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IN OUR WORLD TODAY BOYS/MEN HAVE BECOME ENDANGERED SPECIE

I need to share my innermost thoughts with my friends. I don't expect everyone to be in agreement with me on this subject matter but I hope at least 'real men' and honest women will.

At times I wonder who perfects the cheating boys and men go to through in life. Is it NATURE or is it WOMEN or is it that men are responsible for their own plights?

There has been this misconception that more importance is placed on the baby boy but in reality the reverse is the case. MALES from tender age are taught to be super humans or at least pretend to be. We could be maltreated, neglected and be put through ordeal but the world hardly care. In most cases you simply get a pat on your back and then that decietful slang "be a man/ man up". In this way we build from boyhood men who think that showing signs of pain is simply weakness. Boys grow up stocking up emotions they could have otherwise expressed and become better adults.

Boys/men are not in anyway more human than girls/women. That is NATURE and this is Justice. As a boy growing up I know the amount of sacrifices I had to make for 'my sister' mostly because she is a girl. Sometimes her school fees has to be paid first because it is believed that I am stronger to take the canning and the labour. Our little boys are flogged on their buttocks without mercy but you can't try that on a girl.

Few days ago it was the international day for men and I listened to a presenter. They were only able to find one Nigerian song that celebrate men...(that was "To be a man" by Flavour). Kindly let me know if you know any other one. Some months ago we celebrated FATHER'S DAY in my church and it was so embarrassing to notice that the choir was unable to find a song SPECIALLY FOR MEN. You have to be in church on MOTHER'S DAY to see the overwhelming difference. Most of these lovely songs celebrating Girls/Women/Mothers were sang by men.

Women seek gender equality, they lie to us that they are weaker. Men should be the ones seeking this because even the law support and protect women more. It is disheartening to know that men dominate our law making platforms. Boys/men are raped no one cares. We are beaten and face all manner of brutality from women no one cares. A woman is free to do all sort of things to a man on the street but if you ever loose it and lay a finger on her you will be given many reasons why you shouldn't touch a girl/woman. Fellow boys/men will so much deal with you not minding what happened before you lost it. We are humans, we have blood and water flowing in us so who told you we can't loose it when pushed to the limit. If you have ever seen girls/women attack a boy/man in defense of one of their type you will come to an understanding that girlhood/womanhood is a cult or something stronger. Before you marry a girl you spend fortune and when you mention DIVORCE the law makes you surrender a significant percentage of your empire. What women mean is GENDER SUPERIORITY NOT EQUALITY!

Have you asked yourself why men have shorter life span than women? Being a girl/woman is easier. A girl/woman is free to cry and be consoled,. free to show weakness and be supported, free to err and be forgiven, free to fail and be celebrated and in most cases free to default and be let off the hook. Boy/men can't afford these pleasures. Consider how hard most men work to train their children and watch who is celebrated and given the bounties when those kids grow and succeed. If account managers tell you the difference in numbers of men who use their wives' name as NEXT OF KIN compared to very few women who do same you will be in shock. Men work Women take the glory.

I dare say that the relationship between girls/women and boys/men is like that of the hausa-fulani with other ethnic groups in my country Nigeria...They seem weak yet they wield so much power, they seem foolish yet they fool those that bear wisdom as surname. Girls/Women in seeming weakness have been able to wrestle powers that nature bestowed on men and have been able to exploit boys/men as Masters exploit their slaves. Females set males against each other and by so doing made us architect of our own woes.

Empowering an enemy or competitor is normally not a problem. The challenge is how to wrestle power back once there is an abuse. Like the scriptural Jacob we have sold our birthrights for plates of porridge. Females are like the proverbial bully who cries louder than the bullied.

MEN AWAKE AND CORRECT THIS PREVAILING INJUSTICE!.

finally those women that sells ewa agoyin at magod gate na real temptation.......I stay in the area too.
its no big deal your husband is already used to them...with time he will stop

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Make I park here...

how old is this tuoyo self?

Quote me later....

They will lose their wager tonight..
Unless big brother pity dem

mercy to nelson and Diane ...I want the 2of u together na there e go sweet me....

Godmother mercy

now our little Diane is crying

I know girls like Diane.....
we call dem NAAkAMuRA....

mc oluomo go dun tire for mike dis nite...

khaffi dey fear....guilty conscience wan kill her...and tacha is using her to shine..

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that is how dey do....before I no now they will tel u to subscribe to there games

show us your ticket if truly u won

I saw btts/ .....why did u change it to under 2.5

if u don't trust yourself how are we going to trust u

pls who else is experiencing the 1xbet nonsense....

they will b deducting your money
I deposited in my account in the morning moe I can't find anything and I didn't place any bet even in my betting history nothing is there...

any one with same issue

Frankicent:
lol 30 yrs Bros you scared of rejection. I was once like that. I started wooing any girl that got my eye. If she gree or not lemme sha build my moral.

I guess u are right am scared of rejection
I will follow your way BH how do I start I don't even know how to woo a lady

Frankicent:
baba it's not normal bro. You been scared.

truth is yes have bn scared.

am 30.. when will the time come...I need a solution

I always find it difficult to ask a girl out or ask for a kiss or sex!!!...

is it normal with guys or am suffering from a form of allergy.

pls how do I overcome this, any one that has good opinion should help out please

chidiezeh:
worth trying

evh other bookie has this option