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TravelRe: If You are A Nigerian, Don't Ever Think Of Going To Namibia, read this.. by izito(m): 6:48am On Jul 08, 2021
Judeorisakwe:
Greetings all...
My woman from Namibia wants
me to visit her and she has promised to send me an invitation..

I need advice plsss...
Is Namibia a place to visit?
Bro am having the same issues oo
She is coming to Lagos by August....... Hpw did yours go...
TravelRe: Need Info About Windhoek Nambia by izito(m): 6:24am On Jul 08, 2021
BOKO52:
Hi, Guys Please Anyone Here With Info About Nambia Via Life,walfare And On How Can I Get Nambia Visa Becos Am Thinking Of Relocating To Nambia To Work And Do Business Am Thinking Of Travelling By Decemeber. Pls Anyone Here With Info Should Pls Contribute To This Thread..Thanks And God Bless..
bro have u relocated
TravelRe: What You Don't Know About Namibia by izito(m): 6:22am On Jul 08, 2021
what of those who wanna start business or technical jobs. Like hand work and the rest. I want to relocate there.
TravelRe: Photos: The Beautiful African City Of Windhoek, Capital Of Namibia by izito(m): 6:21am On Jul 08, 2021
svich:
Nice thread! has anybody else been there recently am thinking about visiting there.
Pls have visited because what of those who wanna start business or technical jobs. Like hand work and the rest. I want to relocate there.
TravelRe: Beautiful City of Windhoek,Namibia by izito(m): 6:14am On Jul 08, 2021
RuudVanNisteroy:
It is better than Nigerian, but hard to get legal papers to work.
what of those who wanna start business or technical jobs. Like hand work and the rest. I want to relocate there.
TravelRe: Is Relocating To Namibia Worth It As A Nigerian? by izito(m): 5:49am On Jul 08, 2021
Pls op any show? I want to move to Namibia by the beginning of next year.. Pls what was your conclusion on why u change your mind thanks.
PoliticsRe: The Federal Government Of Nigeria Has Extended The Deadline For Nin To May 6th by izito(op): 11:21am On Apr 06, 2021
chatinent:
I don't see any other extension coming.


Well, this is the handwork of telecommunications industries. They can't stand a chance to lose billions.
They will eventually scrap it...
RomanceRe: What Is The Worst Reason Not To Date Someone?? by izito(op): 11:19am On Apr 06, 2021
Stargurl20:
If I sense that the love isn't mutual. Guys pretend a lot just to get what they want from ladies.

Without fear of Allah.
Proud.
Too tough or too strict - should the relationship leads to marriage, I don't want my home to look like a barrack.
Lack of respect for women.
No future ambition.
Dirty.
Unintelligent.
Smokes or consumes alcohol.
If he's fair In complexion.
I'm a very tall lady, so I won't mind a tall guy as well.
So fair guys like us don't deserve a chance....

Omo x 400000
RomanceRe: What Is The Worst Reason Not To Date Someone?? by izito(op): 7:35am On Apr 06, 2021
tompat86:
she has longthroat. Whenever she sees someone eating,her body will be shaking until she tastes the food. She could even eat from a child. The one that shocked me was when she told one small boy to cut meat pie for her. That was wen I knew the longthroat is spiritual
Speechless
PoliticsThe Federal Government Of Nigeria Has Extended The Deadline For Nin To May 6th by izito(op): 7:33am On Apr 06, 2021
The Federal Government of Nigeria has extended the deadline for Nigerians to link their National Identification Numbers (NINs) to their SIM cards by one month to May 6th.

The move by the Nigerian Federal Government for citizens to procure the NIN and link them with their SIM cards was first announced in mid-December 2020. A two-week period was prescribed for the exercise, but after it was clear that the time window was insufficient, the Federal Government extended it to February, and then further pushed it to April 6th.

The approval to extend the period of the NIN-SIM linkage was given at the meeting of the Ministerial Task Force on NIN-SIM data linkage held on Thursday in Abuja. The extension statement mentioned that over 51 million people now have their NINs with a significant increase in the monthly enrolments.

“Based on the updates of the NIN-registration process, over 51 million people have been assigned NINs. There are many people who have enrolled and are in the process of being assigned NINs. With each individual having an average of three to four SIMs, the total number of SIMs tied to NINs would be close to the total number of registered SIMs in the country. The current number of monthly enrollments has increased significantly to about 2.6 million registrations.

There has also been a remarkable increase in the number of enrolment centres across the country with about 3,800 centres available for enrollments. There are also many more new centres in the pipeline,” the statement said.

The Implications
This extension provides more time for citizens to perform this exercise, but it also implies that thousands of Nigerians whose source of living depends on SIM registration would have to wait a little longer for business to resume as normal.

In the past, there have been calls and even lawsuits against the Nigerian government to either rethink how it is going about the NIN procurement process or suspend the exercise entirely. As at January, there were 47.8 million new subscribers with NINs, while 21 million subscribers were yet to obtain their NIN.

Two months later, over 51 million subscribers have their NINs linked to their SIM cards. Can the remaining 17 million subscribers get theirs done within one month at this rate?

Time will tell, as in Nigeria, getting any accepted means of identification can be difficult. It’s an issue the government has been trying to solve since 1986.
RomanceRe: What Is The Worst Reason Not To Date Someone?? by izito(op): 3:38pm On Apr 05, 2021
bigpicture001:
I saw his future, he will not make it in life...
Omo x 400000
RomanceWhat Is The Worst Reason Not To Date Someone?? by izito(op): 1:49pm On Apr 05, 2021
My own is that she can me 30x in a day a still not be tired.. Am like the f*** even Samuel for Bible na 3x God call am....


Pls add your own let's have fun
FamilyRe: My Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by izito(op): 6:08am On Mar 25, 2021
Fear woman
FamilyMy Wife’s Salary Was A Mystery Until I Discovered How Much She’s Truly Worth* by izito(op): 6:07am On Mar 25, 2021
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In 2016 she told me her salary was #50.000 And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only #5000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. #400,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine. 

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.” 

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. His father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?” I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?”  He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”


My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Last she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money. She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all. She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a divorce, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions. 

*What's your take?*

https://mobile.twitter.com/sonofokere/status/1374670453944516611

CelebritiesStingy Women Over To You by izito(op): 2:35pm On Jan 12, 2021
One of our oga at the regional headquarters has spoken....

He is saying the truth...

Music/RadioTop 5 Nigerian Hit Music December 2020 by izito(op): 10:52pm On Jan 10, 2021
Cultural fiesta .....kcee
Abule...... Patoranking
Infinity...... Olamide
Kpk..... Rexxie and mohbad
Cash app......Bella shurmuda and zlatan
PoliticsRe: I Have BVN But No Nin by izito(m): 11:57am On Jan 10, 2021
Same thing has happened to me.. whenever I want to register for nin dey will tell me my bvn is not correct or has fault but the bank will tell me there is nothing wrong with my bvn...
I dun tire for the matter ..
Forum GamesNew Game- Charlie Charlie by izito(op): 11:09pm On Jan 06, 2021
Who has tried this game
..share your experience..
PoliticsRe: NIN: Crowd And No Social Distancing At NIMC Office, Ikeja (Video) by izito(m): 5:56pm On Jan 06, 2021
See where I wan go tomorrow oo

I go use sanitizer bath if I reach house.....
Jobs/VacanciesIf You Need A Home Cleaner by izito(op): 10:13am On Jan 04, 2021
Good day
Please I am a man who clean houses for a living and do house chores but cooking is not included...
My number 080"""6734**6558
Jobs/VacanciesRe: An Urgent Need Of A Female Weekend House Help by izito(m): 10:11am On Jan 04, 2021
Please am a man who clean houses for a living and do house chores but cooking is not included...
My number 080"""6734**6558
Jobs/VacanciesPlease I Need A Part-time Cleaning Job..... by izito(op): 9:59am On Jan 04, 2021
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RomanceGuys What Are Things You Hate Seeing When You Visit A Lady.. by izito(op):
What are some of the things you hate to see when you visit a lady's place. Things that are a big turn off.
Me I don't like seeing a lady's room dirty and smelling ...a big turn off
Also, please chip in the things you love to see in a lady's place ..
When her room smells nice..
Guys you can add yours
FamilyHome Cleaning At Affordable Rate. by izito(op): 1:44pm On Dec 03, 2020
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Nairaland GeneralRe: Home Cleaning At Affordable Rate. by izito(op): 6:43am On Nov 25, 2020
Which state is Haram...
We operate in only Lagos for now
Nairaland GeneralHome Cleaning At Affordable Rate. by izito(op): 6:33am On Nov 25, 2020
Tidy up your apartment with just small money...
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PropertiesHome Cleaning At Affordable Rate. by izito(op): 8:35pm On Nov 17, 2020
We do all kind of cleaning and maintenance
Please call for further inquiries thanks
PropertiesRe: To Let"" Tastefully 2bedroom Flat At Lekki Scheme 2 Ajah + Pics by izito(m): 8:34pm On Nov 17, 2020
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FamilyHome Cleaning At Affordable Rate. by izito(op): 7:22am On Nov 12, 2020
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FamilyHome Cleaning At Affordable Rate. by izito(op): 9:21am On Nov 10, 2020
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