dedons:
Please I need reliable answers.

Thank you.

op, pls if you have an idea of how dey recruit contract staff. mail me at ihimamoore@gmail.com. reside in Lagos n OND too. Regards.

I just hope my country will be better someday..... Am speechless

swtman:
Suffer go double oooo

Serious oo bro.... unless those bus drivers is engage.

Chuvin22:


What kind of food can some1 get for 200

e dey na.... Bread n beans... bread #100 n Ewa #70, ati pure H2o #30.

yorhmienerd:
RIP to Englis

prof.... weldone

TheSlyone2:
The obvious question here is whether both of you are in love. Why am I saying this?

From what you wrote, it very clear you love this lady. Does she reciprocate your love?

If she doesn't, considering her attitudes, I'll strongly advice you find the necessary means to lay the relationship to rest. You can't afford to spend years sowing where you may never rip and at the same time having to tolerate some intolerable characters. That could be frustrating.

Now, if this lady in question is such a loving kind, then you should bare with her. You know, Human nature is diverse. That's the uniqueness of life itself. Some are created temperamental. Some are mild.

It important however that you study the pattern/rhythm of her temperament. By so doing, you will be the first person she listens to at the face of argument. In fact, you can help transform her.

I wouldn't want you to engage her verbally when ever she snaps. Give her some time to calm down, rediscover herself. Then, engage her in a rather mild and profound manner. Make her realise the ramifications of what ever she has done. She's human. Am sure she ll listen when you talk to her.

If she hasn't snapped at you before, she has no reason to snapped at your family members. Most times, people hold more respect for outsiders than their family members that's why she disrespect her sister time to time.

Like I did said, talk to her in a cultured manner and watch the changes thereafter.

Benita27, nice one

tnx bro... God bless

ikp120:
Bro you've got two options: either you take this as your cross and carry it, or you reject it as your cross and look for another cross to carry. But by all means, you MUST carry a cross.

She just ain't gonna change because of you.

Sure a cross must b carry. Tnx

xstry:
People change

I don't understand Brother.

I have being dated this lady getting to four years now. I love her but she posses some characters that I didn't like at all. we are from different tribe and difference religion but these are not the obstacle
She always like to argue with her senior sisters that will lead to using some derogative words that is not going wel wit me... words like 'stop talking rubbish, nosence and all sort of abusing well. I always look very annoy but I have being talking to her to change, that in my own language such words means insult to the elders but refuse to change after different confrontations. she is very hot temper. my fear now is that if I marry her, there is possibility of using such words to my families in which they will take it as an embarrassment. Seriously I had spoke to her on this issue for several occasion but she remain adamant. Don't know what to do. please Lala help me do justice by moving it to the front page. tnx

He show courage.

that very nice from 2baba