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Romance / Re: 30 Commandments Of Being A Perfect Wifey To A Naija Guy. by IyaKadijat(f): 5:29pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
oyinda.: I was surely being funny-I know, I know, I have a weird sense of humour, lol |
Fashion / Re: Whats' The Difference Between Bleaching And Skin Toning? by IyaKadijat(f): 2:48pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
ElRazur: wow! that is very interesting. I mean I know things are passed down genetically that are no longer necessary for today's environment like the appendix or goose pimples, but who'd knew darkened knees and elbows were a part of that? I actually found out there is actually a genetic, biological reason my backside is so huge-and that dates back to Africa, too-lol. You are very well-educated and that is seriously sexy-boy, if I wasn't seriously dating somebody right now-you'd be in trouble! LOL! |
Romance / Re: How Open Can You Get With Your Feelings? by IyaKadijat(f): 2:27pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
na2day?: I've heard something like that before in real life, lol. Won't elaborate anymore-I will get in trouble on here, o! |
Fashion / Re: Whats' The Difference Between Bleaching And Skin Toning? by IyaKadijat(f): 2:24pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
ElRazur: Trust me, I know how the stuff is marketed-they want you to feel comfortable buying bleaching cream without everyone around you know that's what you're buying-kinda like "discreet" packaging. But please enlighten me on the biological reason my knees are black? I really wanna hear this one, lol. And yes, God makes us in His image, but as imperfect beings-we all do things to mess up that image. I know my knees got blackened from always kneeling on them as a kid. I know I got the dark circles under my eyes from not getting enough sleep-why can't I try to improve what I myself know I messed up on my body? Do you think the Lord will say its a sin? 2 Likes |
Fashion / Re: Whats' The Difference Between Bleaching And Skin Toning? by IyaKadijat(f): 1:51pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
ElRazur: I have to disagree with you here-bleaching is done over a large percentage of the body-perhaps to make the whole body the new skin color they're trying to achieve. Toning is done in spotty areas-like a dab here or there under the eyes, or on the knees, etc. I love my skin and love the way God made me-that doesn't mean that I don't want to improve or change any imperfections. I wear make-up every once in a while-that doesn't mean I don't love my skin-just means I'm going for a different look. I have once used toning cream on my knees before because I wanted to look cuter in above-the-knee dresses and skirts but I could never remember to use the stuff, lol. Anyways, that doesn't mean that I will stop wearing above-the-knee skirts because my knees are black-I really don't care-some dude somewhere is still gonna think I'm sexy! |
Romance / Re: White Girls Dating Nigerian Men by IyaKadijat(f): 1:43pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
Anybody see the movie "Dance Flick"? With the interracial couple, every time the Black guy saw Black girls passing by, he would push the White girl aside and say "Black girls, Black girls-I don't know you!" Me and my honi went to see that movie together so now whenever I see my Afr-Amer men passing by us, I started pushing him aside and saying "Akata men, Akata men-I don't know you!" and he has done the same with Nigerian women passing us-"9ija women, 9ija women-I don't know you!" LMAO! |
Romance / Re: I Hate It When Girls Wear Rings On Their Engagement Finger For No Reason by IyaKadijat(f): 1:32pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
trust me-there is a reason we do it! Sometimes, we just don't want to be bothered-especially if we have a boyfriend or significant other and don't want to have to go thru the whole "I got a man" routine to the hungry beasts that call themselves men. LOL |
Fashion / Re: Whats' The Difference Between Bleaching And Skin Toning? by IyaKadijat(f): 1:29pm On Jun 14, 2009 |
The difference between bleaching and toning: Bleaching is for those who are trying to make themselves look White. Toning is for Black people who just want to correct imperfections or uneven skin tone. And unfortunately, no-you can't literally scrub the Black off. I can wash from now til tomorrow and I will still have Black knees and elbows, underarms and dark circles under my eyes(from lack of sleep). Black folks tend to suffer from hyper-pigmentation in certain areas because of our blessing of melanin to protect us from the sun so I say if you want to correct those problem areas by toning-there is no problem there. However, not loving yourself enough to know that Black is beautiful and that bleaching just makes you have an unhealthy, sick-looking skin-tone-then maybe we should start a thread on that one. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: Dating Mistakes? by IyaKadijat(f): 4:24am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Busy_body: Thanks for having my back, girl! lol |
Romance / Re: 30 Commandments Of Being A Perfect Wifey To A Naija Guy. by IyaKadijat(f): 4:17am On Jun 14, 2009 |
This was the perfect response to my question about dating mistakes, thank you! LOL! |
Romance / Re: 30 Commandments Of Being A Perfect Wifey To A Naija Guy. by IyaKadijat(f): 4:17am On Jun 14, 2009 |
OMG-this is funny! Maybe that's why I'm almost 30 with no husband as of yet, lol! |
Romance / Re: How Open Can You Get With Your Feelings? by IyaKadijat(f): 4:04am On Jun 14, 2009 |
na2day?: okay-to each his own, lol |
Romance / Re: Dating Mistakes? by IyaKadijat(f): 4:01am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Nikky23: The hostile part was saying I make you sick-can we be a little more mature here? And in case you haven't noticed, I happen to be 1 of only a handful of akata women that come on here-and honestly the only one that stuck around withstanding double criticism becuz I'm American-so it's not not like I have other American women to exchange notes with on here, lol. And maybe I should have clarified myself-I wasn't just talking of "going out" on a date as much as I was talking about getting to know a man on a deeper level. |
Romance / Re: Dating Mistakes? by IyaKadijat(f): 3:43am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Busy_body: well see, there's a cultural difference right there-most Afr-Amer guys appreciate a good debate with their women and chalk it up to her being intelligent. |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 3:39am On Jun 14, 2009 |
cold: Let's not go there-you know how many 9ija men I have come across that admitted they don't like their own women? I always thought that was a little weird. I'm not saying I don't love my strong Afr-Amer men, I just have a preference for 9ija brothas. But I have had 9ija guys say they REFUSE to date a Naija woman for various reasons-but the weirdest reason is they didn't like "Americanized" 9ija women-which I didn't understand if they were dating me-and I'm as American as they come! |
Romance / Re: Dating Mistakes? by IyaKadijat(f): 3:34am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Busy_body: I will agree with the female instinct thing. I refuse to be a fool again-I'm just having fun while it lasts for now. But I also don't want to trip up and do things that will make him mad with me-I actually like hanging around this dude. And we all know that if you have a mind to not do everything they say, most Naija men will say you are stubborn and don't listen, lol. |
Romance / Re: How Open Can You Get With Your Feelings? by IyaKadijat(f): 3:29am On Jun 14, 2009 |
na2day?: Yes, my lips can be very scary-they're downright dangerous sometimes. Use your imagination on this one, abeg. |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 3:24am On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: LMAO! Or check his birth certificate because he must be lying about being a Nigerian man, lol |
Romance / Re: Dating Mistakes? by IyaKadijat(f): 3:20am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Nikky23: ooooooooh-aren't you a little hostile? LOL! Need I remind you, I am from a different cultural background and trust me when I say-THERE ARE DIFFERENCES. The only constant between Nigerian men and Akata men are what they have between their legs. If I agree with your point, will you agree that you, as an 9ija woman and I, as an African American woman, think alike? |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 3:17am On Jun 14, 2009 |
$osisi: I'm gonna have to agree with you here-most 9ija men will argue with you to finish until you agree that they're right or refuse to say anything at all to remedy any arguments-lol |
Romance / Dating Mistakes? by IyaKadijat(f): 3:13am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Okay-I have made the promise that I would no longer put too much of my personal business on NL, so I will generalize as much as possible: Please list, or tell me all the dating mistakes or gaffes that you can make when dating a 9ija man that can make him angry with you? If you're a man, let me know what would make you not want to date a woman (especially Akata) anymore? Please remember this is only referring to new relationships/dating only. I'm only asking cuz I know there are some cultural differences that we as Americans don't think much of, but it's a big deal to you guys. Your input, please. |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 3:07am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Desiré: I'm a lil on the slow side 2day-I think I've been working too much, lol |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 3:03am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Desiré: Sorry, babe-his lyk looked a lot like my name for short on here Iyk-lol-my bad. |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 3:00am On Jun 14, 2009 |
cold: can't nobody break my stide/can't nobody hold me down/oh no/ i got to keep on moving! LOL! What can I say? I'm a glutton for punishment, lol! |
Romance / Re: How Open Can You Get With Your Feelings? by IyaKadijat(f): 2:56am On Jun 14, 2009 |
C2H-This is where you been hiding, huh? Missed u, man-wassup? |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 2:55am On Jun 14, 2009 |
cold: LOL-I'm used to it by now. I went thru 8 years of not exactly being liked by 9ija women in real life, so a little more online int gon hurt, |
Romance / Re: My Luv Life by IyaKadijat(f): 2:52am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Honestly, you would never KNOW if your man is cheating unless you walked in a room with him doing it with someone else-and even then he'd sound like Shaggy and say "It wasn't me!" LMAO Most men's philosophy is deny, deny, deny-so it's up to you to use that keen women's intuition and decide if he's worth the trouble of snooping after and/or eventually ending the relationship because of it. Either that or you can take him to one of those talk shows and make him take one of those lie detector tests. "You are NOT the father!" LOL |
Romance / Re: Re: Y U Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 2:46am On Jun 14, 2009 |
I always loved the pronunciation of ur name-most American tongues don't say it correctly, but I learned how to say it right just because I loved the way it sounded. That or Anisa was going to be my daughter's name, but we changed our mind at the last minute. |
Romance / Re: Re: Y U Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 2:43am On Jun 14, 2009 |
thank you sweetheart. Why did you start another thread on this one? |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 2:41am On Jun 14, 2009 |
~Sauron~: ya think? lol! |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 2:40am On Jun 14, 2009 |
davidylan: thank you-cuz I really forgot-lol. I think I was thinking of Remilayo about the joy thing. |
Romance / Re: Why You Should Date A Nigerian Man by IyaKadijat(f): 2:38am On Jun 14, 2009 |
Its a Yoruba name and I believe it has something to do with joy. I even forgot the full meaning and was embarrassed to ask him again-lol! But I know it means something about joy or happiness or something. And I'm POSITIVE it's a 9ija name-I mean, I've only been around u guys for the past 8 years-you think I wouldn't know what a 9ija name sounds like by now? lol |
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