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decatalyst:
Sit him down.

Ask him about what really interests him.

That crucial conversation will be a pointer to what is needed to be done for or concerning him.

We have sat him down a thousand times bro. Almost everything he's attempted was either suggest by him, the rest was an option he picked too

Hello peeps!
My younger brother is the laziest being I've ever seen in my entire life. He's not a kid though, he'll soon be 25 but he's dead lazy.
Since he finished secondary school six years ago, he has absolutely nothing doing at the moment.

There's no funds to send him to higher institution especially when he cannot even contribute anything financially to the course.

He collects money from my mom at every chance he gets because me and my elder brother have stopped giving him money.

For the past six years, we have tried to get him learn a skills, businesses and trades but he always run back home or bluntly refuse the offer
He went to serve one man that sells mattress, the man is an authorized dealer for two companies, this man promised to settle him well like he has settled many guys from our place, but my brother came back saying there's no gain in the business. Mind u the man and all the guys he settled are all doing well.

Another apprentice deal was with one billionaire from my village. The man is based in Lagos, an importer and exporter. The man too have settled many people from our village too and all his boys are doing well. But my brother came back saying that the manager sends him and other two guys (latest intakes) to the warehouse while the manager and the rest stays in the outlet shops where there are ACs. Without even telling his master he ran back home from Lagos.

We sent he to learn plastic business, it would take 6 months or less we promised to gave him some funds for startup but oga said no.

He's been to countless other apprenticeships but he always came back home moving from one "brother's" house to another. Sleeping and snoring from morning to night. And he can finish food meant for ten people all alone.

I'm planning on driving him out of my house cos I've tried my best for him.

Obierika:
So your plan was to sleep with two sisters abi?

I no bleep anybody Oga

Nicepoker:
initially you thought your ex had moved out. Now you are saying she traveled. Keep twisting the narrative.

Yes I once asked after her and the sister told me she was not in town. It's been a while so I actually thought my ex had packed out not knowing it was just travel. Now she's back and I didn't know

tetralogyfallot:
Omo u get confidence o. Going to the same house to see the sister is the most courageous and confident thing I've heard this year. Naso your konji level rise? Aswear d 2 sisters go laff unto your matter immediately you left.

Me dey laff myself right before them shaa. They don't even know why I was laffn buy I was just laffn my foolishness out.
My ex wasn't in town shaa. She traveled and my mind never told me she's around now. Na so the matter take sub.

Bigseven:
from the accident so, na there you suppose stop after realizing that they are siblings. Anyways the did has been done. Just continue but karma Dey wait for you when you ready to do the right thing

My ex no dey vex oo. She shaa understands why we broke up

Bigseven:
No naa!
Why go date your ex sister even after you know she’s her sis ? Your mater fit be village pepu wahala oo

We met by accident oo. But then I told her that I was dating her sister and she was cool with it.

duduade:
You and your brain sprinkled with sawdust


You even open your 👄 like waa and typed my babe

Embarrassment keep you der

Insults are welcomed
Me shaa know say I f up

LUAN:
You didn't quarrel with her na, it was va genotype issue so don't feel embarrassed. Just see it as a Bleep.up for going to meet her sister so that you won't hurt yourself by thinking so much.

Abi oo.
Thanks man

MidasTouch15:
So u knew it was her sister and u stil went ahead to date her. Shame on u

Boss is it that bad?? God save me oo
My only grace now is the genotype cos I knew I would have still been here to see the other girl too cos o thought my ex had traveled.
I just dey use my hand to complicate my life aswear.
God save me

Today is the most embarrassing day of my life.
I dated a lady last year. I loved her but then our genotype didn't match so I moved on. I met her sister later on on FB, we got talking and I somehow told her I was dating her sister. Maybe she didn't tell her sister (my ex) about this.
So today the current girl asked me to visit her, I thought my ex had moved out, so to my greatest surprise, I went into their house to meet my ex and her sister. Make ex actually thought I came to see her while my babe knows why I'm in.
I feel so embarrassed seeing a girl and her sister all looking at me like I'm a fvcker. Omo, this embarrassment is too much for me to handle.
I'm going celibate henceforth!

crossbreedwears:
Are you saying Abuja residents are better off than people residing in other states? Does it mean a begger is better off than a Professor in UNN? Use your head oga

So why are they not allowed to have elect their own governor?? The president is the one overseeing whatever that is happening in Abuja. So, tell me if anyone that didn't get 25% of valid vote cast be the governor of any state

nairalanda1:
Racoon, make we reason am. Suppose Peter Obi won 25% in all the states , but only got 5% in Abuja, does that mean that Obi cannot be President of Nigeria?

Abuja ruling was always going to be problematic. If we took Obi and Atiku's .argument, we would have ended up with a situation where the votes of the FCT were more than votes of everyone else.

Everything else was fightable...not the FCT one.

Abuja people are given preferential treatment because the president also doubles as the "governor" of Abuja. If Abuja is considered the same as other states then they should be allowed to elect their own governor, generate and use their IGR, have their own allocation.

Humans! Pathetic!

Yugoslavia247:
Or maybe she has no feelings agakn

She has. Apart from turning down the cash gift, she doesn't ask for airtime and she calls everyday. I recharge for her whenever I think she might need it

deewhydoski:
Bro don't let anybody put sand in your garri for here. Don't let that babe slip from your finger. Still try to study her more. Her type is rare.
You can use the money to buy her gift that u know she loves.

Ok
Thanks man.

Ballzproblem2:
you cashed out today , you know reason your mama , you know remember your siblings or the less needy na babe enter your mind ,many of y'all don't deserve money

I sent my mom money last weekend. It's barely 3 days. Besides, my mom is doing well for herself

Reminderz:
when have you given any of your guy's money to solve their problems? you don't have family you can share your "excess" cash with other than someone you call girlfriend? truly, na man dey do man...

in case you don't know, she's playing the long game with you, when she's about to ask you, na your life savings she go ask and she will convince you that it's for a profitable investment..... and you'll give it to her... sorry oo, father of an orphan...

I give to my people Oga. Free that talk

JOACHINpedro:
Wtf!
That's what you guys do in relationships?
Playing father's role

U don't get it. I just told her that it's not everytime that I have money to give out. And she's saying no problem.

PoliteActivist:
An obvious FORMAT!

U think so??
I don't really think so cos I told her that when she may ask , I may not have it; That I don't have money every time. And she said if I don't have it when she ask, she will wait till when I will have

I saw wonders today. I had a good day at work and I cashed out well So I decided to visit my girl after work, offered her some money and she said NO. Not that it was small cos she didn't even know how much I was giving her. She just said no that she has nothing serious to do with cash at the moment and the money I gave her las week have not finished 😳😳
I was shocked, couldn't believe what I heard; a Nigerian lady turning down money??
At long last, she didn't collect it oo. She said whenever she has something serious that she needs my help she will then come and collect it.
Brethren, good girls still exist.