Romance › Re: Edo Men by ivyy(f): 7:02pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Confused... Need Help by ivyy(f): 5:53pm On Mar 09, 2015 |
Mannylex: Dated this girl for 4 years , while at the university. I am based in lag, while she in Abuja. After I graduated it basically became a long distance stuff, she just graduated last year. But the issue is this year. I fell in love with someone else who is quite younger but at same time love my girlfriend of 4 years. I and this new girl have been dating for close to a month now(though I have known her for 4 months) ... I don't wanna double date, so I made both aware of each other. my Girlfriend as expected got disappointed, mad, deleted everything about me while the new girl asked me to be sure of what I want , though she does stuff to make me stick with her. In the course of my 4 years, I have come across other ladies but none has ever given me course to doubt my relationship like this new girl has. I love both, but I need 1. Help!
Sorry for the long epistle, but am confused and need neutral and mature advice. Don't wanna make a mistake. Thanks
Have no fear; Mannylex is here The truth is, a new relationship is alwys sweet at the begining. So you can never know. If you are ready to gamble on your hapines I wish you goodluck at that. But dude you honestly can't expect that we make a choice for you  Just know this, going back to first gf can never be easy. To her right now you are a CHEAT |
Romance › Re: Pray For Me by ivyy(f): 12:58pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
buygala: A lot of times  I dey fear you o  |
Romance › Re: Pray For Me by ivyy(f): 12:46pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: After Years Of Sleeping With His Girl, He No Longer Sees Her As A Wife Material by ivyy(f): 12:06pm On Mar 08, 2015 |
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Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 11:14pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Lala247: I was a mess right  Lol naa you weren't. But nothing beats feeling well and healthy |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 11:11pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dimples192: Lol do the honours then and spice it up for us  Then I'd av to be superwoman And I aint no suprwoman  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 10:52pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dimples192: Hey sis you ok? Yea doing great luv Hoping this thread gets interesting at some point so I'd keep following |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 10:40pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Lala247: Dat went well recovering nicely think by monday bk to work full time . @ Dimples192 Thnk goodness your better now |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 10:38pm On Mar 07, 2015 |
Dimples192: Aaaaah I'm glad hun
Missed you more 
Where's cherry luscious Hi dear |
Celebrities › Re: Checkout Kim Kardashia New Outfits (pictures) by ivyy(f): 12:27am On Mar 07, 2015 |
The hair do is so freaking weird on her Blonde is not for everyone. #shelooksplastic# |
Celebrities › Re: Beyonce flaunts massive bosoms In New Photo.... by ivyy(f): 12:24am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Beyoncez no longer looking herself these days |
Celebrities › Re: Beyonce flaunts massive bosoms In New Photo.... by ivyy(f): 12:23am On Mar 07, 2015 |
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Romance › Re: Would Relationships Survive If "Sex" Was Removed by ivyy(f): 12:18am On Mar 07, 2015 |
Yes it wld as long as both partners agree to it. |
Romance › Re: How To Break Up With Him Without Feeling Guilty by ivyy(f): 11:58pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
I'd still feel quilty regardless  There's no easy way to break up. Except ofcoz your stone cold or your x mks it easy for you |
Romance › Re: Is this the new trend? by ivyy(f): 11:53pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Holy cow  This is so weird and creative  |
Romance › Re: Should I Give Him A Chance??? by ivyy(f): 11:49pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Luv your happines first. Give him a chance and see what happens next . Goodluck |
Romance › Re: Which Of These Three Is The Best Punishment To A Ladies. by ivyy(f): 11:38pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Already thinking about how to punish your wife  |
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Family › Re: My Defense: Does A 'cheap Girl' Mean A Lady Who Dates For Love? by ivyy(f): 7:30pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Brandnew2: Actually, most of the relationships I've had were platonic. Lol okay |
Romance › Re: Relationship Issues by ivyy(f): 5:40pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Demy2015: I have no problem with if she loves to be single again. LDR is alot of stress and i now i realise why people stay away from it. What i do not understand is why she went through all the effort to make it work if she would bail. She still says she loves me but cannot deal with my wahala. I have left her tho just always good to get nairalander view points. S Yea I get. She bailed coz 1) Suddenly realised she cldnt keep up with the ldr especially with your trust issues. Trust is very vital for any ldr to work 2)She's fallen for some other guy who's not away |
Romance › Re: Relationship Issues by ivyy(f): 5:22pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
Demy2015: I totally agree with you. Thats what i have read. But I have made her realise i will get over it but she insists we should stay broken up until i come back to Nigeria at least. Then we can look at things again. I actaully feel maybe she's taking the chance to be single again. How can i show her it wont be a problem though? We got together so fast i did not get to work on forgetting her past. I am even annoyed she told me (even though i asked). But i feel bad i made regret it. You are very correct mayb she wants to be single again or you were too choky. You can't move ahead with someone en you can not even get over their past. That wld cause a lot of naging from your end and wld alwys create problems. My gues is she feels exactly that way about you and got feedup she obviously loves her freedom more than she does for you. Or she never loved you. Since uve tried your best. Try leave her alone. Move on with your life ud meet someone who's for you. I hope uve learnt a or two from this experience? Cheers |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Shares More Interesting Photos On Instagram by ivyy(f): 3:20pm On Mar 06, 2015 |
notoriousbabe: as the babe fine pass you know  *singing* am no beauty queen am just beautiful me  |
Family › Re: My Defense: Does A 'cheap Girl' Mean A Lady Who Dates For Love? by ivyy(f): 8:01pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Brandnew2: Technically speaking, she's not even my ex cuz dating someone doesn't exactly mean you had a relationship. Or am I wrong? If you date someone I think you most def had some kind of relationship with the person that was not platonic. So yes I think she can be classified as your x . Except ofcoz it was just that you took her out on a date |
Family › Re: My Defense: Does A 'cheap Girl' Mean A Lady Who Dates For Love? by ivyy(f): 7:53pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Brandnew2: What does that mean?
OP is very correct..I once dated a lady who left because "she benefited nothing from me". Now how cheap is that?
What that simply means is that I would have ffked her silly if she got the little things she needed from me. That to me is very cheap.  English is not that hard. Yes your x was cheap, she gave herself no selfworth with that statement she made coz now am sure she's lost every iota of respect you once had for her |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 7:31pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
missclassy: Sorry babe but I think you are the fool here No offense Babe I don't do cat fights  Tk your boredom elsewhere |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Shares More Interesting Photos On Instagram by ivyy(f): 7:29pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
notoriousbabe: jealousy don start. Abeg if you have it flaunt it jo  Jealous for what na  |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Shares More Interesting Photos On Instagram by ivyy(f): 7:26pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
kelvinnn: Oyinbo don bayeje patapata! Hian english please  |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Shares More Interesting Photos On Instagram by ivyy(f): 7:25pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
kelvinnn: Oyinbo don bayeje patapata! Hian |
Celebrities › Re: Cynthia Morgan Shares More Interesting Photos On Instagram by ivyy(f): 7:23pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Emodeee: bad belle. D men r nt complaining. Pray mk ur own market sell too Swerve  |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 7:19pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Y Darkrebel666: I don't like fighting girls...
just go away Your foolish and I sufer fools gladly |
Dating And Meet-up Zone › Re: Derail Zone. by ivyy(f): 7:17pm On Mar 05, 2015 |
Darkrebel666: who's taking you serious? just one tease and you are already blabbing like you don't like the attention . what's wrong with you girls nowadays? imbecilic Golem. You high on your dust  How does telling her not to get all worked up by you translate to enjoying attention from you who I can clearly now see is insane  Your stu*pid is the special kind of stu*pid |