disturbia:

If the husband wants her to take care of the family, he should pay her "salary" every month or open a business for her.
Because guys at the end of the day will be the ones complaining that the amount they spending is too much and that she is not helping out in anyway. I have witnessed this type of situation, where the woman agreed to be a housewife some years later the guy starting complaining about the amount of money he was spending on the home front and that the woman is not assisting in anyway. When she told him that he was the one that wanted her to be a housewife, the husband said so does that mean out of the money I give you, you could not start up a business.

For a woman who is used to having her own money it will be difficult. Whatever she wants to buy, she needs to collect the money from the husband? No

True talk. Either way, womenfolk often stand to be the losers.

rerute1:

We are not saying they must be millionaires but they should live an average life. How far can u go with love, loyalty, understanding and all dat without money lol

"Ditto"

Nebuchadnezzar
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@ Viciyke - Giant wit huge clay legs. I know its not one word, so manage dat.

pappy2000:

@ jaja z

It seems you have a problem with English Language if you require a tutorial I can provide one for free.

I said that it seems te people who are making it big in malaysia is the 419 and the drug peddlers.

Pls try to read between the line before you post. FOOL

SAME TO YOU. Next time don't assume with your "I guess" when you have not set foot on Malaysia. What you read and what you experienced are two different things all together. Don't believe everything you read in this forum, especially from the phoney agents and those frustrated posters who got stuck here cos they were conned by their sweet-talking agents of their hard earned money.

pappy2000:

From all i have heard from this forum i guess the place is not a paradise.It is a place for 419 and drug dealer

Stop talking nonsense. Most 419 and drug dealers here hail from Iran and Nigeria. That's the truth. People here who often talk bad about Malaysia are those who went there on social visits but overstayed and were still hoping to find work when they knew they couldn't work illegally cos nobody would hire them. Sadly, like most countries, Nigerians have a bad name here because of the said crimes mentioned by you.

Might as well be honest with you, Malaysia is a paradise compares to Nigeria. At least the systems work here, we have no problem with water and electricity, unemployment rate is 3 to 4%, good road and infrastructure, no fuel scarcity, our government is functioning and most importantly, life is worth a whole lot more.

@ Poster, are you overweight?
I remember reading the posting - Doctor In The House:Obstetrics And Gynecology where there was a lady asking the doctor about the same problem she has had like yours - no period for several months. She was like 95kg at that time. The doctor advised her to lose weight and in 1 month after regular gym and lost 10kg, her period came back.

@ chris_j
I can think of one African name in the Bible and that is "Niger". Check Acts 13:1

My vote goes to my papa.

@ Poster
Been there, done that myself.
I hate to sound negative but the moment your hubby passes his exams and/or gets his greencard, he is gone. As hard as you try to please him and work your ass off to make sacrifices to foot all the bills and sponsor his education, don't expect any gratitude cos you won't get any. None.
When that sickening attitude of his turns from bad to worse, there ain't no turning back. Be prepared to face the painful existence in the coming years together, like some would say seek God for a miracle, otherwise do what you think is best for yourself. In my case, I hung on way too long in this futile matrimony with the wrong man.

Be strong, bro! She doesn't deserve you. With time, you'll be alright. Take care.

Watch these videos on HIV and Prevention and be encouraged:

http://www.youtube.com/user/Siyayinqoba#p/u/49/WFGRH5n0lJs
http://www.youtube.com/user/Siyayinqoba#p/u/3/LcRsYlF0frQ

It's a South African TV programme so the dialogue (if I'm not mistaken) is in Zulu but the subtitle is in English.
@ Poster, if you plan to have kids next time, it's not impossible to have HIV- babies. There are challenges ahead but it's not a death sentence, girl! Live your life to the fullest! God bless you.

@ Poster, here are two videos that may be of interest to you about ARV and Prevention, in particular to educate those HIV+ parents who might still want and it's not impossible to have HIV- babies.  Please take note of the challenges in PMTCT (Preventing Mother-To-Child Transmission of HIV).  

http://www.youtube.com/user/Siyayinqoba#p/u/49/WFGRH5n0lJs
http://www.youtube.com/user/Siyayinqoba#p/u/3/LcRsYlF0frQ

It's a South African programme so the dialogue (if I'm not mistaken) is in Zulu language but the subtitle is in English.  Be encouraged girl, it's not a death sentence.

I'm July 21st and seven is my favourite number!

Borat, it's sad isn't it to force feeding just to add fat in the bodies of these young girls. Some weird culture! May I ask, how fat is fat to you men? Anything above 65 kg?

Sorry! I meant Nollywood and not Bollywood.

Hi guys, this is my 1st posting.  I've watched a few Bollywood movies in Youtube.  Well, I've noticed many of the actresses (I didn't say all) are big.  I mean they sure look > size 12.  Is it common for women in Naija to progressively become big with age or Bollywood just happens to like its gals to be larger?