TsbAfrica:
well i see where you re coming from, despite the fact that you have no evidence for your beliefs, you have no room to accommodate other points of views which is fine... It's kind of like the ostrich that buries its head in the sand. You can keep clutching onto whatever you believe, it make no difference to me. But just know there is NO evidence for whatever you believe. It's all man-made

I know you're already triggered by my last response but I'll like you to first and foremost reason this thing from a logical standpoint:

If the bible says God created the universe , wouldn't that make more sense than assuming the whole of existence happened by chance and mistake?

kyber:


You lie I was once a broke guy who churned out girls anyhow


3k is a chicken change bro, a broke man who wants sex will get this money and have sex an olosho, not everyone makes 100k a month but you can’t tell me not everyone can afford 3k


That’s why broke men sex them why the rich men cater for their bills

1. Lie: no girl will willingly date or sleep with a broke guy who can't provide value to her in one way or the other .


2. 3k is a lot of money to pay for sex and most so called " broke " guys can't afford to be that luxurious when it comes paying that amount for 5 minutes of pleasure.


3. Which is easily replaceable by a woman: her broke boyfriend or her rich sugar daddy. I know you know the answer already

Summary :

Broken men don't have easy access to sex because of their financial status...rich dudes will always give a woman the best of both world : sex and financial security.

TsbAfrica:
centuries ago ? What do you know about centuries ago beyond what you read or were told by someone ? You need to understand that your opinions are not yours you just picked them up along the way in your life ... You are a program like a computer program. Do you know the type of technology that existed before our version of civilization ? Do you think modern men are the first to go to space ? Don't limit your mind to what you think you know ... Knowledge is independent of the knowing.

You're contradicting yourself because the knowledge and assumptions you have about a heaven and hell not existing come from a finite source of information that doesn't even know up to 1% of the knowledge in the universe. Which brings me to my second question:

Since it's safe to assume that your source of information doesn't have up 1% of the knowledge in the universe, won't it be fair to conclude that you're just guessing and joking with 99% of the unknown?

TsbAfrica:
ok let's be factual here, is there any evidence of heaven or hell ? NONE there is none there won't be a time that it will be discovered becasue it only exist in the human imagination, no where else... It is imagined as a reward for those who agree to submit to control and hell is punishment too ... What do you have that makes you sure there is a heaven ... I am open to learn

A century ago, thoughts of having a man fly through space would have been consider ludicrous but today it's different. So what does that tell you?

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tonytony208:


And you think the man isn't also marrying the woman for his selfish interests?
Everyone is selfish, both men and women.

False . Men don't marry for selfish reasons which is why you'll see a guy marrying a girl who doesn't even have a dine to her name .

Summary :

Men truly love women ...but women only love men base on what they can offer to them.

kyber:


1.broke men date more than one girl too lol
You ought to have seen that everywhere

2.they pay for it Buh it’s still cheap

3.even the reach pay for self indirectly
Cause they will still need to pay for transport, but her data and few others.


Basically all men pay for sex
Directly or indirectly.

1. False : broke men don't even have a chick, talk more of having more than one chick .

2. Oloshos dont collect 1k . They collect over 3k just to do short time . The last time I checked , 3k for sex can only be afforded by guys making over 100k monthly.


3. Rich have the resources to manage any girl out there , but they poor men dont have that luxury

TsbAfrica:
your point is exactly my point we only know what we know .... Every other thing is just guessing... As far as I know there is NO evidence for an afterlife and NO evidence for heaven or hell ... It's silly to even believe these things. Doesn't it surprise you that all NDE are very different ? Everyone sees different things in heaven forgetting that the idea of sight is. Bound to the physical... The brain is enclosed in total darkness. The eyes convert light into electric signals that the brain then interprets... Not the soul , not the spirit, not even the mind... The brain!!! Which ultimately will die along with the body ...

...so just because heaven and hell have not be discovered means they dont exist right ?


Please tell me if that's your way of coming to conclusions

tonytony208:


You claimed that women are only after their selfish interest in marriage, but also proved by your responses that men too are after their selfish interests in marriage.

I'm not agreeing with you; you are only using your own words to counter yourself.

You're not making any sense even after explaning this to you in simple terms .

But for the record , all women go into marriage , just get a man for the opportunities that that man can provide in the present or the future.

A man on the other hand , only goes into marriage with the intention to love, provide , protect and care for his wife and offspring .

These are two different things reaosns , which makes your argument pointless

kyber:


Then tell me why a man get to sleep with multiple women as he likes?

And who told you ugly men don’t get laid?
They lay with them fellow ugly women

Sex is cheap for broke men who know how to bring in their A game, with 1k you can bench an olosho, and lots of ugly men do it everytime , 1k in this present era is small change. That’s how cheap sex is

1.I told you earlier that women are only attracted to men based on the fact that they provide value , which is why any man with a financial status, will have more than one girl .


2. Ugly men get laid , but at a price : either they pay for it or they rape for it ; but it's not given for free

3. Men pay for sex , which is why I said earlier , that sex between a man and a woman is a transactional arrangement. The olosho collecting 1k is doing a transaction for her services. Simple

TsbAfrica:
There is nothing like heaven ... We are energy and energy can't be destroyed we might just transmute into something else. But that silly idea that there is a place with pearly gates and white angels singing is a load of cow dung. I know there is a creator but I also know all religions are man made tools of control.

How much of the universe do you know to say there's nothing like heaven ?

tonytony208:


You are about in a circle.

Women have preference, Yes

But you just declared that it is right for men to have preference
In fact, a man without preference in marriage is an unserious man.

So you finally agree to what I saying right ? Good

kyber:


Men get sex easier cause they have sex with multiple partners.
Why do you think women labeled men the cheats ?

That's false . Women have access to sex more than men . You can be an ugly woman and still get laid , but that's no so with a man . Secondly, male infidelity or cheating is just the same as in women . The statistics of divorces cases show that women are more likely to leave the marriage more often than men

tonytony208:


Good. I like your choice of word "preference".

You applaud a man for having preference but condemn a woman for having preference.

Isn't that double standard?

Women are the ones having the double standard.

Infact , women have always had preferences...which is why when you go on Tinder , you'll see profile of girls saying " I'm a woman of 29 looking for a God-fearing man to look after my 4 boys.He must also be 6 feet , making 6 figures and having 6packs ".

But men don't have such profiles because society considers such preferences as shaming to women

Oga, just tell the others the truth and move on with the one you care for . Yes , it might sound harsh , but it's the only logical move to make . Any other suggestion would be deception leading to things you're probably not ready for ...

tonytony208:


Such a man is doing it for his selfish interest, not necessarily love. He only wants a woman's he can control.



If your relationship is based on sex, your marriage will not last. The two of you will grow tired of sex over time and nothing will keep you together again.

Why do you tag it as control? Why must you shame a man for having preference...? Secondly, love for a woman is transactional ; and it is based on "give me this and I give you access to sex ".

Bluezy13:


Near Death Experience is not Death Experience.

He almost did it means different thing from he did it.

Oga , you're confused and being silly . Near Death experiences are very similar to actual cases of death . Read up on the subject and stop displaying ignorance with semantics

kyber:


You are wrong bro

Broke men have sex every single time
Our youths are made up of yahoo boys who have accessories and little cash to entice women so that 1% is a little too small.

You can’t tell me 99% of women have sex with the high and might in the society lol, most women don’t even get the chance to meet rich dudes cause they surrounded by broke dudes

Oga, this is simple maths na ...and who said anything about the high-and-mighty ...?

Those from the elite group are just than 0.001% of the world's male population , and they still get laid for peanuts . But what I'm pointing at is that less than 90% of men don't have access to sex like you think . Some even have to buy sex through hookers.

Even the Yahoo boys you mentioned are making more money than the average man out there . This is a fact.


Let me ask you another question: who gets sex easier men or women?

Deborah Samuel was a fine example . Even one igbo man who was killed in Kano over debt that owned to him under the umbrella of "Blasphemy ".

What do you mean by "scientists have no answer to this "?

Baba, go and read books on NDE (Near Death Experience) and see .

Baba, there's life after this existence , and in fact, most religions talk about it

kyber:


Then we should have one man sleeping with over 10 girls in a month continuously but I don’t see that happening!

So where are the other percentage of women that are hardened Christians,ones that haven’t known man?

1% Of the men can’t satisfy the surging desires of 99% women

Oga, you still don't understand:


Most men(90%) out there are invisible and are just living a loveless life that's devoid of sex . This is because women generally have high standards, they won't to give sex to broke men who can't meet their financial interests.

But the 1% of men with the financial resources have access to unlimited sex .


For example, how many dudes do you know that make over a 100k a month ? That number should be less than 1% ...now extend that over a larger populace and you'll see that just only 1% of men are actually getting laid

kyber:


So you telling me we have 99% women and 1% men?

I'm saying that 99% of the women are chasing and sleeping with 1% of the men who have the financial resources

kyber:


Do the women have sex with themselves?

Women have sex with the 1% of men . So what does that mean ? It means that women are competing with each other for the same dick

Men are wired for sex ...and secondly, it's rare to see men get laid these days because the women are the one enjoying the bulk of the sex

What about the scenarios where the woman constantly disrespects the man and provides nothing but trauma and anxiety? Whose fault will that be ? The man or the woman ...?

Or how about women who are married yet keep behaving like their single to get male attention? Whose fault is that....its the man's abi?

jikins:


I am not surprised you don't understand your post recked of inferiority complex. And who or what am I ass licking. Because you have mentioned it twice. Lemme see if you even understand what that phrase means.

A prevalent problem that there is no free resource or there is no mentor that will hold your hand? Dey play, nor go hustle

Its Monday and it's too early to be stupid. But continue sha...ass-licking is a fulltime job in this section

jikins:


Who ever you are referring to doesn't make a dumb statement packed with inferior complex any less so. Sorry it hurt but I call a spade a spade when I see one. Grow my guy, you are definitely better than this.

Inferiority complex as how ? Oga, I didn't come here asking for tutorial lessons or stooping to this ass-licking level you're into . In fact, I don't fvcking need anything from these jobless wanna-be "tech gurus" on NL .

All I came here to do is point out a prevalent problem that's quite common to young Nigerians wanting to break into the industry . Simple

Nothing will happy in lawless Sokoto.

Swap with note 8 and cash ?

I love Putin

tonytony208:


At least, you agree that not all women are just after money.

Even a reasonable man will only date a woman that has something other than pussy to offer. It goes both ways.

It doesn't go both ways. For example, a man can be working for Exxon Mobil yet choose to date a girl who's illiterate and working for Calabar kitchen but this isn't so with women. A woman is an opportunistic lover , who will only dates above her status and level .


Secondly, all men really want from women is just sex ...in fact, 90% of most relationships are based on sex , which is why women have absolutely nothing to offer other than the keys to sex

jikins:


My God! I am not one to throw insults but this has to be one of the dumbest takes I have seen in a while. YouTube was made in the US. Why aren't you asking where is the UK developer's version, or where is the Norwegian version.

But just because of your own inferiority complex the only thing your head can process is it belongs to a white man. So the Nigerians that post free resources on YouTube are of no significance. Heck I am very sure you don't subscribe to a single Nigerian channel.

I am pretty sure your source of frustration is that you thought tech will be a cake work. That you don't have to do any work, you will just find some unfortunate Nigerian to spoon feed you what took them years to pick up.

Oga go hustle, I repeat go hustle, programming isn't for the weak. There are so many free resources online that you have no right to be giving this excuse in 2023. If it was back in the early 2000s I will understand but not now. Many people have spent countless hours and energy creating free resources for someone like you to use for free. Instead of finding them and actually using them. You are here crying about mentors when you have already made resources that will definitely get you started faster and better than any mentor will.

Hold yourself accountable bruv. Nobody owes you anything. Most devs here struggled to get to where they are and they used these resources they are mentioning for you to get there. A smart person will instead be asking questions like

Which YouTube channel will you recommend?

What other free resource can I use to get started apart from YouTube.

Or hey I struggle to understand so and so concept. Can you put me through or recommend a good resource on it?

But no na mentorship be your problem not actually doing the work. Sit down and hustle nobody will do it for you.

I wasn't referring to you . So learn to mind your business and stop being stupid for the wrong reasons. It's hard enough dealing with every ass-licking fool on this thread .Smh