch at your work place,  If na joke, stop it  |
Romance › Re: Message Of Apology To The Guys Sending Pms by ivyy(f): 2:06pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
pcguru1: Nah I would rather think the person is busy than a snub, then again ave never PM'd anyone on NL , feels weird to me because thanks to my stalking skills , I can get any info I need. (-_-)  so in short, you stalk people. |
Romance › Re: Best Way To Secure Your Relationship. Get In Here Ladies! by ivyy(f): 2:00pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
This is a joke obviously.  |
Romance › Re: How Do I Stop The Influx Of Girls Coming To My House Without Hurting Dem? Photo by ivyy(f): 1:54pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Airforce1  |
Celebrities › Re: . by ivyy(f): 11:02pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
Oyind17: Very busy baby maybe back soon Come back soon o  |
Celebrities › Re: . by ivyy(f): 10:53pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
cuteguy007: #I_STAND_WITH_IVYY
The outstanding qualities of a Beauty Queen, are not measured on the short strip of physical beauty alone; the impeccable character and intelligence of the individual actually dignify the crown.
In this regard, I stand to wave the flag of the #IVYY_LEAGUE for Miss Nairaland 2016.
Keep it up Dear Ivvy. The crown abides by your dictates.
#I_STAND_WITH_IVYY  |
Romance › Re: My New Song Dedicated To Ivyy , My Love.. by ivyy(f): 9:44pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
Iamsynord: dont worry love Can't wait to listen to it  |
Romance › Re: My New Song Dedicated To Ivyy , My Love.. by ivyy(f): 9:43pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
Ferdyboss: Double y Lady  Boss  How are you feeling? |
Romance › Re: My New Song Dedicated To Ivyy , My Love.. by ivyy(f): 9:14pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
[ Iamsynord: This glowing lady has captured my heart so much... She is so pretty and elegant..
I am dedicating my new song, Tonight to this beautiful queen. Drops on 7th june.
Ivvy bursts my brain., choi I'm just seeing this  thanks darl  Ivyy is with a double y that's why I didn't get the mention |
Romance › Re: To The Special One. Pictures. by ivyy(f): 4:59pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
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Celebrities › Re: Eniola Titiloye Blasts Annie Idibia For Subtly Shading Pero Her Sister by ivyy(f): 7:40am On Jun 01, 2016 |
I'm quite disappointed at Annie. Why throw shade at your hubby's babymama on social media. Why not keep your family matters private? What's our business with all these  . Quite shocking  . Either she's immature or simply just a troublemaker  |