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pleep: I know its possible. What is pathetic is the fact that you are trying so hard to justify male circumcison... i mean for God sake if you are against female circumcison, don't try and find excuses for male circumcision. Do you know how messed up that looks?

Are you a sexist jallowbah?

And where was I making excuses..?

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"Sometimes I shave my legs and sometimes I don`t.. "

13 days. Just 13 days..

But, I need help. I am planning on what to wear as I go off the plane, and I got it down to two dresses.
One is black an simple, not tight, with a colourful lil something over.
The other is black and white-striped, and more...bootylicious, I guess? Lol.

pleep: Jallowbah you are pathetic. I don't even know what to call this.... sexism, stupidity or just plain malice?

Your looking for all sorts of far fetched reasons to justify male circumcison.. while exaggerating female circumcison. No one here is saying female circumcison is good. But both female and male circumcision reduce the capacity for an individual to enjoy sexual activity, if you are against one you should be against the other.

Regrow the foreskin?.. look Jallowbah this is a rediculus excuse and you know it. A boy has the right to decide how he wants to live his life without his brainwashed malicious mother cutting off part of his penis.

How am I being pathetic when I am telling you that it is possible..? Google it

677ano: When I read the post here I just laugh
do you think because he has permanent residence now he can dump
the white wife? she is his basis for having the residence permit.

The white woman hold the aces. He dumps her he lose his residence permit or citizenship
and the white woman know that. All she has to do is inform the immigration directorate

Get a court order indeed the man is trapped all she needs is a restraining order
to stop him seeing the kids.

I will advise him to sit with each woman and discuss
He must have done something to make the white woman react this way the OP should search himself
In Europe the law favor women and children more than the man it is not an easy situation the OP is in.

Actually, in Europe, the law looks at all sides before favouring anyone. I know of about 5 men who have the child more than the mother, because the court found that they would be a better parent than the mother.

akd jr: many Nigerians don't always take time to research and find the genesis of things,tatoo as it fondly called was an inscription on the body of our forefathers who were been sold during slavery for identification by the slave traders..

No, it is not. It was used as that, that is not where it comes from. Maybe you should do some research on your own?

pleep: 20k down to 5k nerve endings is the difference, you can look this up anywhere. Every individual is different, but he probably lasts longer because he does not feel sex as much.

Now of course if a females entire clitoris is off that is a more serious situation, but they usually don't do that. The idea behind male and female circumcison is the same. It is annoying how people are so passionately against female circumcison but find all sorts of reasons to justify male circumcison. I was actually informed on this issue by a dude who doesn't enjoy sex at all because of being cut.

Well, there is a way for men to grow the skin back. A man in USA have patent on the instrument to use.

A woman can`t grow the cl*t back. As far as I know, the most normal with women, is to chop off the cl*t, and the part of the inner labia that is hanging outside.

InvertedHammer:

Yeah yeah yeah

We have heard that before

Lol.

Nice try, though.

apocalypse: Not entirely true , some men get bored with having sex with same woman every time and not because she doesn't give it to him

Still don`t make it okay.
Then you try to fix what you have, you don`t go around.

carefreewannabe: exactly!

I updated as well

biolabee: before u judge why dont u know more of the circumstances
this is quite common in the western world and not unique to nigerians only

To have two wifes..? No, that is not common.

annawhite: you goofed big time,but a true african woman wouldn't want to let go of the husband no matter what!call your wife tell her you are coming home!
. . . .count ur losses,pack ur bags and come home but before leaving,have a heart to heart conversation with the white woman and the reason why you are leaving,no matter how selfish she is,she is still human .

And what about the kids he have with the white woman?
THEY don`t deserve a father?

I do believe the best thing here, since he seem to want to be with the naija wife more than the white, is to divorce the white, go to naija after one year or so and fix NEW marriage papers with the naija wife, and bring her there.
That way, all the kids will still have their father.

Or..stay married to the white wife, and bring his naija-kids to them. That is a possibility as well. It depends on how old they are, and if the naija-wife is willing to do so. The whitw wife will NEVER let him take the kids with him. I know some african women would send the kids to go abroad, f.ex if they are in school age.

He effed up big time here. If it was not for the kids with the white woman, things would be easier.

But..at least he told the white gurl the truth, most african men who get in this situation don`t do that.

The white girl was foolish here as well.