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Quinn12:
Actually this is my first time posting here...I want you guys to help me..........am in a federal school...In my second year....and in school am very popular....I go to parties all the time...and I organise most of the happening parties in school....am not a born again Christian....my 1st year in school...I never attended church....am not the faithful type of girl, but I actually met this guy in the bank....I fell in love immediately....stalk the guy for a whole week...later finding out he is a student pastor for my campus church.... I was kinda disappointed actually....but even with that I can't stop thinking about him....I had to attend church to just see him....that was the 1st time I attended church in 5yrs....seeing him on Sunday wasn't enough started attending mid-week service.....my cliques were kinda surprised....and I was talked about......am not a good writer,don't mind my punctuation nd the way I write .....and in the church there are rules for student pastor....He can't have SEX and a relationship......Please advise me.....I can't stop thinking about us been together....I told a fRd....she advised me to stop thinking cause it won't be possible...cause of our different personality.....she said I must be a real born again and a choristers before he can think of having feelingso for me ...and am not ready to be a born again yet....have not told I'm anything yet.....I had to miss FELABRATION last week Friday to go to his vigil........Please tell me what to do!!!

Bad girl u dnt love him u lusting afta are d guy dick waiting for him to service ur punany abeg free d guy and go look for ur type or beta still repent and become born again u have got to choose one.u cant always eat ur cake and have it.story for the gods!!!

Story for the gods!!!

real22:
for you its too much but some other ppl can afford it.

u are still a child still l guess u still live under ur parents roof so u can quote any figure u wish to please face ur studies for nw u are nt yet ripe for marriage nor understand d principles of marriage.

saponification:
@emiye.Good!now u r soundin fair.she is doin evry tin possible to get a job.buys guardian tues @ times,checks hotnigerian job.infact u can imagine Msc holder sayin she is ready to take up ajob of 30k if she sees one.just dat she is limited to her state of residence cos of her kids.so even when she sees vacancies in places like lagos,abuja,PH,etc she still can't apply cos of relocation

Somepple were askin if her hubby has papers abroad there n if he has a steady job.of course he does.he's been there for more than 4 yrs.d end point is dat d hubby can do more than that if he so wishes but for reasons best known to him,does not want.like I told my friend.she've got no option than to try as much as possible to make do wit d 50k for now.she is not even demandin for increament monthly but for some months when expenses r high like last month she had to pay 5300 for soakaway

madam advise ur friend to take up a teaching job for now pending when she get a better job abeg atleast with that she can be able to support her family shikena.

saponification:
@emiye.Good!now u r soundin fair.she is doin evry tin possible to get a job.buys guardian tues @ times,checks hotnigerian job.infact u can imagine Msc holder sayin she is ready to take up ajob of 30k if she sees one.just dat she is limited to her state of residence cos of her kids.so even when she sees vacancies in places like lagos,abuja,PH,etc she still can't apply cos of relocation

Somepple were askin if her hubby has papers abroad there n if he has a steady job.of course he does.he's been there for more than 4 yrs.d end point is dat d hubby can do more than that if he so wishes but for reasons best known to him,does not want.like I told my friend.she've got no option than to try as much as possible to make do wit d 50k for now.she is not even demandin for increament monthly but for some months when expenses r high like last month she had to pay 5300 for soakaway

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Honestly I won't advice u to keep dat pregnancy it better u dnt give birth to a child that will make ur life miserable though it hard to say dis bt pls get rid of that pregnancy and face ur studies nw bro.

Chai dat girl is way smatter than you use ur head bro ur woman jst want to rope u in wit pregnancy face ur studies for now dat is more important than anytin dat d best advice I can give u.

FynBabe:
You are the same as Fxwarrior. The same person with two different monikers talking thrash.

fyne babe on a serious note our ministry is realy moving make I withold my bride price or move ahead am waiting for ur response oh!

FynBabe:
Some people asked you to come up with a list as to how a mother of two would manage 50k a month, you told them @ your convenience. You don't have time to draw up a list but you have been online talking thrash since morning. Come up with that list, we are waiting!

on a serious note hw do u expect him to come up with a list when he neither live wit the family or have a list of what the family wants abeg use head nah,no be make he dey on top ur neck alone atleast let it say sometin reasonable somtimes.

FynBabe:
Why are you still qouting me? You said I should quote you and I did, shame don catch you abi? All the females in your poverty stricken family are as unintelligent as you are.

chai see d woman way I won go pay her bride price nextweek nah she dey swear person head jezz he be like say I go retrace ma step wait make I consult ma oracles I dey come!

FynBabe:
You forget? Na you I borrow na! Mtchew!

Fyne babe or wat is dat ur name self when u ready for marriage let me knw,I dnt discuss wit kids who still collect pocket money fr dad and mum and still lives under they parents roof because when am taking abt economics here they will be tinking of how to request for pocket money fr mum and dad do u expect ur types to understand wat it takes to manage 50k monthly no nah.so let me knw wen u are out of dat home or u are married then we can talk beta biko nne.I rest ma case.

FynBabe:
Who is this one? Who told you I'm still single?btw, I can't remember addressing you in any of my posts. I'm sure you missed your way, check the next route.

Are sure u are married or nah borrow marriage u do cos u dnt sound like one dear!

FynBabe:
You are the dumbest man ever! Na only you sabi calculate? Didn't you say somewhere that she should buy 200 naira fish and cook it? Are we not discussing monthly expenses? Or maybe you think I have a very short memory like you. Pleasse, don't quote me again. We obviously don't reason alike. My very first post you quoted was not even directed @ you, you took over it because you feel you are the only man who knows the prices of all food items in the market. Stay in your lane, biko.

stop ranting and listen to the words of wisdom it will be of great benefit to u when u get married so u can be able to manage ur family financially and orda wise!

FynBabe:
You are the dumbest man ever! Na only you sabi calculate? Didn't you say somewhere that she should buy 200 naira fish and cook it? Are we not discussing monthly expenses? Or maybe you think I have a very short memory like you. Pleasse, don't quote me again. We obviously don't reason alike. My very first post you quoted was not even directed @ you, you took over it because you feel you are the only man who knows the prices of all food items in the market. Stay in your lane, biko.

I doubt ur type can manage 20k for just a week.

She can even use her car as a source of income,here in lagos I have seen women at night who use dey personal car as taxi jst to make some change for the family,success and wealth is all about ideas if a woman can drike keke napep to make a living, why can't she use her car to make money abeg no time husslin tings dat the way nw!

Sophyrocks:
Stingy men on the loose in this thread. Tufiakwa!!! Man wey dey write down list to calculate costs everytime, fear that man o!! Na poverty mindset dey worry am.

shut up ur type still collect money fr boyfriend u beta go hussle!

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annawhite:
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Marine spirit no dey waste time for poor peeps

Are u one of dem cos u sound like one stop pretending!

Mariopgomery:
Wtf is wrong with folks on nairaland sef .. How is she too old 4 the guy? If you love this guy and he loves you too and u think he is ready for marriage go for it. Dont miss out on love because of what ignorant people think.

shut the Bleep up and say somtin reasonable.

LaRoyalHighness:
I don't care how you spend your salary... My own is to pay you monthly, you can save your salary and send yourself to a 'big school'. Its your choice.

I pity your househelp should incase u have one.

LaRoyalHighness:
Its not enough abeg.... Hmm... If the guy can't afford it ... Na management levels... But if he can.... Abeg abeg abeg abeg .... Let him bring sensible money for upkeep... Those children didn't come to suffer and its the parents responsibility to give them the best ..

while we are at that, she should get a job .. Business or something.. That is if she hasn't one already.



...and no more kids till her husband understands that 50 k ain't enough.

madam I guess 50k is what the hubby can afford for nw the woman should learn to manage and if dat is not enof then she should get somtin doing haba some woman just dnt want to stress they skin at all..

zappyj:
It's not enough...even as a bachelor it's not enough how much more a married lady with two kids..kilode??

My guy u mean 50k is not enof u sound like somene that still collect pocket money from mum and dad.

zappyj:
It's not enough...even as a bachelor it's not enough how much more a married lady with two kids..kilode??

My guy u mean 50k is not enof u sound like somene that still collect pocket from mum and dad.

Fxwarrior:

Bros see o. Us wey dey help yab men wey dey slack to provide for their ladies.
Now see man wey dey hustle dey send something meaningful for the wife only for her to dey fall our hand. Maka Y?

nwane the woman abi oyin igbo odikwa or umuwanyi ofemani(yoruba) maka oyin igbo aga try dis nonsense pity my igbo nwanne but u understand my message right!

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Some woman are just damm lazy,the lady in question should be grateful that her husband remembered her to the extent of sending her some money,wat about some clueless husband once they step out of the country that the end for the wife. To me dat lady is lazy she is the type dat sit at home all day watching africa magic,etc, if she can't manage 50k tell me is it when the man increase the money to 100k hence that when she can manage abeg if hunger wire her she go no say 50k nah person monthly salary!

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rammyluv:
Hi.
I am 32 and in luv with a 25 year old guy. Altho, I hve someone who works abroad to marry but hve not set ma eyes on him xcept his pics(matchmaking). He said he wld be home dis dec. I hve known him for a year plus now. Communication is vital in every reltionship, ther4 he calls once a week at most twice, claims he is always busy. And I complained to him dat his communication is poor. I used to be d one to call sometimes and I stopped so it won't seem asif m desperate.I now wonder if I get married to him, is dis what I will face cos he said I wld be in nija till he gets his papers which wld be in 3 - 5 yrs time or God knows wen. Now, I recently met a 25 year old guy and he shows me all wht I need in a man(name it ) and I m now so in LOVE with this guy and this guy too is not in d same state wt me but we do see and he proposed marriage to me.mehn! I am madly in luv with this guy. Right now I am confused. First, m older dan this guy or else I won't giv his propsal a second thot. Second, do u think I shuld marry abroad guy.
Pls I need candid and mature advises. No insults pls but feel free to air ur views
Thanks landers!

u need cane u dis old woman live dat small boy alone nah nw u dey find love wen u don dey reach menopause!

ibedun:
The Nigerian constitution you fatties like to refer to as the reason why you must claim Lagos is the same constitution that says that a citizen can only claim the state and local government of his father. For example, if okonkwo was born in umunya in anambra, and moved to Lagos in 1962 as a porter in the Nigerian railway commission, and he brought his village wife and families to festac town to live, and they settled down there. If their son, emeka grew up and married another wench and settled down to give birth to okafor, by the law of the land, they are all from anambra. Umunya to be specific.

If okonkwo had a daughter called ngozi who decided to marry Ibrahim from kano but residing in Lagos, then ngozi has right to claim both kano and anambra but not Lagos.

That is the law, my dear Igbos.

Stop repeating urself oga am a lagosians by birth get that into ur head.

CaptainOjemba:
Lol Mbaka Enugu East? Mbaka is from Ituku in Awgu LGA, we the people of greater awgu has 3 LGA, as against 2 LGA that Chime will win, Ekweremadu may not get the ticket under Pdp but once he defects to another party he will definitely flaw chime. We give bloc vote to whomever we chose, we did it for Gbazuagu Nweke Gbazuagu and we shall repeat it again.

seconded from ur aninri broda. Nwanne kedu!

You guys are still yanwing thrash as for me am fr the east but I was born in lagos,so automatically I am an indigene of lagos state by birth and my birth certificate states that also confirmeD and stamped by surulere local govermemt.

All I need is the format who can assist me.