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quest003:
@chival, abeg ignore them. And the hypocrite was here showing sympathy when a similar scenario that started as a threat played out and here she is spewing some bullshit. Whats special about your mention? Is it used to collect money at the counter. Mtcheew!!

What is this one saying?anither yaba left candidate trying to seek attention!

realdee44:
Haba guy I have not said anything that warrant you calling me a bitch nah.

U re getting old gradually old u beta get married cos u are almost close to menopause jst a piece of advice.

Phema:
It's generally inexpensive. Bride price in my villa is 10k for non indigens. You will also be given a list of some items to buy; tubers of yam, gallons of palm wine, kola nut, crates of beer etc. 100k should be enough for everything. This excludes the money for entertainment though.

HML in advance. Welcome to my hood!

Ok for instance my girls parents are all based in lagos,does dat entail dat if we want to prepare for the traditional wedding it will be held here in lagos or we would have to return back to their village to hold the traditional wedding?am still confused here on this cos she was saying it can still be done here in lagos I mean the traditional wedding since her folks are and family are all based in lag.

chival:
I neither have the time nor the inclination to descend to your level. Have a blast down there!

Big fool am too big for u so u dare not thread words with me cos am nt ur class neither ur category going forward pls stop derailing this thread cos to me it seems u being a nuisance here as I said go hug the transformer!least I forget were u able to find one?

brushstrokes:
At the risk of coming across as obnoxious, I will like to appeal to a group of people known as toasters, males and females inclusive.
Let's get this ball rolling.....
You've met someone you're attracted to, exchanged contacts and now you're following up on your pursuit of happiness. Nothing bad here, it's a process that have yielded beautiful unions. However, the wooing could take a wrong turn when either knowingly or unknowingly insensitivity creeps in, mostly in the form of placing calls.

Please moderate the number of times you call. Calling 12 times a day with some SMS in between does not in any way come across as being cool!One is in the office with unrealistic deadlines staring at you with big pleading eyes and someone is ringing you inconsistently! What is it you have to say that can't wait till after office hours There's instant messaging if you really need to make contact.

Now one is home after a long day and willing to talk. Then the call refused to end, 20 minutes and counting. Meanwhile the essence of the conversation ended 10 minutes ago. It does not help that the current brands of smartphones heat up with slight provocation. So here you are with tired eyes, weary bones beckoning for sleep and a ear acting as a heat conductor to your hot phone listening to an unending chatter. You are not being refreshing Mr/Ms toaster, you are adding to the stress of the day.

The one that ticks me off most, that makes steam pour out of the pores of my skin is calling very early in the morning during weekends and public holiday!
Let me be blunt here, that sh.it ain't dope!. If it's not an emergency, don't do that! Emergency only entails someone dying or someone has died. Why do you want to talk about around 5am on a Saturday morning? Wtf! It's an aberration, violation of my right as a person who deserves at least 8 hours of sleep on a weekend
Please there's nothing romantic about doing this, it's not a grand gesture, it's not loving. It's core insensitivity.

The caveat however is that some ladies may like all of the gestures above, please it's your job to identify such and act accordingly.
As for me, it crosses the line of being loving to being a disturbance. Give a girl some space to have time for other things (her family, friends, hobbies, sleep ) and also to miss you. Thank you!

*end of rant*

We don't care and don't wanna know who calls you or don't,please channel ur anger to the people distubing ur life not bringing up here disturbing our peace tot u had better ting to say not knowing I had to come and read this rubbish abeg going forward don't come and put this up again pls take note.

chival:
This is a faceless free-for-all forum. I don't get to tell you what to type? Great! But you also don't get to tell me not to quote you. If you don't want anyone quoting you, then keep away. The quote button is there to be used by all forumites.

I still maintain my stand- until you walk a mile in the poster's shoes, don't judge! We all decry cyber bullying and condemn its awful effects, especially since that online suicide thing a few years ago, yet we go ahead to do the exact same thing. What do you think you are doing by mocking a suicidal person?

People get suicidal for many reasons, some of which are ludicrous, but the fact remains that they are suicidal, period! If you can't find anything encouraging or nice to say, move along. That is the lady-like thing to do.

A pleasant Sunday to you.

Please. Shut up and learn to talk like someone who is civilized abeg she already told u the truth if u are not fyne or down with wat she has said go hug a transformer u can find one close or in d middle of ur street happy sunday.

pacino26:
Hey dude, you have nothing to worry if you've got a stay flow of income to feed and take care of a family. I know women from Delta to make good wives and their marriage rites relatively cheap. It certainly boils down to your bride to be. Just buy lots of Ak 47 if you got swag otherwise the traditional ethanol can still get the job done.

Ak 47 hope u dnt mean guns or rather is dat wat u meant?kindly clarify biko!

sunnydayasaba:
Lol...not at all...ask arnd and do ur findings too.

Ok, I will and also get back to you with my findings.

sunnydayasaba:
Not expensive at all...Delta Igbo remains one of d cheapest part of d Igbo to marry frm.

Traditional rite are very minimal...white wedding depends on ur budget

Hope u aint saying dis cos u are from asaba?

KanwuliaJara:
Girls from DELTA pay for their own bride prices o!
They are not cheap. . . THEY JUST BUY THEIR OWN HUSBANDS!

How will a girl pay for her own bride price dude wake up man I won't allow or be party to such abeg only a lazy man will tolerate such makes no sense dude!

sinaj:
lol i didnt hear him say anything


he only typed sumtin

My dear he typed without his brain cos I can't seem to comprehend wat he wrote!

evanscheck:
U dey ask question if d gals for delta is expensive... na wa.. so u no ready na u dey reason marriage..better go hussle

What is this one saying?

Aitee1:
Relatively cheap, though it all boils down to family!

Your babe should give you a clew except she's nnot in the know about her tradition.

Alright tanks for your comment.

Hello people pls I need ur advice and comment,as I intend to take my woman to the altar soon as we are planing ahead towards that particular day we will say I do I do to eachorda.please advice me as a young guy not dat strong financially bt hussling to be a man his woman will always be proud of,marrying a girl from delta most precisely delta igbo,are their girls expensive?and how much will it cost me for both the traditional and the white wedding?kindly advice me if u have ever being married from this tribe Thanks.

Hello people, please I need your advice and comments, as I intend to take my woman to the altar soon, and we are planning ahead towards that particular day we will say 'I do' to each other. Please advice me, as a young guy not that is strong financially but still hustling to be a man his woman will always be proud of. When marrying a girl from Delta, more precisely Delta Igbo, are their girls expensive?

And how much will it cost me for both the traditional and the white wedding? Kindly advice me if you have ever being married to girls from this tribe.

Thanks.

@op so u scared of death and u were boastin u will kill urself,u beta go do somtin productive with your life I think u watch too much movie hence it has affected ur thinking and perception about life get somtin doing and stop being idle,am not suprised u re still alive cos I knew all dose threat were jst empty threat.

Yoruba guys are now prof in this drug trafficking business,imagine a yoruba pastor trying to use enugu airport to scale through wit his so called package leta he will be on his puppit on sunday shoutin oloriko jesu after injecting a half doze of his package and d maga known as his congregation will be dancing in their yoruba tone "die by fire"and chattin and disturbing the piece of the neighbours around,unknowingly for them that their so called pastor has been high on cocaine may God help these so called pastors.yoruba are nw masters in dis game nt suprised though.End time.

ibl0010:
I have come across few articles stating that nigerians living abroad should not forget his or her father land and therefore established a business in nigeria to help with the high unemployment in the country. Some will and others will not agree with me but I for one ( as someone who is fortunate to be nigerian and also settled abroad) think that, nigerians abroad not wanting to invest in his or her father land is not the issue, but the main issues that may discourage nigerians abroad from establishing a business in nigeria is down to the amount of untrustworthy people, corruption and bad infrastructure.

With regards to bad infrastructure. I think nigerians economy will grow largely with just simple constant electricity, with good and regular electricity businesses which rely on electricity can trade longer and staff will work longer hours earning more money, people will come out more at night to spend money in entertainment venues because regular electricity would mean people will feel safer at night due to street light.

In terms of dealing with untrustworthy people. it is unfortunate that the bad people in nigerian are giving the good people of nigeria a bad name and reputation. It is so hard now adays to trust people in nigerian because people just seems to be money hungry. A nigerian abroad wanting to establish a business in nigerian to create employment opportunities and investment for his or herself can't be in two places at once but because people are so money hungry it is hard for a nigerian abroad to start a business in nigeria and put family or outsider in charge to run the business on behalf of a nigerian abroad. There is nothing wrong with buying a fleet of car to use as taxi and pay someone salary to drive the taxi. Here due lack of transparency of some people a driver can make 10,000 naira a day for example and only say he made 5,000 naira, this is why investor choose hire purchase to protect their investment.

I for one as a nigerian fortunate to also have abroad nationality would like to invest in nigeria by establishing some sort of business that creates jobs to help the nigerian economy grow but as one can't live and also be in nigeria at the same time to run a business on the ground, are there businesses or investment a nigeria abroad can invest in without ending up with egg on his face. By investment, I mean, properties, animal farming and so on.

P.S. As the Sunny Ade song (the way forward goes), nigerian can only move forward in the right direction if nigeria itself as a country gives itself a good reputation on the world stage, which in turns will benefit the people of nigeria.

Realy am interested in going into business but my problem is the capital how can you be of assistant to me promise to repay bck every kobo gotten from You with interest not askin you to trust me but u can give me a try u can reach me via email chiboy1928@yahoo.com for more info Thanks.

ibl0010:
I have come across few articles stating that nigerians living abroad should not forget his or her father land and therefore established a business in nigeria to help with the high unemployment in the country. Some will and others will not agree with me but I for one ( as someone who is fortunate to be nigerian and also settled abroad) think that, nigerians abroad not wanting to invest in his or her father land is not the issue, but the main issues that may discourage nigerians abroad from establishing a business in nigeria is down to the amount of untrustworthy people, corruption and bad infrastructure.

With regards to bad infrastructure. I think nigerians economy will grow largely with just simple constant electricity, with good and regular electricity businesses which rely on electricity can trade longer and staff will work longer hours earning more money, people will come out more at night to spend money in entertainment venues because regular electricity would mean people will feel safer at night due to street light.

In terms of dealing with untrustworthy people. it is unfortunate that the bad people in nigerian are giving the good people of nigeria a bad name and reputation. It is so hard now adays to trust people in nigerian because people just seems to be money hungry. A nigerian abroad wanting to establish a business in nigerian to create employment opportunities and investment for his or herself can't be in two places at once but because people are so money hungry it is hard for a nigerian abroad to start a business in nigeria and put family or outsider in charge to run the business on behalf of a nigerian abroad. There is nothing wrong with buying a fleet of car to use as taxi and pay someone salary to drive the taxi. Here due lack of transparency of some people a driver can make 10,000 naira a day for example and only say he made 5,000 naira, this is why investor choose hire purchase to protect their investment.

I for one as a nigerian fortunate to also have abroad nationality would like to invest in nigeria by establishing some sort of business that creates jobs to help the nigerian economy grow but as one can't live and also be in nigeria at the same time to run a business on the ground, are there businesses or investment a nigeria abroad can invest in without ending up with egg on his face. By investment, I mean, properties, animal farming and so on.

P.S. As the Sunny Ade song (the way forward goes), nigerian can only move forward in the right direction if nigeria itself as a country gives itself a good reputation on the world stage, which in turns will benefit the people of nigeria.

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yhusiee:
Follow Richidinho and Masterchi's comments/advice. They just told you the simple truth.

Noted.

tupem:
guy! if you Had told her what you said in d last part of your reply above why will she ask what your plans are? nairaland sef!......

Bro u takin as if u neva dated a lady b4,u no sometimes dis ladies already knew dis bt sometimes dey pop dis questions as a reminder,dey jst want to be sure u haven't changed gear!

Harbosede02:
sorry.....what's ur definition of kids??

Ur comment explains that!

Harbosede02:
What a question??

if u have gotten notin sensible to say pls step aside I dnt mean to be harsh,bt dnt want kids derailing this thread wit no meaninful comment tanks.

Amalade7:
Mr. Man u need to have a plan for her. if u dnt hav a plan strt planin, nw else things will get worse.

We already have a plan bro tanks for the advice anyway.

johnydon22:
I suggest you should try making it clear to her what you really want at least start from engagement then work up to the promise land..

cus bro you and i know a girl in her 30's is already on her peak and will start descending soonish. . show her bro no need telling her with mouth anymore

Yes dat want I intend to do planing to start off with the engagement dis year and introduction,though her mum already knew me and sometimes advised me the last time I visited her,that I should take her daughter and treat her like my own sister and also encourage me to be patients wit her in terms of if she misbehaves etc.am planing towards dat but u no nijah economy is nt dat smiling bt wit God by our side we will scale through and she is also d understanding type though.

johnydon22:
She's in her 30's and you are still planning? . . . please don't kill that girl's time ...

Pls note am nt wastin her time we both already knw we are gettin married am nt like oda guys who aint got conscience jst suprised she asked me dis same question I do asked her and she neva respond properly,however she has been informed dat she is my first and d last I wish to spend d rest of my life with nw and 4eva.I love her so much.

She said her neighbour is gettin married dat wat is my plans for her, ever we since we started datin she neva pop up dis question,sometimes I do bt she neva respond properly,I was surpised when she asked me dis same question 2day,pls note we both are in our 30s,gradutes and also have got a job,I love her and my plans is for us to get married as we sail along,Guys if u were in my shoe wat would u tink or rather say to her?

Lizabeth25:
You are wrong..! Smart girls will never keep text messages that will implicate them on their phones. They delete them the moment they read them!

A guy who feels insecure goes around monitoring his babe and that makes him a dog.!

The reason is this, guys prefer a lady who already has plenty/many suitors. Then you join the queue in wooing her. The moment you win her, do you think others will back out? They will want to see d methods you used in winning her and they re-package and re-brand themselves and perform better than you. She gives in to the guy and double/triple date una.!

She wouldn't want to lose both of you. She shuttle from his place to yours. The moment she leaves his place, she changes his name to a female name on her phone and even call him in your present if she's smart just to check on him.

So, guys should stop forming as if they know ladies like the back of their hand!

Mtcheeeeeeeew!!!

I neva knew dis is wat u do cheatin on ur man,step up ur game dis is nt dat close.

ammamat:
plz what do u guys advice me to do because my guy is now putting his phone on silent mood and hide it, u can ask me how i get to no about that. ,we have finish eating and i initially did not want to spent a night in his place but i change my mind. behold after saying good night to each other i decide to call his like and the phone was no way to be found. my dear its took my guy an hour for him to show me where he hide his phone.

Do you need to be told that ur guy is a fucking cheat or are u scared of ending relationship probably because of his money,my candid advice u beta quit dat relationship asap though it aint gonna be easy bt give him his space and if he doesn't change from his secret ways then call it a shot.

Another yoruba caught stealing.

I tink from my own understanding and experience most ladies fall in love wit the wrong guy and also dey fall in love witout using dey brain but in love wit their heart and dose follish guys out there takes advantage of dis wich is part of the reason why some guys tend to reject the pregnancy wen d girl is pregnant and d foolish girls has got no option but to seek d alternative solutin wich is abortion.