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IrishKez: Jamia abi sexkill you have needlessly and annoyingly turned a troll here ever since you were ignominiously stripped off your position as a moderator by your boss, Seun.
How about keeping silent if you lack meaningful contributions to make in a thread?

[color=#000030]How about you mind your business? [/color]

f rain c: can you pls tell me more on the "if the right steps are taking"

[color=#000030]Good question. You see, love for someone doesn't come overnight. It takes time for me to say I love someone. She must have shown me desirable and admirable qualities about her, to compliment her beauty which first attracted me to her. She must have shown me she is trustworthy enough for me to allow her gain access to my innermost person - my heart. Now, if the love between us dies, because we neglected it, we have to go back to how we fell in love again. That takes time. . . The right steps are those that brought us together in the beginning.[/color]

[color=#000030]You are scared, you lie, you force yourself to do things... And yet society is to blame. When are people gonna start taking responsibility for their own actions? [/color]

Scaredsilent: I used that name for a big reason not because I am scared (I used to be). Thats actually the summary of the being gay in our times.

that's the reason y they say Gay people come out of the closet.

We are scared of hate, scared of the judgement, scared of the society, scared of comments like we are confused and not bright.

we are so scared that we become silent and dumb to society.

it is a terrible place to be. its a dark and unforgiving place.

We lie about our beliefs, we lie about our feelings. we force our selves to marry the opposite sex, we force our selves to do what society thinks is normal.

You should be glad you are straight. Being gay is like being born black in the time of slavery on the white man's land. Cause all you would do is be silent and accept you are below the society standard.

[color=#000030]How then are you happy, if you are forced to basically do everything? You choose to do everything you mentioned. No one pointed a gun to your head. Yet, you blame society. [/color]

GSKing: @bolded means that it would have been painful to me if you had let jamie intimidate you out of your own thread. I love how you stood your ground on the matter, I wanted you to challenge him out of the thread too.

[color=#000030]Intimidating someone who calls himself "scared silent" is considered over-kill by me, Jamie. He's scared already. That's enough for me. [/color]

Oahray: lol. Badbelle. Appreciate efforts to appreciate our female folk. They like stuff like this.

In other news, Messi and his gang are going to send Belgium packing today.

[color=#000030]I appreciate them everywhere I go. In buses, in cars, in banks, I open doors for them, I let them jump the queue and all. Did I wait to read an article from someone who had to sample white and black ladies before reaching a conclusion? No. . . May belgium send messi packing.[/color]

GSKing: yeah buddy you should, always nice to express your feelings every chance you get



Im gay and homophobia isnt my defense, matter of fact, i don't have a 'defence'. Im not confused and definitely don't need to belong anywhere.

[color=#000030]You spoke for yourself. Not the scaredycat that is yet to decide whether to be gay or not, on a day argentina and messi are on the verge of being knocked out like spain. I call that confusion. [/color]

Scaredsilent: Lol felt a bit annoyed with his reference to the world cup on my thread he hasn't really said anything homophobic.

[color=#000030]If I'd wanted this thread ruined, it would have been ruined, trust me. [/color]

Scaredsilent: He might be gay... subconsciously ... They say majority of homophobic people are just repressed homosexuals...

[color=#000030]The only defence gay people spring on your face - Homophobic. But then again, they aren't the brightest people. How someone thinks I'm homophobic simply because I disagree with him and have a different opinion, is mind bogging. But then again, I remember some of them are just confused and desperately in need to belong. [/color]

Scaredsilent: Yeah that y they say you people are Str8.... Str8 forward and know what u want.

Our Lives are more "complicated" and "eventful" ...

[color=#000030]Wonder how someone uses complicated and eventful in the same sentence. . . But really none of my business tho. I pray belgium defeats argentina. [/color]

[color=#000030]I've always been of the opinion that people who claim to be gay are mostly confused people who don't understand themselves. . . But really, that's none of my business. [/color]

[quote author=@farano]All diz cos your gf is fair in complexion? *hiohiohiohiohio*
*tears race* [/quote][color=#000030]My girlfriend is from Anambra, Nigeria. So what's your point again? [/color]

dre11: is this forum for 9ja only

saw an article and decide to share..... after alot of females bashing and stuff, aleast for us to appreciate the african woman and let people see how they are being viewed from the other race

[color=#000030]That you decided to share doesn't change the fact that you needed this article to remind you to appreciate your women. Capisce? [/color]

ERTHAENIGMA: already did that today. Got any more ideas?

[color=#000030]Yeah, go fck yourself. And when you done, stick it in a blender. . . That would be all. [/color]

ERTHAENIGMA: weak troll,very weak. Come on man,give me something better to work with. Try again

[color=#000030]How about you go find somewhere nice and quiet, and play with your dick? [/color]

[color=#000030]The only advice a dumbass can proffer - Become a gay prostitute. You wonder where went his brain cells. But that's none of my business. [/color]

jammyunn: i'm sorry sir, live in your ignorance.

[color=#000030]Be sorry for yourself and your 19 year-old, boy. Be sorry for yourself. [/color]

ERTHAENIGMA: Love is like a flower? *sigh* another hopeless romantic with a guitar

[color=#000030]Aren't you the dumbass that was against IVF? What now do you know about love? Two words for you - Fck off. [/color]

jammyunn: and you can only argue what you know. Learn about these words in your spare time- platonic, date and romance. Enlighten yourself pls

[color=#000030]Run to google as usual. Add wikipedia as well. Dumb younglings like you make my day, everyday. [/color]

jammyunn: i wont insult you cos i now know your reasoning level and your lack of knowlegde of words. You have pride in you so i wont teach...learn yourself.

[color=#000030]You can only teach what you know. [/color]

[color=#000030]The original writer of this article lived in a place where he interacted with white and black women, and was therefore able to compare, contrast, and outline the qualities of a black woman. . . The funny thing now is how a man who has lived all his life in Nigeria, among black women, will still need an article like this to remind him how attractive black women are! How on earth is that even possible??!! But that's actually none of my business. . . . How on earth is spain no longer in the world cup? [/color]

Black Peni5: Confirmed Ibo boy...pliers or even Jaws of Life no fit commot that cash for your hands.

[color=#000030]"The only person that can comot cash for my hand is the person that worked hard to put it in my hand" - 2014. [/color]

[color=#000030]Love, is like a flower. If you don't nourish it, it'll die. It's death is subject to revival if the right steps are taken. [/color]

jammyunn: platonic means 'no sexual intimacy'. Google can always help if you dont know.

[color=#000030]Google trained dumbass. Google should have told you, that you don't use platonic on a girl you are dating. If the relationship is platonic, mo'ron, why are you whining over her text and statements? [/color]

[color=#000030]I'm here wondering why a boy should concern himself with giving money to a girl that has a father or guardians, a girl that can work for her own money. But that's none of my business. Who made this tea? [/color]

[color=#000030]And I'm here wondering how someone can be "dating in a platonic relationship", because either you are dating, or you're in a platonic relationship which has no strings attached. . . But that's none of my business. This tea sweet die.[/color]

[color=#000030]You have a small waist? [/color]

Tolexander: ok o!

Does that mean the mentality has to change or it's just what should be?

[color=#000030]It has to change, but change is gradual. One person at a time. [/color]

Tolexander: you make sense.

I think i'm being affected by my mentality and approach to nairaland thinking everything on the anonymous forum comes and goes with it not considering the fact that the real human beings offline are the same anonymous human beings online.

[color=#000030]You aren't the only one that thinks so. A lot of people on here think the same way too. [/color]

Haryoryhemie: This is d first senseless comment I'm reading on dis post

[color=#000030]I can give you 10 different reasons why it is beyond senseless, and I can back them all up. [/color]

snadguy007: 190....always thinking differently

[color=#000030]He's a fcking hypocrite. Don't let him deceive you. [/color]