jammyunn: i think i have done enough and if she asks for something and i dont, she'd say i dont love her. She's always saying that. I just replied her negatively yesterday for the first time.

Adaeze003:
Oh... Then that's expected. No matter how mature young girls appear, sometimes they can let out the inner baby so don't b harsh, it aint her fault.

Logan's shadow:
Dude,you've been living in denial! : it's called "emotional blackmail".This girl,if you are not careful,will send you to your early grave!.

MizMyColi: 1. Methinks there might be a subtle difference you two are yet to settle or get over and as such no matter the calls and attention you give her, she still feels this distance between you two. You on your part might have gone from calling her for the pure joy of listening to her to simply calling and doing other stuffs to fulfill all righteousness.

2. She might be the kind who loves attention and TLC (Tender Loving Care). It's very possible that the way you are to her now isn't the way you used to be.

3. A woman will give you her all and be fiercely loyal to you if you give her, her preferred security and I suspect that in your girl's case, she needs emotional security. It may take sacrifice and compromise on your part but I can assure you, if she's good and trustworthy, she'll make you the happiest man alive


Errmmm.....make I press pause for here. *my food must not burn*

king_bella:

I am replying, not as a woman but as an objective onlooker. The reply you sent her shows a lot about your character and about the nature of your relationship. An emotionally mature man who has high regards for a woman will NEVER tell hee that "football is more important than her". For her to ask that question in the first place, your actiona muah have shown her that she dosent occupy an important position to you. Her asking was her insecurities creeping in, your replies further proved her instinct right. You inadvertently hurt her much more than you can inagine. My advice, if she does mean something to you, try and show it by little things. Dont be selfish and try and make a little more sacrifice.




On a second thought she may just be jokin/seeking for you attention and then she got more than she bargained for.

190: crazy a.s.s beeches always thinking they can control everything


send her a text back that yes the football is more important if she wan pack her load make she pack

Enahi: You are wicked and heartless. She has a right to express how she feels to her man,nitwit.

ERTHAENIGMA:
loads of rubbish!
1)if he doesn't call,wahala.
He calls and you still question his motives for calling! Is there anything we can do to keep you happy?
2)The only TLC i know is the female pop/soul group whose hit single 'waterfalls' was making waves in the 90's
3)emotional security
financial security
material security
bikonu,we men,we resemble sss agents for your eye. Any woman who is b.itching about being insecure because her man is thinking about how brazil is going to perform without neymar and thiago silva doesn't deserve the guy

ERTHAENIGMA:
loads of rubbish!
1)if he doesn't call,wahala.
He calls and you still question his motives for calling! Is there anything we can do to keep you happy?
2)The only TLC i know is the female pop/soul group whose hit single 'waterfalls' was making waves in the 90's
3)emotional security
financial security
material security
bikonu,we men,we resemble sss agents for your eye. Any woman who is b.itching about being insecure because her man is thinking about how brazil is going to perform without neymar and thiago silva doesn't deserve the guy

One Question - How does your write up help the original poster? Oh, one other thing - How old are you?

Enahi: See you better respect yourself.

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And I'm here wondering how someone can be "dating in a platonic relationship", because either you are dating, or you're in a platonic relationship which has no strings attached. . . But that's none of my business. This tea sweet die.[/color]

ERTHAENIGMA:
i pity your boyfriend

ERTHAENIGMA:
are you the lady in question? This one wey you just dey vex

MizMyColi: One Question - How does your write up help the original poster? Oh, one other thing - How old are you?

Enahi: I repeat respect yourself or else you won't like the insults you might receive from me.

okpara ugo: If that is enough to get you annoyed with her, then grow up...

I was expecting to see the insults she threw at you.

Mods, next !

jammyunn: platonic means 'no sexual intimacy'. Google can always help if you dont know.

ERTHAENIGMA:
well,i've already giving the Op my candid advice. Dump the girl. She might be 19 but she's not yet matured enough to start dating.
And you want to play the 'age' game shey? My dear, a wise rapper once said
'they count their age,i count my money,let their age take them to the cementary'. Continue asking for my age,and i'll continue to hustle for my money. Mtcheew

LoL....You've just proved my suspicions right.

Enahi: Nope am not the lady in question,but a friend is going through something similar because of football. Guys can be really annoying at times.

MizMyColi: LoL....You've just proved my suspicions right.

ERTHAENIGMA:
world cup comes once in 4yrs. Ladies too should be considerate. I can bet my last kobo that she had no tangible reason to call him at that time. Maybe he used to call her 4times a day but since world cup started it reduced to 2.

Enahi: I don't need your explanations,no man should try that with me. Its either we watch it together or there will be trouble.

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Google trained dumbass. Google should have told you, that you don't use platonic on a girl you are dating. If the relationship is platonic, mo'ron, why are you whining over her text and statements? [/color]

jammyunn: i wont insult you cos i now know your reasoning level and your lack of knowlegde of words. You have pride in you so i wont teach...learn yourself.

Enahi: You are wicked and heartless. She has a right to express how she feels to her man,nitwit.

Like someone already said, WE PITY YOUR BOYFRIEND

Grey hair go don full him head smh

jammyunn: guys, she just called to apologize. I've forgiven her. Hope she stops saying that cos i dont disturb her from doing her pasttime.

Thank you jare - Told you she would

And here's enahi complaining because she hasnt seen her boyfriend for 3weeks since the world cup started

the poor guy don run

ERTHAENIGMA:
word of advice. When watching try as much as possible not to utter a single word. The only voice we want to hear is that of the commentator. And if he is supporting argentina,you should also support argentina. Any konji wey go make you support the opposite team should be rebuked and sent back to the sender

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You can only teach what you know. [/color]