₦airaland Forum

Almajiri1:
Are you fucking kidding me? in terms of outward appearance, Dbanj seems to have made a logical decision.

lolz

like seriously can u compare dis lady with Genevive? Jenny make more sense nah..

CU going places and doing Nigeria proud in the global community of scholars

nice write up bt i guess she doesnt really need this luv she is seeking rather she needs self luv/self discovery.

chiwetel:
huh

why huh? Is it nt written in ur bible that of all the sins, fornicatn is d only sin one sin against God n his own flesh.

chiwetel:
of course its not smart to say it on the first date,op said they met since 2014,now two years is a long time to keep quiet about something this delicate, to think she allowed him have sex with her..that's highly insensitive.

yeah dt is why we are warned to flee fornication

chiwetel:
This is overwhelming.. it would have saved you both a lot of stress if she opened up earlier, at least it would have really helped you prepared well emotionally and spiritually for the task ahead.
we are all humans, it's easier for anyone to say"love conquers all"and similar hogwash like that,love is never enough sometimes, you don't want to take a decision you would regret in the long run,and then depression and hatred sets in.
Remember, this is a life changing decision and trust me its not even yours to make.This is the point you bury yourself in prayer to God or whatever you believe in.They say everything happens for a reason and the universe has it all planned out,trust God to reveal to you whatever reason this is happening to you, he would give you the grace to come out of this fix in one piece.
for now... its your cross.

do u thing it is easy to tell someone you dnt trust abt ur status? If she tells every wooer on their first date then be rest assured she is indirectly publicizing her status.

op hw do u marry her traditionally i.e paying dowry/bride price since both families refused consent?

Gasout:
Yea, exactly! Have only shared the issue with my pastor, though, with her consent.

He told me to pray about it if she's the choosen one for me. And he asked me this " can my faith carry it?"

get this book for her and ursef: The Unlimited Power of Faith - by David Oyedepo

happydavies:
am paying 300k for 1bedroom flat in ph,n my sis pays 250k for selfcon,abeg who get mind call uyo here?

lolzzz...... Abeg mk them Uyo. 350k u can get 3bedroom flat in Uyo bt some Landlords wud want 2yrs rent rather than one. In Ik u can sure pick up a 2bedroon flat for 150k except mayb its a new hus.

obadizena:
@jabojafa
It's supposed to be mutual but, in practice, it's not. Most guys are too desperate to have sex with the opposite sex, to the extent that they scheme out ways to deceive and/or trick a girl and/or coerce or force sex on her; just to satisfy themselves.

well as they say ''since the bird as learnt to fly without perching, the hunter shd also learn to shoot without missing''

dollyjoy:
I refused to be an option but a choice.

u cnt be a choice to everybody na bt u can be an option to many ppl

as much as you can flee fornication. Remember whatsoever a man sow that is what he will reap. Encourage the little girl to stay in school

op u dont need a washing machine, jst look for a dry cleaner and give him d job to do for you or better still start washing ur clothes by yourself.

delishpot:
They may have done him promise and fail or his beans is still cooking and small time, e go done.

Its well, when next someone sees him again, please introduce him to Naira Land. Someone may be able to help him here if he holds the right requirement.

i sure would need that help

Yewandequeen:
Yea u right about the not a * random guy thing *

But for example a lady is Who is celebrating her birthday, u been a friend called her to Wish her birthday wishes and discovered she decided to stay home on her birthday watching movies and sleeping. U been a friend decided Thats not possible, It's her birthday she has to go out n v fun. After the outing u then decided to cap it all with should we go to my house or ur house .

The point is she never wanted to go out in the first place.

So what u say?

my dear can a guy force you to sleep in his house or can he impose it on you to sleept in your house? I think its a mutual thing. In this ministry, nothing is by force.

Pinkieblue:
My beauty is trending right now

i for like partake of dt ur trending beauty

Pinkieblue:
I dated him from my 100 level till after service......

Fine girl gats stay strong na

ooh i see. For your mind you be fine girl abi?

Antina:
Don't mind him, he said no until we see.

he wants to mk it up to u by paying u off.

Titilayooni:
He kept pictures of his fiancee through out the period we dated(almost 2yrs)when he had what he wanted,he just hung back her pictures and proposed to her using it as dp on bbm,I was speechless when I saw it....he invited me to the wedding but I cursed him*laughs*

hmmm... You are everything someone is praying for. Nice signature txt.

Pinkieblue:
This thread got me so emotional this morning..... Making me remember all my painful breakup..... Is it the one I ended when I found out he had a two year old child after dating him for 6years....the annoying part was that he told me over a drink and some guys were there supporting him...... Or is it the silent treatment I experienced from two different guys.....

After reading every comment here I just had to listen to westlife's song titled if your hearts not in it

ah urs is really touching... Bt what were u doing with a guy for 6solid years? You try shall. Am happy u are still strong even all the hrt brks.

mizthorlu:
still affects me cos he pops up once in a blue moon to say hi... Not loved another like I loved him since then....thinking of just focusing on my career fully, bag as many certificates as I can and be happy... love has been coming but ve not been open to receive it.

happy birthday to you. Yeah focus on ur career and acquire all the certificates as soon as possible.

ngobaby23:
Mine was in 2013.dude just woke up one morning and broke up with me. Reason being that I was always falling sick and that he wouldn't love to marry a wife that was always ill. Funny enough after he left I stopped falling ill all the time. I felt really hurt. But God will always judge Shaa. I'm still single though.

had a gal lik u then but funny enof she gave up on me.

eiBADAn:
Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

honestly i wud like u to do me a favor. Let me forward my CV to you to submit for me in ur dad's company. Thanks

Qualityfreedom:
Hmm, people still want to join Nigeria police, with this their dirty image? People can now do anything for money. Nigeria youths are becoming too lazy that they can take any job, provided they have monthly income. Now the question is, what is monthly income? Rubbish. I have M.Sc in Public Admin but am not working for or with any govt or private establishment. But what I make in 2 weeks, no level 15 federal or state civil servants earn it as his/her monthly salary and I have my time freedom.
Is right time we get our mind off from all this paid job. I do 100% legal business just with my laptop and my good Android phone and am making cool money on daily basis. Police job is one job I can never do no matter how much u are going to pay me. Is just too dirty

bro mbok jst share with a brother the kind of business you do so i can also try that too. Will be grateful for your assistance.

yeah i got it.

its nt ur duty to save any marriage bt the Holy Spirit, remember your body is His temple so dnt sin againt ur flesh n God. Even if u save it once, wud u continue saving d marriage? The money he wants to pay u, let him use it n come down to Nigeria and service his wife. That is his conjugal duty to his wife and none or ur business. Stay clear off dt woman.

optional1:
Ok

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kolubo:
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thanks

kolubo:
For mtn N750

oya send am mk i flash d hell out d numba

optional1:
From Enugu State

dt is nice, whr i served

kolubo:
Please help me flash this no 08167187412 it has been flashing me seriously for a week now when I call back d the person won't pick up.

for how much?