Ashley86400:

Men are physically stronger while women are emotionally stronger.
Most ignorant niggers here don't know tears are a way for the body to reduce stress and pent up emotions. Wether you're in pain or you lose someone or something, once you cry, you feel better.
So your idea of fragility makes no sense. .what's the point of being physically strong when you're emotionally weak?
Women might cry over a lot of things, but the day they stop crying ,know that you're fucckked.

I didn't say guys don't cry... i just said, they don't show it publicly... they can cry when they're inside.. but once they come out, they put on a smile... that's what i mean by being emotional strong..

But a girl, no matter how hard she trys to hide it, tears must drop down her cheeks...

Women might cry over a lot of things, but the day they stop crying, know that you're fucckked

First of all, you should know that this is not 100% accurate... Girls vary... most of them, tend to move on with their lives once they stop crying... but if that guy should mend his ways, the girl might give him another chance...

know that you're fucckked

It's because of the mentality that we all have now... She might say "he's my ex. going back to him will be somehow" OR "what will my friends say if i date him again?" OR "what if he hasn't changed?"
That's the reason...

Mollyallex:



African girls wait for you to approach them because they 've been taught that a woman who approaches a man is too forward and cheap.

That's African mentality sha... but it's not right.. If you're into someone, approach the person. It's not a must that you'll let the person know that you have a crush on him..

Some girls will give their so called "green light" & when the guy approaches them, they'll still be playing the "hard to get" game.

Approaching a guy doesn't make you cheap... It all depends on how you carry & cordinate yourself...

A cheap girl is a cheap girl... doesn't matter who approaches who first...

Pride is Paramount
The average Nigerian man is cocky, controlling, and self-centered. This is probably because he is raised to believe that he is not a man if he does not have pride. To maintain this pride, he pretends to be what he is not, and engages in dubious activities… just to put up the expected façade. During a conversation, they won’t know anything about it, but they will give their own opinion and try to even force it down your throat. They will go bankrupt purchasing an item just to prove a point, or even sell his house to earn a title. It is great to have a measure of pride in oneself, but at what cost?

I don't know whose telling you all these bullshit!

Everyone is proud...

Male & female...

Isn't it the guy who humbles himself & makes the first approach to a girl they like?

Ask any girl to do the same... she'll tell you that "any girl who makes the first move is cheap & desperate"

Now tell me, isn't that pride?

Because I know that my American babes... if they see a guy they like, they approach him & start a conversation...

But African girls will stick to their "green light" bullshit!

He Has to Preserve the Family Name and Bring Home the Bacon
Nigerian men are raised with the belief that they will eventually be the breadwinner of their own families. They will have to go to work, make money and provide for themselves, their wives, children, and even extended family members who cannot help themselves. He is supposed to earn more than his wife, and upon marriage, the wife will have to take on his surname and bear him sons, that will pass on the family name. She will be humble and be the neck, while he remains the head.

This mentality is fostered by tradition, culture, and religion, but it is not necessarily the truth of his existence. This belief puts a lot of pressure on him and also sets him up such that he has expectations that may not even be realistic. These expectations cause problems in his marriage or lead to depression.

No, a man does not have to be the bread-winner; his wife can take up the role, if she earns more and has better work ethics. No, the wife must not take on his surname, unless she wishes to. And no, he does not have to pass on the family name. the same family name will probably not exist in the next 1000 years, so why all the pressure?

My dear... by right, the man is meant to be the bread winner of the Family... it has been like that since ages...

His wife can never take up the role of a man.. instead, she can only support him.. but that does not make her the bread winner...

Go back to your Bible... Why did God create Eve?

Wasn't it to be Adam's companion & to support him in looking after the Garden of Eden?

Boys don’t cry

Nigerian mothers and fathers ram that into the heads of their sons from a very young age. They are discouraged from sharing their feelings with one another or from having feelings at all for that matter, right from a tender age. Feelings would make them a ‘sissy’ and less of a man. Raised with this mentality, they bottle up their emotions and learn to only express them via anger or mean spirited acts. They become heard-hearted, lacking empathy. And worse, since they believe the female is the one who can have emotions, they believe that the female owes them some kind of free, maternalistic, emotional labor.

The truth, however, is that the Nigerian male, just like the female has tear ducts. He can actually produce tears if he tried. He has hormones as well and can fell things just as the female. It is okay for him to cry, to feel jealous, crave a massage, scream in fear…e.t.c All these do not make him any less of a man. It only makes him human.

You don't even understand what they mean by "boys don't cry" OR "big boys don't cry"

Of course they do cry.. but they don't cry in public like a baby... except if they are physically beaten... men are naturally strong minded while women are fragile...

that's why any small thing, women will start crying...

a man will misplace his phone.. it will pain him.. but he won't cry.. instead when he's alone, he might feel sad..

but if a woman misplaced her phone, she'll cry from morning till night... and continue the next day...

Rokia2:

Chris Brown was not the first American celeb to react.

Ya all so behind news. so nairaland has to report news before ya all know about it?

You're not still getting my point... I don't care who was the first or last to react...

You said that suddenly everyone one is reacting. Should they keep quiet? I'm sure if they didn't react, you'll still complain that they're heartless...

At least, by reacting, they're taking an action... a step... by reacting, they making the whole world aware of the situation... which will trigger a much better action from any of the world leaders...

ALL OF YOU THAT ARE MOUTHING OFF NONSENSE...

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO HELP THE SITUATION?

YOU HAVEN'T EVEN POSTED ABOUT IT ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS & YOU'RE HERE TALKING TRASH ABOUT SOMEONE WHO HAS MADE AN EFFORT TO SPREAD THE NEWS...

I READ 1 HUMAN BEING COMMENT WEY SAY MAKE DAVIDO MAKE A MOVE WITH HIN 30 BILLION..

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS, HAVE YOU EVEN DONATED 100 NAIRA?

DO YOU KNOW IF DAVIDO HAS ACTUALLY DONATED BUT THE MONEY HASN'T BEEN CLEARED BY THE BANK? SOME OF YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT A WIRE TRANSFER IS...


SOMEONE WILL REACT... NIGERIANS WILL COMPLAIN...

IF THAT PERSON DOESN'T REACT... NIGERIANS WILL STILL COMPLAIN

IF THAT PERSON EVEN DONATES, I'M SURE THAT NIGERIANS WILL STILL COMPLAIN THAT HE'S SHOWING OFF...

SMH... WORLD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE!

ALL OF YOU THAT ARE MOUTHING OFF NONSENSE...

WHAT HAVE YOU DONE TO HELP THE SITUATION?

YOU HAVEN'T EVEN POSTED ABOUT IT ON YOUR SOCIAL MEDIA ACCOUNTS & YOU'RE HERE TALKING TRASH ABOUT SOMEONE WHO HAS MADE AN EFFORT TO SPREAD THE NEWS...

I READ 1 HUMAN BEING COMMENT WEY SAY MAKE DAVIDO MAKE A MOVE WITH HIN 30 BILLION..

MY QUESTION TO YOU IS, HAVE YOU EVEN DONATED 100 NAIRA?

DO YOU KNOW IF DAVIDO HAS ACTUALLY DONATED BUT THE MONEY HASN'T BEEN CLEARED BY THE BANK? SOME OF YOU DON'T EVEN KNOW WHAT A WIRE TRANSFER IS...


SOMEONE WILL REACT... NIGERIANS WILL COMPLAIN...

IF THAT PERSON DOESN'T REACT... NIGERIANS WILL STILL COMPLAIN

IF THAT PERSON EVEN DONATES, I'M SURE THAT NIGERIANS WILL STILL COMPLAIN THAT HE'S SHOWING OFF...

SMH... WORLD PEOPLE EVERYWHERE!

bestower:
Seriously African leaders are cowards, where are the UN,AU,are they deaf or blind to the cry of these Innocents people? Well,God punish any Africans that will say "let's pray for UK,France,Germany or european countries" if there own tragedies fall on them....

My dear.. Did the UN tell you that they are not doing anything?

Do you think they can just storm into a country & start mouthing off orders?

There are steps & procedures to take... even if it was war going on...

You that is here shouting coward... Oya go to Lybia & join them to protest naa...

Won't you pack your bags
Go to the ATM & withdraw some money
Arrange for a transport
Find a place to stay in Lybia
Prepare yourself for the protest
Then finally, go out & start protesting

Everything has procedures...

Uyi168:
..if they had refuse to react,u'll be here running ur mouth..now that they are all reacting,u are still running ur mouth...

I swear... I tire for Nigerians ooo... Always complaining

Simplep:
So he is reacting at d same time telling somone to snap him..all for camera

You should know that the person who posted the news here, just go a picture of Davido at one of his events... that has nothing to do with the Lybia issue...

Look at the first picture.. that's Davido's post...

Rokia2:
Now suddenly they all reacting.

Took one person to react before they all stated reacting.


I think what Lala wrote on her Instagram is the best.

What can we actually do? Reacting wouldn't help anybody.

Took one person to react before they all stated reacting

So you haven't heard the saying "One man can change the world" OR "One smile can start a friendship"?

One person can start a movement... it's not a must that every body must react at once..

When a single Domino falls, does it not start a chain reaction which makes other Dominoes fall?

So stop saying because 1 person reacted, suddenly they're all reacting... What if it was that person who heard the news first?

There are still other foreign celebrities who started reacting after Chris did...

Jesse01:
Nigeria celebrities very useless people dis people disgust me wen flood hit nigeria hw many of dem react none, y because no u.s celebrities react Now dat some u.s celebrities don dey react, dem too don dey react, fist it was dat lady dat was crying crocodile tears, den wizkid, now dis over grown babe.

Who told you that they didn't react when flood hit Nigeria?

You have the internet... make use of it to research...

The flood that hit Benue State on August, do you know how many celebrities donated?

Here's a link I think you should visit:
https://www./news/20087-nigerian-celebrities-rally-help-benue-flood-victims

And if I may ask, how did you get to hear about this Lybia issue?

Wasn't it from someone or somewhere?

That's the same way they heard it from Chris...

greenek:


please tell the PHOTOGRAPHY to also come and sweep the mucus from your brain. ..

LOL... Let him tell the photography to edit the photographer again...

VAMPS

All those ones wey dey like report/snitch their fellow classmates...

They can carry the rules of the school for head like government work...

Example: omor... you sabi that guy for there wey dey follow that babe talk? Na vamp he be ooo...

NAS

Non Academic Student

All those ones wey no dey like go class... instead dem go dey hostel dey tap soccer...

Or those ones wey dey only near class once they here anything like: Quiz, Attendance, HOD etc.

ivolt:


She doesn't need any evidence since she is not the one suing.
The alleged rapist is in for a long ride as he has to prove that
he didn't rape her.

Come.. are you listening to yourself?

Before you type, think about what you're saying first..

So what you're tellinfg me now is... any girl can come online & accuse a guy of rape & the judge will rule in that girl's favour?

Hope you're not studying law! Because it's definitely not for you!

If that's the way you think, it means that all girls will start coming up with this type of story just to get back at their exes... boys go begin go down like flies...

Have you heard of something called "blackmail"? Have you thought for a second that the girl might just want to drag the guy's name to the mud?

I won't even be surprised if the judge throws the case out of the court... because this one na child's play...

You ONLY heard the girl's side of the story & you're already defending her...

If it were your brother, what will you say? Won't you defend him?

World people everywhere! Smh...

ivolt:


Utter garbage devoid of sound reasoning.
Show evidence that the girl was hoeing around.
Hoes don't scream rape after getting a client!

The dumb rapist is free to take legal action but I await his incontrovertible
evidence that she gave her consent.

"She visited my house, She winked at me" are recipes for children and
beer-parlor discussions, no rational thinker will accept such as an evidence
of consent.
No means No!

Hoes don't scream rape after getting a client

Oh! Is that what you think? Have you been to Owerri? Or you haven't heard the story of a uniport runz girl who accused a man of being a thief... just because he couldn't pay her? Please research...

No one knows what REALLY HAPPENED... Every one is just talking based on the girl's side of the story...

And we all know that a thief must ALWAYS make him/her self look innocent... (I'm not saying she's the thief... and I'm not saying the guy is the thief either)

My dear.. some girls can go lengths just to see a guy suffer... No dey use corner eye dey look life ooo...

Shey the case don reach court so... make we hear the guy side...

na still both of them go suffer am...

LUGBE:


Which truth are you expecting, can't you deduce the truth already, the fool called olodonation is just trying to protect his business, you can imagine. You think the lady can cook up such story.

The man is a beast. What an arrant nonsense. He want to further intimidate the lady knowing fully well she is a student.

The girl could have dealt with him instead of complaining online.

You think the lady can cook up such story

My dear... it seems your brain is paining you! I've seen girls do worse... Some go to the extent of inflicting self harm just to make sure the accused suffer.... This 1 no be bobo ooo... Craze girls dey this country..

You just heard the girl's side of the story & you're already calling the guy a beast... If it was you in his shoes, how will you feel?

If the girl was wise, she should have taken the case to court... instead she's ranting up & down...

Rape & Beg my foot!

Shey the mata don reach court now... let's wait for the verdict... Na still both of them go suffer am...

You call the guy a beast, then the girl is what? Beauty?

World people everywhere... Shm...

You went to a guy's house you've never met before.. you didn't even say that since it's your first time of meeting the guy, let you keep your stay short.. hang out during the day & ball out.. instead you crashed for the night...

She didn't even study the guy.. to know if he's matured enough in the mind... Her brain is supposed to tell her that everyone is not a saint...

You parked an Aston Martin on the road, rolled down the window & left the key in the ignition... tell me, aren't you inviting a thief?

My dear, if God wants to teach someone a lesson, He does it when we least expect...

Maybe that's the new form of prostitution... Maybe she has been doing it with other guys... She goes to guy's houses, chop awoof & then run comot...

Right now somewhere in the heart of Nigeria... His village people are hosting a get together party...

Like play like play... na so problem go start for their marriage...

But Banky no fear... God pass them...

rhonard:
so you mean, you should never let the world know about your rightful change? because am not getting you

See.... you don't need to announce to the world that you are born again...

Instead, let people speak on your behalf... Convert people... bring the lost sheeps back to Jesus (The Shepard)

Emulate Jesus through your life... and people will know by themselves that you are truly born again...

No need to start posting up & down that you have decided to cut off your flesh because you are born again...

The Bible says "For it is not you who speak, but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you." That's Matthew 10 verse 20...

In other words, it's not you who speak by posting on social media that you'll cut off your flesh... but the Spirit of your Father speaking through you by emulating Him & living a righteous life...

Antipob777:
Congrats bro, jealousy killing Igbos. Our yoruba guys go for true love and not gold diggers.

How many igbo guy will bring his white wife to Nigeria like this and wed her.

Happy married life bro.

World people everywhere! Smh....

Be there and be claiming "OUR"

At the end of the day, it's all man to himself...
Or as they say... Every mallam with hin kettle...

You have something called "Internet"... yet you can't make use of it to research... before coming here to talk trash...

There are many Igbos who marry their foreign hubbies here in Nigeria...

A female like yourself married her American hubby here in Nigeria...

Dian Chinyere Ibeh married her sweetheart Anthony Paul Doherty in Lekki Lagos this past Saturday the 15th of October 2016.

Be there and be claiming "OUR" Yoruba guys... don't go and make your own name heard...

World people....

Lol... his mother's facial expression says it all...

Mother: My village people have finally succeeded ooo... i must go to baba office tomorrow...

The father come dey act like all those innocent bystanders for naija films...

All these same, HML to them...

Sapphire86:
I hope their union lasts because internet never forgets.

I don't want to hear 'pls respect our privacy in this difficult time' because they didn't respect my privacy now oooo

lol... you're wise!

...

gnykelly:


non compos mentis

lol... if you like call me crazy....

I've told you how it is....

JamesReacher:
Which Jcole song talk about guns sex and drugs ?

He talks mostly about sex...

Listen to "Can't get enough" where he featured Trey Songz... just first verse, talked about how a certain ladies ass can make a gay nigga reconsider... also talked about how he almost missed his flight when the hoe was sucking his nuts... and talked about some other nasty things...

Also listen to "wet dreamz"

there are still songs where he talked about sex & hoes...

gnykelly:


because nigerian women are just sex object. i know you may dispute but it is the reality .

And i believe you have a mother & sister...

If Nigerian women are just sex objects, does that mean you have sex with your mother & sister?


Shm.... Retarded thinking....

gnykelly:


because nigerian women are just sex object. i know you may dispute but it is the reality .

So... what you're trying to tell me now is...

they should stop using women in their videos & use men instead ba?

Then you'll start calling them homosexuals...


Smh.... World people everywhere!

4starstunna:
I Neva know some people have noticed it thaz y I still stick to my foreign rappers up to date.

My dear, foreign rappers are thesame...

It's either guns, drugs, sex, bitches, cults, money etc.

It's once in a while that they pass the right message... same goes for Nigerian artistes...

even the Kendrick Lamar & J Cole have songs that are talking bout guns, sex & drugs... I'm a fan of both...

donstan18:
You are simply pissed because she announced and publicized it, but had it been she posted an erotic picture of her boobs and ass on media, your type will be quick to click LIKE, DM her and comment " wow! wow! wow! wow!" like an ambulance.


Just be happy for her, If possible...For no reason!

If I see something that's not right, i'll say my mind... like wise if that thing is right.

And if it were her bare boobs & ass that she posted or she just wore a bra & pants, i'll speak against it... BUT if it was MODERATELY shown, i might say... nice figure & some other complements...

But you don't come online & starting showing everyone that you're born again by burning yourself with an electric iron & cutting off your flesh...

Instead, let your works speak for you... let those who you've influenced positively speak for you...

What happened to just going to a tattoo parlor & have the tattoo cleaned? Isn't that where the tattoo was drawn?

I'm happy for her quite alright... I'm just stating the obvious

World people everywhere!

Soon she'll commit murder & say she won't stop doing radical things for Jesus...

Or even commit suicide self...and will still get first class ticket to hell...

It's all these type of people that will praise Jesus when they're outside & worship devil when they're inside...

Matthew 6:6
But when you pray, go into your room and shut the door and pray to your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.

Just to remove a tattoo, she's announcing to the whole world... It is well with some people sha...